Okay, I just got my belly button pierced like 2 or 3 days ago, and I was wandering if it would be ok to change the little balls on it? or should I just wait four months?
You don't want to even really touch the piercing (besides when you clean it), until it's fully healed.
And I'm not sure what other piercings would have to do with this...
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I was wondering what some of the new sims 3 careers/ jobs are, not clusters but ex: nurse or cop.
Thanks,
onebirddog2000
It's hard to list them all, because they all belong to a "cluster", & you get different jobs in those as you get promoted. But I'm pretty sure if you go to this site: http://sims.wikia.com/wiki/The_Sims_3 and go down to careers, each career group is a link, & if you click them it should tell you every job in that career.
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SO many times i have heard over and over that you cant change people. Women cant change men, men cant change women... yet I've seen it happen. Right before my eyes. How is it possible that some of us are exceptions to this rule and some of us ARE the rule???? and how would one know...
I guess I'm just looking for some insight on how this psychology of changing occurs... I would like some opinions. How is it that no matter how stubborn a person is, someone comes along that can change them...and why is it that only that person can, nobody else...
any opinions, personal philosophies, that sort of thing?
Personally, I think the person has to be willing to change. They may seem stubborn on the outside, but inside they're not. I also think the person has to respect the person trying to change them, & should at least think that the person trying to change them is right, & the change is for the best.
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okay i have a couple questions:
15f almost 16:
1. how do you know when you have had an orgasm? im not sexually active but i masterbate; and i feel like i have had an orgasm but im not sure.
2. is it normal when you are masterbating, to get to a point where you feel amazing and then your vagina pulses and then shortly after you feel like you were fufilled and done with masterbating?
It does sound like you've had an orgasm. It's hard to explain it, though, besides the fact that you'll definitely know when you've had one. There are two types of orgasms, though. A g-spot orgasm, & one like the one you've had. Like someone else mentioned, a g-spot orgasm feels a lot different.
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I got a new kitten while I already had another cat. She is normally a very sweet girl, and I know that cats don't adapt well to newcoming kittens in the house. I've heard they get the feeling they're being replaced or not getting enough attention.
I've been sure to give her enough attention, I've invited her into my room while the kitten was here (he can't leave my room yet). I've petted her, then as soon as she saw the kitten, she freaked out, hissed and as I tried to comfort her, she scratched me.
I don't understand why she won't adapt; she's been given good attention and is allowed to be in my room - but I don't understand why she's being so bitchy about this to me when I'm trying to comfort her .. maybe it's just that cats don't even realize it?
How much longer may this adaption take? Or may she never like the kitten?
My sister's cat did the same thing. It should settle down with time. It's probably a territorial thing. Another cat moving in on its home & family.
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Hi im 14 years old. Girl.
My vagina lips have been really itchy. Really red! It has little cuts. and white stuff all over it. && it burns when i pee. what is it?
I feel to akwarard to tell my mom.
Never had sex btw. This has been going on since the begining of june. The first week of june.
please help its driving me crazy
Sounds like it might be a yeast infection. I'm sure your mom would rather you tell her than be suffering & risk something happening to you. You need to go to a doctor so they can treat you for it properly & rule out anything more serious.
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i'm making the birthday card of my crush and i need help with how to lay it out. it's going to be homemade. i was thinking about putting a cute quote about living life to the fullest on it, but i'm not sure anymore (he's really into that stuff).
it would be a half-fold, and i'd want to keep it interesting. i want to write really nice things about him and how awesome he is, but i don't want him to assume i like him from the birthday card. i just want it to be cute and heartfelt without being obsessive or weird...
if i were to put a quote in, should i stick it in on the front, inside (beginning), inside (end) or on the back of the card? also, what should i put on the front? he likes the get up kids ("campfire kansas") and mgmt, as well as the poem "lessons of a moth" by don marquis. he's really happy-go-lucky and a skater. he's turning 16. he's really original and doesn't really conform, but he's NOT weird.
i want the front of the card to be something witty and not just, "HAPPY BIRTHDAY!" and not like, "shhh... i have to tell you a secret... (HAPPY BIRTHDAY! on the inside)" so what do you think? i'll take ANY SUGGESTIONS so if you have any idea, please feel free to answer this question. i promise i will not rate badly.
thank you.
I really like the quote idea. I'd say put it in front, but you could probably put it wherever. You could also maybe put the poem he likes so much in it, or maybe some song lyrics. If you can draw, maybe draw some pictures of things he likes, like skateboarding, or print some off the computer. You can do a search of funny things to write in birthday cards if you want something witty.
