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any sujjestions?? (link)
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Celine Dion "All by myself",98 degrees"The hardest thing",Selena"Dreaming of you",etc..
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Okay so I had oral sex with this guy and I guess he liked me a little bit. I dont know. But he'll talk to me sometimes and then other times he just ignores me. I mind you he is really shy. Like he'll talk to me but when we were having oral he seemed like i dont know nervous. He's 2 years older than me so I dont know why he was so shy ans stuff. Now he talks to me like he likes me and then he'll act like im some sort of freak. He calls me some stupid name thats not insulting its just something he likes to call me. I dont know if he wants some sex or he really likes me. I've never had sex before. So yeah I'm a virgin. But he really pisses me off. Why does he do that? I want to ask him but he's so confusing he may never talk to me again. I'm just sick of him. (link)
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I get what you're saying when you say that he is confusing believe me sometimes they can confuse you.Ask him if he does want to have intimacy with you,he shouldn't get mad it's just a question of boyfriend,girlfriend but, if his answer is yes then you'll know that was the problem.Or if that's not it then don't go to the conclusion right away that it could be that he doesn't like you the other reason could be that he is probably having problems that you aren't aware of or he's just as confused as you are.Try not to get frustrated.
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F/16 Yesterday my friend was driving me home shes 16 too she went to pass a car on a 2 way street so she went over to look and then saw a car comming it wasnt close or anything it was like a half mile away so she went back into the lane and lost control of the car we did a 180 and then we flipped in the air i live in AZ so there was dirt everywhere and we lanned in the bush tree thing idk. my friend was fine and im a little scratched up and brusied. im not sure if i discribed it well but i cant stop playing it in my head i keep seeing parts of it and i cant put it togetther this was the first car crash id been in im still really shaky im soo afriad of driving or even getting in a car i just cant stop thinking about it
any tips on how to not think about it, any ideas on what happend, how can i calm myself down,
thank you so much (link)
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Yeah,I had the same feeling when I was driving that you just want to stop thinking about something that's bothering me what you need to do is concentrate,relax your mind,think of all the positive things in your life or hearing music which is what calms me down or some coffee to calm your nerves down.
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Well, I have a friend and she is 3 years older than me so she's always been a step ahead of me in life. Like 3! haha. Yea so I'm basically going through the same thing she went through 3 years ago and I was just wondering if I'll be like her in 3 years. Right now I hate life but I"m 14 and that's not a happy age at all. That's why I want to be her age because she has an amazing boyfriend. And wonderful friends plus she's pretty and has long blonde hair. She's everything I want to be. I just wanted to know if maybe, just maybe this will be me in 3 years. (link)
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Hey practically almost anything is not impossible you can have a life like her as well right now you are just having a tuff life but, you can overcome it,be happy as she is,you can be attractive as she is so don't worry okay.
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Hello my name is charles. Im 26yrs old and have a situation that i need advice on. I just got dumbed by my g/f of 6 1/2 yrs and I quite my job and moved away to my sisters house. I talked to my work about a week later and they told me I could come back with same pay and same title. I loved my job but I had no were to stay or new no one in the town. what should I do. I also meet a girl that I worked with in that town and we are real good friends and I have a lote of fellings for her. She kinda knows this but I really dont know what to say becouse If she dont fell the same way I dont wont to ruin are friend ship. Plz help with both questions plz (link)
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What you can do as far as getting a place is ask either your boss or one of the workers if they can do you a favor,that you wouldn't be asking them if it weren't an emergency if they please let you stay in their home because you don't have a place to stay,just for a time until you can buy your own place.And for this girl you like get to know her more,when you're sure that she shows signs that she has something for you then take the risk,let her know your feelings don't be afraid because you might let your chance with her slip away from your hands.
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Whoever reads this please help!!!!I have this friend who me and my friends are fed up with she always starts drama and to add some stuff she can cry on command to make people feel bad for her!!!!I SWARE!!Ok so she likes this guy and is OBSESSED and he hates her so much...BTW everytime we get in a fight she basically says rude remarks about this guy to us because me and my friend hang out with him alot beacause she is JEALOUS!!!I really need some help. Like and when she feels like being mean she will say a rude remark and when she is trying to be nice she trys to act cute "which never is" and if me and my friends didnt hang out with her she would have none because she is so mean to everyone else!!Then when we talk about "girl stuff" she trys to make her boobs look big cause she has none! And one time she wrote me a note saying how greasy my face was but if you read this please help me!! i NEED HELP LIKE SHOULD I still be friends with her and if not how do i tell her to be nice and not bratty?!?!?!?!?!?!
