Well, I have a friend and she is 3 years older than me so she's always been a step ahead of me in life. Like 3! haha. Yea so I'm basically going through the same thing she went through 3 years ago and I was just wondering if I'll be like her in 3 years. Right now I hate life but I"m 14 and that's not a happy age at all. That's why I want to be her age because she has an amazing boyfriend. And wonderful friends plus she's pretty and has long blonde hair. She's everything I want to be. I just wanted to know if maybe, just maybe this will be me in 3 years.
You don't want to be her. You may think you do, but you really don't. Her life may seem like peaches and cream on the outside, but peaches do have pits and cream does go sour. Meaning her life may seem glorious to you, but she has problems and stress just like you and everyone else.
Being who you are is all you really have that is absolutely yours in this life. No one can take that away from you, but you can take it away from yourself.
So why on Earth would you want to give up your own unique individuality? You then just live a clone life that belongs to someone else.
sunnyville answered Tuesday August 21 2007, 9:57 pm: Hey practically almost anything is not impossible you can have a life like her as well right now you are just having a tuff life but, you can overcome it,be happy as she is,you can be attractive as she is so don't worry okay. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
Michele answered Tuesday August 21 2007, 9:09 pm: I can guarantee that in three years you will be in a happier place. It is tough being fourteen, not that being 17 is great. It has it's own set of problems, but it's better than 14. You'll be older, wiser, you'll have more freedom, maybe job, and some money and there is also a good chance that you'll have a wonderful guy in your life. BEcause honey, let me tell you 14 year old boys are just over playing with trucks and video games, they don't know how to treat a girl. SO I know it's hard to be patient, but you will be rewarded for your perseverance. Hang in there.
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