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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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Okay. Well I like this guy but I have never met him. My friend has though. It's still weird though, likeing someone I have never met, but I really do like him. I dont know what i should do. Should I like him? Or am i just being weird? We talk alot. On the phone and on the internet. And its not like hes just some random person i know nothing about. He's friends with one of my good friends. It wouldnt be hard to go and meet him. But i just dont know if i should like him right now.

hey, go and meet him. just say you think it's time you met. if you still feel the same way flirt like crazy and ask him out!!!

~ANGE

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Okay the problem is that I am 14 and I am in need of money.I want to ask if any of you have any ideas on how I can earn some easy money?

go around to your neihbours and ask if they have any jobs around the house for you. or do a system at home where if you do a certain amount of jobs you get pocket money. there is no such thing as easy money... you have to work for it!

~ANGE

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ok i have a best friend...that is a guy he is so awesome we get along so well...but i think i'm starting to like him...we have already talked about how it would be if we dated...that we don't want to ruin our friendship...i mean he did say that it would be cool if we dated we are just scared that things arn't going to work

but when girls sit there and say o i love you, your so hott...it really pisses me off he knows this becaouse i have told him...i just don't know what i should do about it...because i really want us to have something more...i'm just scared of our friendship

look. try living by this little motto...

if you never try anything you'll never do anything.

or this one.....

take the risk, it'll be worth it!

or this one......

better to try and lose then never to try at all.

these are good ways to live. so i say go for it!

~ANGE

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what are love handles?

its the fat on your hips/waist. apparently guys like them... lol.

~ANGE

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good aim buddy icon sites anybody know of them? cuz i need some cute love icons or something

this is a good one... http://www.iconhell.com/

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im 13 and think of sicide a lot i have cut my veins already in dec and dont wanna do it again is their someone i can talk to about it so when i need help they will be their my s c r e e n name is bucsbaby6969 on aol instant messanger

whatever you do, do NOT kill yourself. that wont solve anything. that'd just make everyone sad and it's a really selfish thing to do. and dont hurt yoursef. what does that acheive? i'd love to help. i dont have aim but feel free to e-mail me anytime. just check out my column to get my address. stay calm and be peacful.

~ANGE

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I'm in 8th grade and haven't really thought about this guy much..i've just noticted him. He keeps on telling me that this other guy is flirting with me, but the other guy hardly talks to me. maby eits a joke. I'm starting to like this guy though. I sit next to him in computers, but I don't know what to talk about anymore. We used to talk and laugh all the time. I really want him to ask me out. How do I lead him on?

well you cant make a guy like you. if he likes you he likes you but you cant force it. just flirt with him and ask him what he's doing on the weekend. ask him out.

~ANGE

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What do people think of a guy getting there ears pierced? IM not talking the lobe im talking the cartilage

It's hot on some guys but someguys look gay.. so it's hard to say wthout seeing you.

~ANGE

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okay i feel really stupid asking but what do u do when u give a guy head?

well honey, i'd loooooove to help you but in my opinion giving a guy head is totally gross! think about it... his dick in your mouth... *shudder* so yeah. cant help you!

~ANGE

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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?

yuo have to come clean with your mum. tell her you want to go. dont go behind her back because mums always find out in the end. :)

~ANGE

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both of my ears only have one pericing, and i want to make alot of other peircings myself but im a little scared and i kinda, dont know how to do it. i want to do my cartiladge on the top and another hole by my first hole on the lobe. but i want to get an industrial (its like a bar that stars at your cartilage and ends somewhere on the bottom somewhere, im getting that professionay done if i have the guts) so i dont know if thats going to interfere with my peircings. i wanna do it myself but im not sure what teh steps are. does anyone know how/have experience? or are there any sites with pictures and explanations for me (someone who is realy slow). ive never done anything like this before and any info would be great! thanks!

well my opinion is to just get it professionally done. there are too many risks doing it yourself. it could get really badly infected and you wouldn't be able t ever get it peirced again!

~ANGE

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my friend doesn't really like this guy who i like but she's leading him on. she said to my face she's doing this on purpose. he likes me and we are like best friends but my friend askes him to dances a month early so i can't ask. What should i do?
female 16

she is obviously a shitty friend. what you need to do is ask him to the movies or something. that way you can choose a time without her knowing. then you can tell him what she's doing. tell him you care about him and dont want her hurting him. hope i helped!!

~ANGE

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what is the defenition of a cumulative frequency table?
ex: if i have a bunch of test scores, and they ask me to put it into not only a frequency table, but a cumulative frequency table as well. whats the difference?

go to this website... it explains everything!
http://www.learner.org/channel/courses/learningmath/data/session2/part_c/cumulative.html
have fun!!! lol

~ANGE

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why are love handles called love handles? explanation please! :)

coz when your making love the guy holds your waist.

