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does anyone know where to get etnies that are less then $40?
will rate 5s for anythingg

urmm..i got mine..at zumiez i dont know if i spelt that right or not. but yeah.. they were like 30 bucks. sneakers these days arent cheap, espcially coming from journeys, pac sun and etc.

good luck

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well im askin if im doin tha right thing....
i think im fat in 25kgs over my healthy weight im 13 (female)) every one thinks im fat they tell me im an oompa loompa i cant stand it so i started eating then throwing up then i started not eating then throwing up.
heres my questions
is it honestly going to make me lose weight?
is it not healthy?
should i?
im not "addicted" to it so should i stop?
if i do it should i eat before i throw up or just not eat at all
please answer the questions completly truthfully even if it leads to me being bullimic i WILL take all afvice into consideration......thanx

hey...sry i couldnt answer this right when you asked it..i havent had a computer in 2 months. anyways.. im not sure exactly how many pounds 25 kgs is..and you didnt say your height so i couldnt really figure out if your fat or not. it isnt always about fat, it also could be friom muscles and ect. dont forget at 13 we are going threw that time of changing from a child to an offical teenager..and we have a lot of emotions and our body changes a lot. (also your period could also be affected in the weight area). a lot of people tend to notice when they start their period they seem to eat more. its not healthy to throw up at all..inless your stomach makes you throw up.. (like when your sick with a virus) other then that...its not normal..talk you doctor they can help you get onto to a track to help you lose weight if you really want to. dont forget hun. its not important what other people think about you. its important for what you think of your self. if you think u are fat then do a diet a doctor think is right for your age. if you dont think you are fat then dont go on a diet but watch what you eat. thats all.. if you have anymore questions, feel free to drop one in

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whats the dif. between givin head and a bj??!



thx for any answeres! i rate high =)

they are the same thing...just named different.. like fingering and eating out are the same thing..ppl just call it different things. thats all

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ok i want to make a photo album online. but i tried picturetrails and it only let me put 36 pictures and i was wondering if there aere any other site that will let me put like 50 pictures on it and let me put music on it too. not phototbucket. thanks!

i know..picturetrail sucks...try www.photobucket.com..works well!!

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okey dokey, i'm gonna be a freshman...14/female and my brother is gonna be a senior, so he wasnt much help. ok if you're a guy, what do you like to see on girls, and if your a girl, can you help me out with some good stores to shop at and what clothes would look good for this school year so i dont look like a fool in front of the upperclassmen? thanks in advance.

ok..well hun..sounds like your tryin to fit in..but you should really stand out and be yourself..and wear what you want to wear not what everone else wears

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on some peoples columns why do they have stars? like if you go to Browse Comlumnists. What do they mean? why do those people have them????

PlEaSe AnSwEr!!!

the blue stars filled in means..the higher ppl rate on then answers that person had given on their advice and the gold stars like JBDreamer are paid memebers

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Where or who can i get a kitten that is 8-10weeks old please give me a adress and phone#



Thnx :-)i really need 2 find one

i have 3 outside..that are about 4 weeks old, it could help u can say the state u are in.

also try goin to an animal shelter.

the one i got my dog was a great place.

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i`m EXTREMELY shy on the phone.. when calling a guy to invite to a movie.. would it be easier if i did a 3 way with my friend

yeah, it could help...or have a friend do it for u while on 3 way? but its normal hun dont worry

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Is it possible for your cherry to be popped while a guy is fingering you?...thx

yes, it'sm possiable..same with a tampon.

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My friend Felicia just invited me over her house in like 30 minutes..the problem is, I don't want to go. I just don't feel like going...What excuse could I possibly use? I can't say my parents are making me go somewhere because they're both at work. I can't say I'm hanging out with friends because all my friends are out of town. Please help!

If both of your parents are at work, you really shouldn't go anywhere, incase they call. So just tell her your not allowed out.

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I'm getting a physical soon and I want to know what they do. Because last time I got one (about 2 years ago) the doctor made me take my clothes off. Are all physicals like that or do they just check your eyes, hearing, breathing, stuff like that? I rate 5's

No you don't..all mine does is unzip my jeans and just feels the waist line where the button las on my waist..thats all

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do foster homes keep brothers and sisters together

it really depends...some do and yet some dont depends, if one is hanicap (sp?) and one isnt they might get spilt up to different foster homes..but i know they try to keep them all together.

