I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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what happenes if you snort pixie sticks??? (link)
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omg, i did this during halloween, it was a dare with my friends,so sue me , geez. Its horrible ! You sneeze a lot, and depending on the color [mine was blue] ex - you'll sneeze out blue. AND you get a runny nose. AND its sticky and horrible near your nose. I hated it! It hurt so bad,i think i lost some brain cells from it. haha. i suggest not to do it ! xD
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i recently got into a modeling agency and i was sooo excited! i was really afraid that i would be in a group wiht gorgeous girls & that they would really intimidate me.. but then wehn i went to my first class the girls i saw were like, relaly not that pretty. in fact they were uglier than most of my friends, who were all either average lookng or prettty. sorry if this sounds REALLY shallow, but why the heck would the modeling agency choose ugly people (this is john roberts & barbizon people!) ..i mean some of them weren't even UNIQuE looking!? sooo then i didn't feel that special for getting into the program b/c ugly people got in too..but whyy do they choose those kind of people? (link)
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really, its not all about modeling. And besides,just because you can't see uniqueness doesn't mean older people can. You define people in a different way tha n they do. Modeling isn't always being pretty,thats what make up if for,hun. Its if you have a good personality and are fun to be around,and an Idol to others. Wow,you were quite shallow,hah. Well,get to know them befor you judge on solely looks. You know on americas next top model? i didnt find some of them to pretty,but they didnt have to be. they were different and were an insparation. So, i guess its good to be confident,hah anyways it was JUST looks that mattered in this world,some of my friends wouldn't be mine. Looks never get anyone that far. Look at everyones features. You'll be surprised! well i hope i helped. and good luck with modeling hun!
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everytime i shave my legs they burn for the rest of the day and start to get red dots all over them its horrible because it happens ALL THE TIME. any advice? (link)
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you need to ULTRA moisturize them! use shaving cream from skintamate. get a better razor,like venus [i heard the vibrating one was good!] and after the shower,dry your legs and moisturize them with any lotion. but try to aviod shaving over the bumps,it hurts !
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Does anyone know where i can get VANS or Converses (online) like real cheap??
Thanks xx (link)
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the only lpace online that isn't pricey is journeys.com. but either way converses are going to be 40 or over. and there is a great slection of vans there!
~EDIT~for converse go to converse.com , they're only 7 dollers more , and its for the UK also. the only other place i can think of for vans is zumbies or pacsun.its hard to find UK stores,sorry. S;/
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i am 13 and i weigh 101 lbs, it's all fat, i have no muscle, i live on oatmeal, pizzia, and fruit. i don't drink so much pop mostly kool-aid and water. (link)
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ah! oatmeal isn't bad, but its really filling,and you shouldn't have it all the time[in my opinion] instead of oatmeal eat special K or some healthy cerial that tastes good :).Also,you could take a spoon full of peanut butter,get crunchy cerial tht has vanilla and almonds in it,and dip. its super good! pizza is far to greasy. instead try pasta with olive oil and peas,chicken salad,and some nuts [they're really good for you.] or something along those lines, they're great :]. so you should have like 2000-2500 calories a day,depending on you. Fruit is good good good! eat fruit for meals - fruit salad,or even putting fruit mixed with lettuce, like tangerine salad - yum! Water helps flush out your body,so its great for you,and you should have some low fat skim milk,skim milk only has 90 calories! And if you want some snacks, get special K granola bars and 100 calorie packs. You should build muscle. I would go to the gym,with a friend,and use an ab machine and a tremill. Also swim!! Around me there is a YMCA,so if there is something like that around you,you should go. Your supposed to have 45-60 mins of excersize a day at least. Danceing for 1 hour is equvilent to running 6 miles [so i've heard] And as long as you sweat,your burning fat. Kool aid is just as bad as Soda! Oh, and chicken salad wraps are delicious. well i hope i helped and sorry for going to over board, good luck!
