My friends say i am pretty, but no guys have asked me out. :( Are they lying or am i pretty??
Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2011, 10:08 pm
i am a 13 year old female and i have never had a boyfriend or been asked out. my friends say im pretty though. i question if i really am though :(
people say i look like a 13 year old brooklyn decker but idk who she is. i have dirty blonde hair that is kinda long. i have really unique eyes though. they are like blueish green with a ring of yellow around my pupil and my eyelashes or normal length. i have straight white teeth and good lips. i have a bit of acne though :( and my body now: i have a fit lean muscular body. im naturally skinny and am not fat whatsoever i am very muscular though from dance cheerleading and volleyball. guys love my but though my nickname is bubblebutt. its firm and cute :) haha im not freckly but i have a light colored freckle in marilyn monroe spot.its like hers but lighter.my skin tone isnt fair but isnt tan im american caucasian. i am pretty petite i am 5'2 and weigh 100 lbs. i am also a 32A bra let me know what you think of my apperance! no mean comments please! thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SwimxRun answered Thursday January 5 2012, 7:33 pm: I would look in the mirror, and see who you really see. A beautiful girl seeing herself not pretty. You aren't pretty because guys wont ask you out. Im 13 and i havent had a bf either. im 5'1 and 85 pounds and know im pretty and no where near fat. its just guys in my grade are like brothers considering i have known them since 1st grade. I would never want to move to fast. I wanna have fun before worrying about boys. I love them as friends and maybe a crush. Just think of your bright future ahead of you. You are pretty and dont forget that![: [ SwimxRun's advice column | Ask SwimxRun A Question ]
mannequin24 answered Wednesday January 4 2012, 1:18 am: From what it seems like, I would probably be pretty jealous of how you look so don't worry about that :)
If you don't already, you should try being friends with guys. If they are more comfortable around you and get to know the real you, you have a better chance. Also, try to not rush into things like this. Once, I was in a 3 month relationship with a guy I barely knew and could hardly talk to. Looking back on it, I regret the whole relationship itself. Just remember to have fun and be yourself :) [ mannequin24's advice column | Ask mannequin24 A Question ]
Diana222 answered Thursday December 29 2011, 3:24 pm: Hun, im 13 too! Thats why I read your comment. I look almost exactly the same as you, except I have really pretty blue eyes, everything about how I look matches with how YOU look. Which is really cool(:
I'm in the same situation. Judging by your body type, bra size, and facial features, if I saw you walking down the street I would think you were very, very pretty.
I think the reason you don't have a boyfriend is most likely because of your personality. The typical guy at our age seems to like a girl who does not speak her mind, is willing to give in to anything, and is obsessed with her appearance. And if you speak your mind, or are loud, or confident, then the guys are intimidated and won't ask you out. Your looks may also be intimidating.
So it DEFINITELY not that you aren't pretty, you ARE pretty. It is just that your personality may intimidate guys. And the right guy will come along, I promise. And hun, friends don't lie(: [ Diana222's advice column | Ask Diana222 A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday December 28 2011, 10:59 pm: It's not what others think of how you look that counts. It's what you feel about your appearance and body that does. People can sense your insecurities about it.
You aren't ugly either. The thing with 13-year-old guys is that most aren't mature and are not sure whether they want to play with action figures or date a girl. Those who are ready likely feel intimidated by you or your popularity and don't ask you out.
What I would do is organize some group events and invite guys you like and try to develop something from there. Relax, 13 is pretty young to be dating and you will find the right person soon enough and it has zero to do with appearance. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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