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Okay so i need help with my hair. It's naturally wavy and very full. It's also EXTREMELY frizzy. Now, normally I straighten my hair, but its getting harder. You see, I am overweight and need to lose weight. And the only way to do this of course if to eat right and excersize. Well i dont like to excersize cuz when I do, I sweat..alot and working out everynight will make my hair smell by mid-week. So here's my dilema, I dont like to wash my hair, simply because of the fact that once I wash it, and it dries..its like "HOLY *****" and straightening it is WORSE! my hair always looks terrible when I straighten it for the first time since washing my hair. Is there anyway this can be helped? I'm sick of having Frizzy hair.

Hey,
Here's what you can do. Now, when you're working out spray some bath and body works spray. A good choice would be Warm french vanilla. As for the hair when you're straightening the hair, before you straighten your hair put on what's called "straightening gel". It will help a lot trust me. Also right after you're done taking a shower/bath put on a spray conditioner. I suggest that you put on Pantene ligth spray conditioner. It also smells good. You can find this product in Wal-mart in the hair section and it'll be in a whit spray bottle with gold designs on it.

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what was the name of the song being played on the oc during the last couple minutes when ryan and marissa were slow dancing?

Hey,
What was the name of the episode then I'll be able to tell you.

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okay, theres this kid im friends with in school. i think its the only reason i go.

and i have a bunch of friends, i dont like talk to them alot as much as i think of this boy.

and i heard from one of my firends that he likeds me because he stars at me in class..

and also he is in my gym and when ever i have to run a mile or so hes like "RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!" really loud. and to no one else (its foloowed with my name)

so i think i like love him? what do you think?

Hey,
Don't get sprung. Sprung is when u can't do anything but think about one person.try to play hard to get.

your friends,
advicegodesses2

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hey im 13/m, i know this is a basic question... but whats sum good ideas for a halloween costume?

i rate 5's for good answers

Hey,
You could dress up as a gangster.

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Advicegodesses2

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FOr hoemcoming I want to get my nails done. I bite my nails and they are short n stubby n ugly ( i kno i know, terrible habbit) Which would be better? acrylic tips or full acrylics? any advice on either of them or which one i should get? thanks

p.s. i want to get them french manicured too

how much would all this cost do u know?

THANKS!!

Hey,
Full acrylic because it won't fit if you do the other one.

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i need to loose my belly & thighs, what's a good way! it doesn't need to be quick, but i need a way, i'm sick of being self concious!
thankss

Hey,

OK my boyfriend wants to die. He says he wants to die young. I don't know how to help him. We're going to see a counselor tomorrow morning. Will that help? What do they do?

Hey,
Yes, a counselor helps a lot. I am getting ready to go into counseling,too for the same reason your boyfriend has to go for. All they will do is either put him on an antidepressant or help him step by step through his problem.

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I want to play a sport this year and I have decided on soft ball. What can I do to help me get ready for this. To train myself I know I need to be determined what about my strength and stuff help please.

Hey, the best thing that I could tell you is to train hard.You can't eat junk food for about two weeks before try-outs.You should lift 5 pound weights, do push-ups, crunches, and jog.

your friends,
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I just found out that my friend is gonna take ecstacy pills or a pill i dont know on saturday is that a drug and what are the effects?

Hey,
1st of all yes ecstacy is a very bad drug. One of the worst drugs out there. It could mess you up really bad. The effects of ecstacy is acting wild and messed up. Whatever you do go and invite your friend over and tell him/her to bring the pill over and then ask if you could see it and say you wanna take one too and then say you're gonna go get two glasses of water and switch the pill with a white vitamin pill that looks like an ecstacy pill. So instead of her getting high she'll just get healthy!

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Aight, I love this girl, we're both 13. Don't bother telling me that 13 year olds don't know love, and that it's only infatuation. I know what love is, and I know what infatuation is. And I don't give a damn about hot, sexy, etc. So anyway, I love her, I've told her that. She knows how madly in love with her I am. Problem is, she's not sure if she likes me back. Oh, sure, I've asked her places, like recently we went to the carnival as 'friends'. I mean, she's a great girl... hilarious, smart, amazing personality... what more could I ask for?

