Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


one of my clitoris is like really wierd...


Question Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 6:54 pm

So...i have been fingering myself since i was like 10 & i do continue doing it (im 14 now) but im beggining to get scared because one of my clitoris is like really large, brown and ugly, and i dnt know wierd. It makes me self councious and i dont know what im goin to do when i have sex or when my boyfriend gets into my pants to finger me. I just get really worried/nervous/scared. Do you know what this is? 14/f
~~~Olie (or u can call me Michii) D=


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?


solidadvice4teens answered Thursday August 13 2009, 10:09 am:
It's wrong for anyone to think their genitals are ugly. In fact, they are quite normal and consistent with every female.

The area you're talking about is not your clitoris. You're talking about inner and outer labia commonly referred to as lips. The tissue and skin that form them and the rest of the vagina and vulva is different from other skin. It's tougher and is often discolored.

That is why certain parts of the vulva that you see are different pigments or darker colors than others. So if one side of your outer labia is darker or browner than the other don't worry about it at all.

Also masturbation which is universal among your age group cannot and will not change the shape, color or texture of your genitals or make them larger, smaller or permanently swollen or puffy.

If a guy doesn't like your genitals then he doesn't belong down there. You're perfectly fine and most people know about discoloration.

[ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question
]




Matt answered Thursday August 13 2009, 2:17 am:
Sounds pretty normal to me.

[ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question
]



christina answered Thursday August 13 2009, 1:40 am:
A lot of people are a little self conscious when it comes to their genitalia but I can assure you that your boyfriend won't notice. If he does, he probably won't care. I'm sure he won't bring it up. Besides, if any guy cares about how your vagina looks then he probably isn't the one for you. A guy should love you no matter what you look like. Understand?

You're okay though. :) Don't worry.

[ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question
]



ohitscassidy answered Wednesday August 12 2009, 11:10 pm:
well first of all.. you only or should only have ONE clitoris hahaha.

i think your referring to your labia your vagina lips? i think thats what your talking about here:
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)



a lot of girls are self conscious about there vagina's everyone is but im telling you no guy is even going to notice it, trust me they really arnt as picky as society makes them sound and if some guy ever said anything witch they wont, then get rid of him he isn't worth it if he doesn't think every part of you is good looking.

[ ohitscassidy's advice column | Ask ohitscassidy A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: Mean equals Hot?
Next Question >>> can the virgin girl get pregnant

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker