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why do i wanna be bad?
15 (almost 16 =]]) and female..
recently i've been like wanting to do bad stuff. its really weird. but first lemme tell you aboutmyself. i've never kissed a boy or done anything with besides hug. i've never smoked pot, cigarrets, or draken beer. but then recently i've had like this weird wanting feeling? like i want to just like walk up to a guy and make out with him and do crap. but i really want my first kiss to be special but the older i get i worry its not gunna happen so i should just forget about it and just mess around with boys and have fun. and i've never had a bf so i've always been single and noothing good had come out of it. and then like my father smokes and i hate it. but i wanna smoke and i don't understand why. and then like i really wanna know what its like to get high and shit. but i KNOW i don't wanna do that but for some reason feel like i want to. same thing with drinkin i really wanna go out and just get wasted. and ugh idk why. can anyone help me. idk what to do i want this "wanting" feel to go away case i wanna be a good person.
thanks for reading
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its ok to want to do allthat,we all do.But comeon your such a pure girl,i really respect you.Dont be like them sluts that go off kissing any guy,theyre sluts and theyre reputation is always down the drain.Do you wana be like that,and everyone to call the respectful innocent girl a new whore??i dont think so!!smoking and drinking are for narrow minded people that just get influenced by anything their freinds do,you seem to be very open minded for thinking twice before your actions.Dont ruin all the good in you.Let your first kiss be special and dont do it cuza peer pressure.Hope you think twice cuz the people that dont are the ones that have alot of regrets in life
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The truth is that everyone experiences what you are experiencing right now.
During puberty your body and personality starts to change rapidly. Part of what you're experiencing-sexual curiousity-is caused by a hormone caused testosterone. Right now your body is producing a lot of that hormone. Another part of what you're experiencing is human curiosity... Which is a big part of your psychological development. Your going to start asking yourself a lot of questions... And that's okay. It's part of the process of discovering who you are. Sometimes it's not enough to be told not to do something. For most of us... We have to experience things ourselves and make our own mistakes. That's just part of growing up.
I'm not suggesting that you do any of these things, I'm trying to explain your inclination to behave a particular way and assure you that it's normal. I think that you should stick to your values... Because you are at a stage in your life when you are going to start realizing just how necessary values are.
And BTW, don't worry about being sixteen and not having a boyfriend. Or being kissed yet. This is more common than you think, and I can tell you with certainty that you aren't going to be single forever. Infact... I think it's a good thing that you aren't distracted by a boyfriend right now. This is the time of your life to discover who you are, decide who you want to be, and pursue your dreams. Take this opportunity, don't try to grow up to fast, enjoy the here and the now. ;)
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I believe you are just going through that "experimenting" stage. I went through it also. It's like all the stuff that you know is wrong you want to try. I always wanted to try wine coolers and stuff like that when I was in middle school. I never really wanted to try drugs though. But my advice to you is try to control yourself, it might look like it's pretty fun to do all those things but in reality it's not. Try a new activity that you haven't tried before or start up a new hobby. If you concentrate on trying those "bad" things, you'll end up making a big mistake. Remember you may not be able to stop something once you start. Let say this though - kissing a boy isn't a bad thing, I was talking about the other things. Just wait on that first kiss so it will be special, don't just jump on the first guy you see (joking). But really everyone goes through that wanna be a bad girl stage, but remember reputations are hard to fix. Enjoy your youth safely.
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i think you want to expirience something that you arent used to, your bored with your life as of now, because you know whats going on in it. but on the other hand, you have no idea what would happen if you strayed from the usual. so your just questioning your life choices.
you should stick to what you have now in my opinion, because once you start doing bad stuff, youll get bored with that, and want to move on teh something else. thats usually how good people, end up doing bad stuff. so wait around for the right guy, stay away from alchahol and smoking, and everything will fall into place whaen your ready.
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