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Hey my names ali i'm 17 from new jersey. i'm usually really fast with advice so ask whatever you want and i'll answer as soon as possible!! Please rate me too `=D
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i have the hiccups what do i do
hmm i don't know bean..maybe its because you drank all my juice
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ali
do u no how to get those animated backgrounds for ur advice collum b/c i already no how to change the colors i just need help on how to get the moving/animated backgrounds~
please help!
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sweetheart00
I have no idea! Sorry hun!
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ali
im in love with my college professer what do i do??
i have gas
erm, maybe you should put ur feelings aside until you finish college.
thanks for the info bean
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ali
i want to clean my hosue right how do you do it???
bean ur a weirdo. pick up a mop! dust!
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i saw the question on crabs....what is it exactly??
crabs is lice .. in pubic hair. its an STD and its seriously gross. think about when u have lice in your hair and it itches..well this is what it is... but in ur pubic hair. sick! juss stay away from anyone with odd things in their pubic hair and u wont get it.
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ali
heyy
i love you
will you marry me
of course my darling bean
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ali
I just found out that if you have anal sex that if you have anal sex then your not a virgin! is that really true? and..i wanna no if a guy cums while his penis is in a gurl (during anal) can she still get pregnant..and if the girl gets cum on her front side and doesn't whip it off right away can she get pregnant? hurry I need to know!!!
PLEASE I NEED SOME ANSWERS!!!
well, in the christian religion, any sex (regular, oral, or anal) is considered sex and when you have it you are not a virgin anymore. if a guy cums in a girl during anal, she cannot get pregnant. and if the guy cums at all during vaginal sex, she can get pregnant. even if he doesnt cum, theres something called pre-ejaculation fluid, and you still can get pregant from that b/c it sometimes contains sperm.
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ali
Hi i'm 14 years old. I'm going to be straight foward about this lol. Sometimes when I go to the bathroom there is a white liquid that appears in my underwear. What is it? And what does it mean? Thanks for your advice.
It's discharge! when you are going to get your period for the first time, you start to have a lot of discharge. If you already have your period, it just means its probably coming. theres nothing wrong with this its totally normal and it happens to everyone. if a lot comes out and u feel uncomfortable with it, use a small panty liner to stop it from going all over your underwear.
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ali
hey im a 14 year old girl and heres my problem: some times (about three times a month or so) i have to go to the bathroom really bad so i do and when im done i have this burning sensataion and i feel like i need to go again, so when i sit back down on the toilet to try to go again nothing happens. and so it burns down there and i feel like i need to go so i just wait and it goes away in about 20 minutes. i dont know what this is or what i can do ...PLEASE HELP!!! (ps i also havent gotten my period yet...)
~it burns
it sounds like you have a urinary track infection. these are very common and happen to a lot of people. next time u visit the doctor or when the burning sensation returns, talk to your doctor. they will probably make u like pee in a cup and they will check it out. you'll go on medicine and the burning stuff will stop. dont worry, this has nothing to do with your period.
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ali
how do u get rid or razor burn?? i get it between my legs on on my thighs when i shave thats it...and i hate them bc they look like pimples!! help me!! i've even tried sensitive skin shaving gel idk wut else to do PLZ HELP
i read in a magazine cold / room temperature milk will get rid of razor burn. i shaved my legs dry and i got the worst razor burn of my life it burned for like 20 minutes. i put everything on it from lotion to water to even shaving gel! the only thing that helped was milk and a bag of ice. good luck.
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ali
i went to a party at the end of skool in the middle of june. i got drunk n was unconsious. i've been throwing up and noticed a little bulge below my belly button. could some guy have fucked me while i was unconsious?HELP PLZ!
yes, it could be possible. the best thing to do now, is go to a clinic. you could just be paranoid and just have gained a couple pounds or gotten the stomach virus. try a home pregancy test and then visit a clinic so you can get checked out (even if your not pregant) b/c if u did have sex with a guy, you could have an STD. good luck.
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ali
If you use a condom, can you still get an STD?
