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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!

No! you arent over weight at all i think that is the range you are supposed to be in! that is good but if you arent satisfid with yourself excerise and eat right the HEALTHY way like have morning jogs or eat fruites and vegtables! YuMm lol i hope i helped it you ever need to talk email me! Andiehunni23@hotmail.com -Andrea

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Hey. It's really weird all of a sudden I'm feeling really depressed and I've lost a little bit of weight... I don't get whats causing this HELP!

Is there someone in your family/friends that is gone or troubleing you? i have this feeling too and this has been happening to me too. just get your mind off of all the things going on in your mind try to find something to do with one of your closest friends and talk to them about it. And eat IcE CrEaM! YuMmM lol it always does good for me! lol well i hope everything works out tell me how everything goes! -Andrea

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Im very self concious and i have no friends, im 13 and i dont like fight or anything but all my friends use me and stuff and like im always picked last for things and i hate being alone at school sometimes i hide in the bathroom what should i do?

I think that you should stop being self concious of yourself and start getting more involved with more activites and start expressing yourself mroe to people and they will appreciate you more! and throw a little get together! with a couple of your new friends! tell me how everything goes! -Andrea

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Yeah, again with the thing with me being friends with this one guy. He always says stuff like he loves me and asks me out as a 'joke' and stuff.. I actually think he might like me because I know he used to like me, but that was a couple months ago. I still kind of like him more then a friend and I would say yes if he did ask me out. But, the thing is, when we're talking online and stuff we normally joke about stuff like saying "sexy :-*" or something like that.. but I dont know if he really IS joking.. he might be, and he might not be? How can I know for sure if hes doin it for real or just playin? I can't ask him kuz he'll respond as a joke.. HELP!

Ya that is a tough one there is a guy that does that to that ik and i just ignore him but anyways...i think that you should tell him that you do like him and ask him to stop joking because you do like him and tell him to stop that is a hard question hun idk what else to tell you about that. but maybe he is doing all of this joking stuff because he does like you and that is just his way of flirting (ya ik guys do that in lame ways sometimes) but ya that maybe but i hope i helped just a little! -Andrea

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Guys don't seem to like me. I am not ugly or fat so I don't understand why guys wouldnt like me. I am afraid to ask the guy out that I like because I don't want to get rejected. So my question is how can I get guys to notice me.

Well i think that you should flirt more with guys and get to know them more and you can have something to talk about with them so you can always talk about something and dont be shy around them. It is normal if you get rejected everyone does and if the guy you wanna ask out doesnt go out with you then he doesnt know what he is missing lol i hope i helped a little! tell me how it goes! -Andrea

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Hmm.. I met this guy online, and I sent him a pic of me and stuff and he REALLY likes me and stuff.. and omg hes sendin me love smileys and stuff.. and lol idk i kinda play it back but idk.. help?

Um. srry i dont really understand your question lol srry maybe you can ask me again? lol srry! -Andrea

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I have this problem see i really like this guy and were kinda friends i mean we grew up together i mean we dated when we were liek wayy younger but he lives in mahomet 15 mins away and goes to a different school and he is super hot, nice body, like the highlight of all sports, point gaurd, qb, shortstop, you know what i mean, anyways he could get like any girl he want but i know i love him and im not the prettiest girl i mean im kinda chunky but i do think i have a pretty face, also we both kinda act diffretn around each other. what do i do i mean we dont live in the same area but my feelings are soo strong and im bout to burst.
help!
14

Well that is hard one lol, dont get me wrong that is sweet that you love this guy that have that strong of feelings for him. I think that since you guys did date a while ago maybe he does have feelings for you as you do for him. And maybe that is why you guys do act a little different around each other because you bother like each other. Not to get your hopes down or anything but maybe he acts different around you because he doesnt like you like that or werid vibes or something. but i think that since it seems like you can tell him anything, i think you should tell him how you really feel instead of hiding it all this time. And start to hang out with him more and flirt with him more and then break the ice. Because then he will know that you do like him and you arnt hiding it. i hope i helped a little! tell me how it goes email me! Andiehunni23@hotmail.com
-Andrea

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I gave my guy friend head because he wanted to know if i could give it good, i was kinda pressured but now i kinda feel weird. what do i do

Wow i think that is a tough one. first of all if you wernt comfortable doing it in the first place you shouldnt have done it. i think that you shouldn't really hang out with your friend if he is making you do this kinda stuff to you. And by putting pressure into you, that isnt a real friend, he just wants to get "something" from you. i think that you should just move on and get a different friend to hang around and not pressure you into doing this kinda stuff till you are ready to. i hope i helped! -Andrea

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Dear Andrea, My best friends are doing drugs and stuff like that. They are really great people but i dont like how they are doing drugs! they keep on telling me to try it, but i dont want to, so they say if i dont try it i cant be their friends. should i try it or should i get new friends?

I think that if they are true friends they wouldnt pressure you into doing drugs. Real friends respect your desistion, and dont put that "peer pressure" on you i think you should do the right thing and try to find new friends that respect you. i hope i helped! -Andrea

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Hey, just to let you know i love your layout. it rocks.. anyways, i have this friend (girl) and she is the best.. shes sooo halarious and stuff and i can always count on her to make me feel better if somethings going wrong. also, shes kind of black, but not really.. shes like half and half.. and her mom and dad are white too, i thought she was adopted but i dont think so anymore kuz her and i recently looked at a pic of her when she was in 2nd grade or so and her last name was different! i think her real dad was black, but i dont wanna come to any conclusions. i also dont want to ask her about this situation even tho we are really tight. i dont want her to think im butting in on her life or anytthing, and i dont want to offend her or make her sad that IF her dad died or left the mom or something.. please help!

thx! lol i think that if you guys are really good friends, and that she can trust you i think that you will be able to talk to her and have a open and honest conversation. but before you apportch the conversation ask her if she is confortable talking about it becuase if she doesnt want to talk about it then well..lol i dont think she wants to talk about it. idk maybe she just isnt ready for maybe even she doesnt know the whole story herself i would just as her if she is just comfortable about the subject. i hope i helped a little! tell me how everything goes! -Andrea

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well i like this one guy a little, and idk.. we're good friends and stuff.. and he can always make me laugh and i can always make him laugh and we're just really good friends... im afraid to ask him out or stuff not kuz im afraid to approach him but i dont want our friendship to ruin.. ive also heard about 'friends with benifits' and i know that totally sucks ass so just please HELP!

Well I think that you should get one of your friends or even you, to ask him how he feels about you and if he does like you I think that you guys should go out, if you guys have that strong friendship you might be going out for a while and have a good relationship! but yes that is also a bad thing to have your friendship ruin so that is a reason why you guys should be just friends but i think if you guys do like each other you might hit it off and become more of friends after! my advice to you is to try to see how it is and just ask him if you guys could still be friends "if" you guys do end up breaking up i hope i helped a little! -Andrea

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OK heres the thing, i was dating this guy for about 3 months and i really liked him but he started to get annoying and kinda stoped talking to me and one my friend called him and dumped him for me but i wasnt sure if i really wanted to break things off. After we broke up we were still friends and stuff but then skool ended and we kinda stoped talking.. and i still really really lik him but i think he has a gurl friend now and i just lik really want to talk to him and stuff but idk i just dont have neough crouage to talk to him.... wat do i do??

I think if you really like him alot i think then you will be bale to have the courage to tell him that you still have strong feelings for him. And when you do talk to him you should ask him if he is with anybody, because you never know maybe he still has a little bit of feelings for you too! and he might not be with anyone for that reason so before school starts you should try to talk to him, (call him!) or meet him somewhere were you guys can just talk so he knows that you arent just playing around that you do stil like him so that is my advice i hope i helped a little! -Andrea

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I really like this one guy, but another guy likes me too and i sorta like him so should i go out with the guy that kinda likes me? or should i wait to figure out if the guy i reallllly like likes me...?

ya that is a hard question i think that you should ask the guy that you reallly like first if he has any feelings for you and if he just wants to be friends then you should go out with the other guy that wants to go out with you..at least he will go out with you because he likes you! i hope i helped a little and i hope that everything works out! -Andrea

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i wanna give up on boys soooo bad ok im a beautiful girl who loves 2 have a great time and i have a nice body a pretty face and im sweet and i can get a guy but... i cant get a guy 2 fall in love w/ me duz that mean something is wrong w/ me i mean guy that have fallin in love w/ me they did after it was over between us its like they miss wut they had how can i get a boy 2 fall in love w/ me when im w/ them HELP ME... I RATE

You cant eer make someone fall in love with you..it just happends naturally just have a realationship where you guys are comnfortable! hope i helped! -Andrea

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...no one likes me and im really lonely... I mean im not very pretty and im not a twig I don't know what to do blahh!

You never know if no one really likes you remember this there are at least 5 people in the world that are in love with your smile and yes ik it is hard being lonely i have that feeling all the time and dont ever call your self "not pretty" because if you keep telling yourself that then your confidence will go down!! and if you dont think that you are the skinniest one out there dont worry i am sure you are pretty just being you! lol hope i helped! -Andrea

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How do you know if you're inlove?

If you constantly talk about him/her all the time and you cant get your mind off of him and you are always flirting with him and i think that is all i can tell you because if you think you are then you probably are..i think you just know if you are! i hope i helped! -Andrea

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how can i find out how big my boobs are [ possibly a way i coudl find out at home?]

umm that is kind of a werid ? lol but what i would suggest is use a tailers tape measurer and see that? or look at what size your bra is?? i hope i helped?---Andrea

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Im very hot and everything great y wont the perfect guys ask me out?

i think you are a little concieted, my advice to you is dont be all about you and maybe there might not be the "perfect" guy i know from a lot of my guy friends that thye dont like gurls that are soo full of themselves...-Andrea

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I was going out with this kid for 7 months... sence august.. and sence january off and on.. and i like really love him and we finally broke up.. for good in march.. and it didnt bother me at first but now he doesnt talk to me at all and i really miss him and he was my first love and now he has a new girlfriend.. and he really cares about her i really really wanna be with him and he doesnt even kno how i feel and even if i tell him he still wouldnt like go out with me wut should i do?

hey one of my close friends was kinda like that. i think that you should talk to him in person and tell him how you really feel and then he will know that you still have some feelings for him and ask him if you guys can still be friends so you can have communication again, have one of your friends or you have a little "get together" and you guys can start to call each other again and hang out -Andrea

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Hey, I am not fat, but I have really promanate love handles. Does anyone know how to get rid of those?

hey there isnt much to do to get rid of them i would suggest you do crunches to the side and jog alot! i hope i helped! -Andrea

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