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Hey there (: I'm Bryttnii ♥ I'm a Senior. I'm 17 and I seem to have been through a lot in my seventeen years. I love giving advice & recieving advice. I'm here to give you my honest opinion & responses to your questions. I don't give the answers you want to hear, I give the answers you need to hear. I've had an advice column since I was 14. But of course, I made a new one that I stay on constantly! I take Cosmetology in school and I love it. I get my Cosmetology license in 9 months. I'd like to go to college for Criminal Justice and be a Detective ;] Speak to me about anything.
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So i met this guy like three months ago at a pool hall and he had one of his friends come over and ask me for my number. i gave it to him because he was amazingly sexy, and he texted me later on that night and we made plans for the next day. the next day i realized that i had forgotten to ask him his name. when he told me what it was i realized that i knew him all along because my dad sponsors him in racing. we hung out later that night and he was really sweet. we hung out for a couple of weeks and i heard that he had a girlfriend. she went to my school and i didn't like her so i was like whatever. well after about two or three months of hanging out with him we had sex, and he turned into a tool bag. this wouldn't be a problem if he didn't make me care about him,i care so much and cant help it. the week after his girlfriend and i started hanging out. i kept it from her for a really long time. she started to open up to me and it turns out that he cheats on her all the time. they have been together for five months now and he has cheated on her more times then i can count, and he tells her that she is fat all the time and she needs to go to the gym. he really makes her feel like crap. he also hits her not like really bad but bad enough. like your boyfriend shouldn't hit you. when she tells him she doesn't like it when he cheats on her he says "beggers cant be chooseers." he doesn't care about her at all and is a really big tool. she crys all the time and beets her self up about it. like one time he told her that he would break up with her if she didn't give him head, and she has never done it cause she thinks its gross, but she did it anyways cause she was afraid that he was going to leave her. i don't know what to do i tried telling her to leave him but she wont. she thinks i want her to break up with him so i can have him but i don't and she just wont listen. she is amazingly pretty and not fat at all. help me please.
So, it sounds to me as if he's mentally & physically abusing her. She is probably looking past all of his bad qualities and focusing on what she likes about him. If she doesn't listen to your advice on leaving him, I would take her out and introduce her to some new guys that you know would treat her a lot better. If she does start talking to other guys that treat her nice, it might make her feel awkward because she is use to being treated like crap. If that happens, let her know how guys are suppose to treat their girlfriends. I think that he keeps her around to make hisself feel better & he is probably scared of being alone. If nothing works for her, then talk to the guy. You need to knock some sense into his peanut brain and let him know he can mentally hurt someone by doing and saying that stuff to her. ♥
i have literially all of the symtoms of pregnancy yet i havtn had sex and never have.I got fingered 2 weeks ago i really dont know what to do iv missed nearly 2 periods. If i was pregnant then i would deffinatly have an obortion without my parents knowing but what are the effects of this? also do you taske a pill for it? and its over with?
Well, it's not normal to get pregnant if you get fingered. The only way you could be pregnant from him fingering you, is that his semen somehow ended up on his finger before he fingered you. I've had all the symptoms of pregnancy before, but I never was pregnant. If you was pregnant, I don't think you can get an Abortion without a parent being there if you're under 18. Abortion can be done by surgery or by taking a pill. ♥
I know this sounds stupid, and I'm not like going to have sex or anything but could someone please tell me like, okay How does birth Control work? When are you supposed to take it? And what does it do for you? like someone said something like it clears your skin? And also do you take it everyday and you can have sex whenever? I'm just kind of confused here. Please help! (:
You take Birth Control at the same time everyday. It doesn't get the full effect until you've taken it for a month straight. Just like anything else, your body has to get use to it. It helps with your period. It normally makes your period lighter and it doesn't last as long. Not to mention, it helps a great deal with cramps. A lot of acne is caused by your period, so it might help with your skin if you take birth control. Birth Control isn't 100% effective when it comes to getting pregnant. There is still a chance of becoming pregnant while taking birth control. ♥
how do you kno if a guy is just after being physical with you?? please help cause i need to find this out about this guy who keeps talking to me and stuff. thanks :)
Aw, this is an easy one. If you are ever alone with him or talking to him privately, and he just keeps talking about sex or sexual encounters then he is probably just after sex. There isn't anything wrong with asking little questions about sex with you, but if he is pushing you into having sex with him then don't do it. He's after the old hit it and quit it routine. Good luck! ♥
okay so i've been looking for blue jean shorts like EVERYWHERE. you would think they would have millions out there but i've been able to fine NONE! not even at A&F. HELP!??!
I've been to Aeropostale & Pacsun. They have a lot of jean shorts and their really cute! ♥
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I don't have that much time to get a tan this summer, because it's not that easy for me to tan. basically, all I want to know is; is it possible to use makeup to make it look like you have a tan, that will cover your face, AND not look fake? If so, any suggestions? Thanks!
i use t0 hate f0undati0n because i always th0t it l00ked 0range.. but i tried c0ver girls -- true blend. . and i REALLY l0ve it. if y0u d0nt tan easy the best thing t0 d0 is buy the natural gl0w l0ti0n . . it d0esnt turn y0ur skin 0range but it highlights it en0ugh s0o y0u l0ok tanner. jus put it 0n everywhere after a sh0wer-- it als0 helps y0u tan better when y0u are in the sun.
I was just wondering if it is possible to be Bipolar if you have no real manic times, you just go from being seriously depressed to feeling normal. Your mood is a lot different, but it isn't elated. If not, what disorder(s) could this be?
Thanks! :)
i'm bi-p0lar. bein bi-p0lar is severe m00d swings & pers0nality changes. if u get severly depressed then u culd have severe depressi0n. if s0methin bad happened t0o y0u or t0o s0me0ne y0u l0ve, talk t0 a c0unsler, they helped me a bunch and determined my dis0rders! h0pe i helped :]
i have been having sex for three years now.
this is going to make me sound slutty but i'm really not.
i have been with 8 different guys, and not one of them has been able to give me an orgasm..
i don't know if its me or something medical but it really makes me mad that everyone talks about how good it is, and i have never really had one.
most of the time i just fake it.
i don't know what to do help!
it's n0t un-n0rmal t0 n0t 0rgasm 0ff sex. al0t of girls g0 thru it. 0rgasms are fr0m it feeling g0od.. and m0st 0f the time y0u g0tta be with the right pers0n that y0u rele care ab0ut and that u feel really c0mf0rtable ar0und t0 0rgasm. its n0thin medically wr0ng with y0u. g0od luck :]
i've recently had itching in my vagina and it stings when i go pee.. what are those the symptoms of?
there culd be al0t of explanati0ns t0 that. it c0uld be a yeast infecti0n, a urinary tract infecti0n, kidney infecti0n, a std, 0r havin sex t0o much can cause that. if n0ne 0f these apply t0o u then g0 t0 a d0ct0r, it's pr0bably a yeast infecti0n. g0od luck!