THanx
MissyMay123 (link)
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From what you tell me I say she can change her ways perhaps try to save your friendship you see what she needs is some attention,she is feeling left out because she feels that you are spending too much time with him,she still feels anger towards the guy because she sees it like the guy rejected her she's in pain right now so tell her nicely that you don't want to lose her friendship and you want to be honest with her but also not to take it the wrong way,that she shouldn't be mean to others its just not the way to act,that she shouldn't take her anger on others who didn't do anything to her,also that no offense but she is bratty so she needs to change that before others,everyone start not to even bother to want to talk to her.Good luck!
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So i'm in 8th grade, and ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of 6th and when shes with people she knows i dont really talk to, she starts talking really bad crap about me and it always comes back to me! And she says im 'one of her best friends' but she never calls me for help on things, or tells me about her crushes, or anything. And shes liked my best guy friend for over 5 months and told all my other friends but me. And she LOVES stirring up drama at sleepovers or trips. And i honestly dont know what to do anymore! im sick of it! --plus i honestly dont recall doing anything for her to treat me this bad in the first place! what do i do? am i still friends with her or not???
help! =[ (link)
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Don't be friends with her she isn't a friend but a toothface,she is not worthy of your friendship,you can always find others who are worth talking to not people like her if I were you I would have broken up my friendship with her a long time ago,she's not even a person you can trust just let it go,you'll be better without her.
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15. 5"9 160 pounds
ive been running and exercising for most of the summer for at least 1 hour each day AND i ate NOTHING but healthy foods and drank NOTHING but water, with a treat every weekend or so. but i dont feel or see the weight loss..and this week i was so frustrated with lack of results i just ate everything i saw..and then i went out and bought like 3 jumbo ice creams and ate them all..and then i went to walmart and bought and ate a lot and lot of candy (m&ms mostly, hah) and now i feel so FAT! every time i feel my thighs touch i just feel awkward and hateful of my body. (which is totally not healthy. i know)
sooo..do you think I could lose 5 pounds by the time school starts (sept 5. 3 weeks from now.)? That's about 2 pounds a week..i feel like losing 5 pounds will really up my morale to getting my weight goal of 140 pounds by the end of this year. i'll have only 15 pounds to go and 3 months to do it.
oh and what are some exercises i could do to speed up the weight loss? besides running, that is. (link)
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Yes,you can very possible just cut out all the junk food,candy,fattening foods that have way too many carbs,a small amount of fat calories,keep doing exercising regularly,you'll lose those five pounds or more.Keep up the good job!!
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Ok im in 8th grade and theres this guy and i really like him but i dont think he would ever like me because my other friend who guys think is really "pretty" and me and my friends dont....and says she likes him too and flirts like friken crazy how do i get this guys attention without being just like her or should i totally stop liking him????!!!!
Please help
--MissyMay123 (link)
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Fight for what you want of course don't give up you like him too ,talk to the guy let him know your interested any chance you see him alone take it,become his friend gain his trust,show that you're different from other girls,dress really nice every time you see him,put on different hairstyles,different color eyeshadows,lipgloss,or lipstick which ever you prefer that will match your different outfits.Trust me on this you will capture his full attention.
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Is there any songs that talk about like, how you'll be waiting for your guy. Like Elliot Yamin's song, Wait for you. Except with a girl singing it?
or any songs about missing your boy.
thanks. (link)
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Selena "Missing my baby",Mariah Carey "My all",Jessica Simpson & Nick Lachey"Where you are",Celine Dion"Because you love me",Vanessa Hudgens"Baby come back to me",etc...
