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Hi, my name is Keana. I am 12. My parents won't let me have an email address and I'm in middle school. My older sister has one but she has bad grades. I don't have bad grades or an email address! All of my friends have one and I feel left out. Every time I try to talk to my parents, they seem irritated, but I just to talk about it. What do I do? (link)
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I know exactly what you mean! My parents did the same thing to me last year and EVERYBODY else had an email. Two things you should consider is that the world is a dangerous place and they are just trying to protect you. Sometimes that means not letting you have things like an email account or a facebook. Also, they might be having trouble watching you grow up. If not letting you have an email is the only thing that they are doing, then they might now think that you're ready for it. Overall, the best thing you can do is stop trying to ask about it (what most kids and teens don't realize about asking for things is that they usually seems bratty, rude, disrespectful, unappreciative, etc even if you don't mean to) and prove that you are responsible enough for an email address. Grades are one way of doing it. You could also try offering to do extra chores/help out, being respectful and kind to others (including the rest of your family, and others like that. It'll help and they might give you some more freedom as well. Good luck :)
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Thank you, your advice really did help.
Yesterday i was on the phone with him and he was being all cute cause were "married" jokingly.. so he was telling me some stories he did in the past with girls then before he started saying the story hes like "this was before, before i even knew you, dont worry im faithful :P" im like haha sureeee, then we talked for a little.. and he told me hed call back , but then texted me saying hes reallly sorry and that something came up and he promises to call me tomorrow, when i go 2 days not caling me, hes all like if you missed me you would have, and i told you to text me or whatever, so why does he care? i just dont understand.. hes fighting with his ex but at the same time hes not treating me like normal friends do, im sorry if im annoying you but i cant really find anyone else to talk to about this, do you mind if i message you and update you about what happens and stuff? (link)
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I'm glad I was able to help. I don't mind if you message me and keep me updated; I'd be happy to help. Hmmm... a few of guys I know have done things similar to phone situation. Honestly, it makes me mad guys do things like that. But if you want to talk to him, it never hurts just to send a text or two. He might have been waiting for you to call or text him first, despite what he said. As for the stuff with his ex, it still seems like he still cares for her. At the same time, he might have some feelings for you too. Relationships like this aren't as healthy because the person is probably feeling torn between the two that they like. I would just wait and see how the next week or so goes with him. Keep me updated! :)
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There's this boy in my class we are both 13 and not dateing he sad that he wanted to date me only to have sex with him. He is always touching my butt and hair during class. What does this mean. I'm a female and he's a male. (link)
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He doesn't respect you. You should try and stay away from him and find a better guy who is worth your time
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Hello I am 13 and this other guy is 13. We are both in the same class. He said he wants to have sex with me. I love him so much but he said he would date me only to have sex with him.I would do any thing to make him happen should I do it. Maybe he would want to date me after. I don't know can you help I am only 13 and do not know a lot about boys. Please help me. I need help. (link)
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If this guy told you that he will only date you if you have sex with him, then he's a jerk and not worth your time. You're both 13 which is way too young to even be thinking about having sex. Especially because you had to ask if you should do it. You should consider what the consequences if you do have sex with him. It's really not worth it. I would move on and find a guy who has more respect for you. I hope this helped you :)
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Hello Im 13 years old and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating since March 2011 and its now January 2012. He is pretty shy around me and Im sometimes like that. Everyone asks me if we say I Love You and I have to say no because he has yet to say it. Would it be weird if i told him? And how should I? Ans so far he has hugged me. Thats it. No holding hands. And obviously no kiss. How do I hint him i want to go farther (link)
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Do you think you really love him? If you don't truly mean it, then you shouldn't say it just because you feel pressured to. I don't remember how many times that I've told a guy that I love him just because I felt pressured to. Don't let it get to you. If he is shy, you might have to make the first move. Just make sure that you both are comfortable with it so you don't pressure him either. I hope I was helpful and good luck with your relationship :)
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What do you do, when you are learning that a friend is not so much a friend?? I have been friends with my daughter's father since high school. That has been since the year of 91... Now I have been a good friend to him through out the years, but he is an on & off kind of friend. I have feelings for him & always have, but he doesn't see me for some reason. He say he cares, but whenever he is going through somehting I have been there for him. He calls me we talk & we have good commnunication, but whenever he is involved wit someone he tends to treat me as if I am his conveniece. He needs someone to talk to when things are not right in his relationships, but then when they are fine he doesn't want to be bothered. I am fed up & it is really making me not want to deal with him, but for my daughter's sake I must. What can I do to move pass this man that doesn't want to be a friend??? (link)
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I understand what you're going through. He seems to be using you for his personal gain just whenever he needs it. Things like this are hard, especially when it's somebody you thought was your friend. I think you should try talking to him about the way he treats you. He might not have even realized that was being like that. It might be a little hard to talk about it, but hopefully you will be able to hear his side of the story. If he is actually using you, you should try to keep any anger out of it simply for your daughter. Keep any conversations or visits with him as minimal as possible and just remember that the only reason you deal with him is for your daughter. I hope I was help and good luck with whatever happens.
