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Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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I am 57 years old and have hazel/green eyes. I have a fair complexion and dyed light natural auburn hair. What eyeshadow should I wear to bring out the green? (link)
The best colors for green eyes are brown, purple, deep khaki or forest green. If you keep in the green family it will enrich your eyes. Going back to Make-Up USA's eye shadow selection, I would recommend again the Lagune and the Orient, because they go very well with green eyes too, but would add Sahara (mixes dark green with light green). This color can be dramatic if you use more of the dark green, or subtle if you use more of the light green. Dark green on the lower lid, light on the upper lid. If you want a very subtle (I'm not wearing any make-up but look fabulous) I would recommend Algue Nacree (which is a light green with a white color) this helps lighten your eyes and makes you appear younger. Again I would recommend black or gray eyeliner depending on how dramatic you are trying to be. Gray for everyday, black for evening. A black mascara is best. SPECIAL NOTE: If your hair color is dark, then I would concentrate on the darker colors for enhancement. If your hair color is light, then I would concentrate on the lighter and medium colors for enhancement. Thank you again for your inquiry. If you have any more questions, feel free to write back.
^information was taken from:
http://www.make-upusa.com/faq/eyesfaq.htm
if that isn't the answer you were looking for you can always search more on google. just type in "eye shadow for hazel eyes" or whatever information is necessary! Good Luck!


Okay there's this guy I like that I work with, and the fratnerization ploicy does not affect us because we work in different departments, ANYHOW, I like him alot, and my supervisor and co-workers think I should tell him but I don't know how. All of them told him that I liked him (WITHOUT MY CONSENT), and I guess he wants to hear it from me now. And I wanna tell him, I wanna get to know him more and become closer friends before I become anything else. Alot people say I can do better than him, but that's not what is important to me, I like him for who he is and he has a good heart, he knows how to make me feel good. So I wanted advice on ways to tell him I like him... thankz! (If it helps, or it's needed I'm 17 and he's 19) (link)
Okay, so you work with him so i'm sure there a lot of opportunities for this. Just ask him if he has plans for a weekend or even a day of the week where you both are not scheduled to work. Ask him if he is interested in seeing a movie, or just hanging out. Go out for dinner, or even just for ice cream. Something where you will have plenty of time to open up and talk. Hopefully the subject of "possible relationships" will come up! If you are too afraid of shy to ask him yourself in person to go out with you one night, have someone else do it for you. Or just simply ask him for his cell phone number, or email address, and ask him via internet or telephone. I'm not in college so i'm not exactly sure what "fratnerization" means. So yeah, i hope i helped anyways! Good Luck!


what are some good song lyrics or quotes that like you'd dedicate to your boyfriend or someone you like (link)

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i love that feeling && you're the one i get it from.

I know I`m young but if I had choose him
or the sun.I'd be 1 nocturnal son of a gun

dont think your anything less that
amazing, because you are oh so much more
than that.

you are every reason.. Every Hope.
and every dream i've ever Had. And
no matter what happens to us in the
Future everyday we were Together
Was the Greatest day Of My Life ..`
;; The Notebook;

when i tell you i love you,
i dont say it out of habit,
or to make converstaion.
i say it to remind u that
ur the best thing that
ever happened to me

&& everytime i talk to
you, i fall a little harder

Good Luck..


how do you view your AIM+ history because once i get there, theres no way to view the history.. please help (link)
When you downloaded AIM+ and opened it for the first time, you might have unselected "AIM+ History Viewer". you might want to try redownloading it and making sure "AIM+ History Viewer" is selected. I have that same problem with AIM+. But I don't want to be able to see the history, so I don't really care. It might just not work anymore with AIM+ or something, but that's all I can tell ya to do. Download it again and then try it. Sorry I can't be of any more help!


