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Hey everyone!! im back and betta than ever! haha but yeah..im 14 years old...and i live in BoRiNg AzZ kansas! haha umm mah interests are..*boyz*..*summer*..*partyin*..*flip flopz*..*Shane West*..*cheerleadin*..*CoUnTrAy MuSiC!*..*Tyler Hilton*..*THE OC*..*swimmin*..*katie holmes*..*dawsons creek*..*One Tree Hill*..*Adam Brody*..*star magazine*..*Chad Michael Murray*..*Tom Cruise*..*my friends (KiNz.. JeSs.. CaY.. JaY.. CoUrT.. MoLlY..)* and much more..

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my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do?

you have to confront her and tell her to stop lying because its not bringing ur friendship any closer!! *hope i helped*

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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me

dont do it..you are wayyy too young! and u are even having doubts so it shows that you arent ready..when you do have sex you want it to be with the one you love and with someone really special! and i dont think that hes that guy..*hope i helped*

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i've been friends with this girl since 6th grade. she used to live across the road from me, but then she moved away. Not far, only about 30 minutes. We used to talk on AIM but then we ran out of things to talk about. I mean, we don't have the same group of friends and we don't know who each of us is talking about. Now, I don't talk to her at all and I feel horrible. What am I supposed to do?? I want to be friends with her again but it's like we're complete strangers.

maybe you and her could just hang out for an afternoon with some of both of ur guys friends so that they could all get to know each other and then you guys could start hanging out again! but i mean if shes not willing to do that tho u prolly dont need her ne ways *hope i helped*

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me and my mom fight alot but i try to b nice to her as much as i can cuz you never knoe wut will happen you knoe so i really do try my hardest when we get in fights to just let it go but it seems that she alwats gets her way! and i knoe shes the mom and shes older and knoes best but i really get upset when i have a very good reason to defend my self for but she never listens to me! but then again i never give up until i get my way! i knoe i sound like a total brat now and i guess thats wut yu get but i don't want to b a brat n e more! i really want to be a good person for the rest of my life so please help me
asap

its ok to fight with ur parents..heck i do it too! cuz me and my mom dont get along too much! lol and if u wana stop being a brat then just try to get along with ppl and realize that you dont always have to get your way! let other ppl get their ways then ppl will respect you a whole lot more..especially your mom *hope i helped*

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15-f...I'm not happy at all, and I don't know how to change that. Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but I'm okay with it now its just that I don't really have anyone now. I have a few friends, I'm just a shy person. It just seems like once I think I'm happy something comes and ruins it. My mom and I get along, but she just makes me so mad. I know all parents are like that. But then it all builds up and I don't know how to handle it all. One time I cute myself and I know it was stupid, but now everytime I get upset thats what I think about...I don't know how to handle my emotions...I just want to be happy....

think of happy things..and just try to get along with ppl..cuz life is too short to have it be filled with hate! spend time with your friends! even make new friends! maybe you could go shopping and get some new clothes that you feel more outgoing in! there are just TONS of ways to make u feel better! if u ever need to talk to anybody just im me or email me cuz i no ur going thru a rough time! Devilishd19 or Devilishd99@yahoo.com *hope i helped*

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My dog has the measles! What should I do!!!!!!! Please don't say take her to the vet, I'm broke.

you have to take her to the vet hun! because if you dont he/she could die! you could get a loan or your insurance would cover it so i no u said dont take him to the vet but u have to!! *hope i helped*

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i really like this guy. but he lives in another state. i dont get to see him very often, but i can talk to him online or on the phone. should i ask him out?

long distance relationships are really hard..but if you both really have the drive and the passion to go out then go for it! just make sure that you actually know this guy and didnt like meet him over the internet! *hope i helped*

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Hey!! Does anyone know of good websites where you can get cute, love quotes?! Thanks a bunch!!

