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Back-Stabbing Friend!!! -HELP
So i'm in 8th grade, and ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of 6th and when shes with people she knows i dont really talk to, she starts talking really bad crap about me and it always comes back to me! And she says im 'one of her best friends' but she never calls me for help on things, or tells me about her crushes, or anything. And shes liked my best guy friend for over 5 months and told all my other friends but me. And she LOVES stirring up drama at sleepovers or trips. And i honestly dont know what to do anymore! im sick of it! --plus i honestly dont recall doing anything for her to treat me this bad in the first place! what do i do? am i still friends with her or not???
help! =[
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Okay...Drama=Bad. Its never fun to get mixed up in, someone always gets hurt. If she is talking behind your back you really just need to stop being friends with her. She obviously just likes to use people and abuse there trust. And it doesnt seem like she trusts you that much because she never tells you anything. You have 2 options.
1. Stop being friends with her.
2. Still be friends but act like she does. I dont mean talk behind her back...dont stoop to her level, I mean don't tell her anything about who you like or what problems your having...even if she seems interested, it could just be a way to get your secrets and then talk about you behind your back. Do not trust her with anything she doesnt seem like the type to just stop her evil ways or confess to doing these things.
I hope this helps good luck.
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hi,im in 8th grade and i went through the same thing last year.I talked to my other friends and they said they would talk to her for me about the way she treats me.They did and she said that if i would have just talked to her should would have changed.We talked about it and she totally changed.Now she tells me everything and we are best friends. I hope i helped!!!
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Don't be friends with her she isn't a friend but a toothface,she is not worthy of your friendship,you can always find others who are worth talking to not people like her if I were you I would have broken up my friendship with her a long time ago,she's not even a person you can trust just let it go,you'll be better without her.
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Omg i didnt think i would ever meet anyone who had the same problem as me!Urrg it sucks when your suposly true friends backstab you!lol:)Ok this is your options stay freinds with her or dnt be.If your ganna be friends with her then here is what you should do.See her as just a what up freind,where you just talk to her when your bored.Or talk to her tell her what the hell is her probelm and if she starts to act up with you sho her hell no you better than her.you deserve better frinds than that.a friend like me:Plol.i just went threw the same thing a few weeks ago and im actruly happy with out dum freinds like that:).well i hope i helped adn i hope things go great.Look up my I.M name if you wanna talk more.Love,Gaurdain Angel
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