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okay there is this girl who keeps alking to my boyfriend and she wont stop. i have done told her over and over that she needed to quit talking to him but she keeps on. i dont know whatelse to do. my boyfriend says they are just friends but then he said he told her to quit calling him.well his phone rung and he mashed mute and said it was a 1-800 number and i was like ok well right after it quit ringing his phone rung again and he said it was a 1-800 number. he turned off his phone. i know he isnt cheating on me but i think he is going to meet her. buti think i could be over reacting. well he has had plans to go camping and i think he is going to see her because she lives in helen and they were going camping in Hiawassi so what should i do? i am going crazy please help me
Hey, well a good relationship is totally based on trust. Maybe they are just friends, but she likes him. Just because she likes him doesnt mean that he likes her or that hes cheating. Dont make a big deal out of it unless they start talking more than you talk to him or if you know hes cheating. Trust him. If things get worse after the camping trip its safe to assume that he likes her back. Ask him to be honest with you and to tell you if he likes her. Also stop telling her to stop talking to him. That just makes her want to talk to him more because she knows that it bothers you. Act like it doesnt and maybe she will stop, or at least tone it down a notch. Good luck =].
15/f
i just picked up a guitar yesterday. i've been wanted to play for a couple years now. i already play violin for 6 years, and i'm at a solo level 6 so i'm not clueless about music. but my dad got me a book of chords, and I really have no idea what I'm doing. I want to be able to teach myself, but from where that's going I'm completely clueless. the the books it gives numbers, like which finger to use, but I have no idea where to put it! i just went onto a website for tabs, and it makes absolutely no sense to me. HELP! any simple tips would be extremely appreciated
Hey, theres this great store called Guitar Center.
http://www.guitarcenter.com/
Check out the site.
http://www.guitarcenter.com/locations/
Theres the locations. =]
I love this guy. He is my world, hes my best friend and we've known each other forever. He knows how to make me happy and can always tell when there is something wrong. He goes after the guys at school who talk about me, and stands up for me. He knows that i give in easily and he knows how to hurt me. the thing is...He says he loves me, but i dont know if he does. He flirts A LOT. but he always hugs and kisses me and it seems like he only cares if Im happy. But the problem is that, he goes out with all these girls, once they break up, im his rebound girl. then he finds another girl and forgets bout me. it really hurts me. I dont know what to dooo
Hey, well does this boy know that you have strong feelings for him? If not, maybe thats why he does that. He always goes back to you because he loves you and hopes that you`ll fall for him because he doesnt know that you like him. He goes out with other girls to try to forget about you. If he knows, hes just a player. You need to try to stay strictly friends with him and stop him when he flirts to avoid the heartbreak =/.
I want to pernamentley straighten my hair, but my mom won't let me. I am planning to pay for it. My mom still won't let me because, as she says, you will look like a wet muskrat, just like everyone else with stick straight hair.
But I am getting a haircut, and it will be shoulder length. My hair is EXTREMELY poofy, no matter what kind of shampoos or serums I use. When I straighten it with a straightener, which takes about an hour and a half (which I don't have time for) it gets really nice and silky, and the poof disapears.
I think I really need this: I only wear my hair down when I straighten my hair, which is about four times a year. Otherwise I wear it in a pony tail, which makes me feel like a tomboy.
How do I convince my mom to let me? I am 16 by the way.
Hey, instead of permanately straightening it, try "Japenese hair straightening".
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=japanese+straightening&spell=1
Theres all links. I know that "Jack and Jill tanning and hair salon" offers it. See if theres one near you. =]
I have a really bad unibrow. Like REALLY bad. My mom won't let me do anything with it: I am not allowed to pluck it, wax it, or remove it in any way. I try to pluck it, but its really hard because there's so many hairs, and also my mom hates it when I do. But recently she kind of gave up, because I still pluck it anyways.
I want to convince my mom to let me go to a salon and get it professionallly waxed. She will most definetly not be happy upon hearing this, but I just want to remove the unibrow, and get some touchups on my eyebrows. She thinks they will do it really thin, "just like those cashier ladies with drawn on eyebrows". It just makes me really mad. I was over at my friends house once, and she gets her eyebrows waxed, and they were starting to grow back a little, and her mom was like "OMG your eyebrows look horrible we need to get them fixed ASAP". I wish my mom was like that. I actually got my unibrow from her, and she doesn't do anything about hers... and well it looks really bad.
She says waxed eyebrows aren't natural, but unibrows arent either!!
How do I get her to let me? Any good arguments?
Hey, well I go to Elizabeth Grady to get my eyebrows done. Yes, they are a little expensive, but they do an awesoem job and listen to exactly what you want. They even let you bring your mom in with you. Make a deal with your mom. Tell her that she can come in and control what they do to your eyebrows, as long as there isnt a unibrow there anymore.
http://www.elizabethgrady.com/index.asp
Theres a link to Elizabeth Grady. See if theres one near you and show your mom. =]
Okay, you know those bracelets that come in different colors? The Jelly Bracelets I believe? Well some people twist them together, but what does it mean if they don't wear them twisted together? And what do the black and gray ones mean? I've been wondering...
