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ok theres this boy ive known for 3 years and we have a love hate relationship and right now were at the hate part and my friends keep talking to him about me and usually he would say i dont give a f*** about her well just recently someone told him that i loved him and missed him and he siad why would she want to get tied up with someone as ugly as me what would yall think
I'd say he has a low self esteem issue..he needs a lil boost of self confidence. Let him know how you feel about him& be honest with him. He obviously cares about you if he doesn't want you getting tied up with a guy like him, yet he doesn't have much self confidence in himself. Goodluck ;-)
is it bad to have sex with a dog and if it si will you go to hell b/c if u do all my frineds r goin to hell im so worried plz help me
I know who you are,& you're lucky I won't say your name on here..uhm..I REALLY hope you aren't having sex with any dogs..no you won't go to hell for it b/c it'd be your..hmm..sexual preference, just..be safe? & don't hurt the dog, okay?
ummm my pet has like aids what do i like do ?
Like you are like such a nerd! Like omg take your pet to the like..vet? hope I like..helped..
dear amber i was wonderin is it better to whack it woith lube or without and does it mater which hand i greatly greatly need ur help with this prob. and should i look at porn or use my imagination
thank you
haha you're funny ;-), lol most guys prefer like some type of lotion or something..but it all depends on what YOU like better..it doesn't matter which one, and you can use porn OR your immagination..I'm guessing they'd both work..goodluck with your problem hun! ;-)
ok im 15 are you supposed to be depressed upset and wanting to cry all the time
It happens all the time, one of my friends is suffering from depression for many reasons right now. But that's normal, it's most likely just a phase you're going through, it'll pass with time. Just hang around with people who make you happy& have fun! That's what I would do atleast, I hope I helped you out!
when should it be okay to have sex?
Whenever you're ready& with that special person..there is no age on sex..within reason, of course..just make sure you're ready for all the risks& consequences i.e getting pregnant and STD's..but most importantly BE SAFE! Goodluck!
my boobz r small wat should i do? im only 15 and i cant get sergery...i wanna let my boy friend feel on it buh im embarassed bout the size...>.
If he really cares about you your breast size shouldn't matter to him at all, don't be embarassed..it's not your fault. You really can't do anything about it, you still years to grow yet. So just live with what you have now. Big boobs aren't the greatest part of being a girl, be thankful for what you have ;-)
Ok. Well ive gone out with this guy right? Lets call him James. But that was two years ago when me and james were in the 8th grade and he didnt take relationships seriously therefore never kept a girlfriend for more than 3 weeks. So anyways now me and James are best friends, but we like each other again. I dont know if I should go out with him though because I do not want to ruin our friendship. My question is for all you guys who went through this and did go out after being best friends, when/if you guys broke up, did you stay friends? or did it change?
I've been through this a few times, and yes I stayed friends with them..just not as close of friends. Just make sure you can trust this guy, and talk to him& make sure he knows about the risk of the friendship changing afterwards. It really all depends on how strong the friendship is between you two, and how well it will hold you two together. Be careful, and GOODLUCK!
me and my boyfriend...well ex-boyfriend...broke up sunday. he broke up with me, i didn't break up with him. well the first two days after that were really awkward because we were always real good friends. well now he's starting to flirt again and do the same stuff he did right before i found out that he liked me. do you think it's him still having at least a little bit of feelings for me...or flirting to like make me feel bad or something...
Well I don't think it's to make you feel bad, but it is possible that he still has feelings for you being you two just broke up. But don't get your hopes up too high just incase, b/c you might end up gettin hurt if you expect one thing to happen and it doesn't. Just give him time. Goodluck!
ok im going out wit this guy buh he cheated on me alot and made me really sad alotta time which i dont tink itz worth being wit him buh the thing is there is this other guy in my mind buh i dunno if he likez me buh hez a good friend and really sweet wah should i do? deffinatly breakin up wit my bf rite?
