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muh lil sister , is always tellin me what 2 do and i've tryed almost everything to let her no that im older and that im not always gonna listen 2 her but she still finds wys 2 push me around can sum 1 give me advice im out of option?

always call shotgun first! lol ...seriously tho, i don't kno how old you are, but do your parents discipline her when she gets out of line?? and do you have ne privileges that she doesn't have yet?? and i'm sure that when you have your friends over she wants to hang out with you guys, so maybe you can use your friends as a way to make you the older one since she doesn't have friends your age, right? ((...from my experience, younger siblings always admire the older ones so just love her and try to compliment her as much as you guys fight! lol i kno that's not what you want to hear tho, so i'll stop!))

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My friend and i have been best friends for a really long time but now i think i am losing her to a girl she used to not like but now does for some reason my friend thinks she has to lie to me about what they r doing this new girl is really nice and i love her to death but i dont want to lose my best friend to her how shud i handle this shud i talk to her about it and let her know how i feel or shud i just let her have some space???

personally, i think confronting her right away might just make her push you away more because for whatever reason, you guys are already not seeing eye to eye and she might get weirded out and like "why are you making such a big deal out of this?" ~ it's not your fault tho!! sometimes ppl change and grow seperate ways and sometimes they just need a little space from people who they see everyday so that they won't get on each others nerves...make sure your friend knows that your there tho - talk to her online and casually suggest hanging out, even if it means with this other girl ~ this might sound odd, but i think that if the other girl and you started to get along, then your friend might feel possessive of you and start to hang out with you more again.....good luck, hope my advice made sense!! lol xoxo

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Iam 15 years old, 5'2 and i weigh 121 pounds,am i fat or over weight? How can i lose weight? Please help!

actually, i looked up your bmi (body mass index) online and yours is 22.1, which is definitely in the normal weight range -- so you are NOT fat!! but if you want to tone up, then maybe you should get a membership to a gym or do some exercising at home ~ i can give you specific exercises if you pinpoint the body parts that you want to work on, so ask me if you want more help! xoxo meg

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I'm writing a book and the set is in Ireland, I don't know if I should write them speaking with Irish accents (it might be hard for some people to understand) or should I just stick to the basic english spellings?
Thanx,
clueless

if i were reading it, i'd want you to write in english spellings so that i could understand it, but maybe it's not that hard ~ if you want to repost an example sentence of how you would write the accent, then maybe i could help you more... or maybe you can make the main characters in the story english and then have a few really irish characters who have accents??? sorry, i don't mean to change your story! lol good luck

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my future has been scaring me.. Like to think in a couple years its going to be me.. on my own... I know where I want to be but I'm scared it wont work out and that my parents won't agree with what i want to be doing... Also, what if im not good enough to be what i want to be... Thats something that has always been a insecurity with me... Im scared i wont be good at something i love... i guess im scared that life wont be what i want it to be.... but in a way i think im prepared to do anything to reach my dreams but what am I supose to do... Take the safe route and forget about what i love or see where life will take me...

if you don't take risks then you don't get rewarded ~ would the better option be to sit around and wonder what would've happened? DEFINITELY NOT! lol...challenge yourself, you'll be surprised at what you are capable of!

*nomatter what if you can just conceive it, if you believe it then you can achieve it...you can do anything*

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How exactly do you french kiss? I know you lock lips and open ur mouth and then like stick ur tongue in eachothers mouths but what do u do with ur tongue and can you french kiss someone the wrong way? Like cuz I don't want guys thinking I suck at it, so how exactly do you? and when is the right time...how will you know?
Thankz I will rate you! L8er!

just go with the flow...but one time my friend told me someone told her to write her name in script with her tongue hahaha

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Does any one here like the sims?? if so please tell me some cheats.

do the rosebud one but mess up the !;!; serious by like putting !;!;!;; and then keep pressing enter and it'll add as much money as u entered b4 u made the mistake as many times as u press enter

i used to be obsessed with that game haha
but then after i worked REALLY hard to get my sim as the top in her profession and i was really rich without cheating, she like refused to marry the guy i wanted her to! hahaha oh well, i guess you can't play cupid ;)

