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I'm really confused as to what a vagina is supposed to look like, and whether or not mine is normal. 14/f not sexually active
On my vagina, there are two flaps of skin, one on each side. They don't appear to have veins in them or anything, and instead of the skin looking normal, it's crinkly, scrunched up, and a purple/brown color at the end bits.
And in the actual hole that is my vagina, it's not just like an opening. There's a bunch of bits and pieces of skin around it that I almost seem to need to hold open if I want to put a tampon in or something. Some of the pieces are long, and some are just kind of balled up. Either way, there's a lot of weird odds and ends of skin around it.
I would provide pictures, but that's kind of gross. So can anyone just tell me, does what I'm describing sound normal? I'm just very paranoid because that's never what I really thought it was supposed to look/be like. Thanks. (link)
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your perfectly normal...a vagina comes in all shapes and sizes...no two are the same and yours is unique to your body...it's normal as can be...but if your seriously concerned about something go see a gynecologist
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How realistic is it to want to self-teach yourself to play the piano?
As in, learning how to read music as well not just actually play? (link)
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it's realistic...I'm self-taught on the piano...but I already played 3 other instruments...there are beginner books and theory books that will help you learn how to play...but it's much more realistic if you already know how to play other instruments...it will come much easier for you.
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Im starting a college based training course on monday and on the letter it says smart casual, no jeans or sportswear, but ive seen many other girls wearing jeans and stuff there.
My question is.. im going shopping tomorrow morning with my friend to get clothes to wear, and i really dont know whether to get jeans or black trousers.. because if i get black trousers and everyones wearing jeans its waisted money, so should i get jeans and then ask on monday if i do need the black trousers and get some that evening?
Also what smart/casual tops, t-shirts should i get to wear with the jeans or trousers, (either way jeans or trousers i want to wear smart/casual tops)
thankyou
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instead try khakis...they're smart looking and are can be dressed down like jeans or dressed up like black trousers...and as for a shirt I'd just pick something that looks classy...I'd go with something in a dark plain color with subtle details or accessories...like a dark purple might look nice and then wear some nice gold jewelery or something with it...but if the paper says no jeans I don't suggest wearing jeans...especially not the first day...you want to make a good impression.
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Ahh! I have my school picture coming up and i have no idea what to wear or what to do with my hair. My hair is about an inch or two below my shoulders. Any ideas?
I'm about 16 by the way. (10th grade) (link)
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To be honest..dress like you normally would and wear your hair like you normally would too...you might want to wear a little dressier top but don't over do it...your classmates will be looking at the picture and you want them to see you, not someone completely different. Stay true to yourself...your school picture should be a reflection of who you are at the time. They're a great way to look back and see how much you've really changed.
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Ok before I lost 40 pounds eating healthy choice and smart ones meals. Well I have gained it all back and I wanna lose weight again but dont feel the meal plan will work for me. I really love food and I don't know what to do does anyone have any ideas? I need to lose about 50-60 pounds. (link)
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eat 5 small meals a day rather than 3 larger ones...no snacking in between and make sure everything is balanced. Get all of your recommended servings every day and set a calorie limit for yourself. The reason you gained all of the weight back from the healthy choice and smart ones is because they're are compromised mostly of sodium which will help with weight loss temporarily. You can still eat those meals but make sure you do exercise with it...thats the only way that the weight is going to stay off. Exercise at least 3 times a week for at least 45 minutes-1 hour. It's the real key to losing the weight that you want.
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Okay so how much bigger do they get ? sorry just wondering.
and like when they stick the spectrum in does it hurt and is it like really cold ?
Also im a virgin . And not broken down there. so will it hurt when they stick the two fingures in . Im not loose at all . (link)
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they wont get much bigger at all...and like I said it really depends upon the pill...some wont do anything at all for your boobs...and it doesn't hurt and it's not cold...it's uncomfortable...but if your really nervous it will probably be a bit painful the first time because you'll keep tightening up so it will hurt a bit and feel forced...them sticking the fingers in actually is a lot less painful because the use the spectrum first so your already opened up a bit...it's still a bit uncomfortable. Just relax and try your best not to tighten up the muscles and you should be just fine.
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Hi guys, right now ive got myself completly confused about my female parts lol
Ive been having periods for about 3-4 years now, but heres the thing my vagina seems completly weird Im a virgin btw but i dont seem to a hymen but i have like a bit of skin right above my vagina which feels completly gross to touch. Im completly worried as I dont know what it is, and also my vagina appears to be too small.