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i know there is red, green, yellow, and orange concelaer. they all have different purposes and each color goes wtih a different purpose. which one goes with which? (link)
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it all depends on the pigment of your skin.
i know that yellow is to conceal red bumps/dark circles. green is what the person said below me also,but also if you have pink/red skin (well..irish,like freckles and pink cheeks) it hide them along with your regular color. orange and red? i've never heard of that. the only orange concealer i've seen is when people use concealer thats the wrong color for them and it looks orange. but red,i've never heard of either. but i know that my science teacher said indians have a pigment of red in there skin,so the concealer isn't nessisarly {sp?} red, but it has red pigment in it for there skin. just a guess. but you can never be 100% sure of the advice on advicenators. anyways i hope i helped some bit :]
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i have really dark brown eyes, pale skin, and acne
if i use black eyeliner inside my eyelid then it all leaks off during school and makes my eyes look all dark and gross
i need an eyeshadow to really make my eyes pop.
any kind or colors i should use?
any ways to do my eyeliner?
and what color eyeliner? (link)
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hey, i'd say im pretty pale and i have dark brown eyes also. Well i use almay bring out the brown purple eyeliner, which you can usually get from CVS. Also,if you dont like useing it inside your lids,put it right near your lash lines. and eyeshadow that would look good is gold,or a shimmery taupe color [which is what i used to use when i wore it.] OH! and shimmery grey is cute at times!! and it would look wonderful on brown eyes. To brighten your eyes put white eyeliner in the corner of your eyes near your nose. Also, if you want to get concealer/foundation go to macy's and get it professionally matched to your skin! [water based is best] Also,if you dont want concealer/foundation, then useing a warm pink lip gloss draws attension to your lips and less to your acne. Hah i might be getting to carried away but putting all around loose powder [..the sparkely all around powder] will give a glow and would look so nice you wont even need to use eyeshadow! good luck !!
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Alright, so i have been wondering this for a while.. i think i have small boobs compared to everyone else i know... I am 15 years old and i am 5'4ish. i know i am probably a late bloomer, but i hate it. I was thinking of trying this High-Calorie diet thing to gain more weight so..ya know haha. Anyways, its really embarrassing because my boyfriends friends make fun of me because of it and all my friends have bigger boobs than i do and its intimidating....i know i should try a push-up bra, but i find them uncomfortable, if i had a choice i wouldnt wear them at all, but..i guess its a 'requirement' and i would be even more flat.. so im in a bit of a crisis, anyone help? (link)
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UGH. your lucky your a 36A!! im only a 32! Anyways, yeah, i wouldn't do the calorie thing,because you never know where it will go. And you don't want it all going to your stomache! Well, I have a victoria Secret push up bra and its wonderful! It really feels nice,its not like the normal push up bras. Get the victoria secret PINK [
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so yeah i went 2 myspace and a got a new friends request thingy
i opened it and then it said that there r no friends request in my folder. WTF????? i don't get it. and i also had a new comment and an invitation 2 something. after i looked for the friends request and went back 2 "home" all of it was gone! and i looked at my profile 2 see the comment but there was no new comment there.
so please help me i am really confused. AND I WANNA C THE COMMENT!!!
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yeah,that happend to me and my friend. its just a glitch,it said for me i had a new message and friend request,but when i clicked it nothing was there,their site just messed up.
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ok i need your help !!
im 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds
is the to fat to skinny or average ??
cuz i was thinking about losing 5-10 pounds do u think i need to ??
HELP !!
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actually,your supposed to be under weight. but if you have a small frame,then you're pretty normal. i think you're fine as it is. if you feel you need to loose weight, then go for it. because its really up to you what you think is skinny and what you think is fat. i dont think you need to though.
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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
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really,i think its just laziness,and thats why people tell others to get a life. Your being lazy,or you dong have enough motivation to get yourself out there. Get involved. join clubs, i know i take musical theater,and it really made me louder. and its fun! also try a sport. like soccer,or something that gets you out there. because for one thing you meet new people and for another,staying active makes you happier. well,you know this,you have a life. your just not fulfilling it. everyday say hi to someone knew. also always smile and say "Hey ___!" just because saying there name helps you remember more. get rid of boredom- myspace! its fun. hah,music,also this'll help you meet new people,because if you ask me its pretty hard to be friends with someone if you have nothing in common. just think "i can.i can do whatever,be weird,be funny,anything i want." it take determination to reach a goal. call your friends, and when you get to your house play dress up of some silly kid games. those are the best. then make a GIANT cookie! haha thats what i would do. kay i hope i helped! good luck :] and remember this takes time. let people know they can trust you and your there for them :]
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i need help !!