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Let's start off by saying I have never gotten along with my mom. She has put my sisters and I through a lot of problems in our lifetime. She has always treated me unfairly however, because I am the oldest, so I get the blame for everything. My mom also never got along with her mother when she was my age, my mom moved out of her mom's house when she was 18 years old. My mom doesn't listen to what I have to say and if I try telling her she's treating me unfairly she'll tell me to "shut the fuck up" or call me a little bitch. My mom has said things like "You better treat your step father better than that before he leaves me. I'd kick you out of the house before I kick him out" And she let one of her other boyfriends call me a whore and such because they found out I had sex with my boyfriend. Well, that was over a year ago and my mom still calls me a whore and makes me keep the door open when he's here and I'm not even allowed to go to his house. My mom makes sure that I never get any alone time with him at all and I've been dating him for almost 2 years. Yes, I am young (almost 16) But my relationship is very mature, and my mom can't stand it. To all the parents out there, what would you do if you found out your child had sex when she was my age? Would you act similar to my mom? Also, I'm supposed to be going away on vacation with my family next week and my mom told me I HAVE to go, and she told me that if I don't go and I stay with my father, that I should just pack my bags to move in with him because I won't be welcome here anymore. Everyone tells me that I should respect my mother, and I do more than I should. I say thank you for everything and I'm constantly helping to clean the house and take care of my sisters. How do I tell my mom that like my grandma, she will also have a daughter moving out on her 18th birthday if she keeps treating me like this without having it blow up to a huge argument? (link)
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When no one is home except you,your mom then talk to her but, let her know that you don't want to argue but, talk like two mature people,because your family,that if something was bothering her you would like her to let you know just like what you're going to tell her that she should in reward at least respect you,be nice because the parents will have to let their kids go one day,can't have them tied up to keep them for life even if sadly it sounds but it's the truth,that she should also give you that spot as your daughter,not let a guy get in control of everything which isn't fair if you have been a good daughter doing the chores in the house,every mom out there would love their kids to be responsible,clean after the mess,be helpful,cooperative,that by her turning her back on you,givng you the cold shoulder its turning you away from her,that she'll lose you if she keeps up that way,the only thing you want is for everyone to be treated equally,fair,also add the fact that you'll be moving out on your 18th birthday if she keeps it up.Best of luck that she finally can come to an understanding with you!!
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I really am not trying to sound conceited and brag to everyone that i'm pretty, I have better things to do. But adults always say that i'm very pretty and that I have the body and face to be a model and everything. But boys just don't seem to notice me. Like if you looked like a model, wouldn't alot of guys like you? For example, [I DONT LIKE MY COUSIN BEFORE U READ THIS!], my aunt was like fixing my boy cousin's hair and was like "oh there now you look cute, i'd date you if I was your age" then she is like "jamie would date you, if she wasn't your cousin" [im jamie] He's like "HAHA yeah but I wouldn't date HER" Then another time at school this girl is like "you're really pretty" and a guy was sitting with her and he just laughed. Why don't guys think i'm hot? i'M confused! By the way, i'm going into 8th grade. (link)
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Some guys are like really shy,don't want to express their feelings for reasons such as fear of rejection or of getting hurt again that is if they had gone through pain in their last relationship or just want the girl to make the move on them.Don't get frustrated,there are guys who can act like jerks just ignore them,think about it why would a girl tell you that if it wasn't true,plus it's not a girl you know,also there can be males who don't seek for an oppurtunity but, just want an adventure,if they don't see that in a girl they go for another who will give him that pleasure.If you know you're hot then you will most likely get a boyfriend soon,look at the bright side you are very young,you will have a lot of time to enjoy your youth,and be confident in your own skin if you know what I mean.
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how can you learn to read lips?
or is just a practice sort of thing (link)
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You can all it is to get use to doing that ,some practice believe me then you'll be good at it in no time.
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Okay, well, thanks but they kinda know me. They get kinda excited when me and my folks come to see them. Plus it's a little hard because she is in Virginia and I'm in Puerto Rico. (link)
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Several long distance relationships don't last but a few do,since you let me know that her parents like you then here is your oppurtunity you can't let go,if you too really like each other then both of you will be able to make the relationship survive,nothing should stand in the way you'll make it through but you can take your time,think about this,of other things like how you'll make time to go see her if you choose to be with her.Make the right choice choose what will help you grow as a beautiful person and that it's the choice that will give you that joy in your life.
