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i need to forget about him
14/F
I have liked this guy since the beginning of the year. Let's name him Bob. Okay, well Bob used to be nice and funny. And then I found out he starting using drugs, and I kinda stopped liking him. And I started liking other guys. I would still like Bob. But I knew that nothing will ever happen between us. And I personally hate people who do drugs. Well Bob change dramatically. So like I said, I start liking other guys. But know that it's summer. I can't stop thinking of anyone else except him. I really want to forget about this guy because of his drug addiction. Help me please!! What can I do to forget about him?
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Find other guys to think about. I my recent studies of the heart I have found out that infatuation like energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only change forms. Find someone else to like and it will transfer. This may take time though. Look at Bob's flaws like drugs and compare him to your image of a perfect guy. Good luck.
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You are doing the right thing for your future and think of the negative things of Bob. You will eventually stop liking him. You just need to get away and do stuff to keep you busy like everyone else said. Hang out with friends and meet other guys. It will be over eventually. There are plenty more guys out there and your doing the right thing about right from wrong.
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It can be very tuff sometimes,I know from experience there are many things you can do like for a start by not talking about him no more,meeting other guys,hanging out with your friends,going to the mall,helping those in need,doing things to keep you busy,also thinking about the negative things that Bob did so it will make you dislike him,easily get it over with,not having this frustration anymore,move on you're still young,have so much more to live,there will be times when things don't go the way we want to but we have to have the strength to over come it which makes us stronger,gives us that ability to be able to face bigger things,events in our future,present so don't be upset just follow through,soon he'll be out of the picture, and you'll be happier without the thought of him.
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Hey girl you are doing the right thing, trying to forget about him is the best thing you could do. I think you could do better, you don't need a drug addict in you life. Think about your future if you could stop this now is the best time. Plus he is not the only guy in this world. Just give it time, go out with friends and get to know other guys. I am sure you are going to find someone who is going to offer you love and a lot of respect.
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