HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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PLEASE KEEP in mind she only said the nasty thing about online advice websites when we were fighting. Three days ago my mom was cranky and
kept snapping at me to the point we had a a tiff. During the course of the fight she said; I
know you ask questions about weight and other things on the computer, these people are
not experts, I see what you do; (But she really does not see because I log out when she
comes near my computer) And of course she and I went back and forth saying nasty things
to one another. (But I like asking and getting advice on Advicenators and other websites
like Advicenators and the advice makes me feel better.) SO MY QUESTION: If you were
me (or even it happened to you) and someone criticizes the people that you get advice
from online how would you handle it? I mean would you ignore, defend it or other (and
tell me what the other is) and why (link)
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I agree with your mom,we are not experts,were just a bunch of teenagers that went thru shit and giving out our expeirence to the unexpereinced people so they dont make the same mistakes we did.If i were you id tell your mom that id be glad to quit advice websites IF you help me solve alllllll my problems and your willing to listen then why should i waste my time typing out all my problems?Give it a try,noone will know better then your mom anyway,if she helps you out then listen to her.If she doesnt then you have no choice but to stick to advicenators.
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K, so there's this guy I like, he's a senior, I'm a sophomore, the entire year has been filled with awkward moments (like, borderline does he like me? moments.) He has a girlfriend, and he flirts with me a lot.
1. He tricked me into offering him a blow job. embarrasing situation ensues.
2. When I said I didn't have a cell phone, he said that I should get one and let him drunk dial him at three in the morning.
... huh? what the heck does that all mean? (link)
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he took advantage of the fact that you like him,into using you for sexuall stuff.He found out "hey since she likes me shes willimg to do anything i want her to so why not?"He flirts with you to get you to like him and when you do,he asks you to do shit.AND hes cheating on his girlfreind!What makes you think that even if he breaks up with her to get with you that he wont break up with you to get with another girl!Hes not the type youd like in a relationship TRUST me.Dont let him take advantage of you that way and dont give him any attention.
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22/f
Ok some of might read the questions I had about this guy named Brent I met at the club and everything. we dance, we talk about everything like we have known each other for yrs, we have even kissed and I don’t kiss just anybody. It was all going great until something that he said. I had wanted him to come up to my town one day(we live 2 hrs apart and the club is an hour away for both of us) and I basically got shut down, he said “no I don’t think so, it is so far away, and gas is too expensive" I only wanted just one day no more. so I am hurt that he shut me down after I went all the way to where he lived.
Any who I have this other guy that I have been friends with since High school. Chris. well I kinda knew Chris always liked me but then I was not into liking guys that were younger then me.(He is over a yr younger then me and I know that was a silly reason to not like him. high school was 4 yrs ago and I think differently now.)well even after high school we kept in touch when we weren’t in school or work. Also we went to the same church so we kinda knew each others families. Then 2 yrs ago he had to move to Arizona with his family.( I live in northern Cali) well at his going away party( 2 days before he was leaving) we were watching this movie and wrestling around tickling and we started kissing. I am not really that type of person and there were people around us. usually I am really shy about stuff like that. So I got to hang out with Chris the next day ( last day before he left) so we have been trying to keep in contact since he has been down in Arizona. Sometimes there would be spurts like a month or 2 where we don’t hear from one another because of school or work. Also Chris had a spill of bad depression too. Worse than what he has had in the past. which I was able to help him out of it. Never anything dangerous though. He couldn’t hurt a fly. But we have been communicating a lot more lately like we used to. Wants me to go down and visit. he even made an effort to come and visit up here. over 12 hrs of driving. And says he still cares for me the way he did in the first place and would let nothing ever hurt me. He never has and never will. Well he just told he may be moving again but now only an hour away from me!!
Now I don’t really know what to do. Do I try to make things work with Brent or do I wait for Chris to move back? I need reassurance!! Thank you! (link)
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brent is cheap and outta the question.Dont even think about waiting for him.If you ever get with him youll regret it cuza how cheap he is.If he really liked you money would be no object.You can wait for that other guy if you think things really would work out for the two of you.If hes coming to visit you then you should wait for him.
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im really worried because i have mixed feelings 4 my teacher shes lovely and a young woman i am a 13 year old girl
i dont think i fancy her but i always want to talk to her and we=hen she complimants me i blush!
i have a boyfriend and am attracted to him help me.i have lots of girl friends at school , i am always looking for an excuse to talk to my teacher
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No i really dont think you have feelings THAT way for your teacher.You just love her very much and think shes pretty and your kinda shy of her.Thats normal you kinda respect her which makes you shy from her.And knowing that she loves you so much makes you love her more.Thats really sweet and normal dont worry.
