...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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When someone constantly says/writes things about their new boyfriend/girlfriend, is there anyway to tell that they're really just excited or if they feel insecure and just want to make people jealous? (link)
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Well I guess that they are so exited they feel that they need to make someone feel jealous. Im not to fond of those people.
-shay :-)
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I play classical guitar. I left my teacher a few months ago and I'm learning on my own. I need to know how to play sharps and flats on guitar. (link)
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Hmm. Maybe you could ask a guitar teacher or an adult that knows how to play because Im just barley going to take lessons.
-shay :-)
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omg!!! what do i do if i have fallen in love with two boys at the same time???? this is true love i swear and i need major help (link)
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You need to choose between the two. Get to know each one more and find out which one is more for you.
-shay :-)
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i am so confused. i have never met my father or any of his family. My mom has told me the story of how they met and has given me a picture, but that just isnt enough. i want to go to sacremento to find my family from his side. should i travel across the country alone? who should i tell? i dont know what to do. where do i belong? (link)
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Well you should first of all ask your mother for permission. Same with your fathers. You shouldnt travel alone though. Go with some family.
-shay :-)
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is it a bad thing to fall asleep while ur babysitting a 3 yearold in summer while thre in a pool?
~>confused (link)
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Well YES!! I mean use your commen sence!
-shay :-)
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My brother william always seems disapointed in me. i really dont want him to be dissopinted in me, but i just dont know what to do :( im not really shure if anyone can help me, but i would really like it if someone would just say something about it (link)
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Well since I dont now why hes disapointed with you and cant really help you there. Be nicer to him or make better decisions.
-shay :-)
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in the first quarter i made honor role. now im like getten strait f's what is goen on? (link)
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I think what you're doing is thinking that since you did so well that semester its gonna be real easy now. Well its not. Put in more efort to your work.
-shay :-)
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what would you do if the girl your dating was given a number of another guy and didnt seem to think twice about it.... what if you were told by your friends that she thought he was hot...what would you do...you love this girl so much and a blow like this hurts so bad.... do you call her on it and get it out into the open...do i discard what i was told as jealous behavior...idk what to do....i still love her but im sure someone is able to understand the position im in...please help (link)
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You should not discard your behavier because its perfectley normal. Definetley see whats up, but I'd like to inform you that this guy could be just a friend of hers. I mean you could call her and ask her if theres anything serious between them.
-shay :-)
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...I want world peace. Anyone with me? (link)
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Depends. Do you mean world peace? Cause Im all for that!
-shay :-)
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ok here i sit a 14 year old teenager crying cause my mom just came in telling me how disapointed i made her and dispointed was only a nice term for how i made her feel cuase to her i am acting like my step sister (lazy) and she said now me and my mom are going to have the same relationship they have - none - i dont know what to do cause 1st of all i love my mom to death and dont wanna heart her and i want to have a relation ship with her 2nd its hard for me to grasp when i need to do something untill its to late today after dinner i washed my dish and walked away from the sink and my step dad starts washing then after i say i was going to go up stairs and then i realized that i should clean up the kitchen after dinner so i asked should i and my mom answerewd no iun the most bone chilling cold voice and then she came up stair and said all the stuff about my sister does anyone no how to get my to like me as a person again and not just cause i am her daughter (link)
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What? You want to know hoe to like yourself for who you are? Well I guess you could start by doing some activitys to boost your confidence and raise your self esteem level.
-shay :-)
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Ive liked guy and only guys ever scence kindergarden, but now that im in middle school, im kinda afrid that im not only interested in guys...this is really embressing, but i have been lookin at girls breasts and butoxes. Im hardly doing it anymore, but im still a bit worried that i may be intrested in girls not just as a friend. im tryin to convence myself that its just a phase or im just tryin to compare mine to others. Please tell me if i am bi or if its just a phase, im really worried! Thanx,
Allie (a girl) (link)
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Im sure its just a phase. You cant really be homophobic if you dont want to. Dont worry.
-shay :-)
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i made my news years resolution to loose weight but the only problem is i cant stop eating like even when i am not hungry i need help and just to let you know iam 14 1/2 and over wieght (link)
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Of cource you cant stop! You cant just go cold turkey! Thats crazy. Every day go little by little. I know a trick too! Okay if you work out and sweat a lot you WILL NOT want chochlate or any sweats! Cool huh!
-shay :-)
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OK i have nothin to do and my head hurts and i dont feel good wut should i do
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Tylenol. Forget what adverticers say that stuff really works.
-shay :-)
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There's a boy I know, he's the one I dream of
Looks into my eyes, takes me to the clouds above
Ooh I lose control, can't seem to get enough
When I wake from dreaming, tell me is it really love?
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Maybe it depends. Ive had dreams like that where I really had no inner feelings for him, but the way you explained it, it seems like lust.
-shay :-)
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im so much in love with neighbor and i wanna tell him but the words wont come out please help me?? (link)
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If the words cant or wont come out then its not time. Wait a wile.
-shay :-)
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DOES IT HURT TO HAVE BRAINS THE FIRST TIME IS THERE ANY PAIN FROM THINKING? (link)
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I dont think so. I wouldnt remember so far back.
-shay :-)
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Has everyone who posts here forgotten the basic rules of grammer?
Do they not know how to turn off CAPS LOCK?
Do they not know how to capitalise the letter I?
I refuse to answer any question that is unreadable because the author cannot be bothered to write properly. (link)
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so? dus it luuk lic i car??
-shay
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I am a really shy girl...I don't talk volunteerely in school to anybody. I have this crazy idea to ask him out. He's seen me before, but we don't actually know eachother. I'm so confused. I want to ask him out because I realize this is my life and I have to start living it to the fullest.
Please...I don't want to confront him even though I would have to in order to ask him out. What do I do?...besides putting a note in his locker because there's cameras in my school so that's out of the question. Plus, my school is very loud and there's always somebody in the hallway. Please help me. I'm so nervous but you don't understand how badly I want to do this. (link)
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You should be his friend. If you have the guts to ask him out you sefinetley have the guts to go up and talk to him.
-shay :-)
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Oh My god rachael...I made a psi-ball...its jessie (your cousin)
nevermind that to anyone who isnt my cousin Rachael...
But...has anyone ever made a psi-ball before?
Or does anybody believe in them?
Check out what they are online. (link)
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lol! Mt friend had one of those. Ive never had one, but they look cool.
-shay :-)
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IM 13 AND THE BOY I LIKE IS 14 SHOULD I TELL HIM I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM OR WAIT TILL IM OLDER? IM REALLY REALLY SCARED OF REJECTIONAND I MWORRIED WHAT HE WILL SAY... SHOUDL I WAIT TILL IM IN 9TH GRADE OR SHOULD I TELL HIM THIS SUMMER WHILE HE IS OVER SWIMMING I DONT WANT TO BREAK OUR FRIENDSHIP IM JUST SCARED OF REJECTION PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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Okay Im so sick of hearing the same question. Read my column for an answer. AND PLEASE stop asking the same question its driving me crazy!!!
-shay
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