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There's this kid in my english class, Michael. I didn't even know the kid till the week before Christmas break. The day before we got out for Christmas break, I was playing a game with some of my friends and he walked out of no where, sat on some desk by us (I was sitting on the floor, so he was above me and looked down my shirt), and said, "Whoa. That's niiiiice." And my friend looked at him and said, "Uh, Michael? You're weird." But, he just ignored her and sat there staring at me (More like my boobs). Then Wednesday I dropped something and I bent down to get it. He walked by, looked down my shirt, said that stupid, "Nice," thing again, and smiled at me. THEN, on friday I kneeled down to reach a book (His desk was behind me.) and when I turned around, he was staring at my butt. On Friday, I walked by his desk because I was trying to go ask my teacher something. He moved his arm closer to the side I was going to be walking by and he kind of brushed up against my butt and when I turned around he was smiling at me again and staring right at my boobs and then when I was walking back he said something to me, but all I could catch was the word "sexy." Near the end of the day, he came up to me and tried to touch my boobs or something and I was like, "Excuse me. Get away from me, okay?" and one of my friends came up behind me and he's like, "Back off, faggot." THEN, he finally left. But, he's gonna end up doing something again Monday. I KNOW he will.. The thing is, after Wednesday, I told him to back off and same for Friday. Now I don't know if he thought I was joking or WHAT the crap the kid's problem is, but he won't leave me alone. Ugh, what should I do? (link)
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this is sexual harrasment go to your principle or counselor and tell everything. because he could do this to other people to and really pressure them into to doing something if not rape them. hes a disrespectful creep you need to report it because youve already told him to back off and even so he has no right to behave in this manner.he could become dangerous.
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is it true that if you trimm your hair 4-8 wks. it gets longer? explain why . i always thought that 'oh yeah who cares if i have split ends, ill let my hair grow a lil longer and then when its long already just the way i like it, ill have them TRiMMED!" true or false. explain why please. thanks can anyone send me a good website for taking care of hair???? ll thanks (link)
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i trim my hair and its been the sae length for about 8 yrs. it didnt work for me. triming your ends does make your hair appear nicer but as for making it grow that method didnt work for me. but the thing about letting split ends grow is that alot of times your hair will grow jagged so when you get get trimmed straight across it defeats the purpose. someone told me that hot oil treat ments work i havent yet tried it but plan to buy some almond oil this week if you want me to elaborate on it i will.
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Ok, im 13 years old and female and i have this "boy" friend that likes me and i like him to but the problem is he doesnt no i like him back. i hate using friends to tell people i like them for me because they always make me look stupid and we cant pass notes because the teachers have eyes in the back of their heads. How can i tell him i like him without running up to him and telling him straight up o and how can i get him to ask me out to? i really need to know before monday because after that i wont be able to get to a computer for 2 weeks!
thanx,
pennsylvania chic
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if you already know he likes you then theres no pressure just talk to him about it. he likes you so hes not going to think badly of or care about the way you tell him. you already know the answer so just be like i like you. hell probably be thrilled. or you should say i think you should ask me out or just ask him out your self. theres no big issue because you know he likes you. so go for it.
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Iam a girl, and i am 12 years old. Ok, so there is a certain girl, my ex-friend. Lets just call her girl 1. Then there is my best friend. Lets call her girl 2. Me and girl 2 have been friends for 8 years, and now girl 1 is in the picture. I was friends with girl 1 at first, but then I found out the things she said about me behind my back. Here's the problem , though. Girl 2 is still one of girl 1's best friends!!! What can I do to change that, and still maintain my moral fiber? (link)
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you shouldnt do anything.just because you dont like her doesnt mean someone else cant be her friends. i have people who absolutely cant stand for legitamate reasons that are friends with my really close friends even though i know that person is a rat i just leave it alone and figure their true colors will come out eventually. i just dont hang around that person. so just leave their relationship alone. and focus on you and your best friends relationship. stress that when you two hang out you dont want to hang out with the other girl.a good friend would understand that. because no one wants to be forced to be around someone they dont like and they shouldnt have to be not every one clicks its just the way it works out. if you decide to try to ruin their friendship your going to be declared the bad guy and you might lose her friendship in the end so just leave it alone.