Anyway, the first school dance is coming up. I've never been to a dance. Yeah, last year my parents signed me up for a social dance program, but you don't ask people there, it's just to learn how to dance. And it's only like the cha-cha and everything you'll never use. So I really want to ask her there with no chance of rejection. Ever since I saw her as more than a friend I've been tormented by a sudden flurry of emotions. Love! Hate! Jealousy! Rejection! You name it! I don't want to face the bad ones again... for a while I was too depressed to make jokes---and I'm the class clown! So I don't want to be depressed again, what's a good way for me to ask her out? In short, I'm shy, I love her more than anything else, I don't give a damn about looks, she doesn't like me, I need to ask her to a dance somehow. Emphasis on shy. Thanks!

PS: Also there's this constant awkward silence... what are some good conversation starters? Thanks!

Hi.I think that the best thing that you could do is try to express to her how you feel. There is an expression that my mom uses" Actions speak louder than words." If you really think that you love her then try harder and harder.About the dance thing, don't worry bout dancing you could just try to make her have fun.A good way to ask her out is to give her flowers and tell her how you feel, that is really romantic to girls.

hey.. would anyone know any sites where you can submit pictures to a photographer/modeling agency.. so they can just look at your stuff. NO SCAMS = \
thank you!! = )

**i live on long island, new york..
so around that area please. thanks SO MUCH!! **

Hey,
I'm a model with the company Barbizon. Go to the website www.barbizon.com. I hope that helps.

Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2

I went out with this one boy about a month or 2 ago. I broke it off with him because I still had some feelings for my ex (my first love) and I felt it wasnt fair for him so I broke up with him so I can get over my ex. So now I'm over my ex and and I really like this boy still and I told him I did. Now he said "it really hurt me when you first broke up with me so I dont want to go out with you again and I want you to see how it feels" and I understand where he's coming from but I just like him so much and I got over my first love just to go out with him again and now hes saying no because I hurt him the first time. What do I do I feel so hurt :(

Hi.I think that the boy has a really good point, but he shouldn't have been so rude about it.all he had to say was "no" but anyway, maybe you should just try to take a break from boys. Take some time out and sort everything out.Maybe you'll understand why you are having these feelings that you can't control.

your friends,
Advicegodesses2

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First off i'm 14 f, and there is this guy in my IPC class(15m), and i think that i like him, and lately he has been talking to me and flirting with me ALOT. Like today for instance he was talking to his friends and i was talking to my friends, and he goes man i wish the beautiful little lady in the abercrombie shirt would turn around and join our conversation... and his friend snapped him with a rubberband and he was like owww... and looked at me and started talking to me about it like i was his best friend... He is really nice to me and stuff, and i want to know if theese are signs of him flirting with me or something?!?!
Please Help
xo

Hey,
Those are signs of him flirting. Because he's making up excuses just to talk to you. If I were you I would get to know him a little bit better and then make up a lie like can you help me study for this test over the phone with me tonight and then you'll have his#.

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i moved here about a year ago,and i have no friends,i used to have friends..but they betrayed me..and everyone here..is snobby,barbie dolls,and there ALL the same.(im 13/in 7th) i dont even want to be friends with rude and mean people.I still have lots of friends in my old city..but i never get to see them..I tried everything i can to move back,and i really want to.I get bad grades,i cant focus.its like i cant make anything right.Everyone hates me in my new town,but its not like i care,because i dont care about them at all. i just really wanna move back..How can i actually try and get her to? (were not rich)Ps-- We are living with my moms boyfriend..he owns the house and we just..live in it.and i dont even think my mom likes him that much anymore. she doesnt listen to me and my brothers feelings

Hi. My advice to you is to try to stay the same. I am going through a similar situation. I think that the best thing you could do to deal with this is to try to be mean to the snobby people.I
think that it will make you feel better.But about your living situation Ask your mom face to face if she can move and tell her why you want to move and maybe she'll change her mind.

your friends,
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My son is 17, but a very socially immature 17, acts more like he is 15. He is a senior in high school at a private Christian school, doing very well in most respects. My coworker is a little dramatic and often inappropriate at work, but a nice person and very generous. Her daughter is a freshman at the high school down the street from my son's school. Her daughter has had many emotional and behavior problems and recently was even hospitalized for more than a week while being treated with medication for bi polar and depression. The school is always calling my coworker about this girl, she is always in trouble. I have tried to be a good friend to this woman, we have cubicles right next to each other. Lately she has been on a kick that her daughter needs to date my son. I slid out of the homecoming dance only for her to try to arrange something further now and even asked for my son's e mail address and cell phone number so her daughter can get to know him. I am certain this is a bad idea. My coworker keeps pointing out that she chaperones all her daughter's activities and would take my son to a rock climbing wall facility and snow skiing and to plays and concerts. While I know my son would likely enjoy these activities, I doubt that having a mentally unstable girl thrust upon him by a very forceful mom who is overly involved in her daughter's life is a good choice. What should I say to get out of this? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I really don't want to be pushing my son into a relationship with this dramatic family, nor do I feel I should ever chose his dates.