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Does anybody in here know or is related to a famous person? if so who?

italian_diamond

my mom went to hs with bon jovie's guitar player (but she never talked to him lol) and my dad's friend went to hs with george from seinfeld

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okay ive liked this guy for like a year and i cant stop liking him...hes like perfect...and i want to stop liking him because I dont think I have any classes with him and I dont think I will see him a lot but ive been trying to not like him...and i just keep thinking about him all the time and how i like him so much...please give me advice on what to do...

i think part of the reason you like him so much is because you don't know him well, so in your mind he hasn't done nething wrong...soo either get to know him better or wait for someone better to come along...you can't help who you like tho! sry lol

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If you want 5 stars - how do you get it?

give good, friendly advice and ask to be rated

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i get so jealous when i see someone that's really pretty- it makes me feel as if i'm ugly...what should i do?

just think ~ some people look at you and probably think the same thing!!..........but everybody has their own good qualities and for some girls they were given good looks, or maybe you might really be jealous of the way the do their hair, the clothes they wear, and who they're with ~ would you be as jealous of these "pretty people" if they were dressed in sweats and sitting alone reading a book?? i think not. haha

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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?

unless he was really into his girlfriend and just wanted your advice then it sounds like he's into you - why else would he tell you detailed things about himself?

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I love my dog a ton!!! How can i make it so she lives as long as possible. What can i do to help her?

something we do to keep my dog healthier is feed him carrots as treats instead of bones (the vet told us to) ~ they're healthy and my dog loves them!

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i have been babysitting scince i was 11 and now i am 14 and the kids start gettin out of control what should i do ???

sighned undicided

i think you should tell their parents and then the parents can punish them (sometimes if you try to punish the kids yourself then they'll just complain to their parents about you instead of listening)...after you've proved that you aren't afraid to talk to the parents then you can use that against the kids "i'm gonna tell mom and dad you weren't behaving if you don't listen to me"

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hey, what kind of nickname can u give for Chantal?
( pronunced shan-tell ) thanks.

-Chantal.R

i think the best one is Chanti

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I want to get a pet SOOOO bad but i cant convince my parents ive done the research i have all the money i have threee of the best dogs to choose from but they still wont let me

first, you have to find out exactly why they won't let you get the pet ~ is it because they don't want to take care of it or is someone allergic or is your house too small?? then target this reason...i'm going to assume it's responsibility and in that case then maybe you can prove yourself by watching over a neighbors pet while they go on vacation or something like that...or just promise them that if you start to slack off then they can find the pet a new owner (even tho they won't make you do this if they see how much you love it) good luck !

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this is just for the girls! im 15 years old and i am in 10th grade i started haveing periods in the 7th grade. it is now august and i havn't had a period since january. I know, i know the first thing that comes to mind is R U PREGNANT well no i know this for sure because i am a virgin, i have no clue what is wrong with me and i really need help. i have went to the doctors about it and all they did was send me to a gynocologist (however u spell it) i haven't went to that appointment yet but it is in a couple of weeks. is there advice you can give me or does anyone know what could be causeing me this?? please respond

it might be because you've changed your diet or exercise patterns ~ have you lost weight or gained muscle?

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Im 5'0 and 13, and I weigh around 115, is that fat?

not to take out my frustration on u, but USE A BMI CALCULATOR just go on google and type bmi, it's sooo easy! everyone keeps asking this

...and NO you're not fat, you're in the normal weight range

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hey.. im 14, about 5 ft. and im only 84 pounds!! most of my friends r all like.. "damn.. i wish i was you." n stuff like that. um.. i hate being this skinny, seriously.. and i can literally eat more than two or more of my friends can!! that's like.. insane lol. but.. my mutabolism.. r however you spell it.. just is too fast!! i always have trouble finding clothes that fit me well.. omg.. if any one can seriously help me to gain weight that would be awesome..thanks.. you guys are ExCeLlEnT..!!~

i think there are certain drinks and stuff u can buy to put on weight cuz my aunt's mother had to take them after she lost a lot of weight ..sry that i don't know exactly what they are

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what are some really good quote sites

i like boardofwisdom.com

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