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Hey what do y'all think this quote means? "Everything has a price, but only humans have worth" like i understand it, and like it to be honest, but i dont get what his point with the quote is, what was he trying to prove/say with it? Like is he talking about how if it costs a lot of money to save someone's life you should still choose to waste all tthat money cause the life has value? or what exactly is he trying to say? (link)
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It means that everything in the world can be bought like fame has its price,designer brand clothes and everything eles.All except for humans,you cant but them.You cant buy their love and feelings for you.
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Do you believe that people are evil because of some flaw they have, or a lack of something maybe, and they sort of project it on to others? (link)
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i dont think anyone was born evil,God created everyone pure,a baby.Its the society that you decide to be with that changes you.Grudges and hatred and jelousy arent evil,theyre feelings that have fed upon you because you were prevented from things you wanted when you were younger and these feelings grew with you.I think the only evil is doing something wrong and not knowing what your doing is wrong,thats the worst kinda evil cuz you never know who your hurting and you just keep going on and on and it gets bigger.Everyone has flaws and noones perfect,everyone has to have flaws.And another kinda evil is ignorance and pride.Pride makes you feel higher then everyone making you start to look down and dislike people and you never get along with them if your pride gets too big.And ignorance is being evil to yourself not to the society.
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Well when i was in 7th grade i started to cut and have not been able to stop and i started because of my family my mom and dad always fought and my grandmother was always faking sick to get attention and i would lock myself in my room and would cut can anyone help me? (link)
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ok before i answer your question i have one.Did cutting yourself help you solve your problems?Did it make your parents stop fighting?DID they even know??i dont think so!!you know if that knife touches ONE,just ONE nerve in your arm your DEAD!!yep,itll all end in a second and im sure you wouldnt like that!When facing problems never cutt yourself,it will not only bruise your arm but your spirit too!!Cuz when you grow older and look at the scars youll get depressed AGAIN.EVeryone has problems,its inevitable,you cant not have problems.But the smart one is the one that know how to deal with it the RIGHT way.When your angry quickly pick up the phone and let it out to a trusty person!Or take out a diary and let it aaaalll out.Or just cry your ass of and punch something really hard.And use your MIND the greatest gift god gave us to think it thru.Nothing stays the same,whoever has problems will one day have them solved and whoever doesnt have problems one day will.ITS ALL experience in the end and makes you stronger.So dont EVER touch that knife again,think about your future and how you want it,have an aim in life,a reason to live.
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when someone knocks on a bathroom door and your inside, what are you supposed to say? haha i know its a stupid question but i dont know what to say. (link)
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one minute please would be the best thing to say
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My dad died in febuary and he was a drug addict but really trying to quit before he died, he never wanted me to turn to drugs but I did
And I did before he passed.
and one time I was about to do drugs and I was walking down the hall to the bathroom and my dads ghost appeared and started walking towards me and he gave me this face like kinda sad because he didn't want me to do those things.
I fell on the floor crying my eyes out and I feel so bad about everything and how I still didn't stop after that happened.
Maybe I just didn't know exactly what it meant at the time
Because me and my dad were so close some lady said if he would appear to anyone it would be me and he did.
I've been thinking about this a lot and I just really don't want to disappoint him.
I don't really know what to ask but what do you think of this?
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i think that ghosts do exist and your definetly not seeing things,its possible.Your dad fealt what you were about to do,he saw that you were about to make the same mistake he did and end up having the same fait he did so he came for you,DO NOT dissapoint him!!!
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15 (almost 16 =]]) and female..
recently i've been like wanting to do bad stuff. its really weird. but first lemme tell you aboutmyself. i've never kissed a boy or done anything with besides hug. i've never smoked pot, cigarrets, or draken beer. but then recently i've had like this weird wanting feeling? like i want to just like walk up to a guy and make out with him and do crap. but i really want my first kiss to be special but the older i get i worry its not gunna happen so i should just forget about it and just mess around with boys and have fun. and i've never had a bf so i've always been single and noothing good had come out of it. and then like my father smokes and i hate it. but i wanna smoke and i don't understand why. and then like i really wanna know what its like to get high and shit. but i KNOW i don't wanna do that but for some reason feel like i want to. same thing with drinkin i really wanna go out and just get wasted. and ugh idk why. can anyone help me. idk what to do i want this "wanting" feel to go away case i wanna be a good person.
