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any good love songs? (link)
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lolz. I can think of a lot. Why don't you go here and chose one for yourself (cuz I don't know what kind of music you're into.) http://www.xanga.com/xanga_music
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This is a stupid little thing.. but oh wells.
As of now, I'm hungry. I need something to snack on! Any ideas of what I could make for a little midnight snack?
Haha. Thanks!! (link)
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Icream is my fav midnight snack
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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it? (link)
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No, I would wait for him to break up with his gf before you do anything else. Seriously, would you really like a boyfriend who cheated on his last girlfriend? Just give it time. Surely their relationship will end soon and then he'll be all for the taking.
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mii bf has two friends and i had asked him to go to canobiie lake ((amusment park)) with me on sundaii and then his two friends tell me his b-daii party is sundaii and that he cant go.. and they said he has known about it cuz they throw him a huge party everii year.. i donno what to do.. whii would he lie and what should i do...
lOvE,
xAmiiEx
P.S: if im his gf shouldn't i be invited..?
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He probably lied about his birthday party on Sunday because he didn't want you to believe that his friends were more important that you. I think that you should pretend like you don't know about his birthday party and just say "something came up. I'm really sorry but I don't think that I can do anything this Sunday." I don't think that you should go either, unless his friends invite you. It might just be a traditional guy thing where you'd feel unconfortable. His friends probably just want to have a guy's day out. If you don't go to his birthday party, then you can always celebrate his b-day some other time with just the two of you.
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I RLY RLY RLY hate my body.. al my friends wish they had ine an guys always flirt wit me but i wanna lose weight, even though no one thinks i need to ,i need for myself, ya know? but i cant. its like i work out but im already.. muscler. an i dont wanna b like this he she cause of workin out lol but i dont know, anyone know some good fun diets.. or just away for me to love myself. i have rly low selfassteem and it rly brings me down.. i dunno thanx. (link)
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If your friends think that your body is beautiful and guys fall for you then you MUST be gorgeous. Your own eyes distort your body in many ways because they see what you want them to see. Perhaps you fear of becoming ugly so instead of taking other peoples' compliments, you visualize yourself as being ugly. The only advice that I can give you is try to see yourself as the beautiful girl that everyone else sees you as, or maybe do something to boost your self esteem more.
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My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say? (link)
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You shouldn't tell her. I've always believed that you shouldn't "kiss and tell" which also applies to your sexual activities. Seriously, I wouln't like to hear about someone's sex life and maybe you should think about your friend's thoughts before you tell her about the things that you do with your boyfriend. Just keep those kinds of things to yourself from now on and maybe the topic will fade away and your relationship with your friend will go back to normal.
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My husband beats me, I'm scared I might die. I need advice! Call the cops or not? He has $, he could just bail himself out!...
I rate!
Did I say I rate?!?!
I know that makes you wanna answer my question even more b/c I RATE!! (link)
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I would call the cops. If he beats you then I think that it's time he got a beating for once. You should feel more comfortable around your husband, not in fear that he may kill you.
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I never told anyone this but I've been bulimic for 2 years. I know you may say that I should top but I can't. It's so hard, and I don't know what to do and I do not want to see a doctor. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
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I had the same problem, but once I started reading more about the consequences of bulimia my brain started to think "wow, this is serious junk!" So I subconsciesly stopped wanting to throw up after every meal. Try searching for bulimia online and see some worst-case scenarios. They may help you stop your habit.
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If you post these "get rich quick" crap in the body of your question OR answer, you will be suspended from the site.
This should be common sense. Please report any activity of this sort to the various moderators and/or the site admin.
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Yeah... that was really getting annoying
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ahhhhhhhhhhhh! i looked in the mirror.....and its horrible!!!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhh! i have zits!! huge 1's on my forehead and its not going away!!! >_< i'm having a major break out right now and that never happened b4... >___< well tell me what i can do to make it go away... *sniff* ;.;
-the zit face salami (link)
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One thing that you can do is eat really healthy for a week. (Only veggies and fruits and bread) Or if you want to cheat like me, you can apply toothpaste to the zit and let it sit over night. Then in the morning when you wake up, wash off the toothpaste and the zit should have shrunk enough to the point where you can put on coverup and make it look as good as new n__n
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OkaY there is this boy I like. And we go out, lets say his name is Chris. Well we were talking one night and he told me that he luved me and he wasnt kidding. And I told my friend I wasnt like I didnt believe it I mean if A boy just tells you that its really wierd. So yeah I told him I luved him back. But I dnt even know if he does. He told me he does and even e-mailed me saying that he luvved me and that he wasnt lyin. i really like him but im tottally not sur what to do and i like him alot. but i never really thought about luvin anyone until it was tru and how am i supposed to know its tru. i think i luv him but im not 100% sure and i told him that back so obviously he thinks i feel the same exact way. well please can someone tell me if you think he is playing with me. i mean he i liked him in the beginning of 8th grade but then he said that he couldnt go wit me cuz he aint want a girlfriend then all of a sudded we do go out and he is like all i luv u and he said he started likin me on the last day of school whitch was about a month and half ago..so its been a while and we have only been going out for..4dayz?!