Hi, I am a 13 year old so don't judge me yet.Well personally I give you your props for not wanting to choose your son's relationships.I think that your co-worker is a very nosey person and she should try to trust her daughter a little more. Maybe that's the reason she has the problem she has.But, you should try to talk to your son about the situation and see how he feels about it.If he thinks that he should go out with her let him take that chance, and just be there for him throught the whole relationship.

your friends,
Advicegodesses2

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ok this will sound so weird... but i really have to know. is it bad to shave down there because i really dont know what to do. please help x

Hey,
1st of all it depends where down there you're shaving. NEVER EVER EVER shave on top of it. Only shave the sides of it.

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well I REALLY like this guy... and i have a couple questions.

1) all my friends keep telling me to tell him.. should I? I mean I really do like him and I want him to know but I highly doubt he likes me and I'm scared of looking stupid.

2) What can I do when I pass him in the hall or something to catch his attention? And is there anything else I can do? I have absolutely nothing to talk to him about.. and I'm willing to change anything to get his attention. I tried learning about hockey and stuff (it pretty much just bored me) and I tried wearing a hockey jeresy.. I mention I play football sometimes and im on the basketball team but idk what else i can do.

3) How obsessed am I?

Hey,
1) Follow your heart. Don't follow what your friends tell you to do. Because that's like following their hearts.

2) You could have a pencil in your hand and drop it right when you pass by him and ask him if he could pick it up for you because your bookbag is too heavy to bend over with. Then you could start a conversation from there like about what his favorite stuff is. 2nd of all don't ever change anything about yourself over a guy because that just shows that you're desperate. You could make up a lie and ask him if he could help you study over the phone about a test then you'll have his #.

3) You're average obsessed.

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Last year i was a freshman in highschool and in our town theres two different middleschools goin to the highschool freshman year. so alot of people from the 2 schools didnt know eachotheR. So me my friends charlotte and this boy from our middle school jake was in my spanish class and this boy from the other school derek. Since last year me and charlotte always talked to him and flirted joklingly with him and hes one of the guys who acts like we are annoying when u know he likes it. so hes in my study hall this year so he sits next to me and we kind of flirt but i think he thinks im kiddin around like last year i want him to know im startin to like himm but not come right out and say it. i asked him if i could wear his jersey to the game saturday and he said yea and is gunna give it to me tmra, but if he forgets i might tell him ill pick it up lata? would that be weird.. what should i saya nd do around him in study? hes also in my spanish class again but we sit across the room and cant really talk andd theres alot of people in there

thanks so muchh, pleas helpp

Hello, I think that in your classes you should try to talk to him.I think that the more you get serious with some of your playing around he'll get the picture.Try to use your eyes in a flirting ly way. sometimes you should practice in the mirror alone your facial expressions and get them under controll for fliritng.If he forgets the jacket don't remide him.That just means that he's trying to see if you will reminde him.Just try to take something else at the game.For example, if he wears a bracelet ask him to let you wear it. If he lets you he likes you. Just try to flirt a lot. eventually he'll ask you out.

your freinds,
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well my brother has this friend and he told me brother that he likes me and i like him..and he now knows that thanks to my brother!!...its sound like a dream right????..WRONG...he has a girlfriend..and like they are always together and they are all over eachother...and its right infront of me..i feel like im gunna cry...but when i see them together they are usually like wrapped naround eachother but i see his staring at me..WTF...i dont know what to do

i need help
will rate 5's for good answers

~so sad~

1st of all I think you should ask your brother's friend if you could talk 2 him alone and in private. Then confront him. Ask him why did he say he liked you if he's always hanging around his girlfriend and putting all up in your face.

Hope this helps,
Advicegodesses2

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how do i lose my habit of being shy??? plz answer cuz im a shy ass

i rate high

Hey, I am a very outspoken person and I don't like holding anything in.So my most truthful advice for you is to try talking to different type of people.Maybe you'll find a new freind.

your freinds,
advicegodesses2

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