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My name is Stefanie.
I took my first breath 18 years ago on June 1st 1988 in a hospital on Eglin Air Force Base.
My hair is brown and my eyes are bluish green.
I reach to the sky at 5 feet 7 and a half inches.
I am a substitute teacher at Satsuma High School in Satsuma, Alabama. I LOVE it.
i LOVE music more than anything.
I dont know what i would do without my friends.
I just got out of this really long relationSHIT and I'm looking for love in all the wrong places....
I am a Freshman at Faulkner State Community College studying secondary education in U.S. history.
I love oldies and country... classic rock, some punk, 80's music is the bomb.
I'm addicted to shopping.
I like being outside when its cold.
I actually like hurricanes. Just not the whole chaos and mass destruction part.
Im usually not very good at school, but I've been doing better this year.
I have one BEST friend, but i have a whole bunch of people that i call good friends.
I dont like to just hang out with one person. i like to hang out in groups.
Family means a lot to me.. i try to visit my family as much as i can
I plan on moving out on my own in May, and im terrified.
i like meeting new people. so if youre bored or something, just send me a message or something and we'll chat. you can also find me on myspace at www.myspace.com/classicrockergirl
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what is love? how do u know when u r in love? please help cause i have wanted to know for a long time

You know youre in love when all you have to do is hear the guys name and your heart races, your blood runs cold, and you get butterflies in your stomach.

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I'm concerned about my relationship with my husband. He is a fabulous guy and I deeply, deeply love him. I just don't want any kind of physical relationship. That doesn't mean I want a physical relationship with someone else - I don't. I just enjoy our time together and his support and friendship. What's wrong with me??
I'm 40 and have been married to him for 16 years.

I really dont think theres anything wrong with you, but then again, im only 16 and never been married. Be honest with him and tell him why you dont want a physical relationship. Maybe he'll understand. Good luck!

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For the Sims 2 do you have to have a DVD player in your computer?
I rate all 5's for answers. Thanks for taking the time to answer my question.

I wouldnt think youd need a DVD player...just your basic CD ROM like what you need for other Sims games.
Let me know what you really need when you find out for sure.

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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:(

Ignore them. They are just afraid of the unknown. And dont say youre gonna kill yourself. Dont give them the satisfaction of know in they hurt you. Just be yourself and dont take no crap from nobody. Good luck!

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okay i know this is pretty dumb but my boobs arent as big as id like..is there anything that would make em bigger..probally not without takeing pills but its worth the ask..but does anyone know any experience that they know of that worked for them? pills..certain food..excerise?

DO LOTS OF PUSHUPS. Pushups build your pectoral muscles, which builds breast tissue. These wont make your boobs like Pamela Anderson huge, but they will give them a boost in cup size and, sry to be blunt, but that coveted round perkiness. Good luck!

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Hi everyone,
I came to USA 4 years back because of job and now in the attempt of earning and saving more money, I am stuck up here. My family( My wife and my kids) was with me for last 2 years and they went back recently to my home country because of certain family problems. I am missing my family too much. I dont know, how american/european/russian/asian people feel if they undergo in the same situation. Let me know what and how you feel. Thanks. MACHADS

My stepfather is actually in Quatar right now, so I know how the separation feels. I know its hard sometimes, but keep strong and be positive. We unfortunately cant go with my stepfather, but he can come visit us whenever he has vacation time. Try planning large family vacations if you can. Meet somewhere like a halfway point (i hear Ireland is BEAUTIFUL!!), try an overseas telecommunications service(www.bigzoo.com is a good one), use web cams so you can continue to see your family, send photos and letters or email constantly,and get your wife to mail you your childrens schoolwork in the mail so you can keep up with what your kids are doing. I hope by sharing my experiences, you can find some peace in being seperated from your loved ones!

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hey um at my school the teachers are all really formal and stuff so if u even say sex they like put u in detention. have any of you had it? can u tell me about what it feels like and stuff cause it would be really akward to ask my mom.

I know it will be awkward, but your mom is really the person you need to talk to about htis kind of stuff, not an online advice column.

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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do?

You shouldnt even be worried about if he loves you or not. Youve been dating a week and your considering having sex with him? think about this..You are a bouquet of flowers. Everytime you sleep with someone, some of your flowers wilt. What would you rather present to your husband one day? A beautiful full bouquet of flowers, or a handfull of steams? Think this through some more. Base your decision on what the signals are in your head, not between your legs.Sorry to be so blunt, but i dont want to see you make such a mistake and get hurt.

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OK...uhmm i have this guy that i really, really like and he treats me like a princess and like im the most precious thing in the whole entire world! but the thing is...my dad doesnt like him b/c he herd sumthing about him and now he has that assumption about him. I REALLY REALLY wanna go out with him and go to our skewls formal but i feel like i cant go bhind my dad and what he says...what should i do? please help me!! thanx!

ASk your dad what it is that he heard. if you know its not true, try to prove it to your father, but dont be disrespectful...thatyll only make things worse. If you have never heard what your father is talkin about, then may be you should confront this guy and demand the truth. If he swears up and down that its not true, tell him that he wants you guys to be together, he needs to explain this to your dad.If he admits to what yout dad heard, then you need him to go to your father and apologize, and have him swear itll never happen again. i hope this works for you! Good luck sweetie!

