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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

is that you in that picture? YOUR SO PRITTY!

Yepp thats me.. Thank you!!
♥ Michelle

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Alright, I think I like my friends ex. I went out with him before they went out. She said I couldnt like him so I stopped. Well I said I stopped but I didnt.. after what seemed like forever he asked her out, and they broke up exactly one week after, because she was a flirt with so many other guys.. what do I do? They are over but i dont want her to get mad!! I dont know where my head is?!?!?!?

Dont worry its normal. You cant get over someone you really like. Its okay. Forget about it. If it is really bothering you, clear your concounce and tell someone.
♥ Michelle

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Well theres this guy ive been talking to for like 6 or 7 months now i met him through my friend. Well hes pretty cool and all. But hes always telling my friends that he likes me and all this stuff but we've never met in person all we do is talk on the phone and hes going to ask me out pretty soon and i dont know if i really should because it would cause problems with this girl and i havent even met him and probably never will since im always so busy i mean we've both been at the same parties but never noticed it or anything. So my question is when he askes me out how should i tell him no with a good reason without hurting his feelings?!? Thanks a bunch xoxo (sorry its long ill rate a 5 if you give a reasonable answer)

Hey, go with your heart. Say yes, if it really doesnt work out just keep it going as friends untill you guys can actually meet!
♥ Michelle

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ok well me and my boyfriend who loved eachother broke up and ive kinda moved on.im still single and he has another girlfriend.yeah it hurts considering shes a bff and she went behind my back.well i like this one guy named bradley and another named jeremy.bradley kinda is a player but hes not sweet to anyone else like he is to me.jeremy has a girlfriend but hes planning to break up with her i think and today at school i relized i liked him.he came up behind me in the hall to hug me.the problem is that i dont think i like bradley,i like jeremy more.i dont know what to do and also my boyfriend was huggin all up on me today because my friend wasnt here.what should i do?

X3 signed X3
Heart Challenged

Hey!! Well, if Jeremy is a player, then i wouldnt take chances. Maybe you can hang around him and be close with him. But Go with Bradley!! Talk to him see if you like him if not then, ya i guess you can go out with Jeremy, but dont get surprised if anything un exprected happens!
♥ Michelle

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Hey, the hair on my arms is kinda dark and I'm very self concious about it. I wanna bleach it blonde and I was wondering what stores you can get easy to use bleach that isn't very expensive. Thanks, and I rate 5's!

Any hair product store. Walmart, target, rave, kmart. any storelike that.
♥ MIchelle

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Emo bands should die
We'll stuff their faces with pie
It'll get all over their ties
And we wont even cry

Am I the only one that feels this way?

No, and it is your opinian. Some people like Emo.
♥ Michelle

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Is there a nice way to say "you're clingy and I need space." I really like this person, but I would like a little breathing room. Is there anyway to say without making them all defensive and stuff.

Just say, i love you or somthing but i kind of need my space.. dont take it the wrong way i want to hang out but i also need space!
♥ Michelle

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hey guys! i need some cute ideas on how to ask a guy to the sadies dance. its when the girl asks the guy and they wear clothes that match eachother. just in case ya didnt know. anything BESIDES decorating there car, and there bedroom.. something random and cute.

What does he love? If he loves baseball, take baseballs and on each ball right one letter so it all says dance? or somthing like that. if not just ask him.
♥ Michelle

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My mom broke up with my dad 9 years ago, and has been living with my stepdad since. I was on her computer, and found that she has been flirting with a guy from Texas (thousands of miles away), and they are planning on meeting in Seattle this weekend.

She hasn't told anyone about it, like me, my stepdad, ect. She said she was going to Seattle for a "craft get-together".

Should I be really upset, storm out, and demand to live with my dad? Or be happy for her that she is happy...and having an affair. I guess I'm still in shock.

I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm not sure how to react. It was probably wrong to look on her computer, but I just had a hunch.

Aww, hey. You have the right to be mad, but at the same time be happy that she is happy. Dont demand to live with your dad, just play it cool. If it comes up be like so how was the man you met with? Cutter than dad? You know? Dont act like you were looking at her comp. purposely just say you had a project or assignment and had to look on the comp.
♥ Michelle

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i have picked at my down there and i got a cut and when i pee, it hurts! is that usual? i know its not a bladder infection
thanks

Hey why would you pick there anyway? But you should go tell a doctor and they can help heal the cut. But like any other cut, it will heal the same way.. over time.
♥ Michelle

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whenever im talking to this guy i like on the phone or online i never know wht to say!! its soo annoying and awkward. i dont know him tht well so what would be some things to say that would start a conversation?? please help! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!!!

Hey, you can talk about..

