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So my dream is to be an actress/model.
i need a place where i can take lessons and start. i tried John Casablancas but that was really expensive and lessons or classes like that shouldnt cost you anything. so does anybody know any REAL places where i can take classes that are FREE and NOT A SPAM? i really want to do it but i cant find anything. im from Oklahoma so if you know any then please tell me them.

Thanks!!
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If you are asked to pay for headshots, portfolios, classes etc. and the so-called agent seems very pushy RUN! It's a classic scam as is someone saying they'll take X amount to put your face on the Internet for casting directors and Hollywood heavyweights to see. Movies, TV and commercials aren't cast this way EVER.

What you need to do is join a community theatre group preferably for youth that allows you to appear in plays, do workshops, learn technical theatre and scene/character study. There has to be something in your town or a city near by.

Movies are filmed on location just about everywhere. What you should do is a background talent agent. They cast people to be in crowd scenes in movies, pilots and TV movies. They are the only agent allowed to charge a modest fee to join as is a kids agency. Why? kids and extras bail when they see the work involved. No other agent is to receive any money until after they secure you a job.

Do not sign with an agent either unless you checked them out with SAG or ACTRA unions to make sure they are reputable. I know a lot of LEGIT classes you can take in theatre etc but not any located in Oklahoma. That's not to say that their aren't any. Once you join community theatre groups people there can give you an idea of who to study with and who not to hook up with.


How to get a boy to like you? Im 13 and a female (link)

You can't make or get someone to like you. They ultimately have to decide themselves whether they like you or not. It's a variable that you can't control. You can try to influence people though.

Be who you are, don't put on an act to be liked and be kind and polite. Demonstrate to them why you're worth being around or dating. Talk to them, flirt etc. but don't be fake or in one's face with it. Invite them out with a group and or a party and see whether they show interest.


I'm just going to get to the point. I think I might be bipolar. I just would like to talk to someone who is bipolar. So if you have it and wouldnt mind talking to me please let me know. Thank you in advance. (link)

Hit my inbox up with a note. Let's put it this way, I can tell you what bipolar disorder is and what it isn't. I'm versed in that and have seen it in action. I'm not a doctor but can tell you one way or the other based on what you indicate if you have anything remotely like it.


I lost a very competitve club election at the end of sophomore year and I still have regrets about it. I feel that I should be one of the elected officers right now because I devoted a lot of my time for the team. These officers also seem to get a lot of respect and I feel that I am not taken seriously by anyone on the team. The main reason why I wanted to be an officer was I wanted to make a difference in the team and for once people can take me seriously. I know I blew the election speech because I was too nervous, but I really don't know how to move on. It wasn't just the speech that was relatively bad, but it was also how the coach's favoritism was involved. I got the bitter end of her sarcasm when she asked us questions on the spot after our speeches; she gave me hard questions while she gave my other competitors easier ones. I'm still in the club because I love the activities we do, but I'm not so crazy about the people. I have a feeling that that is getting in the way of my passion too. I want some respect, and I do give respect in order to get it, but this is unrequited at the moment. Help? (link)

Sometime to become a great leader you have to work with a team of rivals. These people may despise you, make your work difficult and give little respect. This was the case with Abraham Lincoln.

He picked cabinet members who said and did such vile things to him and to a lesser extent Barack Obama picked people like Clinton (and others) who don't like him either. It challenges you to take the high road and become a better person and leader.

You did your best with these people and that's all you can do. You may not have been president but I'm sure that somebody in that school noticed the work you did even if they didn't come out and say it. What did you do all this for? Did you do this just to get pats on the back or recognition? You should be doing it to learn and give back.

Do your best and don't worry about how others see it. You're causing yourself to be miserable. In the end you've learned how to work with difficult people and can lead just about anything. Maybe God has a bigger role for you to lead in than student council.

The teacher might be an SOB but I think not. Maybe they wanted to ask you tougher questions because they knew you had something in you the others didn't. You may have lost because of nervousness or for other reasons not necessarily having to do with favoritism.

You have to move on and look for a better opportunity knowing that you picked up skills in this tough situation you can use to lead just about anywhere. Just know that something good will come out of this.