ok i have green eyes and blck eyeliner doesnt look very good (it makes me look kinda goth cuz of my eyes) what color should i use that would look the best for my eyes ?? plz help !! (link)
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brown/chocolate. and if you want to be more on the unique side,try dark plum. but i think green eyes looks good with a chocolate colored eyeliner. so go for it :] hope i helped
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so i'm getting my braces off in less then a week
and i'm just wondering what exactly happens?
Like the process, and what if you have stains?! (link)
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well i've never been throught it.
but my friend said it doesn't hurt. and it might feel slimy. and your most deffinatly wont be used to it. and they either whiten your teeth or chave them down a bit,to make them whiter were the stains were. but its different for everyones.its just like normal like when you change them every month but this time the brackets and back things come off. my friend got both and her teeth are like BAM! hah. oh and my other friend actually lost her back tooth when they got taken off,but thats rare so dont worry about it.unfortunatly i still have them on,and i'll need them on for another year. good luck!
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My best freind has the shoes i want. and i dont know if i should still get them or not. whatdo u think i should do? (link)
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just get them. just say your mom bought those for you as a surprise,cause she knew you liked them befor your friend got them. vualah :]. but yeah get them,and just wear them differently. maybe you could put a bow on it or a cute pin,so its more like you own touch,she'll know you didnt copy her then. and besides,its your best friend,if this happens all the time,she might get mad,but this is only once im sure she wont get mad at you.
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okay so theres this guy.. and i like him. i talk to him bacically every day, but sometimes we have awkward silences. i dont like them.
like i cant talk to a guy. you know? its really hard. like ill be talking to this guy and it will go like this
me-hey
him-hey
---awkward silence
him-did you do your math homework(okay he asks this question like every day, but its about different subjects)
me-oh crap! (i get out my book)
(i do my homework)
--awkward silence
me-did you win your game last night?
him-no
me-who'd you play
him-saint paper of pens(fake name..duh :])
me-aww..whens your next game?
him-next friday
--awkward silence
okay so thats how it goes. i dont think he likes me that much, but i really want him to..yeahh..heres how another conversation went::
[[okay im telling a really long story..and i just ended it]]
me-hhaha
him-haha i was counting the times you said "and i was like" and it was 52 times!
--awkward silence
so yeah thats my story
how do you talk to a guy?
hellppp meeee :] (link)
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hah just use fill ins
this is your convo revised my way (im just guessing what the guy would say) the " ( ) " is all the possiblities EDIT- its another alternative to the conversation,hah
me-hey !! --act ubeat,smile!
him-hey
---awkward silence
^ aviod them! instead say
me-whats goin on? (or hows life?)
him- nuthin really, (good,you?) (bad)
me-yeah, same here,kinda bored (mines ok)(why?)
akward silence
^aviodd.
him-did you do your math homework(okay he asks this question like every day, but its about different subjects) < that means he wants to talk to you still!
me-oh crap! (i get out my book)
(i do my homework)
--awkward silence
instead of the silence
me-do you get this? (or if you get it, did you finish yours?)
him- yeah (no hah)
me-did you win your game last night?
him-no
me-who'd you play
him-saint paper of pens(fake name..duh :])
me-aww..whens your next game?
him-next friday
--awkward silence
^ nope :] say
me- oh i want to go to one,whens the next home game?
him- blahblahlbah (lol its _____ ) (idk)
me- i'll deffinatly be there :] are you guys good? or " you should find out,cause i've never been to one of your games beforr"
him- yeah your should go.
me- well i g2g i'll talk to you later,bye!
its always good for you to end it at first,and also start small. then when you open up more and share things,it'll get better
are you kidding?! i think he likes you at least as a potential friend that could later be something more! hes having as much as a hard time as you are starting comvos.