~ANGE

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Hello!! I hope ya'll can help me! I'm sorr its so long but its a long story!! Okay here is my scenario. My birthday was at the end of January, and my boyfriend had already been planning our Valentine's date. He asked me if it would be alright if he gave me my birthday gift along with my Valentine's gift because it would make it easier on him, so of course i told him yes. Well, On Saturday (which was our Valentine's day because i had to work Monday) he took me to dinner, then he blindfolded me and took me to... a hotel. BUT before you judge, it was very romantic. He had his friends come and light the candles he had set up EVERYWHERE and rosepedals, the whole deal. And we had planned to have sex for our first time, not necessarily then but we had stopped ourselves a couple of times because we wanted to wiat until it would be special. Which this was. Okay, well moving on, besides all of this, he didn't get me like flowers or a bear or even a card. I spent like $70 on him with gifts and whatnot. But i wasn't too mad because i assumed he had sent me a carnation at school (Our school has sales where you can buy a carnation for someone for V-Day and writea message and then we got them on Monday 9*) Well i of course sent him one, and i waited but he never sent me one. I went to his house after work and i brought over peanut butter heart shaped cookies (His fav!) and still nothing. This made me really mad because he didn't even get me a stinkin carnation!! I got pretty upset and left. Now am i overreacting? I mean he did spend money on me but i'm the type of person who appreciates little things like a flower or a box of choc, he didn't have to go buy a hotel or anything, i just wanted a carnation :( Lol, AND he still hasn't given me anything for my birthday!! Shouldi be mad?

he prolly spent heaps of money on the sat night thing. and hey, he prolly thought it'd be cool just doin that. think about it... dinner, hotel room, candles, rose petals... what more do you want? he prolly has no money!!! lol

~ANGE

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okay this is a little weird but my friend (who will remain anonymus!) have a real laughing problem. every time something funny happens, and everyone laughs, we laugh the hardest. whatever, right? but even 20 minutes after everyoine calmed down already, we're still laughing!we've gotten in so much trouble at school for this.we'll even talk about it for days. get this: when we're angry with each other, we have even TRIED to fight, but we throw 2 insults at each other and we both burst out laughing! all of our friends think we're psychos, and we agree... then we start laughing again. what the hell can we do about this problem?!?!?!?!

- MaRi (Lil Giggles)
(psycho, and proud of it.)

i think it's great that you laugh all the time and it seems like you have a good friendship. dont change! stay that way because there aren't many people you can enjoy life with. people have different relationships that some people think weird. like me and my best friend fight all the time. but its not really fighting. it'll be a contest like... "bitch...slut....hoe....fuck head..." and we keep going until someone cant think of a comeback and then laugh about it. even if we are really pissed of at each other we have one of these 'contests'. people think we are weird but we dont care. so dont worry girl! dont do a thing to change your friendship. its a good one. :)

~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*

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i have a naturally quiet voice, especially when singing, any advice on how to sing louder? i have to sing in fron of judges ina couple weeks and thats one thing i would like to work on

try singing right from the gut. and belt it out lik no one is listening. good luck!

~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*

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ok im catholic and im also 14/f...i dont want to be bi but i feel like im turning to do so, though i like guys a lot... me n my friend were joking around and my mom said i better not turn bi or any such, though 1/4 or so of my friends are either gay, bi and les...what r signs that ur turning bi...can someone help me?

you know that you are bi when you long to be with another girl.. havn't been there myself so i cant describe it anymore but my friend is bi and i asked her and that is what she said.

~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*

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okay my friend are the so called popular group and they have all had or have boyfriends and stuff and are slutty and stuff like that and i am friends w/ them and i have never had a boyfriend (though i have grinded w/ guys b4)and like when ever they bring up the subject of like boyfrinds or hooking up i always fell uncomfortable.......also i have been cutting latly because i have just become so overwelmed w/ every thing!help me out?

dont cut. that doesn't help anyone. it doesn't matter if you have a b/f or not. you should feel proud that you are not a slut. it's a good thing.:) be happy and dont hurt yourself.

~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*

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What are some good party ideas for a girl who is turning 14 this summer, has friends that'd she like to invite aging from 12-16, and will have guys and gals at her party? I want to throw a really cool party for her, but I'm not sure where to begin. A Suprise Party is not an option, and we don't have a pool. I'd like something fun, original, and not boring. THanks for your ideas!

do you have a beach nearby? bonfire!
do you have a caravan park somewhere? no parents!
are lots of people going? the biggest house and have a party!
just close friends? scary movie night! freak yourselves out!
dont like scary movies? girly night! give her a head to toe makeover.

hope i helped!

~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*

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