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its ok to want to do allthat,we all do.But comeon your such a pure girl,i really respect you.Dont be like them sluts that go off kissing any guy,theyre sluts and theyre reputation is always down the drain.Do you wana be like that,and everyone to call the respectful innocent girl a new whore??i dont think so!!smoking and drinking are for narrow minded people that just get influenced by anything their freinds do,you seem to be very open minded for thinking twice before your actions.Dont ruin all the good in you.Let your first kiss be special and dont do it cuza peer pressure.Hope you think twice cuz the people that dont are the ones that have alot of regrets in life
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ok first of all for 2 years now, people have been spreading rumors about me saying that i am bisexual and IM NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! today i got this really rude note from a girl named " hilary" ( i dont really think someone named hilary wrote it)
this is what is says:
Shelby,
you are a hore. some people even think that you are bisexual. i know thats what i belive. i know this because of last year. by the way, your ex boyfriend tyler said eww when he heard that you like other wemon.
Chow,
hilary
this is really making me mad and depressed. I DO NOT LIKE WEMON~!~~~~~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IM STRAIGHTER THAN A BOARD!!!!!!!!! I HATE THIS!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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ok listen to me and noone will call you a bisexual again...GO UP TO THAT HILARY gurl and say this to her face......hilary,you are a no good slut,if you have anything to say say it to my face not in a not BITCH and you slap her rite THERE!!!!!!ok she might hit u back but it aint gonna kill you.She will never mess with you again.And as long as you know your not bi then nothing matters!!
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Does water make you gain weight? I know in the long run that it makes you lose weight, but if you drank a lot of water in one day & weighed yourself, would you weigh more? Thanks! (link)
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no not at all,its water,compleetly calorieless!!unless you drink and eat at the same time then any drink would make you gain weight
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Hi Carmella!
One of my close new friends in the city I recently moved to is Muslim - sunni. I was hoping you could answer some of my lingering questions that I feel dumb asking her.
1. when does someone start wearing the scarf?
2. why is it that in some of her pictures she isn't wearing it?
3. what are some basic beliefs?
I'm just really curious.. thanks! (link)
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hi!well you can ask me whatever you want without having to feel dumb ^_^ ok for your first question muslim women are suppoesd to wear the scarf around their heads(its called hijab) to cover their hair completly and their bodies.For example shes not suppoesd to wear short sleeves or shorts or anything exposing her body.Why?its because in islam Allah(god) asked muslim women to wear it because Allah wants to protect muslim women.How??For example,if theres a beaautiful chocolat cake and another cake but covered in cardboard box...which cake would you aim to eat first??the easy one!!Its kind of the same thing,When a girl goes out wearing exposing clothes there are more chances for her to get raped or sexually harrased then a woman who is covereing her body,its a sign of modesty.Thats for your first question,second...If your freind shows her pics without the scarf to guy freinds then she should stop because its sinful,its like shes lying to God wearing it infront of certain people and taking it off infront of others.A muslim woman is suppoesd to wear it when she gets her period cuz thats when you get puberty and your body starts developing and guys start checking you out.As for your third question,islam means submission to god and its a religion that beilives in Allah and that he is the creator of the universe and he has no sons or family and he created everything all by himslef.Our prophet is mohammed and he is the one that came with our holy book the quran.The quran has the beilifes of islam from the start to the end.To be muslim you have to do five things,(1)say the shahada(bearing witness)that there is no god but allah and mohamed is his messenger) (2)you have to pray 5 times a day(3)you have to fast the holy month of ramadan.In ramadan its this month of the year where muslims dont eat untill like 5pm.They do this because allah wants us to feel the hunger and thirst the pooor people feel that have no money at all,and we thank him this month for the blessings he gave us.(4)You should give money to the poor(5)you should go to hijj(pilgrimage)but only if you can afford it,pilgrimage is when you travel to this place in saudi arabia to pray there and when you do,all your sins are forgiven,maany miiracles happened there and there are many miracles that happend in islam.And muslims beilive in all the prophets by the way they dont have anything against any prophet,we just dont beilive that jesus is the son of god.Because if jesus was,that would mean he is half god....and how did he die if he was god?People that say islam is terrorism are ignorant and blinde because they should learn about the religion first then critisize it based on what they know.People that suicide bomb themselves that are muslims there are forced to do this because they have no choice,they kill a bunch of people that attack them with one blow in order to protect their familys....not a smart idea but that dont make muslims bad people,theyre very pure,very honest and always willing to help.Well,thats just a head start about my religion,if you have any other questions feel free to ask,hope this helped^_^
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so i went to a concert yesterday (im 13) with my cousin and his friends (sophomores) and well my cousin kept ignoring me like he would take pics of him and his friends and leave me out and like walk with his friends and leave me behind and stuff. I mean i get that hes in high school and wants to hang out with his friends but completely excluding me is ridiculus! so now im in NONE of the concert pictures and the thing is, his friends are having a surprise party for him and they invited me but i dont know any of them and i know i will barely get to talk to my cousin so should i go or not because i see him so much its not even funny. and he ALWAYS makes fun of me calling me fat and ugly and at the concert in front of all of his friends he was like, "wow you're a mess! look at your face! Your hair is a mess!" i mean he puts me down and i get all sad about it but i always have this urge to be near him. so i think i want to take some time off of him is that a good idea? and should i go to the party or not? (link)
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hell no way.If you do go you have no dignity meaning you let him walk all over you and treat you like trash and still you hang out with him.If he excluded you then dont bother showingup at the party cuz hes gonna do it again and make you look really bad,he makes fun of you and you still want to hang out with him?!?!you seem like a really sweet person but that aint gonna work.DONT go.