Most definately! You deserve much better than that! Talk to the other guy and maybe send him some clues that he's on your mind, you never know, maybe he likes you back. Hopefully he'll treat you better than the last guy,goodluck! Hope I helped!
there is this boy in my class and he is like the most popular in the grade/skool....i like him alot cuz hes a gentleman,nice and funny. i am the tallest one in my grade and im like a couple of inches taller than him. i want to go out wiht him...but i dunno kno how its gonna work. He like trys to make me laugh andstuff but im shy when i like someone and i am around them. I think to mayself mayb i have a chance with him then i c all the other popular girls hanging around with me. How can i get him to ask me out and like me w/ my height?(plz give me ur TRUE & BEST opinion)(i hate when u say "he has to accpet u the way u are")(ps..i am not the most popular person but i am wellknown and nice to evryone therefore im not unpopluar but im not really really popluar)
THanKz...sry its long
Whether you like it or not, I'm gunna say it. He SHOULD accept you for who you are, how you look, etc. But really, drop him some hints that you're crushin on him and maybe he'll get the idea. Open up& be spontaneous to grab his attention. I've been through that a few times, only I'm shorter than everyone..heh, so I kinda know what you're going through! Goodluck hun!
i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us.
Sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel, and it's not always going to work out the way you want it to, without hurting him. Yea if he really likes you it will hurt him some, but he WILL get over it. Tell him you would prefer to just stay good friends! Hope I helped!
Ok, i have a friend, ive known her for a long time, but we just started to talk and get to know each other about a month ago. I'm finding a lot i didnt know about here, and im starting to like her as more than a friend. I told her im really starting to fall for her. She says that she dont think we could have a relationship for 2 reaons. 1. Because she likes someone else, and she doesnt want to get with me to just get over that other guy and hurt me in the process. basicly she doesnt want to use me. and 2. We've known each other for such a long time that she hasnt thought of me like that. The problem is, she still heavily flirts with me and acts like she wants to be with me. So do you think i have a chance?
Well she has a good point, you're lucky she realized she doesn't want to use you. Sometimes close friends will flirt without liking you that way, but it IS possible for her to have some feelings for you. Just give her time to get over the other guy and then bring it up again later. Just remember there are consequences and risks you have to take for dating your good friends, I learned the hard way :/ Goodluck hun!
theres this guy that goes to my friends school....... My friends want me to go out with him for a week bc they feel bad for him.....but of course i wont.... so he asked me out like 20 times and i said nooooo and tell him i have a bf sooo he doesnt ask me out.... but he still does...... i dont want to go out with him bc hes not, not, not my type. He asks my friends when my birthday is and its soon so hes getting me something... what to i do to make him stop
Well I'm really glad that you chose not to go out with him b/c of pitty, that was wrong for your friends to even think of that. You can talk to him and just tell him that you're not interested or that you don't want a relationship right now, other than that there's not much else you can do. Goodluck!
ok well me and my boyfriend really love each other and like he made out wit anotha gurl once cuz he waz drunk so im like ok ill forgive u then couple monthz later he kissez my best friend!! but no thatz not it! there waz a dance and we had fun 2gether and after the dance i found out he made out wit her! he waznt drunk this time!! so we broke up and now i fogive him cus i really love him and no i juss found out he f*$# another gurl and she had all these hicky and i juzz found out it waz him who gave her the hicky...wat should i do now? we havent broke up yet, should i still be with him and give him annother chance or should i break up with him?
Break up with him, if he truely loved you& cared for you he wouldn't cheat on you like he did, especially more than once! I understand that it will be hard b/c you love him..but you do honestly wanna be with someone who doesn't respect you? Think about that, hope I helped!
Well ther is a boy I like at school who is really ugly but hez extremely funny and none of my friends know cuz they have crushes on him too! So this is a total secret but anywayz hez like my best friend thts a guy! Well Monday he had a bee stinger stuck in him and well he hasn't been to school since monday.... i know this is really stupid but i'm scared hez allergic to bees and they couldn't get the stinger out...I am scared okay! I have his number cuz its in our school directory...but I wouldn't call him unless my friends were over n i'm havin one come over saturday..if he doesn't show up at school tomorrow should i call n see if hez ok? Also tell me if I should be scared!
Please Help Me I am soooooo scared!
You have every right to be scared, he's your best guy friend and so of course you're worried. My best guy friend is allergic to bees, but I'd call him ASAP if I were you, just to check and see if he's okay. Also, you shouldn't be afraid or anything to call him by yourself, hope I helped ;-)