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okay there is this girl who keeps alking to my boyfriend and she wont stop. i have done told her over and over that she needed to quit talking to him but she keeps on. i dont know whatelse to do. my boyfriend says they are just friends but then he said he told her to quit calling him.well his phone rung and he mashed mute and said it was a 1-800 number and i was like ok well right after it quit ringing his phone rung again and he said it was a 1-800 number. he turned off his phone. i know he isnt cheating on me but i think he is going to meet her. buti think i could be over reacting. well he has had plans to go camping and i think he is going to see her because she lives in helen and they were going camping in Hiawassi so what should i do? i am going crazy please help me
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I think you are over reacting. Just because you are dating him doesn't mean he is not allowed to talk to other people. You just need to calm down and learn to trust him a little more. I bet it is nothing but if it conitnues to bother you then i thinkyou should talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him how you feel and find out what is going on. Hope everything works out.
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Just because you're dating someone doesn't mean theyre not allowed to have any friends of the opposite sex. Is she flirting with him, or honestly just trying to continue their friendship? If it's the latter, you need to stop being so untrusting of your boyfriend. How would you feel if your boyfriend said you were never allowed to hang out with your guy friends anymore? You cant stop him from being friends with girls.
If, however, she's flirting with him, you really just need to trust your boyfriend. Obviously trying to get her to stop talking to him isn't working, so there's really not much else you can do except for trust your boyfriend to not cheat on you, which I doubt will happen.
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Hey, well a good relationship is totally based on trust. Maybe they are just friends, but she likes him. Just because she likes him doesnt mean that he likes her or that hes cheating. Dont make a big deal out of it unless they start talking more than you talk to him or if you know hes cheating. Trust him. If things get worse after the camping trip its safe to assume that he likes her back. Ask him to be honest with you and to tell you if he likes her. Also stop telling her to stop talking to him. That just makes her want to talk to him more because she knows that it bothers you. Act like it doesnt and maybe she will stop, or at least tone it down a notch. Good luck =].
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