I've been friends (frenemies) with this guy ever since freshman year. Everyone knows him as genius-but-gets-bad-grades-due-to-laziness-arrogant-but-nice-at-times guy. He tends to use hurtful sarcasm towards all my friends, but I seem to get the worst end of it. He sometimes hurts me verbally, ignores me, and tries to humiliate me. The guy always calls me "stupid" and thinks I'm the idiot (even if I do get better grades than him, but I have to admit- if he tried he could have been the valedictorian right now). I do assert myself and call him out on it, but he always continues. No one takes his dry sarcasm seriously, but his seems to hurt me a lot, and whenever I tell my friends, they tell me to ignore it (in fact, people find his hurtful sarcasm towards me somewhat funny), but I just can't. I get the feeling that he does have a crush on me, but that is refuted since he claims to be "in love" with one of my very goods friends (who he his extremely nice to). I don't know why is he the meanest to me, and although people say it is nothing big- why do I wish someone could stand up for me along with me? Just because everyone is taking things lightly, am I just too paranoid? (link)

Have you considered that he may have an intellectual disability or mental disorder that results in him being that nasty to people without thinking about it or remorse? It's very common actually and would explain how he can be nice one minute and vile the next.

It would also explain why nobody can talk to him about it or get through to him. He doesn't see a problem where everyone else is. If you want to be his friend you'll have to consider the reason and source behind the remarks he makes. Try telling him "That didn't sound right." every time he says something nasty and see what happens.

If you are getting the brunt of his vile remarks or treatment make yourself scarce when he's around. Be assertive and put him in his place tell him "that's no way to talk to or treat a friend." and take him to task but pick your battles carefully.

I think the problem is an unresolved disorder which he needs medication for. I'm no doctor but I've encountered this too many times where the answer was medical related.


I'm going into my senior year and I got my license in June, so I've been driving a lot over the summer. I have a car (well, technically, it's not my car it's "my parents' for me to use." I've been taking the bus every year of high school. I've honestly never known any seniors who took the bus to school, actually I knew one but she didn't have a car or people she could go with. I really really wanna drive myself to school senior year. I told my parents I would pay for all of the gas and they said no and that I would have to take the bus. I'm so freakin sick of the bus and I hate the fact that all my friends are gonna be driving to school and I'm gonna be the only idiot senior taking the bus when I HAVE A FREAKIN CAR. Should I see if I can carpool with any of my friends and maybe that will get them to let me. Uggh, it's so annoying, my parents don't understand high school life at all. (link)
You have only had your license for two months. While you took drivers lessons you still have a lot to learn about driving itself. They obviously don't feel you have enough experience to drive alone and that seems to be the only issue.

It's not gas, not the vehicle but their trust in you as a driver. It's not wise to be given full control of a car driving daily to/from school or anywhere else when you haven't been driving for that long. Any good parent would be taking the stance they are.


You have to see it from that perspective. If you want to drive alone you've got to prove a lot more to them over time and I'm sure sooner or later they'll let you. But if you act all angry or pouty over this than they will drag this out even longer and assume they were right. I'm sure you'll be driving the car wherever you want to in a few months.

As far as the bus goes that's not true. There's lots of students that ride it regardless of what year they are in to get to school. Not everyone has a license in their senior year or full access to a car even if you haven't met one YET.

Taking the bus doesn't make you look like an idiot either. People way older than you take the bus to work and everywhere else including downtown because they don't have cars and even when they do because nobody likes driving downtown.

Your parents understand high school life believe me. They went through all of what you are going through and a lot more to become the adults they are now. It wasn't rosy for them and they always had issues with their own parents about TRUST and you can bet with driving a car too. They aren't out to ruin your good time but rather to make sure you're ready and safe. Give them credit for that.

If you want this kind of freedom stop dumping on them, blaming them and acting like a little kid and be an adult and go by the rules and earn the right to drive that car. You're setting yourself back 15-20 steps every time you keep bugging them or acting whiney, pouting, angry etc.

You'll get what you want in due course. For now it won't kill you if you took the bus and went by their rules. It may earn you something faster.

One thing that may work to your advantage is to ask them to figure out the shortest and safest way for you to get too and from school via car. Then you can ask them to let you drive alone with them following you in another vehicle watching your driving for a week or two and then graduate to the point they'll allow you.


i recently bought a used car and was talking to my moms boyfriend about it. It pulls to the right and he said it could ither be the wheel alignment or tires. i know the back tires need to be changed but my question is whcih one is it more likely to be and if it is the alignment how long can i wait until it will start messing up my wheel barrings? im a little tight on money so i wont beable to do it right away (link)

I hope you haven't bought it outright yet and require it to be certified. When a car pulls to the right or to the left it's for one reason only. It's been in a front end accident.

Not only is the alignment screwed but a lot of other things might be too that you have no idea about. Odds are the damage was substantial and repaired and perhaps the car partially or completely rebuilt.

I'm NOT out to scare the shit out of you but it could also be a salvage vehicle in a very big wreck completely reconstructed and sold to someone unsuspecting as a used vehicle. Sadly, it happens. But yes, if it's pulling to the right or the left and undriveable you've got big time problems that don't start nor end with wheel alignment.


is there a site you can download free eroctica ebooks that are free and dont need a mastercard number or pay pal or a login ID? (link)
If you use an Internet search engine you will find a lot of sites that fit what you were looking for. We can't list any or recommend them because there are people under the age of 18 (minors) who we must shelter and protect.

Having said that you're only 14. I know you are curious about sex and sexuality but these books often depict graphic sex, S&M, bondage and a host of other questionable things you probably shouldn't be reading at your age. We can't stop you though. They're clearly not for teenagers.

But, if you're going to download them anyway and Internet search engine will yield what you're looking for. While you may not have to pay anything a lot of sites have ways to weed out those under 18 from accessing the content free or not.

I think you should wait until you're older and understand this more to be reading it and taking it in. Harlequin romance novels are somewhat erotic and have gotten worse in recent years with what they depict but aren't considered erotica. That's probably a safer thing for you to read. They've got a few questionable series that depict strange practices but for the most part aren't filthy.





how can i take a couple videos from my phone and compile it into one on a mac computer? (link)

If you visit an Apple Store they will gladly show you. They're located in most American and Canadian cities. Just take the phone and even your MAC in and talk to a Mac specialist who will help you do it.

If there isn't an Apple Store in your area go to apple.com and search for the technical support number. They'll help you. In Canada the number is 1-800-263-3394. You should also search for THEYMOS on here as this is something he's really adept with.


so me and my crush were streaking (yeah i know, it's like not right or whatever) but it was in his backyard hahaa. anyways so it was the first time he seen me naked and i don't have the biggest of boobs. i have like a 34b..

and i have a good body, i'm in shape. it's just self-conscious about the boobs thing. well me and him were at our friends house and my friend was like he's talking dirty about you! and then i was standing there in like a tank top and i could hear him doing gestures to his friend about me but i didn't know if it was good or bad.

i'm really self-conscious he thinks i have small boobs. he didnt say anything. i know he wants to get with me and thinks im really hot but my boobs look bigger because i usually wear a push up bra.

i just don't know if hes talking good about me or not!?

by the way i'm 19/f (link)
If you are so self-conscious about your body why did you put yourself in such a vulnerable position? I'm not judging you but you let him see you and that invited the reaction he gave to his friend.


In a way you've put yourself into this position with a guy who doesn't seem to care about you. Most guys if they had such an encounter where they saw someone naked wouldn't be telling others or using hand gestures to do it. Why? They'd be fearful you would go and say similar things about him to all your friends.

He seems to want a random hookup which is not a good idea unless you want to be hurt and or are seeking a fling. He doesn't seem to be interested in how the girl would feel about being described to others whether good or bad comments.

Don't worry about your breasts. They're normal and you are fine. If a guy really appreciates you your breast size and how you look undressed won't matter and if it did it means you've picked the wrong guy.

How do you tell if he really was talking about you? Well, you can't to be certain. All you can do is say "I saw you talking about me to so, and so last-night. I sure hope you weren't describing our encounter the other day. I'd hate to have to tell my friends what didn't happen."

You also have to be ready to tell what didn't occur or correct anything he says with your friends as he's equally vulnerable as he was naked too if he shoots his mouth off. I don't see him doing that but one friend with as equally a big mouth leads to rumor.

