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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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ok well there is this guy that i really like but sometimes when i talk to him i dont know what to say. does anybody know any conversation starters?
thanx

hey, talk about the same stuff that you talk about with other guys. talk about stuff he lieks too not just what you like. example: how was your game yesterday? cait♥

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my aim sn is not letting me on my computer my cell phone. it's only that sn, because when i went on my other sn it let me on. when i try to sign on a message says "AOL service temporary unavailible". any ideas??

thanks!!

hey, make a new screen name. i had the same problem with my odl one but then i made a new one and it never gave me any problems. cait♥

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is there anyway to take off waterproof mascasa without having make-up remover?

dumb question, but i made a mistake without reading it was water-proof. lol.

hey, use a face cloth with some baby oil on it. cait♥

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So I pretty much have two major groups of friends but some of the people in those groups (including my best friend, her boyfriend, and my should be boyfriend) I only see them at lunch/recess/when we hang out. Well, now they are saying only 8 people at a table and we aren't allowed to go see our other friends at other tables. I just, just gained my best friends trust back (by pouring my heart out to her but I was desperate) and I can't afford to loose her again. I'm also afraid of it blowing my chance with my "should be", both of them sit at another table. It's gonna be even worse once my friend comes back from the hospital because then my "should be" goes back to his other table and AHH! Sorry that was really long but does anyone have any suggestions so I can still hang out with them, too?

P.S. I'm really busy after school and don't have enough time on the weekends as it is to see everyone.

hey, well if you dont have set seats then alternate tables every other day. that way you can see everyone!! if you dont have enough time to hang with each person separatly hang out with oen group of people one day and the other oen the other day. cait♥

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well i just met this amazing guy and he and my best friend used to like be together but now they dont see each other anymore....well he has a girlfriend now but when we were in the car he started tickeling my leg and touching my hands and stuff...it didnt really bother me because i like him and all but the only thing is if my friend finds out what should i do?? and i told asked if he had a girlfriend and he said yeah but techniqully werent not because i only see her sometimes so if me and him did anything would that be like hes cheating on her with me?!?!ill rate high

hey, if you totally make-out with him and do stuf with him and he gos out with someone else then yes thats cheating. be careful he could like you for one day then be all over his girl the next. cait♥

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Well, a few weeks ago, my best friend's boyfriend (also a really, really close friend of mine) was admitted into the hospital after somehow getting his head stuck in the stair banister and almost sufficating to death. He was in a coma and we didn't know if he'd ever wake up. He did (thank god!) but he is still at the hospital because he doesn't remember how he did it so they have to make sure he didn't do it to himself. Almost all of our other close friends have already seen him (my bff, my "should be boyfriend", and their other best friend), except for me. I miss this boy sooo much, but while its heard for me, it's even harder for my best friend and his best friend (my "should be"). How do I stay strong for them when they need me the most while I'm crying inside?

hey, to be strong for a friend you have to stay strong with yourself. if they need a shoulder to cry on be there for them. just always let them know that its going to be okay. dont do anything stupid like ditch them for plans or something to make them even more upset. be extra nice to them but dont make it obvious. jst know that there sensitive so any little thing that you do can upset them. cait♥

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ok,im going through that "stage" and i'd like to know,is it better to stay with a product for a long time,or switch off?after two weeks,it stops working for me,should i still try to continue using it even though i dont "think" it will work?
Out of these brands,what do you think is the best?
(i have combination skin,oily around the t-zone)
Biore,Clean and Clear,Cetaphil,Dove,Nuetregina,Velocity.
(you dont actually have to answer the last question,but it would really help!! )
thank you :)

hey, clean and clear is the best product out of what you listed. of course there are better ones out there like clearasil and pro activ. yes stick to one product dont keep switching off. because usually when you switch off it gets worse. you could use up to 2 products on your face at the same time without getting major acne. cait♥

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okay so theres this guy im kinda friends with and im sort-of crushing on him and we talk online alot and at school he will always say hi to me in the halls. so anyways i was talkin to him online and he was like well im going to go get naked and jump in the shower , wanna join me ? and of course i was like yeahh lol . but obviously he was joking around but what do you think that he was thinking about when he said it .. and if he's feeling like how i am about him . thannk youuu ♥

hey, yes he was joking. me and my guy friends do that all the time. dont worry everythings fine between you. thats just a simple way of flirting. cait♥

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I sit next to this guy in math class who i have a crush on. he likes me too, but the problem is, he is very shy. i try to ask him questions about what we're learning, but he'll just be like"i don't know". what are some things i could talk to him about?

hey, dont talk to guys about school! thats a complete turnoff. talk to them about the same things that you talk to other guys about. just stay cool and be outgoing and funny. cait♥

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Well, 2day my friends decided to tell the guy that i like that i like him, and it totally screwed everything up, because i wanted to do it myself!
Also, he told them that he didnt like me at the momment, so, what the hell is at the momment suposed to mean?
I totally hate myself right now, and feel totally worthless!

