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Mean equals Hot?
This guy Jason the guy Im currently sleeping with but we're not together. Well anyways when we first started having sex it was honestly boring and just kiss sex done. But lately he's been really mean to me in bed and idk I kinda like it. Its weird though I never let guys talk shit to me the things he says to me in bed are a total turn on but if he said them to me when we were just hanging out id probably slap him. I honestly love him being in so much control in bed and being mean but am I losing his respect outside of the bedroom just because of what I let him do and say when we're in the bedroom?
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Its nothing to worry about you like the domination so what? As long as he is respecting you outside of the bedroom and only doing it during the act you have nothing to worry about.
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Talk to him about it. Tell him you like that in bed, but not in person.
I'm sure he'd understand.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Only you know the answer to that question. Does he treat you differently now that you've started doing that? Does he treat you with less respect when you're just hanging out now? If he doesn't, he probably still respects you the same amount and understands that that's just a sexual thing.
If I were you, I'd just keep an eye on him and make sure he doesn't start treating you differently now. If he does start saying rude things to you or you feel like he's losing respect, explain the situation to him. Let him know that that's just a sexual thing and that he's not welcome to say or think those things about you outside of the bedroom.
Darby(:
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