You'll be fine! Approach him about it and tell him if he was talking about it to a friend that it's not cool and that you don't know where things stand anymore. Talk it out one on one and make sure what happened alone one night stays between you.

If really insecure about your body be ultra picky about who sees it and don't allow yourself to be judged or talked about. You're too damn critical about your appearance. Every woman regardless of stature, age or bra size feels the same way about their body and breasts. It's natural. They all want to change something.

Think of it this way you saw him naked and his penis no doubt. He's probably worried what you think of how he looks too or what you said to your girlfriends. You're both in the same boat. It's time to talk to him about where things stand and practicing modesty when he's with pals.


nineteen, female.

the other night me and my crush were just talking and i was laying down on the floor and he was sitting on the couch. i was really sore and i was trying to stretch my leg so i was like, can you stretch my leg for me?

you know when you lay on your back and put one of your legs up straight and then someone pushes them back, stretching your leg? yahhh thats what we were doing and he was like "you're not very flexible"

and i was kind of embarassed because we have talked about having sex before and i know its sort of a "turn on" if a girl is really flexible and i'm NOT.

is this true? he didn't say anything else after thats all he said. butttt i was just wondering if its something i should be worried about (link)
It sounds like he he wasn't tactful with his remarks when he found that he may actually hurt you by continuing to help stretch your legs. There wasn't a sexual connotation to what he said.

Nothing was implied about sex or positions or expectation sexually. I wouldn't worry at all about this or that for that matter. Some people aren't naturally flexible or lose it as they age from not exercising to keep their body that way.

If you aren't that flexible it's because of this factor or the way you body is and always was designed. Guys sometimes subscribe to the notion that just someone is a gymnast, flexible, double jointed or can move their bodies in unusual ways that they're better sex partners.

It's not true. A person could move differently or be more flexible but lack experience or be awkward or bad between the sheets. Yes, they can do more weird positions for sex but that doesn't make them a good partner at all. You ain't got a thing to worry about.

The reason guys like flexible partners who can get into difficult positions is because it allows for deeper penetration, pleasure and thrusting. But as I said, if the partner isn't experienced or even if they were doesn't mean that they're a good sex partner.


Is masturbation a health issue? (link)

It's not unless it's all you do and you never go outside or socialize with people. As long as it's not being done as a way to cope with abuse or something like that it's fine.

It's universal with both sexes your age. 90% of males and 78% of females have acknowledged in studies that they have engaged in it. It's perfectly normal, healthy and natural if you do or you don't even if you do it 2-3 times a day. Nothing will happen to you and your health will remain the way it has been.


hey, so i have a whole army of pimples on my upper back.. its so embarrassing and i cant wear backless or low-cut back tops! and i really want to. lol. and they leave scars too!! its horrible!

so is there any way i can get rid of this? a non-pricey way? and a way where i can do it myself and not have to tell someone?

thanks!
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You should try and get a referral to a dermatologist. They are specialists for skin conditions including acne. What they do is tell you what causes the acne on your back and give you a prescription creme that gets rid of it and keeps it gone.

While body washes may help a smidgeon they don't have any medication in them that can get down deep into the pores and literally burn all the crap that causes them right out. It doesn't hurt but that's what they do.

You have to see your family doctor first. You'll tell him/her how this is affecting you with self-esteem and that you can't wear certain kinds of clothing without people giving odd looks.They may have sample creams you can try out. If not they'll send you to the specialist.

It shouldn't cost anything then again American health care usually does whereas in Canada where I am (and other countries) it's all taken care of for us on government universal care. Talk with your parents as the money for the appointments may be more worth it for you than the amount they spend.


I got in a car accident when I was really young and I always get very nervous when I'm in a vehicle. Well, I'm getting older now and I know I need to learn how to drive so I can go places and find a job. I was thinking about taking driver's ed this year in school but I am afraid I will get too nervous and fail or do something stupid. The thought of being behind the wheel is REALLY scary for me. Are there any ways to relax while driving or anything? Suggestions, at least? Thanks. (link)

Taking driver's education is an excellent idea. Tell the instructor what happened to you as a child and your fear of being in a car much less driving one. It's their role to make sure you are comfortable and will not let you drive if they think you can't handle it.

