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haha ok, i like my brothers friend.. and they are pretty good friends not best. I think he likes me cus hes all flirty and stuff and ahh...idk what to do. bleh, plus hes like 2 yrs older than me or more... idk... my brother mentioned something about his friends liking me or something.. idk.. and he said his name i was like WOW but idk.. what can i do?!?!?! bleh thank you very much for listening to me

WeLl iF yoUR CloSe TO YoUR bRoTher- thEn asK hiM a favor- ask him to ask his friend what he thinks about yah just out of curiosity- and then have your brother tell yah what he says! but if he wont then you can or you dont wanna tell your brother- when his friends ova flirt and talk to him- maybe his friend said something

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple months and I very much enjoy kissing him. The problem is, he always makes the first move. Out of all of my boyfriends, I've never made any first moves or anything. I want to just try something new and make my boyfriend realize I'm spontaneous, sexy and not shy. Any kissing techniques I could use on him? I really don't want to come off like I'm trying too hard, but I need help to get over this shy thing I have with my own boyfriend!

Yah WHiLE HEs SiTtin NExt TO yah.. You can kiss his NeCk a couple times itz a sensitve spot .. then LOOk At HIm And MAke YOur MOve IN to Kiss HIm...So THeN Your MAkIN thE 1sT moVe!

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Does anyone know how long you are supposed to take birth control before it starts to work?

WeLL IT DepEnds ON wHEn YOuR sTaRTing The PiLL. Your DoCtoR will TeLl you whether to start taking the Pill on the first day of your period ("first day starters") or on a Sunday ("Sunday starters").


If you TAke It DuRIng YOur PErIod - you will take the first active pill of the first pack during the first 24 hours of your period. You will be protected from pregnancy immediately and protection will continue as long as the Pill is taken on schedule. If you are a "Sunday starter," you will take the first active pill of the first pack on the Sunday after your period starts — even if you are still bleeding. If your period begins on Sunday, start the pack that same day.

IF YOu TakE iT ON a SunDay YOu should use another method of birth control during vaginal intercourse during the first week of pill use — any time from the Sunday you start your first pack until the next Sunday. Pill protection will begin after seven days and continues as long as the Pill is taken on schedule.


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ok so theres this new girl at school whos really cool and stuff and she invited me to her birthday party coming up this weekend and i dont know what to get her and when i ask her she just says "oh you dont have to get me anything" which means get me somthing but im not gonna tel you what i want got anyideas for what i should get her?

YOu Could get her:

Candy And A GiFt CerTificate to LIke HOLISTER,american eagle,abercrombie, or A cUte ClOThEs StORe!

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okay well i really like this guy lets call him joe, well everytime i look at joe i catch him looking at me and he blushes and his whole face turns red it is really cute anyway well my friend said she would ask him if he was going to the dance and if he would go with me [we are having a dance] i also found out he likes me too. so she asked him and he said no to both questions. what does that mean??

Seems like hes too shy to say yes and doesnt want to show you that he likes you... but maybe the reason he said no was b/c hes not even planning on going to the dance

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hi um i went on a cruise this summer and bein that i live in virginia there was gonna be people from all ova the united states there and alot of boyz tried to get wit me but i liked this one boy.then on the last day of the cruise i had my first kiss with him we were makin out the whole night.then when i got off the boat i planned on goin back to my regular life cause he lives in florida and i wont be able to see him again but i cant get another boyfriend. i mean yea alot of boyz asked me out but i keep turnin them down the boy i longed 4 b4 the cruise asked me out and i turned him down whats wrong with me

im 14 and a female

NooThings wrong maybe your just not ready for a relationship, scared to commit, or just dont wanna get hurt. ITs PERfectly normal to be living the single life- when your ready youll be ready- but it seems like for now you just dont wannt a realationship- but if yah like the guy the you longed for then just try it out and see how it goes

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Okay, I got this male best friend, he is one of the most sweetest boyz in the world, and we both know eachother EXTREMELY WELL. But see I hooked him up with on of my buddiez, and I just realized how much a cared for him when I noticed how jealous I was when they both started talking. Now he knows my situation and we still good friends and all. But now it's gotten to the point to where I can't look at him the same. And I feel bad cause I am jux that jealous. But he knows my heart and he knows the kind of person I am. So do anyone think he'll come around or anything like that? I know I got him thinkin about it cause I tell him all the time. I really really do love him alot, and I'd give my life for him anyday and he knows it....it's just weird cause he is my bestfriend....so what should I do?

Maybe he feels the same way but just isn't ready to tell you. but im thinking he will come around just give it some time! BeiNG friendz w. the guy befor a relationship is usually a really good thing b/c yall know eachother, feel comfortable around eachother, and besides having a boyfriend is like having a bestfriend- yall do alot together and tell eachother everything!

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i just got my period and its gross and scary and its my first time help me.

@ first its scary but then after a while youll get used to them- youll have to decide whether your gonna wear tampons or pads- AnD then B4 yOU know iT itLl be Over w.! The first few times you usually dont get bad cramps or even cramps at all but as time goes on you will-

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how do you tell when contact lenses are expired?

USually AfTer 2 WeeKs

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heyyy every time i straigten my hair in the morning it takes like an hour and its like sooo perfectly straight every morning...but then at school its humid andd it gets all curly and looks bad. do you know why it does this? is it cuz my hair kind of has a natural wave to it or cuz my straigtener is not good enough?? if you know anything thatll help this or why this is happeninng lemme know thanks

you can get a hair defrizzer and spray it on before you do your hair- bring a brush to school and brush it to keep the frizziness down

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i just got contacts on saturday and i like them alot and everything but the thing is i can't really see that good with them on. i don't know if i put them on wrong or my eye doctor gave me the wrong prescription. is it normal not to be able to see for the first couple of days you get contacts? or did i do something wrong?


p.s.- i always put the right contact in the correct eye... i have it in an order so i know that they are going in the right eye.

YEah IT usually takes time to get used to them- When I fIRst GoT mINE i couldnt even read up close at all everything was blury but then it got alot better! but if its not any better in a couple days contact the doctor and tell him- cuz maybe u need a diff perscription-

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

ITs PErFectly normal.. as you get a lil older guyz will start to notice you more and in highschool youll meet a lot of new guys! soo just be patient and enjoy the single life for now!

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I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him

Tell him your feelings! HE May FeEl the ExaCT sAmE way!

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im a virgin...but i want to know how to tell my boyfriend i wanna loose it with him..we have talked about it it alott...and hes a virgin too..he tells me he found the right person which is me and i told him the same but i dont know how to tell him i want to loose it with him..can someone tell me how i can do tell him that i want to loose my virginity with him??

-WaNting To LooSe iT-

When yall are on the phone bring you can try to bring up the subject tell him you love him and everything and that your ready ... or when yall are together if yall start to do stuff be like im ready if your ready- and then it can just lead on to it- when the moments right itll happen

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Well my best friend is going to move in a bit and well I wont see her that much, well I have a lot of guy friends and I want to become best friends with them.. will people think i am too much of a flirt? Is it ok.. do you think its alright? I mean it shouldnt be a big deal but I am afraid people with think i am a big flirt and stuff if i do that but i have a lot of good guys friends and i wanna be a best friend with one!Tell me what i should do

Dont care what other people think. theres nothing wrong with having guys as friends or even best friends.

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I need help! I love my sister to death but she is so annoying! I have no privacy and she always get's her way, I'm 13 she's 8. I really need help! Don't say talk to her, it didn't work.

Spend some time with her so she wont always try and bother you- once you give her attention she'll leave you alone- and maybe you can tell her like if yah leave me alone for a lil bit then ill do sumthin fun w. yah- yah i have a 10 yr old sister but it gets alot better when shes older.

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okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy?

if you like him then go for it!

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dumb question... tomorrow is the first day of skool and i dont no what to wear lol. im going into 9th grade. should i wear a skirt, should i wear capris, should i wear jeans? uh help! srry its so dumb but going into high skool ive been stressing out soooooo much. just give me ur opinion

go w. casually dressy- a skirt w. a cute top- or jeans w. a dressy top

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Ever since i could remember i'v always had low self esteem. I feel weird when i'm around guys like im the uglyist person there so i always shut up and keep quiet unless someone says something to me but i make it breif. I'v made a little progress with the talking in groups of people this year but i still don't like myself. I feel that i hate everything about me,but im not suicidal. What could i do to make myself possibly like me more?

well just think positive about yourself- the way u think effects the way you act- if u think positve about urself and act confident that is what peopleare going to see u as- but if u think low of ur self- then people can tell

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I have a bff, and a really good friend. My bff and I are EXTREMELY close. My really good friend gets all mad and jealous. What should i do?

hang out w. all of them that way no one gets left out- try to pay attention to both of them

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