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"Last week I had the strangest dream" that my boyfriend broke up with me. Last night that dream became a reality. I reacted to it monotonously, because in a way I guess I expected it, but I'm still kind of in shock. I didn't beg him to stay with me I just told him to do what he felt was best. The reason he broke it off was that we haven't been seeing a lot of eachother. The last time I saw him was probably 2 weeks or more ago. Normally we would see eachother daily at school but not so much on the weekends because my parents don't really allow me to be alone with him and because they don't approve of us. He told me that he thought my parents would never change and that he didn't want to but that he felt it best to break up. Now I find myself not knowing what to do with myself and questioning my future. I want to be okay and I am confident that I will be but right now I just feel so lost. I never thought he would break up with me because he cares about me so much...I'm still in shock. And now I find myself questioning whether that was the real reason we broke up. What if he found someone else? I just don't know...And he says I'm still his best friend but I don't know how I'm supposed to face him. I've become so attached to him for many months and it just seems wrong for this to happen. I don't know what to do. Please someone help me.
Break-ups can be really hard, I know. And even though you don't feel like you'll be able to move on, you will. Trust me, I've been in the same position as you, & it does get better. You shouldn't sit around & try to figure out exactly why he left you. That will only make things harder for you. Take some time to focus on yourself. Have fun, be flirty, do whatever makes you happy. As for you two being friends, it can work, but you might want to give it some time before you start hanging out. Let yourselves move on from the relationship fully before that.
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I am 15 male and i do not share the same faith as my family. I am wiccan and i want to start telling people. not just my friends. I just dont know how to tell my parents. advice?
I'm Wiccan, & I know exactly where you're coming from. Although I'm 19 & legally able to make my own decisions, I still dread telling people. Since you're still underage, your parents can really prohibit you from following the path you want. Personally, my parents are extremely open & accepting, but my fiance's parents are super-Christians, so I honestly don't know how they'd react. Honestly, I choose not to tell them. It's really no one's business what religion I choose to follow, but with parents, it can be tricky. If you're really nervous about what they'd think, maybe start off by simply asking what they think about people who follow different religions, especially Wicca. If the reaction isn't too bad, maybe print off some information about Wicca to show your parents. The main thing is to really try to prove to them that Wicca is absolutely not devil worship, & that Wiccans do believe in a higher being, & it's more about the Earth than anything else (it may be best to not mention the horned God, though, lol).
Good luck.
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Mae (pronounced May, just a cooler spelling), Rena, Lynette, Jesirae, Amira, Kiara, Lena, Kaylee, Amina, Rose, Anissa, Liliana, Arabelle, Lilibeth, Ayla, Nikia, Ciana
I love Amira. So pretty. My second choice would be probably Kiara. But I'm really into unique names.
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In about a month I will be traveling out of state to Florida from Texas with my friend, who had previously lived there. We will be hanging out with all of my friends former friends and etc. Is there any particular style that girls in Florida wear? I'm also looking to buy a some cute clothes for college, so where are various stores that carry cute clothes?
When it comes to style, you really never know what the current trend is going to be. Not only that, but some people may be into one trend, while others a complete other trend. Even though you might not want to hear this, just wear what you like. If you really want to go with a trend, though, just look for general trends for Summer 2009, I'm sure you'll see a lot of those there. For clothes, I'd recommend Wet Seal, Forever 21, sites like that. They tend to carry the latest trends.
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So I got my depo shot on June 11th, a month ago today, I had my period for a week, which is weird for me concidering mine are only between 3-5 days.
I thought my period was over, and my boyfriend and I had sex, and the bleeding came back but went away. The next day we had sex again, and there was no blood.
Today, which would be 3 days after the bleeding, I noticed a brown discharge, and just a brown substance inside of me. Is this normal? Is it a side effect of the depo, or should I talk to my doctor?
Irregular periods are a really common side effect of the depo shot. I'm guessing the brown discharge is just old blood that's coming out, it's happened to me before. However, if the side effects get worse, you should see your doctor. I've heard a lot of bad stories about that shot. I'm not trying to scare you, just giving you a heads up.
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I have had my monroe pierced for awhile and im not down to the short bar. I want to get a new piercing for it but each piercing I look at has the long bar i can't find one with a short bar. Where can i find on with a short bar? Is it only at piercing shops that i can find them?
Try this site: http://www.bodyjewelry.com/chin-labret-monroe-basic-designs.html
On a lot of the monroe bars, you can choose between different bar lengths. There a lot of more sites like this one, too, just google "body jewelry".
