ive had sex about 4 times im wondering when does it start to feel good.
When i first started having sex, it started to feel good around the 5th time... It really depends on your boyfriends size and the positions you use etc. Just keep practising... and remember... BE SAFE!
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i went for my morning run just now, about 1km like i suppose, and suddenly i felt like puking. so i stopped. then i just did basic dance stretches (splits and stuff). then when i stopped, and start walking home, my eyesight became screwed up, lights all distorted. i took two rests on the way home. plus, my house is a one to two minute walk to the place i run. so, i had two rests, but my eyesight didnt improve at all. after the second rest, i just walked home. it wasn't until i reached home when my eyesight returned. i don't know how long it was, but i think about 10 minutes, although it felt so much longer. i stopped feeling pukey after the second rest. i hadn't eaten my breakfast, nor dinner the previous day. i've done that before but nothing like this happened. what happened?
Firstly, you need to eat. If you're worried about weight gain from eating, dont be. Eat small amounts of food more often and it will make your metabolism faster making you burn off the food you eat quicker and also keeping you healthy.
The reason for your sudden illness was from lack of food and dehydration. Your body needs fuel, just like a car. If you were to run a car without fuel it wouldnt go. Just like your body.
You need to refuel before exercising or you'll end up in hospital!!!
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How do I delete a myspace I dont want anymore?
click on 'my account' at the top of the page... Then go to 'accounts' tab... scroll down and click 'cancel account'...
Easy...
It will tell you to confirm a link in your email address and thats it.
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I'm fifteen years old and I had some questions about parenting.
Now before anybody jumps to conclusions:
1) No I am not pregnant
2) I am not thinking about getting pregnant any time soon
I was just wondering, how do you know when you are ready for a baby? Me, personally, I can't wait to get married and start my family...but how do you know?
Mothers out there, I'd really like to hear from you. Did you all of a sudden just know you wanted to have a baby with your husband (or boyfriend, depending)?
And a stupid question, does it hurt? Pregnancy, I mean. I know that you must feel so great after finally having the baby since now there's this person that you've created and it's special and wonderful.
Did you have any worries? Any worrying during like the 8th month that you're just not sure? I'm worried that when I do get pregnant (when I'm ready of course) that at the last minute I'll feel too scared and wonder if I really will be a good parent.
And I know I'm only fifteen, but I really just wanted to know, and to hear from some of you. I am not going to run out and get pregnant just because I want a baby because obviously at fifteen I am nowhere near emotionally/physically ready to bring a child into the world. Just had some hypothetical/theoretical questions that's all. =]
Thanks.
I knew i was ready for a baby when i was 17. I dont know how or why, i just knew it. I got pregnant and then the morning sickness set in. I was tired all the time, and stressed too. I had so many tests cos doctors said i was wayy too stressed. My morning sickness went away then i got leg cramps. They stayed throughout the whole time. I had heartburn alot, which is cos the baby had lots of hair. I couldnt breath a whole heap during the last month or two cos of my size. I felt huge! I got stretch marks everywhere... I wasnt nervous coming up to the birth at all.. but gee it was painful!!! BUT........, the end result... OMG!! No one could imagine what it feels like to bring a miracle into the world... Nor could anyone explain... Its amazing.
My philosophy was: I didnt know how to raise a baby, but i knew how not to... Now my daughter is 3 and shes so damn smart!!! Im a very proud mum and i'd go through all that pain and uncomfortable months of pregancy to do it all again...
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Alright so i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for over nine months. We have been sexually active and i want to stop, but he doesnt. What are some things i should say to him or tell him to convince him not to do it anymore? We dont do it that much anymore, but i just want to stop completely.
Whats your advice?
Thanks.
Be direct and talk to him about how you're feeling. If he truely loves you he'll understand...
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I was wondering if my boyfriend likes it when i swallow,and another question i had was how do i explain to him how good it feels when he is eating me out.and what is the besy way to give a blow job?
theres no real answer for this one... alot of guys do like it if you swallow. Personally, i dont do it. But thats just me. When he goes down there... make noises (if you can) or make it obvious, by using sound that you like what he does. If he has half a brain he'll notice that you like what he's doing and may feel more inclined to continue. Otherwise just tell him. There's no set way to give a blow job... as long as you dont use your teeth (hard) he should like it.
Hope i helped.
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I always end up feeling attracted to girls who seem like they like me. I know it's because it makes me feel good about myself, and so i try to nurture that interest - so i end up getting with nearly everyone who even flirts with me. Thing is though, I'm not interested in girls.
Before I decided I was gay, I really liked this girl at college. She's like, the girl equivelent of me. About 9 months ago we really liked eachother and we kissed a few times when we hung out (drunken kisses only). Then she went really cold on me and I moved on. I later found out she started seeing another guy at college and they were still together. We left college for summer and that was that. But then when we came back, the two of them just argued all the time. He kept judging all these things that she did and kept giving her a hard time. It was really awkward for everyone in our class, and about a week ago she ended it.