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Theres this guy ive been talking to for a while now, and we sweet talk, he even tried to hold my hand a few times, but i just found out that he talks to his ex (he was with her for 2 years) and like gets jealous over her still ,and still argues with her.. and even when he was talking to me and he said he had to go cause of his mom, he was actually talking to her arguing about these guys she flirts with, they can never be together though, because of some particular reasons.. but i dont know like, hell want me to call him before i sleep, text him when i wake up, hes always so sweet to me and always calls me alot, and when i told him were like brother and sister he got annoyed and told me to never say that again and that were not at all, and were more than that, but he didnt say what we were.. now i dont know, should i hold on to him because he has every right to still be inlove and jealous over his ex and just give it some time?cause maybe he likes me but is still hung up on his ex and i should be understand? or should i just cut contact or distance myself from him because i dont want to gain feelings for him , when hes probably just going to hurt me? i really do need help, any answer would be appreciated .. thanks alot =) (link)
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I understand what you're going through. I was in a similar situation with a guy just recently. From it sounds like, he may still have feeling for her, but because they can't be together, he's turning to you for what he isn't getting from her. It's probably not a good idea to continue being this close with him, mostly because you might start developing feeling for him that will probably end up getting you hurt. It might hurt for a little while, but it's definitely tons better than getting too mixed up in his drama. Also, you don't have to cut all ties. If you feel like he might be able to get over his ex, then I would just keep some distance until he does. In the end, you should choose what you think is best. I've tried offering advice based solely off of experience. I hope I helped, and good luck with whatever happens :)
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I typed in "Dave" on my iPhones search bar (where it searches your entire phone.) And it pulled up his contact info and then some texts messages that had his name in it. I then started searching key words like "look", "vacation", things I know we texted to eachother, and it pulled up the text messages. The only thing that is strange, is I deleted those text messages. How long does the iPhone search keep text messages in that history? And can they be recovered? Just curious.... (link)
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I don't know much about iPhones, but a similar thing happened to me with my blackberry. Sometimes, I would delete messages and they would still show on the phone. It might just be a problem with your specific phone. If it's too much of a problem, you could try bringing your phone in to your carrier and have them look at it. Hope I helped
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i am a 13 year old female and i have never had a boyfriend or been asked out. my friends say im pretty though. i question if i really am though :(
people say i look like a 13 year old brooklyn decker but idk who she is. i have dirty blonde hair that is kinda long. i have really unique eyes though. they are like blueish green with a ring of yellow around my pupil and my eyelashes or normal length. i have straight white teeth and good lips. i have a bit of acne though :( and my body now: i have a fit lean muscular body. im naturally skinny and am not fat whatsoever i am very muscular though from dance cheerleading and volleyball. guys love my but though my nickname is bubblebutt. its firm and cute :) haha im not freckly but i have a light colored freckle in marilyn monroe spot.its like hers but lighter.my skin tone isnt fair but isnt tan im american caucasian. i am pretty petite i am 5'2 and weigh 100 lbs. i am also a 32A bra let me know what you think of my apperance! no mean comments please! thanks! (link)
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From what it seems like, I would probably be pretty jealous of how you look so don't worry about that :)
If you don't already, you should try being friends with guys. If they are more comfortable around you and get to know the real you, you have a better chance. Also, try to not rush into things like this. Once, I was in a 3 month relationship with a guy I barely knew and could hardly talk to. Looking back on it, I regret the whole relationship itself. Just remember to have fun and be yourself :)
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OKay well I am in 7th grade (Middle School) and ALL of my friends have boyfriends and i don't and I feel really left out. I am taller than most of my friends and some of the guys but My friend who is a little bit taller than me, still manages to get all the guys she wants. (link)
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You shouldn't try to get a bf just because your friends have ones and you can't force a guy to like you. Also, height shouldn't be a problem. If a guy really cares about how tall you are, then he's not worth it. Now, if you truly like a guy, then you should go for it. Just remember that relationships in grade school aren't usually ones that will last long, so don't let this get in the way of school. Hope I helped.