http://emilysue14.tripod.com/emilysue/id7.html

try there!! *hope i helped*

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im 14 and this may sound weird but i've liked one of my best friends ive known since kindy, since 2nd grade. i told him i was in love with him and he didnt really seem to care. then he started dating this one chick, and it bothered me but what could i do? so when they broke up i asked him out and he turned me down. and now hes got this new girlfriend who hes like in love with. and i love him with all my heart but he just wants to be my friend. what should i do? should i just be his friend or continue competeing for his attention and his heart?

i think that you should just be friends for now because he seems like he said no to protect your friendship..so i would just be really close friends to him right now and maybe you should just get a boyfriend to try to get over him! but if u dont want to do that then just be really close to him and when him and his gf break up be there for him and everything and then maybe you guys could get together! *hope i helped*

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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?!

nobody can exaclty describe love..and if you can..then its probably not real *hope i helped*

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i just won tickets to go and see the "special sneak preview" of "I, robot"... are the tickets for a PREVIEW? or for the movie itself? please answer this soon soon soon! (i rate people)

it means the sneak preview i am pretty sure! *hope i helped*

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hey i wanna know which screen name u like better! xOMeLiSsA26Ox or MeLiSsA 1613 ??? THANKS !!!

I like Xomelissa260x!!! *hope i helped*

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hey im about 5'6 or 5'7 and i weigh like 180 or 185 am i over weight?

hey!! well..i would think that you are just a few pounds..but nothing too serious!! so just keep being healthy and being active! and just love your body no matter what!*hope i helped*

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in 2 weeks i am going to visit my friend on the east coast and i haven't seen him for 9 years. i want him to think i look pretty good but i have really low self confidence and that makes me feel ugly even tho i kno im not. so is there anyway i can kinda build self esteem by the end of the month? i just want to feel confident.

to build your self esteem...maybe you could just go to the store/mall and get a new outfit and do ur hair pretty and put on ur makeup and feel the prettiest that you can be! and im sure that you are BEAUTIIFUL! so dont think lower of urself hun! *hope i helped*

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ok, i dont have a yeast infection, but my discharge smells kinda bad. its not clumpy, and im not itchy. i dont see a gynochologist yet either. (im 13)

usually if it smells kinda fishy..you should always go to a doctor because something must b wrong! or atleast tell ur parents *hope i helped*

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I have been going out with this guy for 9 months(2 years unofficially) and we have had sex more than 80 times. I'm only 17 and I'm afraid that this feeling I have, like we are meant for eachother and are going to get married, is just an illusion. Other times, I can see myself marrying him. He's my bestfriend, lover, and the only man I have ever trusted. So is this feeling just "puppy love" or do you think it could be real?

now just ask yourself this..would you have sex with a guy that you just had puppy love with? obviously you love this guy enough to give him the most prescious thing that your body can give! *hope i helped*

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Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much!

personally i think that you are too young for sex...but only you can decided if you are..and if you decide the answer to that question is yes then just use protection..but you guys could do many things that arent sex related that are still fun and everything! but thats just me! *hope i helped*

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ok well i dream stuff alot and it happens and i know that happesn sometimes but mine are like real and sometimes they will be of people i will meet the next day so i think i am dreaming of complete strangers but they turn out to be people i meet idont know wut do think of this cuz i can answer these peopes questinos before they ask them cuz in the dream they have already given me the answer
plz tel me if this happens 2 u 2

that happens to me too! i think its just a lil case of deja vu! but its totally normal so its nothing too serious to worry about!well im just glad he aint goin out with morgan handley ne more!! ur wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy betta than her! lol

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i know this gurl who is really tall thin and beautiful.. she could so make it as a run-way model.. got any advice to help her get started? thnx

look in your local newspapers..or in magazines! cuz i know that they have a lotta ads for modeling in their magazines! *hope i helped*

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ok im blonde right now but its like died blonde it looks good but i want to put some strawberry blonde highlights in with it i have blue eyes so i think that it would look good im just not sure how strawberry blonde goes with already blonde hair so can someone tell me how it would look or give me some sites to go to so i can see how it would look? thanks love lots... ps. my hair is like 2 inches past my shoulder

i think that that would look sooo adorable!! u should take a picture when you get them cuz i would like to see them!! =) *hope i helped

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