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not flexible
nineteen, female.
the other night me and my crush were just talking and i was laying down on the floor and he was sitting on the couch. i was really sore and i was trying to stretch my leg so i was like, can you stretch my leg for me?
you know when you lay on your back and put one of your legs up straight and then someone pushes them back, stretching your leg? yahhh thats what we were doing and he was like "you're not very flexible"
and i was kind of embarassed because we have talked about having sex before and i know its sort of a "turn on" if a girl is really flexible and i'm NOT.
is this true? he didn't say anything else after thats all he said. butttt i was just wondering if its something i should be worried about
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It sounds like he he wasn't tactful with his remarks when he found that he may actually hurt you by continuing to help stretch your legs. There wasn't a sexual connotation to what he said.
Nothing was implied about sex or positions or expectation sexually. I wouldn't worry at all about this or that for that matter. Some people aren't naturally flexible or lose it as they age from not exercising to keep their body that way.
If you aren't that flexible it's because of this factor or the way you body is and always was designed. Guys sometimes subscribe to the notion that just someone is a gymnast, flexible, double jointed or can move their bodies in unusual ways that they're better sex partners.
It's not true. A person could move differently or be more flexible but lack experience or be awkward or bad between the sheets. Yes, they can do more weird positions for sex but that doesn't make them a good partner at all. You ain't got a thing to worry about.
The reason guys like flexible partners who can get into difficult positions is because it allows for deeper penetration, pleasure and thrusting. But as I said, if the partner isn't experienced or even if they were doesn't mean that they're a good sex partner.
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Guy's do find it as a turn on. If he doesn't like you because you aren't that flexible..then he's not worth it. Just stretch your muscles everyday and eventually you'll be a lot more flexible. Honestly though, I really doubt your flexibility bothered him much. Yes, its a turn on, but guy's are just happy getting sex. I don't think they care THAT much about it haha.
Why did he stop talking? He probably just ran out of things to say! GUy's aren't known to be too talkative.
It's okay, just talk to him and hang out with him like usual. Believe me, he's not judging you on flexibility!
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Good luck, Hope I helped :)
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