13/f

okay heres the thing. i kind of like my guy best friend. but the problem is, i cant like him. My other best friend is practically dating him. But i cant help but like him anyways. I dont really know what to do about these feelings. I know I cant actually do anything. And im sure he doesnt like me. But i just wish he did. I can move on, and i do. I like other guys, but i still like him. Nobody knows how i feel & i wouldnt know how to tell them. And i dont think i should. I mean I just.. dont know what i can do.. and im not sure how anyone can help me here.. but i just keep holding this inside of me, and its really starting to hurt.. what can i do?

help please!!

* (link)
heyy hun. well since you are so young..my advice would be that you have plenty of time for plenty of guys! if you really like him though, talk to your best friend! tell her you like, and find out if she would mind if you dated him. if she does, don't go out with him. you don't want to ruin your relationship with your girl best friend over a guy do you? but if she doesn't want you to go out with him..if you tell her you like him, you can tell her that it would bother you if she went out with him too! just don't let it bother you that much because believe me, you will have a lot of boyfriends in your life. some of them just won't work out in your favor, such as this one!! Good Luck! if you need anymore help you can IM me on AIM (UrSoGorgeOusx)


I have two sisters, I am the middle child(im a girl) one sis is 16, the other is 11(i'm 14). I try to get along with them, but they annoy me a lot. My older sister is bossy and thinks she can tell me what to do, and the younger one is a brat who always gets her way. My older sister is really smart, drives, and has a job, so my parents dont think she can do anything wrong. And my little sister is"the baby", so ... well ya know. It's not that i feel like i need more attention, thats not the problem. The problem is i cant do anything with my aunts or cousins without one of them coming with me. I try to tell them and my parents i wanna do something on my own, but they say that having two sisters is something i have to deal with. I spend time w/ my friends, but thats not enough. I cant do ANYTHING on my own, nd ive tried talking to my parents. WHAT SHOOD I DO ??? I'll rate highhh!!!! (link)
do you sisters get to do things by themselves? just tell your parents that you would really like it if you could get to spend time with your aunts and cousins alone. talk to them about it, without arguing because that will just make them say no a lot quicker, and they would probably use your "attitude problem" as an excuse for saying no.. make them notice you doing a little more work around the house, or not fighting with your sister, to make them see that you are responsible. maybe then they will think you deserve a little time for yourself with your aunts and cousins! but if they do say no, repeatedly, just don't worry about it because sooner or later you will be able to do what you want! Good Luck!


whats that song called that goes like, i like girls that wear ambercrombie & fitch i'd take her if i had one wish _________ since that summer since that summer. and who sings it ?

:) (link)
that song is called summertime girls and it's by LFO! that's an old song, but it's good! here are the lyrics.

Yeah, I like it when the girls stop by
In the summer
Do you remember?
Do you remember
When we met that summer...
Chorus 1:
New kids on the block had a bunch of hits
Chinese food makes me sick
And I think it’s fly when girls stop by for the
Summer, for the summer
I like girls that wear abercrombie and fitch
I’d take her if I had one wish
But she’s been gone since that summer,
Since that summer
Hip-hop mama layed spic & span
Met you one summer and it all began
You’re the best girl that I ever did see
The great larry bird, jersey 33
When you take a sip, you buzz like a hornet billy
Shakespeare wrote a whole bunch of sonnets
Call me willy whistle cause I can’t speak baby
Somethin’ in your eyes went and drove me crazy
Now I can’t forget you and it makes me mad left one
Day and never came back
Stayed all summer then went back home
Mccaullay culkin wasn’t home alone
Fell deep in love, but now we ain’t speakin’
Michael j. fox was alex p. keaton
When I met you I said my name was rich
You look like a girl from abercrombie and fitch
Chorus 2
New kids on the block had a bunch of hits
Chinese food makes me sick
And I think it’s fly when girls stop by for the
Summer, for the summer
I like girls that wear abercrombie and fitch
I’d take her if I had one wish
But she’s been gone since that summer,
Since that summer
Cherry pez, coke, crush rock, stud boogie
Used to hate school, so I had to play hookie
Always been hip to the b-boy style
Known to act wild and make a girl smile
Love new edition and the candy girl
Remind me of you because you rock my world
You come from georgia where the peaches grow
They drink lemonade and speak real slow
You love hip-hop and rock & roll
Dad took off when you were 4 years old
There was a good man named paul revere
I feel much better baby when you’re near
You love fun dip and cherry coke
I like the way you laugh when
I tell a joke when I met
You I said my name was rich
You look like a girl from abercrobie and fitch
Chorus 3
New kids on the block had a bunch of hits
Chinese food makes me sick
And I think it’s fly when girls stop by for the
Summer,for the summer
I like girls that wear abercrombie and fitch
I’d take her if I had one wish
But she’s been gone since that summer,
Since that summer
In the summertime girls got it goin’ on
Shake and wiggle to a hip-hop song
Summertime girls are the kind I like
I’ll steal your honey like I stole your bike
Boogaloo shrimp and pogo sticks
My mind takes me back there oh so quick
Let you off the hook like my man mr. limpit
Think about that summer and I bug cause I miss it
Like the color purple, macaroni and cheese
Ruby red slippers and a bunch of trees
Call you up, but what’s the use
I like kevin bacon, but I hate footloose
You came in the door I said it before
I think I’m over you, but I’m really not sure
When I met you I said my name was rich
You look like a girl from abercrombie and fitch
Chorus 4
New kids on the block had a bunch of hits
Chinese food makes me sick
And I think it’s fly when girls stop by for the
Summer, for the summer
I like girls that wear abercrombie and fitch
I’d take her if I had one wish
But she’s been gone since that summer,
Since that summer
In the summer girls come and summer girls go
Some are worthwhile and some are so so
Summer girls come and summer girls go
Some are worthwhile and some are so so
Summertime girls got it goin’ on
Shake and wiggle to a hip hop song
Summertime girls are the kind I like
I’ll steal your honey like I stole your bike
Chorus 5:
New kids on the block had a bunch of hits
Chinese food makes me sick
And I think it’s fly when girls
Stop by for the summer,for the summer
I like girls that wear abercrombie and fitch
I’d take her if I had one wish
But she’s been gone since that summer,
Since that summer


Well so I have to go to a thing tonite for one of my neighbors hu is going away to overnight camp. It is in their yard or their house (if it rains) and I have no idea what to wear. If u need more info I am on advicenators just ask me a question. (link)
wow, i'm totally confused! please give me more information so i can help you out! who is the neighbor? (younger/older?) do you want to impress him by what you wear? is this a formal event or just a casual get-together? is this a going away party? it is hott or cold where you live? (i'm guessing hott since it's summer, but not if you live in like alaska. lol) and still sometimes it gets chilly at night in the summer!! so let me know this information so i can answer your question. thanx!


does anyone know where I could get dashboard confessional or taking back sunday posters like what store or if not were online (link)
You can get posters on a lot of bands websites. You could also search google, e-bay, or hottopic's website. (http://www.hottopic.com). You could go to the mall as well. The cd store (here it is FYE) should have them!! Wal-Mart might have them too!! Just ask around, and you should be able to find some! My best bet, if you can't find any of them at a store, would probably be e-bay! they have everything and you can usually find what you want for a pretty good price on there! Good Luck!


I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him? (link)
flirt with him, but don't make yourself out to be something you're not! it won't be worth it in the end. if you are really good friends with this girl (which it appears you aren't, because you called her a hoe), but if you are..don't do anything that would ruin your friendship with her. relationships don't always last forever..and who knows you could end up with this guy, go out with him for a week, break up and then not have your friend because you made her mad since you went out with him! ask her if she likes him, or if she would mind if you went out with him! if she says that she doesn't like him, but then ends up going out with him you have a right to be mad! Good Luck!


so like my bf and me have been going out for 10 and 1/2 months, and we always fight about the same thing, Him going out, and today he told me that we should take a break, what is a break really and what should I do, I was so upset all I could do was cry... and whats worse i actually let him take his stupid break, and I dont know what to do, im so confused and hurt, and I cant break up with him because i love him, and he told me like a million times today he loves me, but i just feel like this is going to change our relationship, what should I do, i really need some help!@ im 16/f (link)
heyy. don't worry about it, guys will be guys! they were born to break hearts hun..just let him go, maybe it's for the better, especially if you two fight all the time! it's a typical high school relationship! they don't last forever. you just need to hang out with your friends, or go to the movies, or out for ice cream with your family to keep your mind off of him! don't let it bother you so much that you are constantly crying! guys are not worth your tears, and when you find one that is..he won't make you cry! remember that. that is the best piece of advice i can give you right now. other than to just let him do what he wants to do. and if he really truly likes you, he will come back to you. and if you are meant to be together you will be! (which i doubt..only because you are so young) i have always told people that it's high school. relationships are meant to be taken so seriously..people always think they are IN LOVE..idk it just bothers me. lol Good Luck!


i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!! (link)
yeah, i was scared to tell people when i got it. but you have to do it sometime or another. i think i was going to wait til someone asked me if i had it to tell them. i was really scared. but you have to do it. just wait for the right time, most likely you will want it to be when it's just you two together. maybe going shopping, or just out for ice cream, somewhere so you guys can talk, and maybe even bond a little bit! who knows, maybe this will bring you closer! if you are scared just write down what you are going to say, and practice it in the mirror or something..that might sound stupid, but heyy it's worth a shot! or maybe you could go with her when she goes shopping to wal-mart or wherever she buys her pads/tampons, and when you go down the aisle they are in..tell her that you need some! you don't nessecarily have to tell her WHEN you got it (if you think you are going to feel stupid for not telling her for 3 months..), but you still need to let her know that you have it, so she can help you out if you ever need anything! Good Luck!


Ok well i'm 13 and during the school year I had a boyfriend but we never kissed or any thing! And scince (sp) summer started we havent talked to each other, but both of us still really really like each other! And me and my bff's goal this summer is to get our first kiss, so ho do me and this guy go out and kiss! Please help! (link)
heyy. first of all, you need to talk to him! i mean it's not exactly healthy for people in a relationship to talk everyday for 6 hours (i do that , oops), but it's not healthy for them not to talk at all either! you do have his phone number rite? just give him a call..sooner rather than later. and ask him what he's been up to. tell him you were just wondering if maybe he wanted to hang out sometime, or get together. figure out somewhere that you two can go..maybe the movies, or an amusement park, or maybe just to his house or yours. you could also go out to eat! (if you had a ride since you're only 13) and just be cute and cuddly around him, maybe he will get the hint that you want to kiss him. but if not, when you go to give each other a hug at the end of the day, try to kiss him. or just flat out tell him, I WANT TO KISS YOU!! Good Luck!


i am trying to go on a diet and it works for a day then the next day i totally pig out! then i regret it and the process starts over! does anyone have any dieting tips? (link)
i am the same way. i'm always like *okay today i'm totally going to eat healthy food, and not much of it* but then i see something that looks good, and i eat it. most of the time however, i just try not to eat at all. you don't want to do that though, because then you might end up anorexic, and that is no good! what you might want to try is, have pictures of girls you want to look like, (their bodies) laying around to remind you that you don't want to eat 2 pieces of cake, or an extra helping of dinner. get people to encourage you to only eat healthy food. it's not that hard really! all you have to do is, try your best to eat food that is good for you. look at the carbs, and sodium of foods! don't eat as much as you normally would, (if it's a lot), and exercise! you have to exercise if you lose weight and want to keep it off! Good Luck!