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I don't know if my boyfriend is controlling. He wants to know where I am and who I'm with at all times. He says he loves me all the time and he wants to get married when I turn 18. I'm just about to turn 17. He wants all my time and he calls me a million times a day and expects me to spend all my free time with him. I don't think hes controlling, but I'm not sure. I love him though. How can I tell?? Is there any certain way?? Please help me figure this out. (link)
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yes i would say hes controling but if your okay with it and comfortable tthen it's not a big deal as long as he doesnt get abusive or dangerous or threaten you. if you can live with the way you described him then its alright.everyones diffrent. if not then you should start laying down your own laws or talk to him about it.
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how do i know if a hair product has alcohol in it (link)
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it should be listed in ingrediants on the back of the bottle if your still unsure they should have a number you can call to ask the manufactuars or someone involved with the company who puts out the product.
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Pls help me. What should I do? Im inlove to a young girl,she is 9 years old????Im already 15 now?!! Is it bad? Im thinking im very stupid. I keep avoiding it but it hurts. What should I do pls?? Help help!!! (link)
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i think if you truly love her youd wait until shes grown up do you realize your almost at pedifile standards. eeven if your not 18. if you really liked her then you would wait untill she grown because she only 9 and doesnt even have a full sense of life shes not even developed.and probably doesnt even have agood sense of whats going on shs only in 4th or 5th gr. either be friends until shes grown and legal or move on.
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My dad has always been the same. He's always happy one minute and angry the next. Ever since I can remember he's "spanked" me as hard as he could. He's always argued with my mom. He's always treated me unfairly. Always blamed things on me. When I was about 10 or 11, my parents got divorced. It didn't really affect me all that much. I was actually kind of happy. I mean, I thought my parents arguing would stop. I thought all those times were my dad would yell at my mom and push her up against the wall would stop. Of course I was wrong. It's been almost 6 years now, since they first got a divorce and my dad's remarried and my mom has a pretty steady boyfriend. My dad's always working. When he's not working his regular shift, he's working over time. One thing that always seemed to bug me about him is the way he always yells at me...but not just that he does it. Its that no matter how much its not my fault and how much it's my brother's fault, he always blames it on me. He favors my brother. The other night my dad came over to pick me up and take me to his house because it was his weekend to take me and my brother. I got packed and went out in the car and put my stuff in the trunk. My dad was going to let my brother go to the skate park and I was angry because when ever I ask to do anything he always tells me no. And I was telling him how I felt about that. He told me not to talk to him like that and I was afraid he was going to slap me or something like that so I got out of the car and told him I wasn't coming to his house and got my clothes out of the trunk and went back in to my house. At that point, he wasn't even trying to get me to come to his house, he didn't care. My mom told him to come in and talk to me so he did. I told him how he made me feel and he still didn't even try to convince me to go to his house. I told him to get out of my house but he wouldn't. My mom told me to go to my room and settle down. I heard my mom talking to my brother and so I thought he was gone, so I came out. My dad was still there. The next thing I know, my dad tells me this is all my arugment is all my fault and he has my mom up against the wall held by her sweatshirt. He finally leaves and my mom has a bruise on her neck...so she finally decides she should call the cops because it's not the first time it's happened. Now my dad might get arrested. I don't know how I should react to that. I feel like crap. It's all my fault. My brother's going to hate me. So is my stepmother. I'm afraid of what's going to happen to me if my dad gets locked in jail and how he'll react when he gets out. Over all, I'm just scared. Scared of everything that might happen. I have no clue what to do. (link)
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my dad was really abusive. what really important some ones life or someones feelings.you guys are in danger someone need to call the police.he needs to be arrested he could turn on your brother and your step mom. if they get mad then they should be ashamed.its not your fault hes a scum bag and theres no excuse for it.if he reacts worse then hell be in jail again fear is a weakness that hes using against you as a weapon dont give in.its not your fault hes like that.everyone is responsible for thir own actions and i think its time he accepts the consequences
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16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help? (link)
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hes the one whos screwed because its illegal.have this man arresed they'll be on your side hes not safe.and sticking things like sticks in you can really mess you up or kill you. i think you need to worry less about hurting his feelings and worry more about him hurting you. your probably the only one willing to put up with bull crap. if he loved you he wouldn't be getting you to do sexual things hed wait for you to be of age. this guy could really hurt you or even guys who he thinks are getting to fresh with you. you need to put aside this attraction. hes sick in the head. hes using you. you need to tell the police,a parent,or principle or counselor.your the victim wether you realize it or not.your also in danger save yourself and tell.