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I have liked this guy since the beginning of the year. Let's name him Bob. Okay, well Bob used to be nice and funny. And then I found out he starting using drugs, and I kinda stopped liking him. And I started liking other guys. I would still like Bob. But I knew that nothing will ever happen between us. And I personally hate people who do drugs. Well Bob change dramatically. So like I said, I start liking other guys. But know that it's summer. I can't stop thinking of anyone else except him. I really want to forget about this guy because of his drug addiction. Help me please!! What can I do to forget about him? (link)
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It can be very tuff sometimes,I know from experience there are many things you can do like for a start by not talking about him no more,meeting other guys,hanging out with your friends,going to the mall,helping those in need,doing things to keep you busy,also thinking about the negative things that Bob did so it will make you dislike him,easily get it over with,not having this frustration anymore,move on you're still young,have so much more to live,there will be times when things don't go the way we want to but we have to have the strength to over come it which makes us stronger,gives us that ability to be able to face bigger things,events in our future,present so don't be upset just follow through,soon he'll be out of the picture, and you'll be happier without the thought of him.
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Okay, I'm Joel and I'm a 14-year-old boy/teen and I have a problem. See, there's a girl that I started dating, and before we were closer friends, and her family is actually friends with MY family. But there's a problem. She said the other day that she didn't want this to be a secret relationship and that I should ask her parents for permission. Now, I see where she's coming from and all, but I just don't know how to ask. I'm really scared. I guess mainly because Her oldest sister dated MY oldest brother, long while back when they were in high school. So, can you help me? If you can, I'd appreciate it SO much. Thanks. (link)
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First thing is risky first option is to have the courage to ask her parents if it would be okay that you could date their daughter,you could even get your parents to help you,or you could earn their trust,let them see what a nice guy you are,that you're the right person for their daughter then ask their permission but if you choose this option then tell the girl you're dating to give you some time for her parents to get to know you more.Don't worry everything will go fine have faith.If you need any other advice feel free to leave me it on my inbox and I will answer as soon as I can.
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I feel terrible for needing to ask ths but does God really exist??
My family (and i??) are christians but lately i doupt that God really made us the earth and everything around us. If so WHY did he make us and the earth EVERYTHING!!!
please don't tell me he doesn't exsist b/c in the back of my mind i believe but then agian?!? (link)
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God does exist if you have doubts ask yourself then who made this earth it can't be made by itself?He made people,earth because he wanted to see people live,increase in number,god made this earth in just five days,also he loved to see the view of nature wanted to give us the chance to enjoy it,live in paradise for eternity but, because of the devil he ruined that dream for all humanity.God himself always listens to my prayer he does exist,also ask yourself this as well don't you think that if there is evil there must also be good,there is definitely proof that there is a devil there are pictures of him shown when the twin towers got blown up so that leaves god to exist because in the books of god it saids how god use to have the devil as an angel but then the devil wanted to take over his spot so he was punished,thrown down into the fire so doesn't it make sense that god would have to exist for the devil's story to occur,and for that reason there are even people on this very earth.Hopefully you're convinced after the things you just read.
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Im a white 17/F..and i like a black guy name Tyron..the more i see him and spend time with him the more i like him...we both know we are very attracted to eachother and we want to date but there is one big problem..my parents..my dad already told me that i was forbidden to date a black guy..and my mom is worried that i will date one..im soo upset because im not the racist type..when i see Tyron i dont see black..i just see HIM. Hes a wonderful guy..im sooo hurt over this..what should i do? (link)
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You should follow your heart,go after what you want don't listen to your parents believe me if they really want to see you happy they'll have to step aside and let you make your own decisions because if you don't take the chance you'll most likely regret it later on and trust me you don't want that.Good luck!
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mother not speaking to father, brother not speaking to father, other brother not speaking to mother, and NO ONE speaking to me.
My family is falling apart, and they refuse to get help or talk to eachother and I don't know what to do! (link)
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You should convince them to seek a therapist to get to know what the main problem that caused this terrible situation in the first place,for sure will get them to let out their feelings,what's been bothering them to find a solution to your family's problem,do this as soon as possible before things might get even worse.
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how do i know if i like a guy? like. . . i cant tell the difference because i might have a crush on my best friend. OR do i just see him as my best friend, because i cant tell. i get excited to see him and im also anxious to talk to him. but sometimes i ignore him too. i dont know, i just wanted to hear your guys opinions. any stories of your own experiences? =) (link)
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When you mentioned the part about how you ignored him it tells me that you definitely don't have strong feelings for him so it must be that you only like him as a best friend.There was this guy who had a chance with me but, he was afraid to lose me,when he wanted something more than friends it was too late because he let a lot of time past by,I lost my feelings for him,a long time ago that I decided to move on,and he regretted it a whole lot,I couldn't forgive him for all that time wasted you know that's pretty sad.
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