[[okay im telling a really long story..and i just ended it]]
me-hhaha
him-haha i was counting the times you said "and i was like" and it was 52 times!
--awkward silence
^ instead..
me- ahhh sorryy lol its a habit...i should stop. did you even pay attension to the story?
him- no sorryy... (yeah i did)
me- ok,i'll try to say it this time with out daying "like" (what did i say?)
him- hahah (um you said ---)
me- hah well i g2g meet ___ so i'll see you around.
just act like hes another girl,but different looking,and smile,be sweet and a little bossy. :]
im sorry if i didnt help,i tried. i hope i gave you some pointers,if you need more convo. starters or something i'll try and give you more in my inbox,but remember just let it flow,no conversation can be planned hah.The reason your afraid to aproach him is because you like him as a crush,right? well think of him as a new friend :] good luck!
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Okay, so I'm a 14 year old female. There's this guy in one of my classes, and he's a junior. Since the beginning of the year, he has always paid "special attention" to me, like teasing me and stuff. I even recall a while back in October-ish, I was walking in the hallway afterschool, l and he was with his friend, and he stopped to talk to me for no reason at all. Back then, I thought he was kinda hot but never seriously considered him as a potential bf because a guy 2 years older than me having a crush on ME? The notion was impossible.
But as time went on I noticed more and more hints being dropped by him..for example, he always holds open doors for me and makes a huge scene of it "HERE, [myname], LADIES FIRST!". And when any of his friends try to talk to me, he instantly turns and stares at me. Whenever I talk to HIM, he stares right at me and gves me this huge grin.
Now, he's always like looking at me in class, especially when I talk to any guys. But I don't know if I'm just imagining the signs or if he teases me just to look cool in front of his friends. Or maybe he's just a friendly guy.
Oh, let me add some more details about us, I guess. I gave him a present over christmas break (it was just a card lol) and he seemed to really like it, he had this big smile on his face. And he's always telling me how nice I look. Also, I'm the girl he talks most to in class (this isn't much though, because there arent a lot of other girls in the class and all the girls are freshmen) I expect HIM to tell ME if he likes me or not, because he's a junior, and if I say no to him (which I wouldnt), it shouldnt be a big blow to his ego. But he keeps on dropping hints that he likes me as something..more. That's where I'm getting confused. Luckily there's a winter formal coming up on the 9th that he can ask me to AND valentine's day 5 days later. Think I should ask him to the dance?
oh and there was also this time in December, when we had free time in class and him and his friends were talking about THE basketball game of the season, and suddenly the guy turned to me and asked me if I was going. I told him I wasn't, and he asked, "why not?" Of course, me being STUPID and MISSING the hint, I said "i'm kinda busy," when I really wasn't (i was completely and totally free!!), because I was embarassed at being singled out like that. If i were smart i would've said "no, because I can't get a ride". and he mightve invited me to come. sorry it's so long T_T (link)
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first off,its okay,i like long questions,because they give me more info to help you (:. Anyways, have you ever met him befor in the past (befor the beginning of the year?) because if you have,then maybe he thinks of you as a good friend. But it deffinatly seems like he wants you to notice him. You want to know if this is just an act or not,so i suggest actually talking to him on the phone,i-ms,some place where its just you and him. it'll be uncomfortable though at first. oh,but dont ask to be just you and him in person,because thats for one thing too uncomfortable and another,he could want to take advantge of you. i kinda doubt that though :],maybe check out his reputation. I'd say work your way on becomeing closer to him,cause the best (flirty) friends make the best (flirty) couples. if you only flirt with him a little,kick it up a notch. But dont seem to annoying, just be sweet,and dont let him get his way all the time.Have play fights,you know,what couples would do. Picture yourself and him,do you think you;d make a good couple(obviously yes) Its always good to second guess,because what could be good at first might turn out bad later. Thats why you should move deeper into your friendship. I know im kinda off-topic,i know you asked me if you should ask him to the dance,but this will help you so much,you'll feel more assured. Personally im the person to flat out go for it,so yeah, i do think you should ask him to the dance. And if things do work out good for you two,it might be a good conversation starter if you mention that you wanted to go to the basket ball game but didnt think he liked you. Oh but be aware, he's 16,and he might think your vulnerable,dont go too fast. when your talking to him with his friends, look at his friends reations,and see if any of them have smiles that signal its all a dare(after your done talking). i really doubt it,but just to be safe. sorry i gave a long answer ;]. good luck
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i heard somewhere that if u brush your hair while its wet it doesnt help prevent split ends. is this true? bcoz im geting my hair cut 2day and after that i need to really take good care of my hair.
