The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
Answers: 277
Last Update: May 23, 2006
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My sister and I used to go to the same middle school. She's only a year older then me. She's a 9th grader and she was planning on going to the same HS (high school) as everyone else that went to my middle school. All of a sudden she changed her mind and went somewhere else. I really wanna go where she's going cuz its a better school but i have THE BEST friends ever right now and im not prepared to leave them and i dont want them to be mad, but i think this school would really help me do what i always wanted HELP ME!! WHT SHULD I DO? (link)
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your best friends will always be there but that school wont ... if you really want this school and its gonna help you out a whole bunch. then hang out with your friends whenever you get a chance like on teh weekends and stuff bc like i said they will always be there and that opportunity of a life time wont always be ... i hope i helped! -kayla
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how long does it take to get your braces off? thanx (link)
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it depends on how messed up your teeth are ... normally it takes 2 yrs and if treatment goes really good you may get them off a few months early but if your teeth are really messed up it will most likely take longer i know ppl that had them for 4 yrs. hope i helped! -kayla
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14/f I have been friends with Greg for 12 years! We're good friends and have been forever. I found out fairly recently that he likes me romantically, the thing is that I don't like him back. He has been telling my friend that he would do anything to make me like him back. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I need him to know that I don't like him and there is no future for us. I want him to let go and move on to someone else. How do I make him realize that he needs to move on and how can I help him? I don't want to lose him as a friend. (link)
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well tell him exactly what you want him to know and find him a girl that you think he would like and she would would like him back ... then set them up on a blind date and see what happens from there ... good luck! hope i helped! -kayla
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Hello,
I am 16 years old and a female. I am 5'2 1/2 and 93 lbs. I am very thin but not sick looking. I don't really eat like I'd call normal. I eat like once or twice a day normally but sometimes three. I am just never hungry most of the time and I am typically a light eater. The odd thing is last year I was like 115-120 lbs and then a few months ago I was 98 and now I'm 93 lbs. Is there something wrong? (link)
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wow .. i think you arent as hungry anymore bc you dont eat a lot and your stomach shrinks when you dont eat as much so you arent as hungry as you normally would ... it isnt healthy for you to be that thin ... im 5ft and weigh 95 lbs and i dont think it would be healthy for me to be very much skinnier but i eat normally. just try eating a little bit more and gain maybe 5 lbs. it will make you a lot healthier. i hope i helped! -kayla
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I am 14 and I got a 16 year old which happens to be my best friend pregnant what do I do? (link)
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wow not good at all ... get rid of that baby ... i am WAY against abortion but there is no way you will be able to support or handle a baby at your age. good luck with that and i hope i helped! -kayla
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I think I have the discharge stuff; I noticed I had like a yellowish white-ish stripe thing in my underwear. Is that discharge? And if it is, how long is it probably untill I get my period? help!
-confused- (link)
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how it probably is discharge and i have no idea how long it will be maybe a month .. maybe less ... maybe more .. its different with everyone. -kayla
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but i was wondering how you can make the salsa out of those jars for like tostitos and stuff not as spicy cause we bought medium spicy but its to hot for me and my mouth is on fire!!! but its sooo good so i wana know if theres a way that you can make it not as spicy. thanks. (link)
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get mild not medium lol its not so spicy. -kayla
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hey guys im ryah
well ok there is this boy Jake that i have dated before but I like him again, only because he calls me every day and is so sweet but it was so randomly that he started calling me, i mean we have been seeing eachother outside of school because we have the same friends and all but like we weren't really close since we broke up, we still kept in touch and talked online and all.i mean i have never really STOPPED liking him but i kinda moved on for a while but the feelings were still there. well anyways when we do see eachother OUT OF SCHOOL (keyword lol b/c we just act like friends in school which is odd) we are all over eachother and makeout and stuff, thats the farthest its gone since but he has mentioned to do other things. well anyways us doing all this stuff makes me attracted to him even more. i just don't know where to go from there like i would want to date him again officially you know, but i just don't know what exactly to say to him about i can't straight out say 'i like you, so let's go out' but i don't know what to say!!