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Hi
First of all I only want experts advise no one else
I was with a girl and I fingered her after, I noticed that I had blood from here in my fingers I washed it of with water and soup (I think) and I had a slightly peel skin is there any way I can get HIV or any stds?
I doubt you'll get much professional advice on here, because it's not like doctors hang out at this site (maybe a few, but I haven't seen any). It doesn't sound like an STD, & I hope you washed your fingers with soap, & not "soup", because washing them with soup will do nothing but waste good food.
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I've recently discovered I'm severely paranoid. Any scenerio, any time, any day, I'm going through all the possible outcomes of something. And all the outcomes my brain comes out with are bad. I also hate walking alone at night. I'm afraid I'll get raped or kidnapped or shot or something. And I'm always feeling watched and hearing voices, like the people that are watching me are talking about how dumb I must look, constantly turning around to see if I'm being followed. I'm 16, so obviously I'm going to do stupid things. But there is a level of stupid that I just refuse to cross because I'm so afraid of what might happen. Like, for instance. I wanted my boyfriend to sneak over earlier. But then I told him not to because he could get caught or one of my parents might wake up or his parents might notice he's missing.
I'm sick of living in constant worry and terror. And being as paranoid as I am, I've also become a major hypochondriac, or however you spell it. My friends get annoyed with me complaining about the possibility of something being wrong with my body all the time. And I refuse to get my license, and I'm turning 17 in a few months. Too many things go wrong on the road. Too many things can go wrong in the car, too many things can go wrong in the human body and I'm sick and tired of always worrying and not just having a good time, enjoying my teen years! They're almost up and I haven't done half the stupid shit I said I'd do before I turned 18!!
Is there anything I can do to calm my nerves? Or are there any pills for this kind of thing? Obviously, not OTC, but prescription? And I've tried talking to my parents, and they say I'm just "cautious". -.-''
someone help? Thanks!
It could be a panic disorder. I have one, and there are medicines for it, so you should probably talk to your doctor about it.
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okay..i'm about to turn 16..time to drive.
so me and my mom have two choices for a car..
basically what i want is a nice car..not too pricy..and has alot of room..
we can choose between a chevy cobalt..or a saturn view..
so in your opinion..which one will fit my needs more??
I'd go with the Chevy Cobalt. Like the person below me said, the Saturn is more like an SUV, and while it may be good if you need more room, a lot of people don't recommend first time drivers getting an SUV. They're slightly more top-heavy than cars, so there's a bigger chance of them tipping over or flipping.
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is it ok to masturbate if ur pregnant?
I'm sure it is. I know a lot of people who are still sexually active while pregnant, so I don't see how masturbating can really hurt you.
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Last night i had this really freaky dream that i was in my kitchen talking with my bf of like 4 months and everything was like really nice. But then ll of a sudden he gets this really sick grin and his head turns all the way around like in the exorcist. I scream and he grabs a knife and starts chasing me. I ran into my parents bedroom and locked the door screaming at him to leave me alone. As i'm backing away from the door he suddenly appears in the room still grinning and stabs me and i get this sickish feeling like no matter how many times he stabs me i'm not gonna die and i'm gonna feel it forever. Then i wake up like screaming and sweating, what could this mean?
It's probably just a really weird nightmare that doesn't mean anything. If it does mean something, it may mean that you're maybe having a little bit of trouble trusting him or something, but I wouldn't try to read so much into it.
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hi my email address is yamo4lolo@yahoo.com, im in love with another girl we kissed each other and we even slept together but now she is telling me that we can not go out together she is inlove with the man but she keeps on teling my friends that she love me and she misses me and after she told me that i decided to distance my self so she viseted me at work teling me that she misses me but she stil saying we can not have relationship she asks my friend that did i move on with my life or not i love her very much she even sugested to me to move onn with my life but i have tried but she always in my mind and im afraid if i move onn i will be trying to forget about her. what must i do
As hard as it may be, it sounds like moving on is the best idea. She sounds like she may not be taking everything very seriously, & may be trying to keep you around in case things with the other guy don't work, as a backup. You deserve much better. It is possible to move on, though it might be a good idea to limit contact with her as much as possible to help you keep your mind off of her.
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okayyy..
so me and my mom both really want an iphone from ATT. and i just have a few questons about them..
1. how much do they cost??
2. is is true that you have to have internet on them for it to work??
3. i've heard that in the long run..they're cheaper than a regular phonee. is that true??
The price depends on what type of phone and what plan you get. You can go to their website or to an AT&T store to get more information on that. I really don't think you have to have the internet on your phone for the phone to work. And in my opinion, they're not cheaper than a regular phone. I pay over double the amount of my regular phone bill monthly (but I have two phones on my plan).
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