thanks a lot
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ahh! no! dont brush your hair when its wet,but combing it isnt bad. (as long as you dont have a huge knot in your hair, then i dont think it'll be bad to comb it) and if you still have some conditioner in your hair,then combing it would be fine. or useing your fingers (i dont do this though) but really just roll it up in a towel and when its almost dry,comb it :] hope i helped!
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I would just like to know what are traits you personally think make a person a loser? (link)
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none. i guess being a "loser" is defined by the people around you,no matter how cruel it is. i guess the label it generally quiet,shy,smart,big glasses,zits,snorts,and you know what? thats just from movies. its not even real. and now a days,everyones a loser. hah, i call it to my friends sometimes,when they act so rediculous. a "loser" might be a hated person. or a person with no friends,i tihnk thats really sad. people are bitches,to kick someone while they're down,especially if they did nothing to you. ugh. hah anyways a losers=friends. no,to me,to but i dont understand,if there are no losers(label) how could there be traits to it?
-stuck up
-jerky
-fake
-brand named
-puppet
-betrayer.
that makes a total "loser" in my world.
wow im really mixed up today. sorry if i gave you the wrong advice,well i tryed (;. good luck!
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My OLD best friend was the greatest for 3 years, or so I thought, I found out she lied and wasn't even my real friend for the first 2 years, and she does little things just to make herself feel better and me feel worse. This may seem kinda stupid and conseted but after being taken advantage of for 3 years it's a big thing/ But anyway, I realised she's really insecure, not that pretty or cool, and I'm MUCH prettier than her. SO after she told all these people lies about me I stoped being her friends, and made friends with my best friend in the world Meg, and we're so good together and we get along great but being friends with her and not my old friend has comprimised my friendships with a lot of my old friends. SO that makes me really sad, and now I'm becoming kind of popular I guess.. and this may seem great but I kind of feel like I'm becoming a snob and that my new friends aren't for real. PLUS with this new like I'm going to have to leave my old life in the dust, but I just don't think I can do that, but I CAN'T go back to my old life because I was SO mistreated. I can't help but feel torn and stuck in the middle... what should I do? (link)
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ugh,truly your the first person i met here who isnt like "omg i want to be popular and have friends blahblahblah" hah sorry. anywayss,you found out about what your old best friend did,how do you know your other old friends didnt do the same? if your "best (old)" friend did that to you,then i would think that the other did that to you as well. I guess if you think about it (and it SUCKS) your friends with one,your friends with them all. and thats just horrible if people only want to be your friend because the most popular girl in school becomes your friend. not saying thats the case,,ah im off topic,sorry xD. ok,but really,your best friend meg seems muc better. and you know,maybe the people in the new group you have are likeing you -bedcause they like you,really, this doesnt seem like a hard situtaion. if you feel like your becomeing a snob,you shouldnt,because its really a good thing to be makeing new friends. you deserve to be known,after all the things you've gone through. stick with your new friends. if you dont feel there real,test them. ask them if they'd want to sleep over,hang out,anything. its a good way to get to know people. well,if anyone really cared about you in your old group,they'd talk to you,right? they'd say something. did anyone? for those who did,stick with them as well. or if they all dont like you anymore (which is really bitchy for everyone to follow with the fight) just say you dont care,your happier now and your sick of being the under-dog. also,try to re-constuct friendships that were broken during the fight,to the people that seem like they dident get to into it. this is confusing,but i cant really explain it in any other way. welllll i tryed. good luck :]
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Is it true that My Chemical Romance is a band that promotes/worships Satan? (link)
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nope,they have some sad songs but deffinatly nothing with satan. i hope i helped! :]
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