im 17/f me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and about a month ago he broke up with me cuz we fight too much. that lasted about 2 hours and we got back together. last night i broke up with him because i never see him....he chooses everything else over me. we both said it wouldnt be a permanent thing but now 12 hours later, i want him back. i told him this and he said its too soon and we should just wait it out but i cant live without him. im not suicidal so dont say anything about that but i love him so much and i dont want to just wait it out...WHAT DO I DO? HOW CAN I GET HIM BACK? (link)
In my opinion, not being together in this situation might be for the best. You are only 17, so of course you are going to feel like you need him, and he's the only one for you. But think about it, if you both weren't getting what you wanted out of the relationship, and you were fighting, or arguing a lot..maybe it's better to have ended it. It is gonna feel like you want to be with him for a long time. Especially since you weren't just together for a week or a month like a lot of high school relationships. But believe me, they don't last forever. You are only 17, you have your whole life ahead of you. If you don't want another b/f, or don't think you could get another one..STAY SINGLE! You don't need to be tied down when you are so young. I mean yeah you might almost be 18, an "adult", but that is still young. You have other things that you could be thinking about to get your mind off of him. Hang out with your friends! For now just worry about finishing school, going to college, getting a good job! Don't worry about not being with him, because if he is really who you are meant to be with, you will end of with him one way or another! And if he really loves you, he'll come back. Don't chase him though, it isn't worth it..Good Luck!


is there any way to find someones screen name if you just have there name and address? if so... where??? (link)
Yes, there are a few ways. One would be to just ask around, maybe somebody knows the s/n of the person you are trying to find. Another way would be to go to "People" on your buddy list (up at the top next to "My AIM") and go down to "Find a Buddy" and another box should pop up to the right of that one, and you can select "By email", "By name and address" or "By common interest". Chose whichever you need (in this case i'm guessing you would click on name and address) then type in what information you know about this person. and Click "Next". Something SHOULD come up. this used to work, i haven't tried it in quite a while..so i'm not sure how accurate or if it will even find anything. Good Luck!


i like this girl but she is one year younger than me and she is just my friend what should i do (link)
Age shouldn't matter when you like someone, especially if it's only a one year difference thing. (if you are mature,and it's not illegal [such as an 24 year old dating a 15 year old..]) But just look at your situation, and ask yourself some questions. (answer yourself honestly, to the best of your knowledge.)
-does this girl feel the same way about you?
-would it ruin any friendships or relationships that are important to either one of you?
-does she live near you?
-could she give you what you wanted (never ask for too much), and would you be able to give her what she needs/wants?
-would it most likely work out perfectly (or close enough to it)?
-would it make you both happy?
-do you like anybody else more than her?
-does she know you like her?
-can you be yourself around her?
-do you tell her everything, and vice versa?
-do you trust each other?
-could you see yourself with her in a few years, maybe even longer?
-do you know each other really well?
-how long have you been friends? (long enough to possibly take it to the next level?)
-do you want the same things?
-do you two argue/fight a lot?
-do you love her? (when i say "LOVE" i do not mean "IN LOVE" i mean, do you honestly, genuinely, without a doubt care about her?)
-would you be willing to do anything for her?
-are you sure this is what you want?

and remember, DON'T BREAK HER HEART! Good Luck!


I want to get my boyfriend a gift thing when i go on vacation but i dont know what to get him. Anyone have any suggestions... by the way im going to the southern carribean, (aruba, barbados, puerto rico, dominca) (link)
heyy.. there are a lot of things you can get your boyfriend while you are on vacation.
-a t-shirt
-a hat
-pictures of YOU!!
-coffee cup
-a shot glass
-anything with the name of the place you went to on it.
-sunglasses
-a good book? if he likes to read
-boxers
-sea shells =P
-usually at a beach you can get people to put you and someone elses name on a grain of rice, and make it into a necklace or a keychain.
-a keychain!

when i went on vacation i got my best guy friend a lisence plate that says HONK IF PARTS FALL OFF (just as a joke) and a sign to hang up anywhere with Stewie from Family Guy on it that says "i'd love to stay and chat, but you're a total bitch"

i mean pretty much anything you would get a guy at home you could get him while on vacation. unless you want him to be able to tell it was from the place you went on vacation (like if you want it to have the name of your vacation spot on it) send him a postcard or two while you are there to let him know you miss him and are thinking about him! Good Luck!