You're usually given 25 classes of things you need to learn to be safe and defensive driving to avoid accidents before you get your second 25 worth of in car lessons. I wouldn't under any circumstances take driver's education through your school. Why? the classes are less than what driver's examiners recommend, there's multiple people sharing the car each lesson and less time spent on you.

While it costs a lot more get professional instruction with 25 in car and 25 in class lessons, a licensed instructor and 1 on 1 and tell them your challenges as laid out above. They'll get you to where you need to be.

One other thing a driving course should not cost less than $800.00 American according to the DMV and their examiners and if it costs any less it's not suitable and the instructors don't have the right licenses to operate. Always go through the DMV to find the right school. Anything with fliers at bus stops etc avoid like the plague.

Call your local DMV and ask about driving schools that they think are top-noch and try to find one taught by former driver examination officers as they are the best.

The only way to get over the trauma you experienced is to relax, get in the car and think of other things as a passenger. What happened was very rare and won't again. The same thing with driving is to block everything out but the task at hand and tell yourself I have the skills to be safe and the defensive skills to avoid problems. You'll never be okay with this until you just do it.


Since Michael Jackson recently died (and I was totally a fan) I was curious what his headstone or tombstone looked like. I missed a lot of the footage from his family and friends that was filmed after his death so I thought I might have missed the revealing/unveiling of it. I'm sure they put a lot of thought into the grave site so I was just wondering...

Photos would be a plus but if you could just describe it then I would really appreciate it. Thank you very much. (link)

As far as I know he hasn't been buried yet. There's been a lot of legal wrangling about where and when and about security. They're concerned that fans may chip at the tombstone, vandalize it or more outlandishly disturb and steal his actual body.

They have wanted to bury him in an undisclosed location away from the public. They have held off for another reason. Not to disturb anyone but they want all the organs removed during an autopsy to be buried with him. They had two autopsies so therefore no burial yet.

Apparently, forensic pathologists have taken a long time studying his brain. They just recently released it to be included with burial. From there the family will bury him if they haven't already done so secretly.


I want to be popular and hang out with the "cool" group. But I don't know how to start a conversation... it's not that im not friendly, I am! And I always talked to everyone but I want to change my look this year and I want to see how it felt to hang out with the popular people can you help? (link)

It's a cliche but "Be Yourself". You want them to like you for you not a cool outfit, haircut or anything else that would grab their attention. How do you do that? It's simple don't try to impress a soul or get in with others.

Instead be kind to everyone, helpful, assertive, easy going, talkative and treat them the way you wish to be treated. Everyone will notice that and you'll be a nomad of the cliques because of your personality. Someone like that turns heads and draws them in like a moth to a flame.

The cool group isn't always what it's cracked up to be. Most if not all of them are followers and not leaders and bad students or troubled. They exclude others and are often attention seekers and more apt to fall into drugs/alcohol. You have to ask yourself if you really want to hang with some of these people.

Quit trying so hard to be friendly and everything you have been doing and just be you. They'll come to you when they see the kind of person you really are. If you want to change your look do it for fun and nothing else. Hair, nails, makeup etc. won't change any social problem at school. It's all in the attitude and personality. Either you're someone they want to be around or you aren't.

Starting conversations is easy. Treat it like talking to your parents, siblings or anyone else and just do it naturally. For example if classmate A is talking to classmate B about a band you like say "Excuse me I don't usually interupt but I couldn't help but overhear you talking about the concert. I was there too.... then get in that way. Look for openings like that to talk to new people.

If you go in all scared and nervous they'll not want to talk to because it makes them nervous. Just find the opening to talk or change the subject and do it naturally. Bottom line you have to LOVE who you are because others can't if you don't. They see this fear in your body language, attitude etc and back off.

