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Hey Brytt! Its Sammay again! I am werking on losing some weight and I have been doing my moms hour work out tape but I wanna lose weight faster so do you have any suggestions. I mainly want to lose weight off of my tummy, arms, and legs. I would really appreciate any ideas! I love yew! *MoOoOoChEz* Tootles!

lol aww sammy u dun needa lose weight r u on crack! but if ya wanna do alotta sit ups n crunches...i no if u jog or run it burns calories! good lucck babe!!
xOxO*mEeH

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Okay, i'm not like super skinny... but im not fat. I'm 136, about 5'4, and weigh 120 or around there. Is it okay to wear pants that are tight that some of the blubber on my stomach hangs out, but i dont wear tight shirts theyre baggy.. so you can't tell that it's there. and i want to cuz my butt looks huge in them, but im a little worried. What do you think i should do!? pleaseee, please help me it's for tomorrow in school and my crush will see me.

lol wEeLL iif u wear baggy shirts go fer it! lol good luck! hAvE fUnNNnnnn

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ok so im a female 14years old im in eight grade and i guees alot of guys find me really attractive well etleast thats what they all say and so i go out with guys alot liek last time i went out with anyone was like 4 days a go and now i want to go out again with different guy but the problem is that there is 6 guys who like me and i flirt with all of them and stuff and like i flirt with like alot of guys but i mean every girl does at some point but i dont think guys like that much so sometimes i lose them bacause of that but like i think i was born to flirt with guys so am i really that bad or am not the only one who does it and is there anything i should change?

girls flirt guys need to get over it...i kno wut yer sayiN! just try to find a guy u rele liek and is perfect fer u then u wont flirt! good luck!

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Ok I know that this is really long, and I'm sorry, but if you can please answer that would be soo cool. Ok so I have liked this guy who is kind of a dork for about a year and a half. I haven't told any1 except 1 friend because its really embarrassing. This guy's name is Jamie. Jamie thinks he's really popular but he's really not popular at all and most people think that he's really annoying. He used to like me last year for a while and a lot of people still think that he does but he tells everybody that he likes this girl named Jillian who is PeRfEcT and I mean it she is pretty, nice, funny, athletic and most guys do like her. The problem is he is leaving to go to Hong Kong to stay! I'm not sure if I should tell him that I like him or not because he is the type that would go around telling everybody. I was thinking that I could tell him at the end of his last day but then if he likes me it would suck....If u guys can help me that would be so cool! i rate really well!

ask him who he likes......if he seys u go out w/ him.....if u rele like him hoo cared wut everyone else thynks? wutever makes ya happy! good lucc HaVvE fUnNnN!!

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There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I also felt bad for Kellen. What should I do? Should I tell Kellen? Or should I leave it alone?

oMG! cReEpY! lol i thynk u should tell her....no matter if she believes u or not i thynk u need to tell her the truth! always be honet with yer friends!! let her no how he is! good lucc huN!

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ok, heres the deal. i have long, straight blonde hair. i was wondering how can i get my hair into ringlets cause i think they look so cool, but nothing seems to work! please help, it has gotten to my LAST nerve.

curling irons dont brn ur hair if u use them right!! try rollers or w/e!! good luckz!

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okay .. well there is this kid and hes in my geometry class..that's how i met him and i'm a freshmen and he's a sophmore - well we sit next to each other in class and as the days went on we began to talk to each other and he always will take my pens/pencils/purse/book/notebook and not give it back . or if i'm doing work hell scribble all over my paper - after a while he started tlking to me in the halls ramming me in walls er lockers in a playful way - well, i think that i like him and i don't know if he does or how i can find out .. like it seems like it does and a couple people said they tihnk he does .. but i dunno if it's jst his personality .. so i wanna know how i can find out .. please help *i'll rate *

make a move!! see how he responds!! or u culd just be like how do u feel about me.....get to no him hang out with him more! good luck hun!