LATELY IVE BEEN HAVEIN PEOPLE ASK ME REALLY MEAN STUFF ABOUT MY FREIND IS THERE ANY WAY I CAN FIND OUT WHO IT IS? THANKS I RATE 5S
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Okay, well first of all..where is this person asking you mean stuff? AIM, MSN, Yahoo? There should be ways to find out who this person is..
(1) you could make up a s/n, and IM that person on it, and act like you got their s/n from someone's madprofile, or a chatroom, or from a friend..and ask them who they are.
(2) get one of those "buddytracker" things for your AIM profile.. (search on google "buddy trackers for aim" b/c i'm not exactly sure where you get them) those allow you to see where somebody lives and information about that person, if it's available. (sorry if i'm wrong, b/c i never really had one..but i'm pretty sure that's what it is)
(3) click on "get info" (to go to their profile on AIM) and then click "Directory Info" on the bottom right hand corner of the profile screen.

those are all the possible ways i can think of rite now, and lemme know if you need help b/c i will IM them for you..or try to help ya out somemore if you would like. the next time they ask you something rude about your friend, give them a cocky answer. or just be a smartass to everything they say!! don't let them know it bothers you, b/c that is probably what they want it to do. just make them feel like an idiot for trying to make you mad, by being really smart to them. they should stop. and be sure to tell them how immature it is to do stuff like this, and also ask them why they can say this kind of stuff but not be brave enough to use their own name, or tell ya who they are! Good Luck!! (my AIM s/n is UrSoGorgeOusx)


I apologize in advance because this is going to be pretty long. I'm a sixteen year old girl and I've been single my entire life up until now. I met this great guy at work, and we both liked each other. Our first date was absolutely perfect. It was more of a date to make things official seeing as we already knew a lot about each other. He gave me a red rose, we held hands in the mall, cuddled in the movies, and he kissed me goodnight in the rain. It was perfect. With this being my first relationship ever, I'm freaking out. I know you're not supposed to kiss on the first date, and I wasn't exactly ready for it either. I know that in a relationship, a guy is going to want something "more" than what I'm willing to give. My morals are that I don't want to go past kissing wiht a guy until I'm married. I'm not ready for anything sexual...I'm only 16! Everyone has told me that before you love someone else, you have to love yourself. That could be an issue with me, since I'm full of self-loathing and I have no self-esteem. I can't understand how a guy would pick me in the first place. My internal conflicts are seriously creating a huge dilemma for me and I don't know what to do anymore. This guy made me so happy at first. I could not stop talking about him and I was so happy for once in my life. But now that things are moving faster, I'm freaking out and instead of smiling all the time, I cry. I don't want to give up something like this...what I've longed for my entire life. At the same time, I can't just ignore my issues. I need help. Please tell me what to do. :'( Thank you so much. (link)
I am 16 as well, and I have the exact same morals. I don't want to have sex until I am married. I don't think you should be scared that a guy wants to go out with you, just take things slow. Tell him what you want, and show him who you are! If he doesn't like you, or respect you for the way you view things..you don't need him! I have no self-esteem either! And guys are going to make you cry..it happens to everyone, probably more than once. Don't think about things too much because that will just get you worried and you won't know what to do, and that could cause you to make the wrong decision! Don't doubt yourself. Tell yourself that you are beautiful and you deserve a boyfriend, because you probably do! You have nothing to be worried about unless he starts taking things too far, or trying to get you to do something you don't like! Good Luck!




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