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1st boyfriend
14/f...
A boy i thought was really cute asked me out yesterday, and he has a sweet six pack, but I dont know whats wrong. This is my first boyfriend, and so far we`ve only held hands, and before we did i didnt want him around me, but then it was a little better after we held hands, but when i woke up this morning i felt so queezy, like i didnt want to go out with him anymore.It`s so weird. I dont know if this is normal, I havent had my first kiss yet either, and this kid already tried to kiss me, after only one minute of going out. And I know that he goes fast, and i dont like that. Any advice?
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tell him you want to slow down. and if he doesnt respect that.. then hes not the right guy for you.
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Just tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't understand, and keeps doing what you don't want, get rid of him. He's not worth it. There will always be another guy.
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Hey, well maybe your just not ready for a boyfriend yet. People aren`t always ready at the same age. Some have there first boyfriends at the age of 18. Another thing could also be that hes just not the right guy for you. If your not attracted to him and you just take the first guy that you can get and is cute, thats what happens. Wait it out until you find someone that you really like. Also kissing on the first day just proves that he wants one thing - sex related things. Thats not good at all and is extremely fast.
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omg i was the same way with my first boyfriend. dont worry its normal. its just that you feel weird around him because you never had someone so close to you like that. spend more time with him. i know its going to be weird at first but then you will just get over it. i felt the same way like i didnt want him near me and i didnt want him to kiss me but when he wasnt around i missed him. we spent alot of time together so i got really comfterable around him.
dont worry ou will get used to him and you wont feel that way anymore.
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