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I was looking at my feedback and someone gave me a 5. I forgot what question I asnswered so I clicked on the link and it showed me my question and an answer. But the answer wasnt mine! It was from this other girl but not me!!! What could've happened?

me as well..i just read after i read your question..it should b fixed soon! so dont worry

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Do you HAVE to be pretty to get a boyfriend? Because in my school, some guys act like they NEED to find the prettiest girl in the world and they be calling almost evry girl ugly...

yes..you have to be pretty....pretty in the INSIDE!! duhh no you don't have to be pretty on the outside!! what really matters if you are pretty in the inside!!!! everyone should know that..and if these don't guys don't see that then they are really screwed up bc the outside doesn't matter what matters is the inside.

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Well heres the deal, im 13 and im a guy. I like this one girl, and i already told her that i like her and i want to go out with her but i dont know what i should do next plz help me!

Well to my point of the view your 13, which is what 7th grade? You really don't need a girlfriend right now, your too young to take that kind of relationship. But, all you really need to do is step up to the plate and ask her, be cool (as in be yourself) don't be all nervous over this.

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i'm scared about summer. there is 2 more days of skool left and i am ttly freekin out!!! is it normal to be scared of leaving your friends for like... 3 months?!? it mite be because- well see it was my first skool yr here- and during the summer im goin bak to the place i used to live. that mite be y.? i dunno........ but if u can ggiv me any help on enithing, id reely like it. thanx, summer scares

ill rate high!!!!

Well.. I used to be scared of the summer..because you think your friend's from the year before wouldn't remember the next year because you haven't seen them in 3 months. Try havin a get together if you aren't moving back to far? I am not sure if thats the best answer, but I tried my best.

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Ok, I'm 17/f and I just had a baby. He's 3 weeks now and I'm having a hard time supporting him. His dad won't do anything. He says that he's not sure if it's even his which is a completely false because I gave my virginity to him. He said he won't pay a time until he knows that it's his so he wants a paternity test. So I arranged for the test and he never showed up. He gave me a bogus excuse but I said fine and scheduled another one. We've gone through this process 5 times and he still won't help me or even get the test done. I dropped out of school and I'm working 2 jobs to try and support him because I have no family to help me. My best friend has been an angel she's been taking him to the school and putting him in the day care center so that I can work. She's also been watching him after school for me. I've tried paying her but she refuses the money. She's only one that I have helping me. I need his help. I just don't have enough money. I don't want to put her in foster care because I grew up in different foster homes and I refuse to put her threw that. I think that things would be fine if I could just get him to pay even a little child support. How do I go about taking him to court for child support? Do I need to hire a lawyer for this or can I do it on my own? If he needs to have a paternity test done is there anyway that I can make sure that he will actually show up?? Please help me I'm really confused. I will rate 5's to anyone who tries.

If you are taking him to court. Then yes you will need a lawyer. Trick him into coming for the test? Why not talk to a counsiler (sp?) at a foster home..and talk to them. Maybe they can find a loving family who will help you raise your child, yet you will still have the abilities and see her as well? I don't know I just got off that last part from Monday's espoide of 7th Heaven if you watch that or ever heard of that show.

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could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer?

summerx3crazy ?
sunshinesummerbabe (

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when does the guy put on the condom? does the girl do it or does the guy?

Ok Wow..I agree with the person a few below me..if you don't know where it goes..or who puts it on, you shouldn't even be thinking about it.

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So it seems no one cares that its right to wait untill marrage to have sex (in the chrsitian religon) and now to me it seems seroiusly wrong, but later on it probubaly wont. I just wanted to know at what age do most people lose it? Since im in 7th now, and next year is supposibly the year everyone starts. Most likly the guy I marry wont be a virgin, right? 5's for anyone who is reasonable.

I know some loose it between 12-up years of year mostly. I agree with you, someone asked me how far I ever went with a guy. He said they this something wrong me because I won't loose my virginity till marriage. It's something I choice to keep, till the time is right and not screw my life up at the age of 15...or 16..17 and possiable not till im 20 or 21.

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