I heard the black ones can mean a lot of things such as child abuse, trauma, and/or mourning. But then I realized they were talking about kiwi jewels, and I don't think those are the same thing. And on he same website it said the gray could mean mental illness, diabetes, and things like that. So, what do the gray and black jelly bracelets mean?
Hey, well i searched Google.
http://www.drdaveanddee.com/jel.html
That was a site that i found helpful.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&sa=X&oi=spell&resnum=0&ct=result&cd=1&q=jelly+bracelets&spell=1
Those are all the sites with information of "jelly bracelets". =]
i like a guy who is 17..and i'm 14. he will turn 18 3 days before i turn 15..is it like not illegal with parents permission
Hey, well having a relationship with someone 18 or older when you are underage is fine. The topic about having sex or doing sexual things is not fine. Thats the illegal part. Now most guys 18 and older will say that they will wait.. but don`t mean it. Sure for the first few weeks/months of dating they will stick with it. But eventually they will push the sexual stuff. They will say things like "Oh, everyone accepts our relationship and no one will know". Dont fall for it, because A) your underage and B) you said before that you wanted to wait. All girls have standards and yours is waiting until your older, or maybe even until marriage. Keep it and dont change it for anyone but yourself. =]
Hi! I'm Kristina a.k.a Munchie! So yea I'm 14/f and I'm like 5'2 or 5'1! Idk really anyways that doesnt really matter. I would love to know how to make yourself happier. I dont know if its just the way you think or what. But I think it's a lil bit of both. Like your life plays a role on how you act. So how do I change my life so that I think happy and act happy as well?
Hey, well i dont agree with some of the advicenators below. They told you to change yourself and change who you hang around with. That would be changing you. You never change yourself for anyone. I do however agree with the doing things that you love and surrounding yourself with people that care about you, vice versa. I just wanted to add my little touch of advice at the top =].
Okay my friend is 16 years old and her boyfriend is like 21, I think. Anyways her boyfriend is really mean to her and he's so controlling. He even tells her what time she can go to parties and what time she has to be back. He beats her and alot of othere stuff. I dont know how I can help her because she's trapped in this relationship. How can I help her?
Hey, well the results from these types of relationships can be fatal. I dont agree with any of the advicenators below. I think that you can talk to her all day and night and she will still see something in him that she loves even if he abuses her. Shes never going to tell him off or tell anyone to get help. You will feel awful if something really bad happens to her. What if one day she gets beaten so badly, that she gets beaten to her death? Scary to think about huh? Just to think that you knew about it all along and never told anyone. You would feel responsible for her death. Sorry to make you think about that, but its a harsh reality. Yes, she will be upset that you told someone and got help, but once she realizes that the relationship wasnt good, she will thank you for it. Good luck =].
14/f
i have 2 younger brothers, and i have a puppy. i love my puppy and play with her in all my free time. and i always take care of her. well, i was out late last night, so i slept in this moring, and like woke up at 10. well, the only reason i even woke up then, was because my little brother, who is 9, had his friends over. and they were in my office, and the dog was annoying them, i guess, so, my brother took her, and we have this gate. like a baby gate.. and hes not much taller then it. and he just tossed her over it. and she ended up breaking her leg. which, isnt good because shes still a puppy, also that costs alot of money, its costing us like over 1000. espically since, we took her to the emergency veterain place. so they charge like 250 bucks just for immediate attention. anyways, how do i make sure my dog is safe? i mean, i cant stay up all hours of the day. and i cant be home every single second. yano? so what should i do?
Hey, well this is mostly why some familys are iffy about getting dogs when they have young children in the house. I agree with the previous advicenator that said that your little brother should be punished. He needs to learn that puppys are not toys and that they are like humans. There especially delicate when young and need to be treated carefully. You have to have a family meeting about the dog. Maybe assign times when its the persons turn to watch the dog. I dont mean sit with it all day, I just mean make sure its safe. You might want to cage him when nobody is home. Try to keep that to a minium. When someone is home, put the dog in a room alone. A room that your brother doesnt go in to. Good luck =].
16/f
Where I live, I'm only two years away from being at the legal drinking age. Of course it's bad for me to drink, but I rarely do. My question is about not drinking the alcohol, but just keeping it.
I have a place in my room where I can hide as much alcohol as I want and it will never be found. Whenever I get the chance to buy it, I do. But then I just stash it in that place and rarely drink it (once every few/several months at a party).
What I like to do however, is measure it, pour it and make calculations. I enjoy knowing that it's up there and calculating how much I have and what percentage of alcohol it contains. I'm not sure why I do this, but I find it interesting.
Could this lead to problems as an adult? Is this potentially risky behaviour? I guess I just like knowing I have something I shouldn't, and not feeing the need to actually drink it.