Hev

hey, who cares who tells him. at least he knows! not liking you at the moment could mean that he used to like you but not anymore. guys will be guys. dont fel bad over it. cait♥

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well today we got a new girl like yeah thats fine dosnt bother me but she's sooo good looking and everything and thats also fine but today when she walked into the bus she had like this really wrong additude like i dont know like : uuhh i'm the best i dont deserve to go to a trashy school like this!!!!!!! yeah and she got soo much attantion also from my crush and that really pisses me of right now! i tried to be nice i was like: hi! and then she just looked at me and was like : HI she screamed at me really mean and everyone was like : oohh look at her she is sooo hot! and normaly i'm the person who's hot HAHAHAHAHA yeah ok but seriously and i really wouldnt mind that much if she could just be a little nicer and stop flirting with my crush and stoped looking like..i dont know how to say it but she always seems like she's in a bad mood she never smiles or something! this is really annoying! what should i do about me beeing maby a little jealous even though many people told me i'm better looking :-D but she gets so much attantion from my crush and THATS the thing that makes me so mad so what should i do?

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hey, its a new girl for the boys. give it time and she will die down. the boys are just excited. wait it out and flirt alot with yoru crush. cait♥

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What is the name of the movie that is based on a true story. its like when one person kills his whole family in one house and then who ever lives there they go wacked after like 25 days. I saw the movie but i forget the name. Thanks.

hey, its called "the amityville horror". cait♥

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Do boys consider makeup to be a turnoff? I know that wearing too much makeup is definitely a turn-off, but I mean makeup in general. I know how to put on makeup very well, and people tell me I do and seek advice from me about it, but I just need to know whether boys think it looks unattractive.

hey, not its not a turn off. but a girl that looks like a clown is. dont go all out with make-up. just use simple stuff such as mascara, eyeliner, lipgloss, eyeshadow(go for the lights), foundation, and brownser or blush. cait♥

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Okay, so it's almost summer time and I would like to look good in a bikini. I'm 14 years old and about 4"10. But I'm not sure which exercises to do. What exercises should I do for:

Thighs?
Stomach?
Love Handles?
Upper Arms?
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Calves?

hey, jog around your neighborhood(helps with all parts of the legs and love handles). if you havea treadmill use it. sit-ups are the best for your stomach and love handles. push-ups for great for the upper arms. cait♥

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iam 18 yrs old.male. my problem is that i need around 10 hrs of sleep everyday.and sometimes even more than that.and ive heard that people of my age shoul not sleep for more than 7-8 hrs a day.ive tried doing that but then im not able to stop myself from having a nap in the afternoon. please advice on how to decrease "10-12" hrs to "7-8" hrs of sleep.

hey, i dont think the hours of sleep you have matters. its fine with whatever your body needs. your body needs different amounts everyday. dont woryr about it. but if you really want to count out 8 hours of sleep be sleeping by a certain time and set an alarm for a certain time. before going to bed make sure your laying down for about 1 hour before. cait♥

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im 18 yrs old.male.iam very shot tempered and get infuriated very easily.i very easily get frustrated and irritated which sometimes leads to bad consequences.this has a major effect on my social life.please help

hey, try anger mangagement. also when you get mad count to 10. cait♥

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Hi, i was wondering if someone knows how to solve a problem I have. Everytime I try to write to someone on msn (7.5)I get a "Did you know that I get the best msn names, nicknames etc." and the problem is that it comes up loads of times and I cant stop it, I try to write to someone but it wont let me because the links come up. Im sorry if i didnt make much sense but please if you have the slightest idea of what is happening if you could write back to me. Many thanks. katy

hey, sometimes there is a phone number to the hotline of the company on soem websites. check to see if theres a number for msn. cait♥

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Hi, I am the maid of honor for my best friends wedding on May 13th. I got a dress that was too small, but I've been woorking out and I've changed my eating habits. I can now fit the dress, but I am a little uncomfortable with the top. The dress is a halter and the area around my chest, breast, and upper back are kind of squished in. Are there any particular exercises I can do to make it fit better up there? I have less than 3 weeks to go. I've upped my cardio to about 1.25-1.5 hours a day plus weight training. I just want to slim down up there. Please Help!!!!!

hey, you cant slim down your chest area. youll have to take your dress to a tailor and get it widened and made bigger. cait♥

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what do you use to make your hair really soft and pin-straight? like what's the best straightener, shampoo/condtioner, straighting balm .. anything?! my hair is naturally really wavy and is really dry and damaged. anything i can do to fix that (except get a haircut? cuz i've done that lol) please let me know!

hey, to your hair hair pin straight youll need a good and expensive straightener. walmart specials will not do the trick lol. youll need a straightener costing at least 100 dollars. also good namebrands help. for products use whatever you like. just make sure the straightening balm, shampoo, and conditioner all are the same namebrand. cait♥

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heyy! soo i was wondering which would kill my hair less..like not giving it more split ends and making it unhealthy?! putting gel in it..as in scrunching it lol or straightening it? because i either have to do one of those each day and im TRYING to keep my hair as healthy as possible..because it just doesnt seem to grow and i am tryin to get it long! well thanks :]
i will rate anyone who answers 5!

hey, using gel and scrunching it doesnt make your hair have split ends. what kills it the most is straightening it. its so bad for you hair its not even funny. cait♥

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