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One thing that I've learned is that boys don't know what love is. They keep on searching for it their whole lives and never actually find what girls consider "love". I don't think that he's playing with you, but I don't think that he's in love with you either. He might just like like you a lot and has no other way of expressing his feelings. Give your relationship more time. It may evolve into love, but for now I don't think that it is love.
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I have had this friend for a really really long time. i am ova her house like almost every weekend and we r soooooo close. people actually think we r twin sisters. but lately this girl has really gotten on my nerves. she sings when she doesnt kno the words and she is a horrible singer and she always treats my sister like crap and when i say something to her sister she tells me not to talk to her like that. i dont kno wether i should tell r not!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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She might be going through a phase. Maybe she's just on her period or something. Try waiting another 1 or 2 weeks, and if it doesn't stop you might want to talk to her about it.
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Hey. I am going to the dentist soon and I know I have cavities. Not more than 3 though. And I know when I go to the dentist, they are going to have me get braces. Do braces hurt at all? I am just wondering. I am not all that tough. But I just want to find out how bad they hurt. Thank you! (link)
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Braces don't hurt that badly. I've been in much worst pain; however, when you get them tightened you might want to stay away from tortilla chips, meat, and other tough foods. Braces are more annoying than they are painful. Get your braces on ASAP because the sooner you get them on, the sooner you get them off.
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what are some really summer-ey and awesome smelling perfumes or body sprays?? and how much/where do you put on? (link)
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Love Spell at Victoria's secret smells awesome. It doesn't necessarily smell summery but it smells great nonetheless. 5 squirts is good enough to last all day
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actually, this isn't really a question, but i just wanna say tat telling a guy "we should just be friends" is one of the worst things u can say to them. i'm not a guy myself, but several guys have told me tat. (link)
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Yeah, I've heard that, too. However, that's just because that's what most girls say when they break up with their bfs... so I guess it's like break up tradition or something n__n maybe that's why they fear it so much. I don't konw, I'm not a guy either. :-P we will both always be wondering ^__^
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hey.. so i have this boyfriend, and he has a really bad temper.. and he's really moody, but i know he loves me it's just, i've been with him so long i'm afriad that i dont love him like i used to. i seem to be more intrested in other guys and paying less attention to him. i dont call him as much and dont really have anything to say at breaks. what should i do? i'm thinking about breaking up with him but i dont know how to do it. and i also hang out with him and his friends EVERY day so how am i supose to hang out with him after breakin up with him? and i kno that he's really bitter to many girls and i kno he'll be mean to me if i break up with him. tell me what to do! thanks.. (link)
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If you don't love your boyfriend like you used to then there's no question about it; you're going to have to break up with him. Pull him to the side one of these days and just tell him the truth. Say something along the lines of "I think that it would be better if we were just friends." If he truly loves you, he will understand and let you go. He might not talk to you for the first few weeks. I would give it all summer break, but you can still hang out with him and his friends once school starts again. I broke up with my ex boyfriend a while ago and we're still friends. Follow your heart and don't make anyone lead you to do anything that you don't want to do. If you don't think that your current bf is the right guy for you, then he isn't.
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I work with mostly guys, and they're all really nice, but I'm a girl so I'm not sure how much they want to know about all my issues. Like today, one of them said I looked kind of down. I lied and told him I was fine, even though really I'm on my period and had cramps and my boobs were hurting and I had one tampon left that I had to hope lasted the rest of the day. Is that the sort of stuff that I should always just keep to myself, or you think I could just let it out and see what happens? (link)
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Haha. Guys are always disgusted by that kind of stuff because all they can visualize is blood blood and more blood coming out of your lower end. Definately keep that kind of stuff to yourself unless you're with some other girls.
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OK well.. there is this guy I like. He's 16 (i'm 14). I talk to him on the internet almost everyday. Well we just had this conversation where he was asking me advice and stuff and he was asking about this girl he liked and if he should tell her or not, so i told him to try hinting to her that he liked her. and he said well i just made a major hint. so i thought it was me :\ and i was like well if the person is who i think it is you have nothing to worry about ;) and then he asked me who i thought it was. so i was like well if you are talking about me, i like you, etc etc etc. but he never really responded to that. so i dont know if its me or not, but i feel kind of dumb because we are supposed to go to the movies tomorrow and i really do like him. so i dont know what to do. (link)
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Oh don't worry chief. The same thing has happened to me before... like literally the exact same thing. That's why I like talking to people in person a lot better because you can see their face and you can tell if they're being sarcastic, funny, etc etc. I would try to bring it up tomorrow in a kidding-ish way. Try saying something like "so who do you REALLY like? tell me ;)" If he doesn't like you, you might as well just go with the flow and still be great friends.
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Hey! I want my website to be cool like yours! Im JeAlOuS! How do ya do it! Write me back or im me...tommiegurlie23 thanks sooooooo much! xoxo (link)
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haha. Ok, I'll talk to you on AIM n__n
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My old best friend used to like my current boyfriend and we both liked him at the same time. We always fought over him and one day we just stopped being friends. I was so upset but I just moved on and made new friends. We recently started to talk again =) and shes so sweet!! I really wanna be best friends again like before.. should I invite her to hang out or should we just stay at talking on the internet? Thanks!! (link)
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You should definately invite her to hang out again. Talking to people online is never as good as actually talking to them in person.
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