Sorry it was long :(
Thanks if you help me :) I need it lol (link)
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just ask him how he feels about you .. i know its hard .. i mean it was so hard for me to do with this one guy which is really weird bc im not usually like that so i asked a friend too ... but find out some how and if you do have a friend ask him then whenever he gets online or something then be like so i heard you kinda like me or something ... is that true? if he does that is and if he doesnt then ask him why he likes to do all that stuff with you if he doesnt like you? i hope i helped! -kayla
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I saw this guy that I dated 4 years ago when I was in 8th grade, now I'm a senior in highschol.....we've been talking since and after all that time we saw each other again the other day, he didn't want 2 start the relationship again because of the distance between us....when I saw him yesterday we hung out than kissed but he pulled back and said it would be 2hard 2 handle a long distance relationship....well about 15 min before I went upstairs 2 my apartment he grabbed me and we kissed on and off a lot....and he said he'd promise 2 see me again very soon....I'm so confused and I just wish I knew what he wanted......What do I do?? (link)
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well i think that he likes you still and would like to be your bf but he just doesnt want to deal with the whole distance thing. i hope it all goes ok with yall! hope i helped! -kayla
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two days ago i got this bug bite that started to swell up like MAD and now it's the size of my elbow, it's red, and swollen. what can it be and what can i do about it? (link)
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im not sure what it could be but your most likely allergic to it and i think you should ask your doctor to prescribe you something for it. until then wear long sleeve shirts haha good luck and i hope i helped! -kayla
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me and my best friend might go to a haunted house for halloween w/ her sister and maybe some other people (prob. her boyfriend) and i wanted to be either a hooker or a gothic chick or a playboy bunny for halloween. what should i be? and should i have her be it with me and just have fun with it? and what should i buy or wear? sorry and another thing should i invite this guy i like with us if she brings her boyfriend? thanks so much! (link)
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a hooker definitely! haha that would be awesome and yeah it would be cool if you adn your sister were the same thing. oh and if she does bring her bf then most definitely bring a guy bc when she gets scared she can go to him and when you get scared you can go to your guy. have an awesome time and i hope i helped! -kayla
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i moved in june to the west side of canada, and in september one of my freinds died from cancer i wans't able to go to his funeral but i still miss him, and now i jsut found out another one of my firnds has cancer in the same place that my freind that died did, what can i do to get my mind off of this (link)
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well there really is nothing to get that off of your mind. its nothing you can do anything about but find a guy you like lol that will get it for the most part out of your mind bc youll be thinking of the guy/girl you like ... sorry idk if your a girl or guy lol. i hope i helped! -kayla
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okay i know this is stupid but i have this eyeshadow/liner thing and i really wanna wear it tomorrow for some reason but the problem is it gets all messed up like 5 min. after i put it on is there anything i can do to make it not get messed up? or do i just have to just keep reapplying it? thankz.. (link)
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umm maybe you should try putting a little bit on but like make a line on your eye and it really shouldnt get messed up and if it does just wipe off the part that got messed up. i hope i helped! -kayla
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umm yeah..i think i might be a lesbian/bisexual..how would i definitely know?? if it helps im 14/f (link)
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umm well im not like that but maybe if you look at girls and your like wow shes hot i like her and you just like other girls as more than friends and you start to look at them like you do at guys or other girls look at guys. -kayla
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Ok, there's this guy that likes me and I don't know if I like him or not so I haven't given him an answer yet.But now my friends seem like they are annoyed with me only because I still haven't given him an answer..they hardly call me anymore and they seem mad whenever I am around them!I am so confused, I have no idea what to do! (link)
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tell him you have mixed feelings for him and he needs to give you a little bit more time for yall to get to know eachother and stuff and see how you feel. then tell your friends that your aggravted bc they should be there helping you try to figure out your answer and they arent. i hope i helped! -kayla
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Okay me and my best friend whitney love to sing we sing all the time but we've never sang in public or anything. we wrote a song one night and we made a tune to it and we sing it all the time now we sang it to our moms and they loved it my mom started crying and we really think that its a good song. We're really scared of what people might think of us we, sing really good and stuff but maybe other people won't think so we really want to become singers. we don't know what to do though like where to go to or anything.
please help im sorry its long. (btw we live in west virginia) thank you! =] I rate.