YES!! even if the condom is properly on and nothing goes wrong, you can still get an STD. a condom can protect against sperm, but a virus is a lot smaller than sperm and it can get through the barrier of the condom. either person can get an STD while using a condom. its only about 45 - 55 % effective on preventing most STD's. be safe and use one though, rather then just risk it all.
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ali
ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do??
Well, sorry hun, but if this boy wants you to do all this stuff that your uncomfortable with, he sucks. if u want to make out with him or give him a blow job, do it, but be smart about it! maybe u should talk to him about how your feeling and how much experience you really have had and what he expects you to do. you can do with him what YOU want and what you feel comfortable with.
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ali
well, my horse is being trained, and i want her to trust me more. although, as a girl, she has a bitchy attitude. i know i should do groundwork, but whatelse could i do?? i can almost ride her, maybe in a few weeks.
will rate well!!
i actually used 2 have a horse, and mares are juss randomly bitchy. they are very moody thats why people normally buy geldings. if she is being trained u should try to give her treats before and after you ride so she isnt so uneasy about riding. i found when giving my pony a small treat before we rode (like a couple of sugar cubes) and a larger treat after we rode (an apple or carrot) , he seemed to enjoy the ride much more. try spending more time with her so she becomes more accustomed to her. you should try hooking her up to a lunge line and let her circle around the rink. you could try sitting on her and only walking. or just even putting the saddle on her so she gets accustomed to everything. don't jump into things too fast, you or your horse could end up getting hurt.
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ali
kool aid as hair dye.. anyone ever try it? should i try doing it? i only want something temporary b/c schools all strict and stuff about hair color. i just wanna find out if its worth doing and what color would you think best on blonde hair?
kool aid works. my cousin used 2 dye her hair with kool aid. it wasnt like just wash out i dont think. i think it like wore off in a couple months. she had blonde hair and did purple and pink. i like pink hair so maybe u should go for pink. if u want something extremely wash out, go to a salon store and they have a bunch of funky colors you can leave in until you shower and they are much more reliable b/c kool aid is weird stuff
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ali
I met this boy at the beginning of the summer, but we liked eachother the first time we talked. After hanging out a couple times, we started going out. He isn't a virgin + supposedly got a girl pregnant awhile ago. He never pressures me or anything. I know I won't do unless I'm totally ready + totally in love. I'm starting to actually love this boy! I'm just scared I won't measure up to some of his old gfs + that I want to take things slow. He says he really loves me + that I'm different from all his old gfs and he likes + respects that. Should I stay with him?
why not? hes not pressuring you at all! but if he starts pressuring you, you sould get rid of him. a lot of guys arent virgins, so dont even worry about that. if u want to have sex with him, do it. but make sure u use a condom so you dont end up like his ex. haha. good luck with him, he sounds like a keeper from what u said.
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ali
Does black really match with anything?
Black goes with many things, yes. black & white are colors that look good with almost anything. but, there are some colors you dont wanna put together with black. for example: orange. You dont wanna look like its halloween! they may look good together, but to me, that screams HAPPY HALLOWEEN. another is yellow. yellow and black look good together, but its tacky. try a pink and black, red and black, light blue and black, white and black, or even grey and black.
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ali
i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?
if you want to have sex, no one can stop you! if you feel emotionally ready for sex and want to have it, do it. there are many things 2 worry about when having sex though. for instance, pregancy and STD's. also, once u start having sex, u must visit the gynocologist and get checked for STDs about once a month. good luck on making your descision. once u have sex, you cant take it back.
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ali
i like someone very much.but i moved from his school last year. i have his phone # but i dont know if i should call him beacause my bf thinks that he might of moved. what do i do???
CALL HIM! whats the worst that can happen? i mean, most likely this guy likes you too. i think u should juss forget about your worries & juss call him! he'd probably like 2 hear from you!
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ali
Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time??
Living a double life is not good at all. Sooner or later they're going to find out. So you really need to think about which one you care for more, and tell him whats been going on. You should definately tell both of them though. I don't know if they'll still want to be with you, but its better than living a lie. Good luck!
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ali