Okay, so I have a very bubbly personality. Well, I'm staring 8th grade and I'm not nervous or anything, but some of my friends aren't in my classes. I don't really want to go to class alone. Especially in our school. Our school is bully central. The bullies don't bother me too much knowing I get away without being insulted, but I'm not too good in phyiscal violence. I mean, I am good at fist fights, but I wanna do good this year, not kill someone. I want some tips on getting to class without beating someone up. I'm a nice person when you catch me i na good mood, so could somebody get me some tips on starting 8th grade?! Please?! THANK YOU!
IThasJUSTbegun answered Monday August 20 2007, 9:34 pm: you wont get beat up
why would you get beat up?
im sure you don't talk shit
just don't talk shit and you won't get beat up
and those bullies well they have no lives since they beat up kids, you're probably pretty and so thats why you don't get insulted and stuff, just don't talk shit and you'll be fine and be nice [ IThasJUSTbegun's advice column | Ask IThasJUSTbegun A Question ]
Volleyball2150 answered Monday August 20 2007, 8:15 pm: hey
alright, well as for the friends part- You are gonna make new friends! it was about 3 days after school started and I had already made a lot of new friends. Just be nice, kind, and funny! nobody wants to hang around someone who is serious all the time. how boring would that be?!?!
bully- if someone ever does bully you, go and report them. Talk to a teacher about them or go to the main office and report them. But that is after it happens. When it actually does happen... don't get on the ladder with them. (aka don't start mouthing back to them, because then both of you will start to increase your tension and then it could be really bad, like threats, or bringing in weapons etc.) So just simply ignore them and walk away. If they call you chicken or scardy cat, just say whatever loser and then go away. Now, when you walk away... don't walk away where there's not a lot of people... walk into a crowd so that they will lose track of you. Or better yet, walk where most of the teacher are, aka in a classroom. even if it's not yours. Just pretend you have to sharpen your pencil, or spit your gum out, wash your hands... etc.
just don't worry and have fun!! most bullys like to pick on the kids who are quiet and shy. So just be yourself, talk to a lot of people, and have fun! School is not ment to be a place full of fear. you should feel safe at school. All that matters is that you focus on schoolwork.
KittyxCatx3 answered Monday August 20 2007, 6:27 pm: Well, first of all, don't beat someone up. If they say something rude either ignore them or tell them to back off. Also try to find your friends in between classes so it doesn't look like you're walking alone. And don't worry if none of your close friends are in your classes. Just be nice to everyone and you will have new friends in no time! This way you'll feel like you atleast know somebody in your classes. And good luck in 8th grade, it's gonna be a breeze! I promise! [ KittyxCatx3's advice column | Ask KittyxCatx3 A Question ]
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