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Okay, I'm 16/f... I walked into a restaurant and they asked if I wanted the kids menu... for 11 & under! I am thin, have a young face, no shape, and the blonde curls don't help either! Any advice? (link)
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it was probably just someone being smart some ones asked me if i was 11 and im older then you.you can look at my picture i dont look eleven some people just do that because your petite to be a smart ellic. that person could of also had bad eyesite and only noticed your size or they were really tired. hears somethings you can do if you insist you look like your 11 and object to the above.
face-its not bad to look young but-you can wear make up dont pile on foundation just put it on lightly because when theres to much you can tell and it looks like someone hiding something.make sure you go over it with a cotton ball or sometihng simliar to wipe off make up lines.
wear eyeliner some thing that either coordinate with your eye or is the samecolor.i would need to know your eye color and skin tone to tell you whats best.im more of the natural type my self i just wear foundation and blue eyeliner my eyes are blue,mascara-brownish black,and clear lip gloss sometimes none on my lips at all. but if you prefer you can add blush and lip stick.
as for being thim working out tones your body think belly danceing is a good work out and sexy.but you can also do crunches or go to a gym.
as for the blonde curls i personally love the way curly hair looks i have straight hair my self. but you can get a flat iron and straightten them. for some mature but cute hair styles go to boss hair .com.
also dressing more mature wearing close fitting low cut clothes that arent designed for teenieboppers helps something along the lines of whats in body central, victoria secret, or newport fashion is sexy and sophisticated they all have websites.
the real key is acting mature and presenting your self well but obviously these people didnt give you the chance to.
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This is an odd question,
but is it likely that if you are super stubborn or, I dont know, really blunt, that your kid will have it?
Or atleast some of you and your husbands qualities? or do they have their complete own? (link)
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each and every person i unique they are more then likely just going to be thereselves. its a kid not a clone. certain habbits might rub off from being around a person so much or not being exposed to other ways of thinking. but the child will be their own individual they might have something in common with you personality wise but thats really no diffrent then them having something in common personality wise with a friend or stanger.
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Bear with me; this is a several part question.
-Is it morally wrong to give advice about a situation you've never been in? For example, give sex advice if you've never had sex?
-Is it morally wrong to give advice you don't follow, even if the advice is sound? For example, an eating disordered person giving nutrition advice, or a couch potato giving exercise tips? What if this information is provided to correct erroneous information offered by another source?
This is assuming that the advice you give is valid, despite it being contradictory to your actions. I'm interested in seeing what people think. (link)
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it depends on what the person asked if they ask a question and you know the right answer wether you follow it or not your not the one who wants help.so the answer as long as its valid should always be in the best interest of what the other person is asking.if you feel your doing the opposite of what you need to be then thats a personal problem to correct.always give a valid response that pertains to the question and will help the person asking it.