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So there's this guy and my best friend snd him used to like achother cause their family's were so close and then she hated him in 4th grade because she though he was a jerk and annoying. So he liked this othrr girl for 3 years now but then got over her so at the beginning of the year he had a huge crush on me and we txted a lot and then he got annoying so i sent a message saying that my phone was out of connection and no longer was set up so he believed me and stoped txting me then my brother told him that it wasn't true so he started txting me very little though (1 every 2 weeks) or less. So he got over me and was all depressed i didn't like him back. So we told eachother a lot about eachother after he got over me and he told me he liked this girl and i told him who i liked and we gave eachother idvice for eachother and we became close. So we joke w/ eachother at school and stuff and my brother is really good friends with him. so now I realize he has changed and I like him. How do i tell him? How do make him like me again? we still txt all though he doesn't ask to take pics of me like at the back 2 school picnic but really. he says he still kind of likes me. we're friends kinda. but what do i do. (sorry this was long) (link)
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If you feel as if you are good enough friends, I think you should tell him. Chances are, if he said he kinda likes you and he still talks to you, he probably likes you. Just be yourself and talk to him. Hope I helped :)
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im feelind down about things. Feeling like i dont belong maybe there just too much goin on in my life and is not lilke i can just explain it all cus it probably wont be enough space. Maybe im just too different or maybe im just with the wrong person. Too much hurt to erase and even when tried no communication with me so i have to figure him all out on my own. Babygirl just stares loves me and runs after me. She wants to play with me. And i hide my pain and put on a smile. Then i go to the bathroom feel so angry i think i have anger issues when i get mad i want to fight. But then i can give the best advice . Advice i wish he can take from me but he just keeps hurting me till theres no more of me. And im tryin for her and for us its getting hard though wish there was more communication more love and even if there is love im tired of talking tired of living. Mayb i just dont belong here. I wana go. (link)
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I understand how you feel. Something that I've learned that helps with feeling down is distracting with something fun. If that still doesn't help, keep trying until you find that thing in your life that makes you happy again. If you have people you love and care about, try talking to them or even spending time with them so they can cheer you up. I think if you talk to others and tell them how you feel, they might be able to help you.
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Hi there so I am 18/F
So I have a lot of guy friends and a few girl friends, most of which are short, except my best friend who is 6", I however am 5"9 and I feel soooo tall, I look at my girl friends who are 5"5 or 5"6 and they get a lot of guys, I get guys and everything, but for some reason I look at my girl friends and I feel freakishly tall and weird, I am skinny, I eat a lot but I don't gain weight, I weigh about 130, I just don't understand why I feel so ugly around my friends, is there anything wrong with being this tall, I feel so insecure when I go out with them. Why is it that tall girls aren't as pretty as short girls? (link)
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I used to be friends with this gorgeous girl who was already 5"9 at 13 or 14. She always got all the guys. I'm super short and for awhile, I always thought the exact opposite of you. I've learned that for the most part, height doesn't matter. You should be yourself and let your personality shine. I'm sure that if you're more confident about yourself, you'll feel tons better. Hope I helped :)
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I'm 15, and the guy I like is a year younger. We started talking on Facebook, and he asked for my number. He always texts me but when ever he has a chance to talk to me in person he doesn't. We walk past in the halls if I'm not looking at him he will stare at me, but if I Am looking he will have his head down. He says he likes me but he likes the single life, he likes hookups better than relationships. He said he would ask me out but hockey takes up to much of his time. He said if it was summer he would date me but by then I would probably like a different guy. He says im going to get hurt by him even if he doesnt want to. He is always texting lots of girls and he told me that, plus most of the girls are my friends. He keeps saying that we need to hang out but it hasnt happened yet. Idk if I should move on if hes a player or keep trying because he's shy. So confused. (link)
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Honestly, I think you should move on. I was just in a similar situation to you, and as much as it hurts, guys like that aren't worth it. He even said that you were going to get hurt by him. At least if you cut all ties now, you'll save yourself from some embarrassment later. Good luck
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So it's been 7 months since "Mother Nature came to visit" and when it use to come, it came heavy but painless. Finally this month it came, but SUPER light and full of pain (Cramps, backaches, nauseation, bloating). But just to be clear, I am a virgin. What could be wrong?! Please help me, I'm scared. (link)
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First off, you should address this with your mom. You said that you just started getting your period 7 months ago. Generally girls periods haven't regulated by then. Your body is just getting adjusted to the big change. Symptoms like the ones you describe are normal; in fact, I get those same ones. If you think it's too much to handle, try talking to your mom about taking some medication for when you're on your period.
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