Am I being worried about nothing, or is it something really important?
Thanks in advance!!
xo (link)
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Take a deep, cleansing breath. Now. Everyone's female parts are different. They come in different shapes and sizes. That skin is probably the flap of skin above your clitoris. Your hymen is probably up farther in your vagina...there is no precise location for every single girl. It's really nothing to worry about. It's just the way that your body is designed. You also have to remember that the hymen stretches and moves a bit to help tampons go in and also fingering yourself. You might have popped it...but it's unlikely...but even if you did that doesn't make you no longer a virgin..I was horseback riding when I was 8 and mine popped...you can also pop in several other ways...my friends was popped by a tampon because she forced it in..that doesn't mean that I lost my virginity to a horse or that she lost hers to a tampon...maybe you have already popped it...but if your just super concerned go see a gynecologist. They'll be able to tell you.
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I just moved to a new city this summer and it's already the 4th week of school and I only made one friend, and she's only in one of my classes. I really suck at making friends and i'm shy and not the prettiest person in the world so i'm scared i'm never going make friends. A lot of the people here are really stuck up and they are way different from the people where I used to live. Me and and my friends had a really weird since of humor but the people here just aren't funny... I haven't met people that are similiar to my friends at all. I hate it so much that I come home crying a lot and can't eat barley at all. What should I do to feel better? (link)
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join clubs that are themed to things you enjoy...you'll meet people with similar intersts...try some after school activities, join a team or your schools theatre department...something your in to. Don't look super hard for friends...they'll just come to you. I know your shy but being in a new school is a great way to make a fresh start. Try getting involved in something that will help break you out of your shell...you'll become more outgoing and want to talk to people and be social. But I really do suggest joining a club...it will really help you make new friends...thats how I made most of mine at my school.
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Does the Pill really make your boobs bigger ?
Well im going on it . And I have to go to that doctor person for it. and jw what all do they do to you ??
P.s. ( I'm soo scared )
15/f
( & if this matters. i use to msterbate & i do get fingured form my bf. ) (link)
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it can...it all depends upon how your body reacts to it...certain brands do certain things. Mine cleared up my acne and made my boobs bigger, but I also gained some weight...some don't make your boobs bigger and can cause acne. Some cause cravings too..when I first started all I wanted was pizza...it's like all I would eat lol. When you go to the gynecologist relax. I go twice a year and it's really not as bad as it seems. Usually they check for breast lumps first by doing a breast examination (sometimes they do it 2nd, it varies by doctor) after that they'll take this thing called a spectrum and stick it up the vagina so they can examine it, take some swabs of the inside, and check for cervical cancer. After that they'll take two fingers and stick them in an feel the cervix for lumps...you'll feel some pressure because they'll be pressing down on your abdomen from the outside and up on the inside. It's uncomfortable but if you relax it's really easy and you should be in and out in 15 minutes.
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ok so i want to know the name of this song i dont know what its called or who sings it i just know it says :and it breaks my hart, and it break my ha ha ha ha- and thats all i know it was on "Life of Ryan" yesteday i had hurd it before but i dont remeber plz thanx (link)
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It's Fidelity by Regina Specktor. Gah! I love her
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I'm looking for a song called "rouge" by Lou Reed. the only time I can hear it right now is if I go on Amazon and listen to a preview. I tried everything, I googled it, went to youtube, tried imeem, radioblogclub, minorcrisis,myspace, all these sites, and none of them had it. I even went to limewire and it didn't have it. does anyone know where I can find it, perhaps a site? thanks! (link)
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I would try pandora.com...it's a genome site and will play the song and then similar songs to it so you can hear other songs just like it...they should have it.
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In the cell phone game surviving high school 07 when you get the extra episodes do they charge you extra or is it all free????
(like the mash game and stuff on those pages) (link)
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it's free if you paid 6.99 for the game otherwise its 2.99 a month.
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14/f
recently i have been talking to an guy 2 years older than me. he lives in my town but goes to a private school. ive hung out with him once and i really like him. his friend told me he was thinking of asking me out. i have no problem with that, i just dont know how to tell my parents. i usually tell them everything but i dont know how they would react. what is an easy of telling them?
thanks in advance (link)
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don't lie to them...don't butter them up too much...the other person is wrong...don't hide him from your parents...if he asks you out let your parents meet him before the date...they'll be a lot more at ease if they meet him first...but don't hide anything from them...they'll be more upset if you do...be honest but make some bargains...say "mom, dad...there's this guy that I really like that asked me out...He's 16 and goes to a private school...now before you say anything...I will be home by whatever set curfew you give me and you all will get to meet him beforehand." This will help ease their mind...they should at least give him a chance...if they try saying no let them know that...everyone deserves a chance.
