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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]

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Im not fat or chubby but i want to tighten my muscles in my thighs. Do you know any exercises that help target that area? Also, of course i need some of the healthiest foods to eat so im not taking up all of my energy so can you do some research on exersices and Dieats and everthing I need to make my diet book. Thanks...
Ill rate high if you help and make a good workout for me.
p.s. dont leave out any details!

Squats and lunges work pretty well. You'll be in pain the first few days if you're doing them right, but they work with time. They tone them down and build muscle. Also walk or run, that's always good. It'll take a while but be patient. Also eat healthy. Don't cut back on meals or anything though, that'll just slow down your metabolizm. Hope I helped! Good luck!♥

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hey well i got my period in the middle of march (it was my first one) and i still haven't got another one! is there anythin wrong with me? i know it usually takes a while, but does it take this long? plz help

If you havn't gotten your period in a couple months then you might be pregnant.♥

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16/f... I have been shaving my pubic area for a while now, but I can never seem to shave the hair near like the second hole (which would be your butt hole) does anyone have any tips or tricks on how I can shave that region because I can barely see it and don't want to cut myself. Thank you so much! I rate.
**Katie**

Just try different angles (positions) and see what is the msot useful for shaving in that area.♥

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There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.



*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl )

Your ONLY 13 and you already are gonna have sex.? I vote no. I think sex is something that is special and should not be done with this so called 'friend' but with the person you love. Please take my advice and turn him down.♥

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On my sides are these marks, to be more specific my hips. I'm not sure if this is some sort of part of puberty I didn't learn about or something but it's starting to worry me. By the way I'm not fat, I play sports and I run and everything and I'm a vegetarian.. so I'm pretty skinny. I think maybe my hips are just widening or something, I dont' know, but can anyone tell me what the hell is going on?

I would need more information on what the marks look like and all so just leave me more information in my box cause I would Love to help.♥

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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f

Move on. If he hit you, he has it in his blood to be able to hit women. So PLEASE don't go back out with him. Blieve me he will probably hit you again.♥

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how do you gain body fat?? like what foods help??

Eat less healthy. Like chocolate and hot dogs and burgers and junkfood like that. That's how normal people get fat so it should work for you.♥

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I have this habbit. Its like i start to like a guy and then he starts to like me back..and i dont really like him anymore. its like playing tag..its fun to chase them but once they stop running the fun is over. does anyone have any ideas on how to break this habbit??!?!

i rate high on good ideas*
thanks!

You will find that one guy one day that keeps you from losing interest even when he stops running and likes you back. Trust me.♥

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Okay, I need to know if this outfit matches for a party coming up, and if it doesn't, let me know.

1. First of all, do BROWN and BLACK match with eachother? (I hope so)
2. My whole outfit has to revolve around my BROWN sandals that I just bought.
3. And I want to wear my BLACK cardigan sweater (REALLY BAD!)
4. Can I wear my brown sandals, a (white or brown?) shirt underneath the black cardian sweater? And a skirt...but what color skirt?

Tell me if any of that matches. Basically I want to wear my black sweater and brown shoes, so what color shirt and skirt should I buy?

THANKS!

wear a black and brown skirt. So it mixes the colors and looks matched. Or you could take a brown skirt and sew on like fake black flowers in the corner or switch the colors with that.♥

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my friends ken and sarah really like each other. they just started dating yesterday. the problem is, she lives an hour away from our town. they both love each other so much, but she is having a few doubts about the long distance relationship. i think LDR's are hard and don't usually work out, but i think these two can pull it off with their love. what do you think they should do? if you need more info, please tell and i will give it.

-me

I think that if they are in love then they should go for it. Just see how it works out.♥

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my friend and her boyfriend broke up and decided to be friends. When I seen them they told me and he was like yeah do you wanna go out I think he was joking but I don't know. I do kinda have a crush on him if I give them time to fix whatever they are doing would it be wrong to go out with him?

Talk to your friend about it first and if it is ok with her then go for it.♥

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I have this cousin and she's in 6th grade and me and her are really good friends even though I'm 2 years older than her. Anyways, A LOT of my friends and older guys (like 14/15 yr old guys) thinks she's really hott and I think it's because she has big boobs for her age and to be honest, her bras are really padded. Well i'm sick of guys comin up to me and being like "god your cousins soo hott..she looks older than you!" and pretty much all my guy friends think she's hott and shes really not like "OMG SO PRETTY"..I just don't know what to tell them or what to tell her because it's so messed up..help please? oh yea, and my cuzin is eleven..

Just be like she is only eleven so back off you guys. lol. Just tell her not to wear like 'sexy' stuff around them that shows off her boobs and stuff so they will be less attracted. Most likely she will like the attention but let her know that it is annoying to you.♥

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i am in love with my old neighboy Andy, he likes me too. the thing is he moved away last year and of course my mom MADE me go camping so i didnt get to see him or say good bye. i havent seen him for almost 2 years, but we talk on the phone and online a lot. He is coming to visit on June 20, and today my mom told me we are leaving that day to go camping! so im not going to be able to see him when he comes here! i am soo mad! i asked my mom if i could stay home and she said no. my dad and my sister are going to be there, so whats the big deal? How can i get my mom to let me stay home so i can see my best friend/love?

Tell her that you love him and that she already didn't let you say goodbye before so the least she could do is let you see him in two years.♥

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hey does anyone know where i can get some good jeans? but not like hundred dollar ones lol

Kohls, I actually just went there today and bought two pairs of jeans and they were only $35.00♥

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okay im a 14/f with braces. i get them off june 30th. and i was wondering how they take them off. bcuz i have a sensitive mouth i was wondering if i should take pain killers before and all of that stuff.

i rate high for *GOOD* answers.

peace out.

No you dont need painkillers. It doesn't hurt at all. You can take them if you want, but I highly doubt you will need them.♥

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this is a question for the girls. I just recently straightened my hair for the first time and like ive never really styled it in anyway so i have no idea what to do with it now. its kinda long but sorta short like its not shoulder length but in front it goes down past my eyebrows and so long story short im wonderin wut kind of hairstyles girls like on guys and how to do those thanks much i rate very high.

I like guys with spiked hair or just let down, but make sure its neat and not all tangled cause thats a big turnoff.♥

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what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?

(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)

Its when you talk about all this sexually stuff over internet.

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So when I wear eyeliner it always seems to go into the side of my eye and goop or w/e. help me!

Ask your friends what type they like and if it works for them then try it. Make sure it is waterproof.♥

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i have a problem. for awhile my vagina has been very itchy. and i'm only 13. what is it?

Razor burn most likely or a yeast infection. Ask your docter, he/she will know.♥

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16/f
ummmm...like the subject says, i've never been kissed. and it gets to me. everytime i think about it, i get all depressed and start to think that i'm ugly and that no one will ever like me and i'll never be loved. how do i stop thinking about this?! i don't wanna feel like this anymore....

thx in advance
i rate high for good answers!

First of all, your most likely not ugly. If you had a boyfriend then obviously your pretty. But if you don't feel pretty, you could ask your mom to take you out and you could get your makeup, hair, and nails done. Then go buy some new clothes that flatter your body. Believe me, I told my friend to do this and it made her feel a whole lot confident.♥

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