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What color highlights would look good in dark brunnette hair? (link)
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i would highly recommend a lighter shade of brown on your dark brown hair.It will look beaaautiful and so natural.Not like light,light brown, but a lighter shade then your hair color would be perfect.The second best you can try is a dark red color,that will look great too.I dont think blonde will look nice,itll be so out there and standing out and that wont look good cuz your hair is dark and the bloned is llight so itll look mad weird.Because the blonde is several shades lighter then brown itll look weird and fake.Hope this helped you
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okay um this is probably not in the right category, sorry.
13/f
so i've heard a lot of people at my school think i am annoying. i honestly don't know why they think that. i don't think i do anything annoying. what could be some things that would make people think that about me?
also, how can i be less annoying?
thanks a bunch [: (link)
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ok i would usualuu asnwer a question like this by saying "shouldnt care about what people say" but something like this,people are hatin on you or bitchin about you,theyre saying a fact probably or describing you truely.Mabey they find you annoying if for example,2 people are talking and you dont know what theyre talking about so you get all mad and pissed at them or if you keep begging to know a secret from them or if you get mad if one of your freinds doesnt hang out with you for like one or two days.These are all things that can make people think your annoying.If you dont do any of that then theyre probably just retarted people uou shouldnt care about cuz theyre only hating on you and have nothing better to do then talk about people and they hate you cuz they aint you^_^
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im starting to have alot of problems in life. i need alot help. does anyone know or is an advicenator that can help me with my life, friends, my parents, love, hate, and labels shes haveing trouble trough it too i need her experience. i searched someone on here and i forgot her name shes 13. does anyone know her name. (link)
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i dont know her im sorry but i would be more then glad to help you have a better outlook on life.You can drop your question in my inbox and im sure ill help you or you can talk to me on msn or myspace if you have that,if you do tell me and ill give you mine.
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Whenever I get high I can still feel it the next morning after I wake up.
Like normally when I get high, I lose control of my body, and right now I can't feel my arms typing too easiyl but typing isnt too hard because its my arms I can't feel, not my fingers.
I've only done it twice and never plan on doing it again because I HAAATE it
So is that normal to feel sorta highish the next morning, like im not high, but sort of dizzy. (link)
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ofcourse,this is the aftermath of taking marijuana.ITll take a while to wear off thou dont worry it will.Just never take it again or the effects will be worse.It can even cause hallucinating!
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My heart was recently broken any suggestions on how to fix it and to forget about the girl? (link)
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get with a new girl,shell make you forget about the old one and throw away anything that reminds you of your ex girl.Make room for the new one!
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Can anyone here explain this to me?
If somebody kills a pregnant woman, then why would they ever be charged for two murders, instead of one? It seems to be in conflict with laws that permit an abortion. A woman can legally choose whether or not the baby can grow, develop, and live within her. If somebody makes that same choice by killing the mother, then wouldn't it make sense that only murder was made, not two? I'm not arguing for or against abortion, but rather don't see how these two laws can remain in effect when they contradict each other. Any information would be helpful, thank you.
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if you kill a pregnant lady itd be fair that ud be charged with 2 murders because you not only killed a woman,but a child that wasa growing inside of her,BUT some laws permit abortion and that is fair,ill tell you how.When a woman realizes that she cant support her child,she gets rid of him,they permit this because imagine that the lady cant support the child.She might go stealing to get money for the kid or even worse,she can give the kid to abortion and the kid might grow up doing illegal things and itll be her fault!
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