*school
*families
*friends
*things you like and dislike
*just normal everyday stuff

Think of it this way.. how do you start a convo with you friends? Start it the same way!!
♥ Michelle

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ok im soo scard.. im only 13 ok.. and ive been trying to hook up with my friends cousin.. so he invited me over for dinner tomorrow! it will be his family, my friend, and another kid who my friend likes.. the funny thing is ive met his mom, his sister, and his brother.. but ive never met him! im soo nervous about being around his family, and ,well, meeting him.. someone help me calm down and give any other advice

Hey, just be yourself!! Im sure youll be fine!! Dont be scared otherwise things will be awkward. Have fun and stay positive!!!
♥ Michelle

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I have piano lessons and I love it. My mom says that im probably going to quit because I dont practice. But i do practice! She just never listens! I really really really dont want to quit Piano! Music is my life! I have an absolute passion for it! I LOVE music!
Ana

Hey, i asnwerd your question about singing too but anyway, If you love piano dont quit. Just see if there is a group of friends that want to take lessons and go with them. It would be cheaper.
♥ Michelle

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My friend, we are really good friends, he told me that he likes me, more than a friend. I told 4 of my friends, when I wasnt supposed to tell anyone, but people have to find out someday. He got upset, so to make him feel better, i said i like him more than a friend too. But really, im not sure how I feel. Im really frustrated. I don't want to hurt his feelings...Please Help!!!
Ana

Well, think of it this way.. if you lie you are hurting him more than if you say the truth. So really you can just tell him, i rather be friends now.
♥ Michelle

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I really want to become a singer. I mean i REALLY want to. I asked my mom about going to singing lessons, but she said we cant afford it. But if we can afford Piano, we probably can afford singing. I only do piano lessons, and I LOVE music. I have an absolute passion for music.
Ana

Hey!! If you love singing so much maybe you can cut your piank lessons and do singing instead. Or, you can take singing at school as a period.
Good Luck!!
♥ MIchelle

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Just got this email:

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Sent : Monday, March 7, 2005 7:08 AM
To : tinkerbell_7141@msn.com
Subject : I AWAITS YOUR URGENT RESPONSE.

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+233 243471860

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Now, having monitored this deposit over the years
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+233 243471860


...What to do? I know it's a scam, but how should I reply?

Dont reply. You can ask the police to track this user guy. If you want to reply that bad just say No thanks.
♥ Michelle

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Can you have sex when you're on your period? If so, what should you do? Also, is sex better (for male & female) if you shave your vagina? What does "popping the cherry" mean and does it happen every time you have sex & does it hurt? Sorry so many questions!

Hey okay, No you cant have sex while having your period, well i guess you can but it is not the greatest to have sex while you are having your period cuz bloode will go everywhere and stuff. You should shave, but it is up to you if you want to shave it or not. Sex hurts because you pop your cherry. Popping your cherry is when the dick goes into the vigina and the dick brakes your hymen. You will blead for a few days. And it doesnt happen every time you have sex!! Have fun!
♥ Michelle

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Im really sorry, this is really gross but i need advice..

Alright.. for three days in a row i have had extremely bad diarreah. I litterally cant leave the bathroom. I woke up this morning at 6am having to go #2(diareah) and it is now 10pm. During this whole day I have gone diarreah 28 times. It is liquidey and it slides out like seriously, WATER !! its yellow too!! and i have extremely severe stomach pains also. i mean severe, this morning at 6am when i ran into the bathroom i sat on the toilet and i started litterally SOBBING in pain, i cried from 6am to 8am this morning because it hurt so much. i really dont know whats wrong with me, i really need help!! i havent gone to my parents bc theyr always at work and im always home alone. im too embarassed to go to a parent or DR. please help me i dont know if im sick or what?!

im really sorry that it is so gross, i hope y'all will understand!

Hey. I know you said its embarrasing to go to a doctor or whatever. But if you want to see what is happining and to get better you have to tell your parents, and they will take you to the doctor.
Stay healthey!
ALways there...
♥ Michelle

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im meeting this guy for the first time tonight.. and we might possibly hook up.. i want to look perfect.. does anyone have any makeup, hair, or clothing tips that I could use?

Hey what color is your hair and ect? What are you wearing? If you tell me this info ill gladley help!!
♥ Michelle

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Hey do i deal with my ex. We just split up on saturday and i'm total deversated but my mate dragged me out tonight for some drinks. 19/f/uk. Well my ex spoke to everyone but me he even spoke to my mom how do i deal with it even though he said he wanted to be mates? xx

Well, you can still be friends with him. So call him every now and then and see how he is doing. He might have just wanted to be friends and see if anyone else was out there in the world for him.
♥ Michelle

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