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well i've noticed a few people around my school with these gorgeous deep blue/green/teal color eyes. once i ask them about it, they say it's certain contacts they use that have a tint in them. i think they're eyes are like absoluely beautiful and i was wondering would it be safe for me if i started using contacts to get the same affect. i have 20/20 eye sight and i don't want to mess it up! Right now, i have green eyes, but i really want them to stand out! I was wondering if it would be safe to wear contacts the whole day, everyday, but only for visual affects (nothing that helps eye sight). also, whats your opinion on this? do you think this looks cheap and fake? thank you for your advice! (link)
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what you would want is color contacts they come in all diffrent colors you can get them from an eyedoctor but they make them for people who have 20/20 vision just specify that you dont need them to correct your vision and that you want just the plain colored ones. you should beable to find the one you want because they have a large variety of colors.as far as looks go i think it looks prety it just depends on what you feel comfortable with.everyones diffrent it no difffrent then wearing make up or coloring hair.
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The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.
What does everyone think of this plan?
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no i think that if someone really wanted you hed stay with you even if you werent doing anything sexual despite how horny he is. there are tons of girls who are willing to do that and more and hell just keep going from one to the other. if he doesnt like you then hes not going to stay for that reason because he can always find someone whos willing to do that and more so i dont really think its a good plan i think you need to find someone who likes you for who you are not what your doing. just about anyone can do that its not the 7th wonder and you shouldnt feel pressured.if he just want action hes being disrespectful and needs to grow up befor he even thinks that hes worthy of you or any other female.
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Should you use hot or cold water to wash your face. I heard one of them was better than the other. (link)
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its not really that ones better...really you should use both. because hot water opens your pores so you ca cleanse them but youll need to close pore back up with cold water. thats the diffrence hot opens them and cold closes pours.
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I am 51, my mom is 80. How do I handle her when we go shopping and she starts to lecture me that I am spending too much money and I really dont need to buy any more clothes unless I see something special. You see I get angry and say how dare she make comments and tell me what to do and how to do it and what to buy. HELP (link)
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have you ever considered going shopping by your self.if you cant then ignore her i know its aggravating but she cant control your haands so just go about what your doing like you dont hear her. its not like she can physically stop you.
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Theres this guy we are kinda going out he tells me he loves me and i love him as well but he says I love you to other girls and flirts with them as well.
So I'm thinking that I'm being played here
whats going on? (link)
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i agree hes the type of guy thats into manipulation or hes one of those people who adds i love you to their normal vocabulary.if he loved you you wouldnt be kinda going out you would be going out for sure.if you are doing sexual things i would say your being played. hes probably doing it to other girls that you dont knnow about your not with him 24/7.
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does anyone know of any catalogs that i can order though the mail that have stuff that remind you of a fairy,fairy tale a little gothic victorian or belly dancer gypsy but still sexy and sophisticated and feminin all in one not baggy and bulgy.i like clothes that fit close to my body. not gypsy rose,romans,body central,or urban out fitters.
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something thats not to expensive
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well ive been hooking up with this boy who ive liked for like three years.. i used to hook up with him before too, we hooked up for like 1 year and well i kinda got attatched, and well i know that im hooking up with him now, but theres something bad about that... he has a girlfriend.. and i know thats bad but i cant help it, cuz ill say to him that im not gonna hook up with him on the phone or sumthin and then when he goes to kiss me i cant help it, i kiss back, i like him too much and i cant say no to him... i dont know what to do, he chills with my main group of friends so its not like i can just ignore him either you know? .. please, help me...
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you can ignore him and disconnect your self from him you dont owe him attention. i have people who are friends of mine that i dont like and dont hang out withjust specify you dont want to hang out with him and hangout with your other friends seprately.it can be done their not surgically attached to him. if they have a problem tell them why. you need to find a new guy to like if he treats his girl friend like this then hes not going to treat you anybetter. he thinks hes hott stuff and like manipulation.
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can pitbulls kill u? (link)
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yeah so can just about any dog thats good size and can pin you down and bite, really if theryre raised mean.. but the thing about pit bulls is they actually maul you to death or near death and rip your face apart.now i have heard of some nice pitbulls but alot of people raise them to be mean and for dog fighting. there have been alot of case of them mauling and killing toddlers but youve got to take in consideration of how theyre brought up the owner that goes for any dog though
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