Also try joining clubs, have your own parties where you include everyone in your class and see what evolves from that. Hang out in groups and get to know everyone else's set of friends. You'll have no problem if you're a nice person people respond to it eventually.


alright so im a guy and im 16. well my bestfriend and i have been tight since we were like 7, and its always been tough for him (and me) cos his sister is HOT. (she's 16 too, they're twins). and i mean ive always been attracted to her, but ive never made a move cuz shes like off limits ya know? anyway, i went over to his place the other day but he wasnt there and i kind of just ended up chilling with her. shes a really cool chick and since then weve hung out a few times but my buddy doesnt know about it... and i mean i think i really like her (i havent even put my hands on her yet) and i want to ask her out on a legit date but jesus, i do not want to deal with my friend. its pretty out of charachter for me to not fool around with a girl i like so i know that my friend is going to automatically assume that ive been on her if he hears that ive been hanging with her. so im really stuck now. any advice would be great, thanks. (link)

It's up to her not her brother which boys she dates even if it's his friend. If it comes to romance and you both want to proceed let her be the one to handle any problems with him.

It's better she date you than some other guy as he knows your intentions. He might not like it and that's normal but will respect it as it's her choice and he has no say. You can't stop liking or loving someone and she can't either.

Here's where you must be careful. Don't ask her out right now. Why? Because all you have is a friendship and hanging out a few times. That doesn't mean anything or that she wants a relationship or date.

Wait and see what happens over the course of about a month. You have to make sure there's a connection there other than friends. She hasn't given you any such signal.

If you ask her out not knowing 100% that she's into that idea than you're a dead duck with both of them. She'll think you're hitting on her and he'll flip out.

Hang out with her more and invite her to join friends or tell her you enjoyed hanging out but never really paid any attention to who she was before you hung out. Develop a friendship and then ask her where things stand. Stay back right now and see if she makes moves first.

When it comes to her brother he would accept it over time and your friendship would continue. It has for decades. If it didn't than it was always on rocky ground to begin with. Let her be the one to set things in action. Besides, you need a friendship to have a relationship.


So...i have been fingering myself since i was like 10 & i do continue doing it (im 14 now) but im beggining to get scared because one of my clitoris is like really large, brown and ugly, and i dnt know wierd. It makes me self councious and i dont know what im goin to do when i have sex or when my boyfriend gets into my pants to finger me. I just get really worried/nervous/scared. Do you know what this is? 14/f
~~~Olie (or u can call me Michii) D=
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It's wrong for anyone to think their genitals are ugly. In fact, they are quite normal and consistent with every female.

The area you're talking about is not your clitoris. You're talking about inner and outer labia commonly referred to as lips. The tissue and skin that form them and the rest of the vagina and vulva is different from other skin. It's tougher and is often discolored.

That is why certain parts of the vulva that you see are different pigments or darker colors than others. So if one side of your outer labia is darker or browner than the other don't worry about it at all.

Also masturbation which is universal among your age group cannot and will not change the shape, color or texture of your genitals or make them larger, smaller or permanently swollen or puffy.

If a guy doesn't like your genitals then he doesn't belong down there. You're perfectly fine and most people know about discoloration.


16/f
straight to the point, i have weird raised bumps with white tips formin perfect circle around my nipple (on the darker skin around it, sorry i dont know what its called.)
they dont pop. they dont hurt. its just kind of weird... i wanna get rid of it because its gross lookin.

what is this and how can i get rid of it?
thanks. (link)

They are pustules which are small raised bumps on skin. They're common around nipples. In all likelihood they're completely benign. However, mention it to a family doctor for piece of mind and correct diagnosis.

It sounds as though you are fine. I'm not sure as there are many causes for them why some people have them and others don't. If you do a Google search you're bound to find more information but why scare yourself with false info or people fearing cancer etc. when it's almost always nothing like that.


hey i was playing my laptop last night and it was perfect and i shut it down after a while.woke up this morning played it but i was using any programs that uses sound so as i went on youtube no sound fallout 3 no sound restarted my laptop no sound again.So i checked my sound video and game controllers in device manager and it said it was still there and working.I have a Hp Pavilion dv6 dv6-1133ea.any help is needed.I disabled some startup programs if that is any help but i didnt disable any thing that had to do with sound i dont think.Plz any one have any ideas (link)

I'm not using a PC but rather a Mac. I do know however that you should check your system preferences on the PC or MAC. Look at where the volume tab is set for OUTPUT only. It may for some reason have been knocked down enough that you can't hear it. Check that your speakers don't have a wire knocked off.

If none of that works back up all your data on your hard drive and use the PC's system recovery disks to set it back up like it was when you bought it. If the volume won't work after that you'll know for sure to get it serviced.




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