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okay in like 3 1/2 hours my next door neighbor is having a birthday party and im invited. i have no clue what to get him! hes 12 , likes baseball , basketball , rap ! any ideas?

Get him a pet rock...you can never go wrong with a pet rock. PS-next time shop ahead

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hey ok i play volleyball and we want some warn up music 2 listen 2 kuz other skools have it and we thought it was a good idea does en1 have en ideas of wut songs 2 use like upbeat music and no cussing

try this generic brand CD you can get at WalMart...its called Ultimate Dance..its got all kinds of pumped up music...or try one of the Jock Jams CDs...Good luck!

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Well there's this country song I've heard and I really really like it. But I need to know what it's called or who its by! It goes like this-
I'm not gonna sleep til I touch your face...
And that's like all I know haha so please help me out! Thanx!

Clay Walker "I Cant Sleep"
OMG!That is one of my fave songs! The video is super sweet! I dont know if you know who Chely Wright is ( she sang single white female) but she wrote that song for clay.just thought youd like to know
~*im not gonna sleep till i tough your face.baby not a wink i could go for days. If you ever needed to see me down on my knees, take a look at me, baby i cant sleep.*~

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ok my area 'down there' is kind of like swollen. im a girl and i noticed that the flaps are kind of stucking out. are they suppossed to be like that?

ok,first thanks for sharing...that was kindda gross. but um..maybe you shouldnt use a internet advice column for medical advice. Theres these new things called doctors..they could help you. really, even if you think its minor, it could be sumthin bad in the long run....it may be embarrasing, but go get your "area" checked by a professional. And please, next time your "area" is swollen...spare us all and dont post it.

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whats a good screen name for me becuz right now im like brain dead and i cant think of one and i really need you guy(s) help right bout now so come on please help me out here!! thanks a bunch!!

_XbRaInFaRtX_, PUTdatNurPIPEnSMOKEit..Im brain dead too...cant think of anymore

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i need to reperice my ear does it hurt when u do it ur self?

Depends on how long its been since youve had earrings in. If its just been a few weekes, just push your earring back in...no sweat. But if its been a while, try using a needle(put it in some alcohol first!!) to reopen your hole. Ya might wanna use some ice first, just depends on how you deal with pain...i dont think its too bad, but it an get purdy painful. Happy Piercing!!

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im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not.

Ok, you should definately NOT have sex with him just to make his siblings and cousin like you. If you stick to your vlues, they will eventually respect you for practicing abstinence. If you are hanging around people who will only think you are "cool" if they know you are having sex, you need to find a new circle of friends. If your boyfriend respects you enough to wait until you are ready, then that is all that matters and you shouldnt feel the need for others approval. They arent the ones having sex, its not their body, or their virginity. ITS YOURS. You decide who you save it for, and you decide when you are ready to give it to them. Never let anyone else influence a decision as serious as this one. I hope I helped you, hun. Good luck sweetie!

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I just got kicked out of my moms house and i am starting off fresh at my dads. He doesnt trust me and neither does my grandma. I can t talk on the phone without them listening or i cant get on the computer with out them reading my stuff. I cant go anywhere without them spying on me. They dont let me go any where to begin with. I have to sneak on the phoen and the com at night. I ask if they can just ftrust me and they are like no. They dont even know me. My grandma thinks buying me things is going to keep me out of trouble and my dad thinks keeping me from the world is going to keep me out of trouble as well. I need some advice .

Well, maybe you gave them a reason not to trust you. Try showing them how responsible you are. Do something to show them they can trust you, and i dont think that sneaking on the phone and the cpmouter is gonna help! Just give them a little time to see they can trust you.

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My hair right now is a little past my shoulders and for me, it's long. I was thinking about growing it out longer to about the middle of my back and then cut it to a little past my chin and donate my hair to Locks of love. My question is, what is the minimum in inches of hair you can donate? Thanks for the help!

Locks of Love will take any donation you make. i think you have a great idea! i wish more people were as caring as you!

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well, my best friend courtney shes like the best ever shes always been there for me, i like love her .. you know as a BFF, but in school she USED to be popular, but everyone started hating her, and she doesn't have many friends, and everyone picks on her, well in her livejournal comments the popular stuck up people write stuff about her to make her feel bad about herself, liek callen her a horse (i duno why) fat or something, but i think shes perfect, i ALWAYS stick up for her, like ALWAYS, am i doing right? I mean is this gunna gimme a bad reputation in school jus because i always stick up for her (btw, she got homeschooled this year because she got picked on by everybody, and she has depression and stuff)i think i am doing right by sticking up for her since shes my BF, but would u do it. please help! ~confuzzled

Who cares if it gives you a bad rep? Courtney has always been there for you, now you need to stick up for her. Defend her WHENEVER you hear someone pick on her. This a time when you dont put yourself first, but your friends. Hope Courtney is ok! Good luck!

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hey everyone i neeed to no something i am selling candy and papamurpheys pizza cards to rais money to go to Paris in march and i need to no wut to say to the ppls when i go dooor to door cause i am getting a lot of no's!
- my name is kayla and ya can u help

Hello, My Name is Kayla and Im from (your school or organization) and were raising money to take a trip to Paris on (date) Would like to take a look at what were selling? And remember to always thank them, wether they buy or not! Good Luck! Have a good time in the city of lights!

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