But since the break up, everyones been taking her exs side because he's really hurting bout it. She's been hanging out with me now and shes been talking about how horrible it is for her, with everyone giving her a hard time and that. She never really talks about her feelings and I feel kinda priveledged. She doesnt seem that upset about the break up, I think its because it was bad for quite a while before it ended.
I dont know whether I like her. I feel like I do, and I can feel the feelings for her inside but it doesnt make sense. I talk about her all the time and I really have to tone it down when I'm with my girlfriend. - this bit might not make sense, but its all ethical and that because she knows im gay and weve been together on/off for 5 years and weve decided to stay together. I'm not ready to come out because im not 100% sure, and this thing with this girl is even more confusing.
She suggested us hanging out and getting drunk again - like we used too when we liked eachother.
What do I do?
Do I tell my girlfriend that I might not be gay because I like this other girl?
Do I hangout with this other girl and see if anything happens to learn more about my sexuality?
Do I avoid spending time with this other girl and just remain... me?
Do I break up with my girlfriend, because if im not gay she obviously just doesnt do it for me?
I'm really confused. I might be in love with my girlfriend. We have sex and I enjoy it. But it's not the same.
Help me please?
Male, 19.
Have you ever acted upon your gay feelings with another guy? Perhaps you're bisexual??? I'd say just have fun. You obviously have something with this other girl, so go for it... Dont worry what anyone else says... Life is meant to be fun. Dont stress about being straight or gay, just be. Have fun!!!
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first time and it hurt quite a bit. but the thing is it dint feel good. why not? will it ever feel good?
Sex for me hurt the first 3 times... By the 4th time i was waiting for it to hurt and it just didnt... Sex does feel good... REALLY GOOD.. but it takes time to learn what you like and dont like and what feels good and also to find someone who is skilled at the things you like...
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Okay, well I'm a virgin. But i like to try and get as much pleasure as i can from my guy. And we were together tonight, and he fingered me reallyyy hard. and gave me oral. And we do it all the time, and everythings okay. But when i got home, i was really uncomortable. and i went to the bathroom and looked down. and my left vagina lip was sooo swollen. I'd say like three times bigger than normal. This never happened to me before, I don't know what it could be? And it burns when i go to the bathroom, its really uncomfortable, and rubs up against my leg and really hurts. Its gross, and embarassing. Can anyone tell me what it is? thank you!
It can be caused by many things, but my best bet would be friction... Its just swelling from being stimulated. It will go away in a day or three... If not go see your doctor.
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I'm in a pretty sticky situation. Over the summer I hooked up with a boy and we began casually dating. Initially I viewed him as a little bit of a sketchy character due to some activities he indulged in, but as time passed we began to find that we had more and more in common. I moved to college last August in a city a little over 3 hours away from home, and I thought that we were over.
He came and visited me several times, and we became very, very close. We became official once again, and I found that I really cared about him. He's very nice to me: cooks me breakfast, gives me everything that he has, treats me like a lady. Since moving to college, however, I made a really good guy friend. At first it started out casually, but as our friendship grew so did our feelings. Now we spend literally every single day, almost all day together.
I don't want to hurt my boy back at home, and I love him very much . . . but he's broke, jobless, and far away. What should I do?
If you have feelings for someone else then you cant truely love your boyfriend back home. You may think you still love him, but in my expreience (and trust me ive got expreience in this) if you have the ability to all for someone else then its time to let the other one go... and have fun with the new one!!
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I know this sounds strange, but i was just wondering if guys actually found that a turn on or if they'd find it bizarre.
Theres this girl that does it to this guy in the movie Whatever It Takes and she was kinda slutty...but like the guy was in awe. It was really funny...just wondering if it was realistic..
For some guys finger sucking to them can represent penis sucking. They can use their imagination and seeing you suck their (or your own) finger makes them think of getting their penis sucked.
So yeah, it does turn on some guys... But maybe not all....
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So im 14, and a female. And I've kissed guys, but never made out with one. (I have a boyfriend) and i never know what to do. I know he wants to make out but i get so nervous i like move away when i know he's going to try because im not sure what to do.
Do i just like keep my lips pressed up against his? And what do i do with my tongue?
Please help me!!!!!!
And hurry!
thank you sooooo much
I was really really scared about my first time making out... But once i had done it i laughed at myself because i spent so long worrying about something that came naturally and was so much fun once i did it...
No one can tell you what to do.. Just do kinda what he does...
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i finished my period on a monday then i had unsafe sex the following day (tuesday)..does that mean i can still get/be pregnant??????
You can get pregnant any time if you have unproteced sex.
