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umm yeah..i think i might be a lesbian/bisexual..how would i definitely know?? if it helps im 14/f
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Well, there's no way I can tell you to be sure. I'm a lesbian, but at 19 I was sitll unsure whether I was lesbian or bisexual..or what. I think it's easy to get hung up on labels because it makes it easier to get on in the world.
I think the pressure to self-identify can be terrific. I suppose just think about who you are attracted to; if it's predominantly other females, then I'd say you were a lesbian.
While genuine bisexuality does exist, it's also important to realize that society conditions you to expect to be with a man. I know many, many gay people who first thought they were bisexual. We all changed our minds and so can you!
Sexuality is excited and confusing; it's important first and foremost to just be comfortable with who you are. The labels will (or won't) come from that; you'll be fine.
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Well only you can really determine if you are a lesbian or bisexual. Normally lesbians are physically attracted to other women and only other women. Bisexual you are sexually attracted to both sexes. Hope this helped.
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If you're attracted to woman, more so then men, then you could be a lesbian. Or if you find yourself attracted to both.. then you could be bicurious.
I'm not either, but i think some girls are hot. lol.. like my friends and i always joke around, like we always say eachother is hot and stuff, cause some of my friends are really really pretty.. but that doesnt mean we're lesbians.
Good luck. xo.
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umm well im not like that but maybe if you look at girls and your like wow shes hot i like her and you just like other girls as more than friends and you start to look at them like you do at guys or other girls look at guys. -kayla
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