Why dont you just go on dates with one of them then go on a date with the other one and judge by there. See how they act out side of school and noone is perfect. Its only a silly crush not your love life depending on it like mine is.

Well im not sure from experience but all you really do is put it down by your vigina and turn it on. And it should vibrate your clit, But people like my friend charlene * god rest her soul for things shes told me* she puts it all the way inside of her. I dont like the things she tells me half the time but lol if i can help her its worth it. Same with you.
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Orgasm's feel realllllly good and its all up to the guy if he gives you one or not. Because the guy has to be able to be that good to give you one.
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Warming oil is just oil that warms up when aplyed to ur body. And it tells everything on the bottle

When you feel realllly good and you cant hold in no more so you start moaning really loud and breath reallly fast and moan real loud and you almost feel like your gona scream. Sometimes you do

Well shelly one of the reasons your pets die is because its life everything dies it was just there time. And for your mom you could probably just show her that you can take care of a dog and that not all dogs are house dogs alot are out side dogs. Tell her ull get the dog a house for out side. And bath it and feed it normally. Just show her that you can handle it. The reason she might say no is because dogs are bigger responsiblity then rabbits are. They need more attention and more care for. Plus there messier and just harder to take care of ingeneral. Thats all i can say for right now i hope iv helped you a little bit. Dont be afraid to write back.
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Not inless you want to stop eating and become anerexic. Shelly things always take time and your slowly loosing weight just dont eat as much junk food. Watch your carbs and get out side and exercise run around bike ride walk. All these things are good to loose weight. All them pills and diets out there they might make you sick just watch what your eating and ull do fine. Hope iv helped a little bit.
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Hello Shelly
Dont give up you just must hang in there for a while. And just try a little harder not to leave any one out because no it isnt fun to be left out on activities with your friends. Just do stuff more that all of you can do together like go to the mall or take turns on some stuff. I had friends like you once and we just gave up and went our seperate ways. But once in a while we see each other and regret it. Dont be like i did ull pull through i have faith in your group. Just never give up and beleive in your self and just like hang out on the weekends or through summer call each other up and say hey what are you guys doing tomorrow wana hang out? thats really all i can say right now. Just to never gi ve up and stay friends i know its hard but things always get hard before they get easy. Hope iv helped a little bit.
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I beleive that you should wait for a little bit because yes it is a high risk that you could get pregnant. You have your whole life ahead of you dont blow it now. Wait intell your more grown up because if you do get pregnant and have a kid you just ruined your whole life. Because when your older you cant go out and party with friends, your going to be up all night taking care of the baby. Your probably going to have to switch schools and go to a school where they allow you to bring your child in. Because it needs to be attended to 24/7. But if you think your responsible and ready for all the pain and all the changes in your life go have fun but im just suggersting dont do it till your older. hope iv helped a little bit dont be afraid to write back.
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Walk up to him or if you see him in the lunch line dont be shy just go up to him say hey and if hes nice hell talk back. Then just start talking about interests or if you know what his interests or hobbies are. Talk about that, First say hey and how are you. Then say my name is... whats yours and then i guarentee ull hit it off. Dont be shy. If he is nice then he wont try and put you down or diss you. First become frenbds and then if its fait ull move into something more. Hope i helped.
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Only you can make that big decision to dump her or stay. But if i was you which im not i would stop beiong friends. Because what she is doing is very mean and rude. She isnt seeing your point of veiw at all and if you only have your boy friend well hes your best friend. It is better than have 1 best friend then a friend that is mean and doesnt keep secrets or steps all over you. Be more firm dont be mean just dont let that happen place your opinion and if others dont like it then they can deal. Hope iv helped at least a little.
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Tell him that you dont like what hes doing. And tell him to please stop. If he doesnt then make the decision to dump him or stay with him. Hope i helped.
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What you should do is go to a counseler or talk to your parents about it. I used to do the same thing then i started getting actual help for it and i know how you feel you feel like life isnt important, no one really cares, lifes just not worth taking this much pain no more. Yes if im right thats how i felt then i found out i actually had a depression problem. And whats wrong with you is nothing your probably just at that difficult stage in your life right now. Where you think when you get mad that life isnt worth it. But it is dont try it because if you actually succeed your dead you can never com e back. And just think of your family and friends that care about you no matter what. I hope i helped iif you need advice about it any more or have questions dont be afraid to write back.
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Ok just calm down and tell her that you really dont like how she is treating you guys! and if that dont work then just simple tell her that she is being to mean and if she doesnt stop you will not be her friend no more. It is a small price you have to pay but if shes being to mean and does drugs, talks behnd your back, and says stuff you dont like. Then shes not your true friend in the beginning. It is going to be hard b ut I know you guys can pull through it. I had a friend just like you and i didnt know what to do either. Till someone gave me that same advice and now i am over her. But i still talk to her time and again if i see her on the street or in school or something. Ihope iv helped you at least a little bit. If you need any more help dont be afraid to write bk.
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Ok I have been in the same situation as you before i thought a guy liked me to and i liekd him. And it turned out he did but what you just described that has happend to me to but the guy ended up not likeing me as a girl friend like. But you might be right maybe he does like you. You just have to pick up little signs as if does he walk you to class? offer to hang out with you alot? talk to you alot? those kind of signs. And if hes to shy to ask you maybe he is. And if you are pretty sure of how things are going but hes to shy to ask you out you make the first move and ask him. I might not be as much help as the others but im trying. lol and i hope i have helped at least a little bit and if you need anything else dont be afraid to write bk.
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Ok iv only had sex once but if you have never had sex before it will hurt. But its a good kind of hurt because you like it but you feel like you want to cry. But yes it will hurt a little bit and as for the tampon thing i mnot sure on that one but iv herd that to. But im not sure because i dont wear them but my friend does and she said it hurt her when she first had sex. So im guessing it still does but i advice you not to have sex till your ready!. I hope iv helped you in any way. But dont let any one pressure you into it. Need any more help dont be afraid to wright back.
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Hey, my name is Kelley, a little bit about my life: Im 24 i have a 4 year old daughter, when i was younger i got into alot of trouble because i felt unwanted and picked on alot in school. As i grew up i got into several bad abusive relationships. Now that i have gotten out of my old life im crawling up from the ashes and making a new life. Im a great listener and i love giving advice, if youd like to give me a shot id try my hardest to give the best advice i can give. The reason some people dont like me is because i tell it how it is i dont sugar code anything and im very opinionated. Id love to listen to your problems and help out that best i can.

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