Thanks! =)
Hey, Well if the drinking age is 18 and your only 16, you shouldnt be drinking at all. Get out of it while you can. Think about this situation, could you stop if you wanted to? If the answer is yes, your not that far into an addiction. If the answer is no, you need some help to break your addiction. What your doing now, the measuring etc, could lead to serious if not fatal problems in the future. As you know, as you get older and your the drinking age, the drinking gets worse and you do it more often because you are a legal drinker and you don`t have to hide the fact that you are drinking. Sadly, I could see you becoming an alcoholic in the future. To avoid the whole situation of getting in trouble with your parents, tell a friend about your problem. Tell a non-drinker friend. That way they will encourage you to get better and not just drink more. Stop the measuring and wait until your 18. When you turn 18, drink responsibly. They have a drinking age for a reason. Bad things can happen when your drunk. Especially when your underage and drunk. Good luck =].
what's the name of a song that is NEW it's not kylie minogue i can't get you out of my head. ...this songs goes like almost the whole song like " la la la la la la lala (little verse) lalalala la " several times..a blonde girl appears on the video and i think this girl looks al ittlee bit like maddona but obviously is not her
Hey, Im just going to take a wild guess at this and try to help. I could be wrong and ill admit that. Try "Lala" by Ashlee Simpson.
Hey well after the spotting it has been around 4 or 5 days since then and it hasnt came yet! that is what worries me..! is that normal?? so sorry to bother you agian
Hey, its okay thats what im here for. Yes, that is actually normal. Thats part of the whole period being irregular thing. A posibility is also that you may not get your period this month at all. If you know that your not pregnant, thats just your period being irregular. One time, I skipped my period for 2 months, then it came back and ive gotten it continuously since. If the blood/spotting ever has a strange odor, you should get it checked out. Also if you miss your period for 4 months or more, go see a dcotor. Other than that, you seem to be perfectly fine to me! =]
14/f...
A boy i thought was really cute asked me out yesterday, and he has a sweet six pack, but I dont know whats wrong. This is my first boyfriend, and so far we`ve only held hands, and before we did i didnt want him around me, but then it was a little better after we held hands, but when i woke up this morning i felt so queezy, like i didnt want to go out with him anymore.It`s so weird. I dont know if this is normal, I havent had my first kiss yet either, and this kid already tried to kiss me, after only one minute of going out. And I know that he goes fast, and i dont like that. Any advice?
Hey, well maybe your just not ready for a boyfriend yet. People aren`t always ready at the same age. Some have there first boyfriends at the age of 18. Another thing could also be that hes just not the right guy for you. If your not attracted to him and you just take the first guy that you can get and is cute, thats what happens. Wait it out until you find someone that you really like. Also kissing on the first day just proves that he wants one thing - sex related things. Thats not good at all and is extremely fast.
ok so my period cycle is messed up.They say it's because of depression But the weird thing is a couple of days ago ive been getting brown things out of my vigina the stuff you get before you get your period but little drops and it went on for days..like around 4 or 5 days and then it stoped and my period never came! help please im very scared
Hey, having an irregular period cycle is very common. It`s acually extremely common. Especially the first couple years that you`ve had your period. Some peoples cycles never get regular, but most peoples do when they become older. The little brownish drops of blood are called spotting. It usually happens when your about to start your period again.
k well ilike this guy i cant say his name and i have been waiting to go out with him for a long time becasue he keeps breaking up with his girl friend but everytime i get so close to doing that he ends up going back out with her and this is there like 5th time going back out and i dont even know if he likes me the same way i like him i am so caonfused right now its just so hard to get a boy friend around this school. the cool about him thow is that he is a skater omg he is way cute and im just one of those punker chicks that like to go to hot topic all the time it rules yeah but any what should i do the next time they break up? should i go for it? i dont know what to do well my class is almost over i have to jet by.
hey, well he needs to know that you like him and that you have feelings for him. maybe the reason why he keeps crawling back to his old girlfriend is because he thinks that no one else likes him or is interested. you need to let him keep his options open by you telling him that you like him. once he knows that you like him, if he goes back out with his girlfriend and leads you on agaain, you need to just wait until hes over her or get over him. he obviosuly sees someting in her and has strong feelings for her if he keeps going back to her. he just needs to know that he could have you also and then pick between you girls. if he chooses her, dont be sad. its totally his loose. dont interfer with them. thats a total turnoff and will ruin your chances with him forveer. good luck.
I would really like to listen to some new dance, trance and rave music.
Could anyone recommend any bands?
Thanks, xxx
hey, try cascada.
I think knowing alot about a families history is very immportant. but yet not alot of my relitives are around to talk to about that. i am very crouis about alot of things about my ansestors life and i really want to do some reasearch on them to find out more information and learn about them.
ive tried to google some, but it never gets me anywhere with out paying scam websites.
dose anyone know any good ways i can track my ansestors history?
i would greatly appricete this
thank you
hey, well i recently found out about this one website. im not sure if it will help you, but since i came across your question, i thought i might give it a shot.
http://www.ancestry.com/
what is a body shot? like does it always have to be taken off the girls stomach. or can it be like her chest or boob region. thanks
hey, a bodyshoot is a picture of the girls entire body.
How do you get rid of a bulge??
Pleasee answear its almost summer and i want to get rid of it, please dont ignore!
hey, here is a link that i found on google that i think may help you.
http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/a/flatabs.htm