i've heard about this a lot before =] boys come & go, but friends are forever, and sooner or later [maybe after the break up or sooner] she'll realize this. you've already tried talking to her which is a good thing, and when she gets mad make sure that what you say to her couldn't be taken offensively. you may not mean to offend her but you could be anyway .. instead, say that you just really miss spending time with each other and you think it's important to hang out. ask her to leave at least a night/day for you guys to hang out .. because when her heart gets broken, who's gonna be there? you. goodluck.

personally, i think you like him. since you have dreams about him, you obviouslly think about it & him. just because your mad at someone doesn't mean you stop liking them neccesarily .. you probably never stopped from when you liked him ALOT. i would wait until things get fixed w/ him and you guys start becoming better friends again and then you'll really realize if you like the real him .. goodluck.

since your boyfriend can`t come over, why not ask your best friend or some of your close friends to come over? even if you guys are just hanging out doing nothingg or watching a movie or something, at least you'll be together on your birthday. then you can spend time together & they'll want to celebrate your birthday with youuu. since you dont like your twin`s friends, stay away from them so it doesnt put you in a bad moood on your birthdayy. if NONE of your friends can come over, do something for yourself - pamper yourself hahaha. take a long bubble bath, do your nails, hair, makeup, etc. and take a day to pamper yourselfff. or go shoppinggg (: i hope i helpedd you

it's someone who is hired to shop or go places to see if the employees are polite & do what they're supposed to. the employees dont know they are there .. (most likely, the employees' boss hires this person to make sure they're doing hteir job).

i think it really depends on the person, what they are ready for, & what they want. everyone is different. i know people that got their first kiss in 6th grade, && people that didn`t get it until 10th or 11th. it depends on what your ready for [boyfriend, kissing, all that stuff] & what you want to do. first kiss is usually not that big - peck on the lipss or sometimes a little more.

myjellybean.com < -- go there and click on boys, then kissing and it has a lot of detail for you! =]

cutting grass, walking dogs, bevarage stand[because you may be a little old for lemonade]or something like that (food, cool things to drink/eat because it is getting hot out), watching peoples pets/houses/plants while they're away (might not be fast enough for monday), making something special that you can do [um, like really good jewelrey or drawings?) & selling them, car wash, etc. maybe ask your parents if you can do anything around the house for a little bit of $. youll have to work really hard to get that much by next monday though .. but good luck! =]

hope i helped youuu!

EDITTTT;;; yup. daniel powter.


copy & pasted from lyrics.astraweb.com


Where is the moment we need at the most
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost
They tell me your blue skies fade to grey
They tell me your passion's gone away
And I don't need no carryin' on

You stand in the line just to hit a new low
You're faking a smile with the coffee to go
You tell me your life's been way off line
You're falling to pieces everytime
And I don't need no carryin' on

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Well you need a blue sky holiday
The point is they laugh at what you say
And I don't need no carryin' on

You had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around



You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day

(Oh.. Holiday..)

Sometimes the system goes on the blink
And the whole thing turns out wrong
You might not make it back and you know
That you could be well oh that strong
And I'm not wrong

(yeah...)

So where is the passion when you need it the most
Oh you and I
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
You've seen what you like
And how does it feel for one more time
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

you can't get pregnant from that, unless sperm entered your body. as for being a slut, it's your decision on what you do with a guy. obviously because you were wasted you went further then you normally would, but some people might think you are because you weren't even going out or anything.

accesories are a great way to make your outfit not so boring. earings, necklaces, belts, anything can spice up your outfit. even if your just wearing a plain, long sleeved shirt & jeans add a funky necklace or belt to make it more exciting. also, the next time your out shopping, try buying a shirt w/ a pattern on it that you don't find so boring (= good luck.

definetely tell your boyfriend whats going on. it's not fair to either of you if you don't talk about it .. tell him that you want to try seeing other people, or take a break, because if your going w/ other boys then you obviously don't want to be exclusive with your boyfriend & therefore you should break upp.