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In America, is there a certain age you have to be before you are allowed to have sex? It's just that in England you have to be sixteen.

lol i think if u get caught somethin might happen but everyone has been havin sex at 13 and 14 now

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my cuzin is 14. she has already gone to 3rd base!!! i really dont know what to do?? because she cant go to 4th because her familie is so poor their house is like a shack soo they couldnt pay for an abortion and shes a freshman i mean like she cant really just miss nine moths of skewl!!i dont even think she could handle it i mean she afraid to use a tampon!! i just dont no what to do because im not the typical kind of person to just tell her to slow down!! i just dont think its good 4 her to be pregnant i want to prevent it!! please help!!

tell her to use a condom...DuHh lol!! and most 14 year olds have already had sex.....but if u rele feel this way just talk to her and tell her how unsafe it can be! good luck

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Christmas! Omg... Its just around the corner. Its coming faster, then light. I have this boifriend. I LOVE HIM TOO DEATH!!! But i mean this is our first Christmas together. What should i get him for christmas? I need help. I Love him sooo much. I want it to be something special. Truly special. Please help!! ME!! Ill rate you VERY HIGH 5 Whole BIG POINTS! Avice Columnists help me!! Im just lost!!! ASAP! Quick help me... I have only a week to get his present cause im busy with other stuff til x-mas!! Thankss!!!! soo much...

lol aww how cute!! well maybe how bout a stuffed animal with a ox of candy.......or shirts n stuff...buy him a chain.......maybe some cologne...

good luck! have fuUnnNn

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I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`(

aww i understand COMPLETELY how u feel....the truth is you cant ever rele get over yer first love no matter how hard u try...u can move on but its not the same as gettin over them becuz once u c them again all yer feelings for them come right back! and u cant help it! so just move on and get new bf's there will be plenty but its okay to still love yer first love! good luck sweetie!

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How would be the best way to get trust as a Guy? Girls think all we want is ya know!!!! 17 male

hmm the best way to get trust....
dont ever cheat or lie to your girlfriends
dont flirt wit other girls
always be there for them
most girls will begin ta trust yoo if they no u wont go n cheat on em! good luck!

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i have some minor scars on my face from zits and stuff. does anyone know how to get rid of them without buying stuff in the store?

toothpaste...or alcohol

good luck hun!

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my friend i think may become anarexic because well she keeps saying that shes fat and shes not i whenver she says she is i tell her shes not but she doesn't believe me....do u think she might? what can i do to help prevent her from getting more to thinking this?


xox lissy

talk to her tell her she isnt fat MAKE HER BELIEVE IT and if that dont work talk to a consuler

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So yestareday... I got a pair of jeans from Hollister. Their fit fine in the front... but in the back of my legs/butt their kinda baggy. How can I make them "tighter" in the back without them shrinking anywhere else?
Thanks so much!

try a belt or take them back and get a better fitting pair! good luck!

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me and this guy were best friends..and one day he had me over to his house and we madeout and almost had sex!..we go to differant schools now and dont get to see each other too much..so about 3 weeks after i went over to his house he told me that we should just be friends because he felt like he was playing me..and ive like this guy for more then a year!..so its kinda hard..anyways we dont really talk any more and its always akward when we do..he knows how much i like him and just doesnt care anymore..he used to call me and now hasnt in a long long time..im not sure what to do about him because he was my first love..what should i do??

hmm first loves are VERY VERY hard to get over ...trust me i know....but the best thing u can do is find someone new and maybe ther the one for you...just follow your heart....and if u still wanna like him then like him....theres nothing wrong with it...just dont let yer emotions get in the way of yer friendship good luck!

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Hey brytt! I am so bummed. I have been single since 4th grade and im in 8th grade now. I have a crush on 2 guys now. I think the reason they don't want to go out with me is cuz im fat and ugly! I don't know what to do! How do I get them to like me?
Love,
Sammy D.

sammy yer not fat or ugly god dammit lol....i thynk yer prettyfull.....so just tell **** that u rele like him alot and if he dont like u then screw him (sorry matt) lol! but you'll find someone

BY THA WAY I LIKED UR HAIR FRIDAY LOL

x33*bRyTt

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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)

try talking to her and let her no how he is wen she isnt around...and see what she seys...if she doesnt rele care then its best to let her find out for herself! good luck! i hoped i helped!

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Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me.

ok dont ever cut to get attention becuz its dangerous and theres better things to do to get attention....join a team or something to make yer parents and bf proud...then they will give u alotta attention! good luck!

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Ok i guess this isnt really a definite true answer to this question but rather ur opinion. What is True LOVE?

you'll know when yer in love...because love cant be explained its a feeling..and an emotion...good luck! hope ii helped!

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