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maybe you should talk to a chorus teacher about it. i probably wont be too much help on this bc i dont sing but i think you could ask a chorus teacher where you could go to get your voices heard and stuff. good luck with that! -kayla
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ok well one of my best freinds was going out with my cousin for about 6months! the whole time i knew she was, but she didnt know that i knew. i knew because my cousin told me, and so did my other best freind. She told other people just not me, why? Does she not trust me? Is it because hes my cousin, cuz i really wouldnt have cared? Now my cousin is going out with my other really good friend, and i know that my best friend and him broke up like 2weeeks ago, and shes so sad , because she still loves hiM! she is also so jelous and is trying to break them up! -- or at least that is what ive heard. i know that i could help her threw this time in her life, but i dont know if i should tell her that i knew that that they were going out because then she mgiht get mad at me n the other ppl that told me. BUT i know for sure i could help her out! what should i do should i tell her i knew all along, or should i just let her be sad and not help her out? im sorry its so long! i rate really good tho! (link)
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well i think that you should go to her and confort her and tell her that you knew that they were dating from some ppl and ask her why she didnt tell you? and tell just be there for her as much as you can bc im sure she really needs an awesome friend like yourself to be with her right now and to talk to. i hope i helped! -kayla
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Hi, my problem is this. I'am a 21 year old female from Australia. I've worked in numerous jobs ranging from a Hardware to a Chemist and at the moment i work at my local supermarket. At the moment i'am studying medical administration but i dislike it very much. I can't seem to hold down a job because i still don't know what to do for a future career. I dislike studying but i don't want to let my family down. Time is running out, financially i'am really poor and concerned about my future. Any suggestions would be appreciated. (link)
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well i know im only 15 but i think that you should finish out your degree in that field and then find a job and when you have more money and can go back to school then do what you want to do. in the mean time look around at the different fields you could major in and learn about them and figure out what it is you really want to do with your life. you have plenty of time. i hope i helped! -kayla
ps. ive always wanted to go to australia lol
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answer this truthfully cuz i dont want all the just be urself crap
what turns guys on? lke what clothes, makeup, hair, body, personality! Thanks i rate good (link)
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well it is true that guys like you to be yourself adn not all weird around them. but most guys like really really pretty girls that they can get a long with. that smile a lot and are in a good mood all the time and dont try to act different around them then they do around their friends. umm the clothes and hair and everything. some guys like yoru hair perfectly str8 and some like it curly ... just wtvr your hair is and if its kind of wavy and not exactly str8 then get a str8ner and str8n it and umm dont wear too much makeup so you look like a barbie but if your old enough to wear make up then maybe just like eyeliner and mascara and maybe some blush if you want or lip gloss. all i wear is mascara and eye liner but truthfully guys dont like girls that wear a lot of make up bc they want them to look like they normally would without all that makeup. sorry this is so long! i hope i helped! -kayla
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I'm 14/f. I have a brother who is 17 and I'm really starting to fall for one of his friends who is also 17. The age thing isn't an issue but I think if we were ever together my brother would freak out. My problem is that I think he might possibly like me back. How can I tell if he likes me romantically or if he just thinks or me as my brother's little sister? (link)
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wow i wonder that all the time with my older brothers friends but im 15 ... well i think that you should just flirt with him and see what he does back. thats all you can really do bc if your brothers gonna get mad about it then theres nothing you can really do. i mean i think personally my brother would kill me if i dated one of his friends even though i know some of them think im hot lol so i think that you should just talk to him adn flirt with him whenever you see him. i hope i helped! -kayla
ps. maybe when your brother is doing something in another part of the house you could talk to his friend and flirt a WHOLE bunch.
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