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I dont know what to do! who do I choose?? sorry this is lon
22/f
Ok some of might read the questions I had about this guy named Brent I met at the club and everything. we dance, we talk about everything like we have known each other for yrs, we have even kissed and I don’t kiss just anybody. It was all going great until something that he said. I had wanted him to come up to my town one day(we live 2 hrs apart and the club is an hour away for both of us) and I basically got shut down, he said “no I don’t think so, it is so far away, and gas is too expensive" I only wanted just one day no more. so I am hurt that he shut me down after I went all the way to where he lived.
Any who I have this other guy that I have been friends with since High school. Chris. well I kinda knew Chris always liked me but then I was not into liking guys that were younger then me.(He is over a yr younger then me and I know that was a silly reason to not like him. high school was 4 yrs ago and I think differently now.)well even after high school we kept in touch when we weren’t in school or work. Also we went to the same church so we kinda knew each others families. Then 2 yrs ago he had to move to Arizona with his family.( I live in northern Cali) well at his going away party( 2 days before he was leaving) we were watching this movie and wrestling around tickling and we started kissing. I am not really that type of person and there were people around us. usually I am really shy about stuff like that. So I got to hang out with Chris the next day ( last day before he left) so we have been trying to keep in contact since he has been down in Arizona. Sometimes there would be spurts like a month or 2 where we don’t hear from one another because of school or work. Also Chris had a spill of bad depression too. Worse than what he has had in the past. which I was able to help him out of it. Never anything dangerous though. He couldn’t hurt a fly. But we have been communicating a lot more lately like we used to. Wants me to go down and visit. he even made an effort to come and visit up here. over 12 hrs of driving. And says he still cares for me the way he did in the first place and would let nothing ever hurt me. He never has and never will. Well he just told he may be moving again but now only an hour away from me!!
Now I don’t really know what to do. Do I try to make things work with Brent or do I wait for Chris to move back? I need reassurance!! Thank you!
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brent is cheap and outta the question.Dont even think about waiting for him.If you ever get with him youll regret it cuza how cheap he is.If he really liked you money would be no object.You can wait for that other guy if you think things really would work out for the two of you.If hes coming to visit you then you should wait for him.
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i really think you should wait for chris, because if he is willing to drive twelve hours to visit you, thats truly saying something and it shows he really cares...if you wait for chris i'm sure it'll be worth it
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wait for chris. it sounds like he likes you and you like him. Brent sounds like he doesnt want to give an effort to the relationship if he isnt willing to drive for 2 hours?! sorry, but thats kinda stupid. yeah gas prices are going up, but if he really cared, hed drive up to see you. especially since you drove to see him. chris seems like an amazing guy and he seems into you. he really cares if he made the effort to drive 12 hours to cali and brent wont even drive 2 hours. chris still wants to see you and cares about you alot if hes trying to get you to visit him in arizona.
if he IS moving again..that would be great! im sure things would definitely work out with you and chris.
goooood luckk =]
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