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one of my clitoris is like really wierd... So...i have been fingering myself since i was like 10 & i do continue doing it (im 14 now) but im beggining to get scared because one of my clitoris is like really large, brown and ugly, and i dnt know wierd. It makes me self councious and i dont know what im goin to do when i have sex or when my boyfriend gets into my pants to finger me. I just get really worried/nervous/scared. Do you know what this is? 14/f
~~~Olie (or u can call me Michii) D=
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It's wrong for anyone to think their genitals are ugly. In fact, they are quite normal and consistent with every female.
The area you're talking about is not your clitoris. You're talking about inner and outer labia commonly referred to as lips. The tissue and skin that form them and the rest of the vagina and vulva is different from other skin. It's tougher and is often discolored.
That is why certain parts of the vulva that you see are different pigments or darker colors than others. So if one side of your outer labia is darker or browner than the other don't worry about it at all.
Also masturbation which is universal among your age group cannot and will not change the shape, color or texture of your genitals or make them larger, smaller or permanently swollen or puffy.
If a guy doesn't like your genitals then he doesn't belong down there. You're perfectly fine and most people know about discoloration. ]
Sounds pretty normal to me. ]
A lot of people are a little self conscious when it comes to their genitalia but I can assure you that your boyfriend won't notice. If he does, he probably won't care. I'm sure he won't bring it up. Besides, if any guy cares about how your vagina looks then he probably isn't the one for you. A guy should love you no matter what you look like. Understand?
You're okay though. :) Don't worry. ]
well first of all.. you only or should only have ONE clitoris hahaha.
i think your referring to your labia your vagina lips? i think thats what your talking about here:
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a lot of girls are self conscious about there vagina's everyone is but im telling you no guy is even going to notice it, trust me they really arnt as picky as society makes them sound and if some guy ever said anything witch they wont, then get rid of him he isn't worth it if he doesn't think every part of you is good looking. ]
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