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What are really good stomache exercises that will flatten your tummy, that actually work with a healthy diet, and exercise.
SIT UPS really aren't doing it.
Help? (link)
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eat 5 small meals a day...don't go longer than 6 hours without eating (unless sleeping). Breakfast is a must...not eating breakfast actually can make you gain weight...don't just to sit ups...incorporate other ab exercises into your regime...google ab exercises...most websites will give you step by step instructions...also work on your obliques and the rest of your body...working out in an area that feels like its only affecting your legs...like running...can actually help other parts of your body too...but one the the major keys to weight loss really is the 5 smaller meals a day rather than 3 big meals and some snacking in between...just make sure you do that with your exercise and you should be fine.
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i want to get my bellybutton pierced but my friends say its slutty and that only gross people do it should i? (link)
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if you want to do it do it...it only looks slutty when girls walk around wearing belly shirts only because their belly buttons are pierced...do it for you...not for your friends..just don't go showing it off to everyone who will look...thats what makes it look slutty...otherwise there is no problem with it.
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I got my ears pierced last February. I didn't exactly follow the "clean it every day" instructions and now there's kind of a bump at the back of my ear around my cartilage piercing. I don't really know if it's just a random bump or swelling, but it hurts when I touch it and it's been this way for MONTHS.. I'm wondering what exactly it is, and, if possible, how to make it go away. (link)
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sounds like your ears infected...go see a doctor and get some antibiotics for it...but if it's too bad you'll probably have to let the holes clothes and get your ears re-pierced.
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i have pretty curly hair, and frizzy. i straighten it and use good hair products for my hair.
but usually after a few hours outside, or even inside on a hot day it starts to get frizzy and wavy.
the front still looks good, it just starts to flip under which i think looks cute, but for some reason on back of my head, the hair gets really like nasty and frizzy and big. i do the exact same thing with the back of my head, that i do with the frontt..
so why does it do this?
any help would be greatttt.
thankss. =] (link)
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I used to have the same problem...I started using garnier fructise smoothing milk...I haven't had a problem with frizz since...Its definitely something worth trying.
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Heres the story During summer i started dating this guy and i really liked him. everyone else that i had gone out with was sorta a joke but i really loved this guy. we were together all the time and everything was fine. when school started i noticed him flirting with other girls and my friends would tell me stuff. i would believe some things but i would talk to him and we would say that he wouldnt ever do this to me. one day i was really mad at him for flirting with one of his ex's but that night we worked everything out. then a ton of my friends told me that he was flirting with another girl too and i couldnt handle it. that night i broke up with him and he said he understood. but i still like him a lot and i dont know what to do because i dont think he likes me anymore. hes all i think and talk about and i cry all the time. what do i need to do? (link)
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It's hard to end a relationship with someone you really like..but its necessary to move on to be happy...spend some time going out with friends...don't think about guys for a while...leave them alone...soon enough you'll find a guy who is really worth your time and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated...There's someone for everyone...just keep your head held high and keep looking.
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Sorry, didn't know a proper catagory.
The guy "kelly" who plays in omgshoes, and the muffins... well he has a show on tv.
and i think it's the liam show, but i don't know& i tried searching for t, but i don't know his real name so it's hard. Does anyone know what his name is or what show airs on tv? I know it comes on thursday nights for a fact.
thanks. (link)
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He's on the show I Hate My 30's on VH1
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I need some help finding a store or website to buy jeans. I'm very weird shaped. I have a 46 inch waist and a 28 inch inseam (I can wear 30 inch inseams too). I need something cute and that would flatter me. I don't want to pay any more than $40. I also want dark-washes (not black).
THANKS SO MUCH!!! (link)
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I'm the same way...I have a large waist, short inseam, and skinny legs...try old navy, gap, aeropostale.com(they go up to size 18 online), American Eagle.com(same as aeropostale),JC Penny goes up to size 17...but for short inseam make sure it says short...regular is 30...short is 28...at gap it will say the size number and then have an A after it...those are the shortlegged pants...aeropostale doesn't carry the bigger sizes in short in store...you have to order it online...also try alloy.com...they have an excellent sizing chart that's very accurate.
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