13/f
Well I like this guy && he likes me too.
But he hardly goes on msn, he used to but hes grounded. I'm really scared we're going to loose our relationship, cause hes also in a different class then me. He only talks to me at like Break/recess & Lunch. But I'm in his Math class, I cant sit near him since his friend always sit there, and then one day, I finally found a spot that is KINDA near him... Something like this.
F= his friends BF = my friends K= always hated this girl H= Him M=Me
F H K BF
f f BF M
Sorry if that was confuesing. Anyways. It was like that, and then I dont really see him talking to me in math. But when "K" was talking to him since he was kinda right beside her, he started to laugh. I can't really find any other time to talk to him. && the valentine dance is coming up. But our school rule isnt ask people before the dance. Its actually you ask the person AT the dance. I want to dance with him, but I'm afraid of the relationship ending. =\
Any advice would do! Thanks. (:
The best thing to do is find ways to hang out after school in real life. If you cant, find ways in school. Stay with him in lunch and recess. Try to ask him if he could sit next to you in Math class(unless you get assigned seats XP) Get him to sit by you instead of you trying to sit by him. Like, ask him to help you understand something in class(even if you already understand it). Its kind of like the saying "the frog does not go to the fly, the fly goes to the frog." Be patient and slowly ease him to sit by you. Eventually, itll become a habit of his, and he'll do it more often(unless the relationship breaks which I pray does not happen). And if your worried about "K" hang out with him more, dont be. Unless you know for a fact that something is going on between them, dont interfere. You could just possibly make thing worse. Just slowly push forward to him and it should all work out.
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13/f
I'm in middle school, 8th grade, and I need a 6.0 to go to high school. My school is year round. So first trimester I had a 1.8 and now, 2nd trimester I had a 2.5. History is my worst subject and I have a plain F. Then in Science a D. And all the rest is A's and B's. I am really trying to keep my grades up and trying to get the rest of my grades to go up. I've been trying to study for tests but what I study is completely off. And I really don't know what to do. I talk to my teachers but I don't understand. My friend is helping me with the rest of my classes that she has with me but she doesn't have history and science with me. I am really in trouble and I don't know what to do, I can't let my grades go any lower. Any idea's what to do? And any studying tips? Thanks a whole lot!
Find a friend in that class and try to have them explain things to you. If you can, take lots of notes. Study as many general ideas you can get, but don't cram like some people. Find habits and ways that can get you to concentrate and memorize things with out having to add too much effort to them. Also, don't stress out when the test comes or even before the test. Take it slow and easy. Study what you've just learned that day. If you don't have that kind of time, set up a schedule you'll be able to follow. You should also try to take online quizzes and study guides as well as visit places or sites that keep your mind going. The more often you learn to think and memorize, the easier it will get. And if your friends are struggling too, try to set up study parties, and learn together while in the process having fun and hanging out with friends.
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For the past month, I've been having problems with the right side of my lower back, my right hip and right leg. They hurt if I don't sit a certain way and it hurts to bend over. That's not really my main concern though because that happens to me on and off...usually just my back though.
My main concern is that every time I stand up, my right leg (from my thigh down to the tips of my toes) feels like it has a very painful heartbeat in it. It only lasts for a few seconds before subsiding. This happens every time I stand up after sitting down. Sometimes if I stand too long, it happens then too.
I can't seem to find anything about this on WebMD or any other site so I would greatly appreciate it if someone could help me with this. I have a history of having blood clots, if that helps any.
Thanks in advance.
Try taking ibuprofen and massaging the area that hurts every now and again. Seeing a doctor is the best idea but sometimes they can give the dumbest answer to you or make it really complex(unless you get a really nice doctor XD)
To me, sounds like a clot in the leg has formed or something(I dont really know, Im not medically associated with anything) So try the above and hope that it helps.
I would suggest stretching a few times a day which would help too.
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16/f. my friend, 15/f...one of my best friends...has changed a lot since this year. reasons: i got a boyfriend and she didnt. i developed more and she didnt. stuff like that.
now, she's very mean towards me. she mocks me, she makes fun of me..and i cant trust her anymore. when she asks me to tell her something, i trust her with my secrets...and so i tell her.
she goes to her OTHER friends...and tells them everything i told her. even after i told her not to. she has a big mouth and is very obnoxious. she's turning into a bitch and i cant do anything about it. she even told me thatt she was jealous.
i cant have a person like that around me. yet..its so hard to end a friendship, but i feel that if i dont...she will hurt me so much in the end.
what can I do?
First of all there are a lot of things that could explain her negativity(and don't take it like its your fault because it isn't...)
1 She could be jealous of you
2 She could be envious
3 she wants you to be in the same position shes in
SO best advice is to set your ground and tell her that what she is doing isnt right and hurts you. And if you really want to help, try to get her to meet some guys and such. You just happened to have gotten more faster and she will catch up to where you are too eventually. And if you have trust issues, dont tell her EXTREMELY secretive things, just stuff that if it got out, you wouldnt care much for it.
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Okay so prepare yourself for some nasty. When I poop it hurts so bad. I usually don't cry. Like when I broke my finger I never cried, but when I poop I cry. It hurts way bad. After it's over it makes me bleed. I told my doctor and she didn't do anything. She just said my poop is too hard and it's causing me to bleed. It rips my skin at times. Is this really serious or should I toughen it out? I'm also 16/f. If that says anything.
Drink a lot of fluids and eat lots of fruits and vegetables that contain water in them. Plus have fiber. Thats really gross, but if you learn to take fiber and drink water, it should change in a couple of days...*shutters*
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my bf and i last night talked about what we daydream and stuff not exactly text sex/sex put like him taking off my shirt and where i would touch his back and chest and stuff like that. we both really liked it and got turned on and thought it was sexy but the thing is we are really good Christians and we are wondering if it was wrong that we did that. can anyone tell me what they consider this? its not sex but is it 'unholy' i think it might have been kinda bad but i still really liked it. what should i do?? thanks so much :]
Technically, its not truly sinful because you haven't really "done" anything. So basically, you can do all you want as long as it doesn't get too serious you know. Just try to avoid getting too into it cause, before you know it, you'll get too far. But its simply a healthy thing that you two show affection for each other.
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