Best way to be sure not to get pregnant... get on the pill or use condoms EVERYTIME!!!
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Ok, I saw this thing on the tyra show about someone auctioning off her virginity and was wondering what is the big deal to a guy to sleep with a virgin?? And I was wondering if when a guy gets like turned on i guess and gets an erection but dosen't actually end up having sex, does it hurt for them?
Guys want virgins because they're 'tighter' and for the guy they feel more like 'the man' if they sleep with a virgin. They feel they have achieved something and will be remembered in someones mind forever.
Guys get erections all the time. It doesnt hurt for them if its not acted upon.
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i am on the pill called seasonal. its where you dont have periods for 3 months and then the last week of the 3rd month you have it for a week. i had sex 2 weeks ago, and last week was my time for the period. i did have my period thank god, but i heard that doesnt prove anything. i wanna take a pregnancy test but everyone says take it after your missed period..so should i just take it now? the symptoms im having are headache (which could be be cause i have a cold) and light spotting and junk food cravings (which could be from pms and since i just got off my period). is it too soon or can i just take it and get this worry off my chest now?! thanks! 17/f
Wait till its about 4 or 5 weeks after you had sex. You can get early detection tests that will tell you 7 to 10 days after conception. My advice is just to wait it out.
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Ok im 18 and my boyfriend is 21 we have been daten for 6 years and we have been living togehter for 1 and we have not had sex yet..i want to but i dont know how to get him to
If you've been dating for 6 years and havent had sex yet im thinking there is a religious thing happening or he's cheating. Sorry, but i dont know any 21 year old male who lives with their girlfriend and dont talk about or ask you for sex. I could be, and probably am wrong... just tell him you're ready for sex and he'll more than likely oblige!
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I am 19 years old. I am in college. I am a junior. I started working parttime at a after school program. I start that Dec. 1. The last time I had my period was Nov. 21 or the day before Thanksgiving 2007. I was raped by my friends cousin on Dec 8. He did use a condom. His cousin talked to him afterward and she said he said the condom didnt break or anything because the next day i started worrying about pregnancy. Plus he was my first so I was sore and i had bleeding but enough like a paper cut. Anyway, I didnt get my period yet. But when i start to work like I just did... my period usually come late. it did that twice this year already that my period was weeks late when i started working. I quit and it goes back to being regular. So can I be pregnant?
Go to the police and report his ass! He violated you! He took your virginity and possibly got you pregnant!!
Men are getting away with rape way too much lately and its up to YOU to take a stand and get him put away for it!
Take a test in about 2 weeks because by then you'll be able to tell just by doing a pregnancy test!
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I'm 18.. and a virgin..
I've been going out with a guy for a year now...we love eachother alot...
I want to have sex after marriage..
due to religious reasons and also because i think it will be of more value when you have sex for the first time on your first night...
But he wants to have sex before that....
the 1st time i explained my reasons to him he said he understood.. but now he seems to be changing..
a few days ago he bought that conversation up again
and when i explained it to him all over again he was pissed with me
"aren't you willing to have sex with me?" "dont you love me?" "why are you doing this to me?"
etc
why is he in such a hurry? doesnt he value me or respect me???
what can be wrong
I just dont know what to do now..
please help me:(
please dont tell me to dump him... I love him alot and i cant live without him...
is anything wrong with me??? if so please explain ...
Please help me...
OK i agree with you and your values and thats great!
But my theory is try before you buy because if you get married and your husband is a dud then you will cheat on him and it will ruin your life!
If your boyfriend doesnt want to wait till marriage, he doesnt love YOU enough to wait!
He is all about himself in the "aren't you willing to have sex with me?" "dont you love me?" "why are you doing this to me?" part. Tell him its not about him its about you and your morals!
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this might sound stupid, but what if you are about to have sex, and his penis is to large for your vagina and it doesnt go in, it wont fit. does that happen? and why does that happen? what are you supposed to do?
The last advice giver was the idiot not the previous. You can tear, you can get the wrong hole... If you are with a guy who is really big use alot of lubricant. You can get it anywhere you get condoms. But condoms are lubricated anyway.
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my boyfriend of 2years and i had sex recently and i found out i'm pregnant. we didn't plan on this, and it was a horrible accident, i don't know how to tell him, because i'm worried that he will just leave me, i'm considering abortion, but i need to tell him first, and i want to tell him before i start to show.
1. how do i tell him?
2. about how far along in the pregnancy will i show?
thanks.
16/f
I wont tell you to have an abortion, but i will say think about it carefully and honestly. Can you raise a baby at your age? Where would you live? Does he have, or could he get a job? What kind of life would a baby have?
Just tell him straight out "I'm pregnant and i dont know what to do about it!"
You will start to show at 5 months. If you dont get an abortion before 12 weeks its generally too late!!
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