popping a cherry, like said below, is loosing your virginity. it's called "popping the cherry" because when you first have sex, your hymen breaks [however, a lot of girls' hymen breaks before then because it can break when you put a tampon in, even just riding a bike.] and it may bleed a little bit; ie popping your cherry.

i would say if its really serious, you might want to get them to calm down. it takes courage to do stuff like that in person .. if you can, in person is good. online is good too .. it's just, people can be really different online than they normally would be. also if your friend says something or you do the other person might see it in a mean way when the person who said it didn't mean it that way lol sorry if thats cofusing. hope i helped youu

TELL SOMEONE, an adult. report it. a trusted teacher, an adult friend, anyone. even though he says he won't hit you anymore, he probably will. people like that do it once, act all sorry like they'll never do it again, but then they loose their temper and get out of control again. you have to report it before it gets worse. the reason for your mom acting like that, all stories i hear like this, your mom is probably hurt from your stepfather's actions + blind to his faults .. she's probably in denial. all of this is why you need to tell someone. good luck.

yes, i think that's fine to say to him. your being apologetic & letting him know how you feel, explaining what happened but yet still taking responsibility. if he's a good guy, which i assume he is, he wont get mad and everything will be fine (: good luck!

jergen's natural glow helps naturally make you look tanner. it's not liek self-tanner or anything, and it comes in pale skin tone, medium & dark. i have it in pale bc im kinda paler myself but i get tan in the summer lol. there are certain colors that make you look paler or tanner .. black makes you look pale, unless you are tan & then it brings out your tan. if i were you, i wouldn't care what people thought. if you want to, keep wearing shorts & skirts.

i think the best thing to do is just be honest & tell him that you dont want him to be mad, but you think you lots the bracelet. tell him you loved the bracelet and that you are really sorry and dissapointed .. make sure he knows this. also, let him know that your sister's boyfriend was messing with your purse when it was in there, and it probably fell out when he was doing that. that way, he knows its not your fault without you having to say, "it's not my fault," which sounds immature if you just flat-out said that. he shouldn't get mad at you or anything if you explain yourself. hope i helped!

flyingg is fine! i've been on an airplane many times. i like flying and i think its fun. i love it because you go faster than driving in a car, and it's kind of thrilling being up in the air. the only things i dont like is if the bathrooms are gross, but most times they are ok, and if you fall asleep in an uncomfortable position and you wake up with aches hahaha. if you fly, just enjoy it - there's nothing to worry about.

it's just a dream like the other people said hahah .. you shouldn't be worried that your a lesbian or something. it's normal. maybe you were thinking about it & maybe you were just curious so you dreamed about it. hope i helped

Be happy with who you are. dont compare yourself to your friends .. maybe they do have bigger boobs than you, but you probably have other features that are better than there's are.

if you really feel that uncomfortable, there are padded bathing suits & such. but you shouldn't because everybody is different and there's NOTHIGN to be embarassed about w/ your bra size. an A is fine, some people are just smaller or develop later, and you probably aren't the only one.

people shouldn't be so focused on your boobs, and i doubt they are. so dont worry about it. focus on things you like about yourself & you should be fine. (:

well, loosing 20 pounds by june is almost impossible to do healthily. its not healthy to loose more than 2 pounds a week. if you loose 20 pounds by june, it might be just water weight or one of those diets where you loose a lot & gain it all (or more) back. so, first of all, i would start with smaller goals. 5 pounds by this date, 10 pounds by this one. when you reach a goal, reward yourself w/ a cute outfit or something, NOT food-related. keep track of what your eating - calories/carbs, it'll keep you honest. limit your carbs (dont eliminate them!) becuase they are "empty calories", when you eat carbs make sure you have protien with it which will keep you full and give you energy (meats, cheese, dairy, etc.). if you really want to go on a diet plan, there's things like jennycraig & such.

once you start loosing weight, it will motivate you && hopefully make you feel better. (: good luckkk. and if you need anymore help you can drop one in my inboxx.

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