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Should i shave my pubes? Does it hurt or leave bad razor burn? Does it look funy?

Well, I don't shave, but I do trim. I find that if I let them get too long, especially on my period going to the loo tends to get kinda painful. Also there is less chance of being embarassed when in swimwear, or of having your partner complain when he goes down on you.

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My mom and dad are jewish. my parents want me to be like them and do what they do. my best friend is christian and she took me to church with her once and i recieved Jesus into my life. i really want to be like my friend and be christian but my parents wont accept it! what do i say to them? i am my own person right?

Well, one of your rights as a free person is to belive what you want to. That means they cannot force you to believe somthing you don't. I think you need to sit down with them and calmly explain to them that this is what you want. Don't get preachy on them though. You need to explain to them that you will be practicing your new faith devoutly and you are sure that this isn't a one off thing or a phase. Then maybe you could gently remind them that Jesus is just an extension of their own god [Okay, so I might have got that last bit wrong, but it might make them less resillient to the idea]
Good luck.

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Im a lesbian and my girlfriend and i reallyy really really want to have sex because we love each other and i dont know where to buy condoms for girls. we just want to be safe. otherwise we are gunna have sex without one. helP!

As far as I know a femidon can be bought in any kind of supermarket or drug store.

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HoW Do U mAkE UrR OwN AdVicE SitE????

Well, for one if you need to ask you probably shouldn't. You can become an advice colomist here, or you could buy a domain name, get hosting and build an advice site useing HTML/ CSS/ PHP, or you could get a free website with someone like geocities and bulid your site using that.

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how do i get a guy to lay off my butt? he thinks hes slick and he can touch it whenever he wants. i've told him to stop and its not so serious to tell a teacher or w/e cus when i say stop hes like well i dont want u to file a sexual harrassment suit on me but the next day he does it again. what to do...

This guy needs to be taught that women are not play things. Next time you need to show him you are serious; Slap him or somthing simmilar, then tell someone. You may not think this is serious, but it could *get* serious.
I remember one time I was in a bar and this guy started making inapropriate advances, I crushed his hand and stood on his foot. He didn't come back to try his luck with any of my mates either.

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is it bad to give some one you dont know your pick if your possotive that they are the same age as you and live in a different state?

I take it you mean picture? Unless its a rather revealing pic of you then no, probably not. I have my picture on at least two websites, and it doesn't bother me who sees it.
As long as the person you are giving it to doesn't know anything more about you, like your home address of phone numbers, there shouldn't be a problem, but if you are still a junior you might want to discuss it with your parent or gardian.

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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing.

I would have thought that him saying that is a good thing. Its him one trying to make you feel better and two a way of saying he likes you so much that he doesn't feel worthy of you. Does that make sense?
Just accept it as him being sweet :)

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What does 512k amount to in bytes? I need to know for a website design.

well, K means kilo bytes, and if I remember correctly kilo is 1000 so I would guess 5120.

Sorry if I got that wrong

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r u a guy?

Nope. I have girl bits not boy bits. Ask Darkliquid, my partner, at spacefem.com if you don't belive me :)
Just out of curiosity, why makes you think I'm not a girl?

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I wish I could change I wish I could
I wish I were not the person I am today
I wish I never did the things that I did
I wish I could just be with you right now
I wish You could see how hard I am trying
To be the perfect person you want me to be...

You could do with making this a bit deeper and maybe not starting each line with 'I wish I'. At the moment all this is is a collection of lines.

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my sister keeps makin me look stupid in front of her mates. she treats me like a slave. we shat=re a room and she neva lets me in. wot shall i do she is 16

Have you told your parents/ gardians? This is unacceptable behaviour. If you can't tell your parents/ gardian then maybe tell a teacher or some other adult you trust.

good luck

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im 14 and i really want to have a baby. every where i look all i can see is babys. i no im to young but can ne 1 help me plz

I assume that it's the joy of taking care of somthing you crave, so maybe you could get a pet instead.
That way you will know what its like to take care of something and you wont ruin you childhood.

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i fancy this guy from charmed. its cole. and on a night i cry coz i love himso much. he is so fit. i dont no wot to do. i just wish i could be wiv him

Crushes on tv/ movie stars are not unusuall, but it is unhealthy to obsses over a character so much. Try finding a hobby that will occupy your mind. Remember /Charmed/ is just a TV show!

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i really wanna be popular is there ne 1 out there who is popular who could help me become popular

Popularity is overratted. Just be yourself, and you will attract others like you, who don't want to subscribe to any steriotype.

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im 14 and i like a 20 yr old. he is so cute and i dream bout him all the time. he told me he likes me im just to young he said he would go out wiv me if i was older wot can i do to change his mind

You don't. There are 7 years between you, he would be 'robbing the cradle', and you are waaay below the age of consent. I think you need to wait a bit. And always remember: 'Thou shalt not need a boy friend!'

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i have already picked my kids names but my mates keep copying them, then wen we fall out(which we do alot) they take the piss out of them. honestly plz tell me wot u think of them

holly
alyssa
piper
wyatt

One I think you are a bit to young to be choosing baby names, and three of course your mates are going to copy you, as those are the names of the actresses/ characters in /Charmed/.

Maybe if you thought up some more origional ones they wouldn't be tempted to copy you. Or if they still do, then it just goes to show you are more creative than they are and they enviy you.

Also, names are a bit of a silly thing to fall out over.

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i am going on holiday through the summer and im due on my period and i cant wear tampons wot can i do plz help

Why can't you take pads with you?
If you are swiming in a pool, I don't think you need to worry and the water pressure stops you bleeding, and I personaly have never had any problems awiming in the sea when I was on, for possibly the same reason.
If you are really worried, maybe you could wear a dark coloured pair of shorts over your swimsuit.
Alternitivly, you might be lucky and not be on for when you are swiming.

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my mate is always sayin stuff bout guys that i famcy and im sick of it. i watch charmed and i love cole. my mates take the piss out of him and im sick of it. i neva talke the piss out of the guys they like wot can i do

I think you need to either stand up to your mates and tell them that they shouldn't be doing that, or have a talk with them about how it hurts you. If nothing works then you might need new mates.

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What does the term "in heat" mean when referring to animals? I just know it's somthing sexual..

This reffers to the time when an animal want to mate. Unlike humans, most animals have sort of 'set times' to mate, usually in the springtime, that way the offspring is ready to face the world by late autumn. Most animals have a shorter gestation [pregancy] period than humans.

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im 17 and when my gf and i went to have sex my penis went soft and i couldn't get it up it's happened twice and it's worrying my penis is not that big is that the problem? could there be something wrong with me and what can i do?

Well, I don't really know, but its said that the size of the penis shouldn't have that much effect on sex.
But, yes there might be somthing wrong with you. There is a disorder called 'erectile disfunction' wich basically means you can't get it up. There are loads of places on the 'net you can read about this, but it is no subsitute for seeing a doctor.
I'm sorry I can't offer anything more than seeing a doctor about it, but good luck :)

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