im always here to help im really good at giving advice mostly about teenage problems not like my computer software crap! look im not supa smart, ask me questions that i'll know. but other than that im great! that doesnt mean i wont have questions of my own im still learning too so if i dont answer a question of yours than dont get mad b.c i havnt been through it. im very honost to people so if u ask i will certainly tell thats my motto! Just one more thing people if you dont like the way i type then get over it. thats how i am and its not like im typing to some important person. well you are but not that important!
E-mail: sml111992@yahoo.com Gender: Female Location: NY Occupation: student Age: 17 AIM: SLearnarO92 Yahoo: sml111992@yahoo.com Member Since: February 26, 2006 Answers: 607 Last Update: November 3, 2014 Visitors: 34939
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Ok, so I'm a sophmore and there's this guy that i really like, and i think he likes me too. You see he is in three of my class periods but he NEVER sits next to me (thats why i think he might not like me) but he is always looking at me whenever i look up at him. So i think he DOES like me is because of yesterday. During Biology the teacher asked me a question i didnt know and he lipped the answer to me, but i missed read it and got the answer wrong, and he was smirking at me. Then in spanish 2 he was walking towards me like he was going to sit in the empty seat next to me but one of his friends called him over and he frowned and walked away, towards his friends. Then, later on that day, in study hall i was doing my some work on my essay due and looked up, just to think of a word, and saw him staring at me -- smiling. I blushed, errg, and he laughed and i looked down with emberresment. He laughed and looked down, too. I looked back up and he was staring at me smiling, again! So i shot him a confused look. He dropped his smile then turned his head to the side because the door opened, but i didnt look. He turned back to me looking really surprised so i turned and saw a guy with tissue paper hanging out of the backside of his pants and turned back to him. We were looking at each other for ten seconds, stunned, and broke out laughing -- quietly. Then his laugh broke out this surprised me because whenever he talked to me it was always soft and quiet, but this was loud, really loud. Everyone looked at him and he just said "Oh, sorry" (which was also loud) and just looked down. I started laughing harder then snorted -- yikes -- so now everyones eyes were on me, including his, and he started laughing and shaking his head and looked down.
So from this can you tell if he likes me or if he just thinks im a weirdo? (link)
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its hard to tell with some guys but with a little flirting youll know if he seems to be talking to other girls the same way he talks to you then forget about him he seems to like you and you like him you should ask him to go to the movies or something and really see if he likes you. its the only way.
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i think thats what its called ,but whats guys opinions on girls with the trail not just completely shaved? and whats so good about it ,because my guy friends say its hot ,but i dont get there point of it . (link)
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ew i think its okay with guys having it not girls
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Hi, I am a girl and i am weird.
When I am with my parents, I speak british accent. When I am with my friends, I speak the American accent. I cant talk to my parents in the American accent coz i get shy :P i know im weird. just reply something that could help me..thanks (link)
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OMG ... my boyfriend is british he moved almost 2 years ago and i've been going out with him for over a year. and he always speaks in american accent! and then he goes home and sometimes he speaks british and occasionally i hear it but never in front of me. he told me when he goes home he gets it back right away!! im like do it all the time haha i think its hott. but its annoying around school to have people come up to you and ask hey can you speak for me. so maybe thats why you speack american. i just want to know why my boyfriend whos my bestfriend and my long time boyfriend wont do it. not wierd but i understand all at the same time.
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i been dating my girlfriend for three months and i have not ever got her to squirt and im just wondering does it hurt girls to do so? because when shes about to she always makes me pull out-btw im a 17 years old and im a guy (link)
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well i dont think that every girl can do it im for sure and its embarrasing reallly because it feels like you need to pee and what if you actually do and stuff and even thou its not it smells kinda not of piss so much but like eww. you should probally talk to her about it more and ask if she actually wants to do that or not! and it doesnt hurt.
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im a 17 and of course im a guy lol, my girlfriend thinks i dont meet her standerds, she loves when i eat her out, but i feel like im not doing it right, how could i make it feel amazing for her? (link)
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GOOGLE! you find videos pictures information. but i dont see how your doing it wrong? should feel good any way i would think.
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17/m me and my girlfriend have been having sex with out a condum but shes on birth control, and i never pull out because shes on it, but is there anyway she could get pregnant? (link)
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depending on how long shes been on the birth control like some people say its okay in the first two weeks some say a month others say three and maybe even wait to do that until shes been through two cycles of her period before cumming insider her. theres always a chance of getting prego with birthcontrol. my mom says to always wear a condom but its up to you. lol its prob not a good idea but whatever.
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im 15/m
this is embarassing to talk about.
im a virgin, which is not a problem. i have had this thing for like 3 years now, i get really horny, like every single day of my life.
i just transferred to a new high school as a junior and the girls there are amazingly hot and sexy. they always show their legs, ass, and boobs, and ugh, like i can never concentrate on school work because there is 6 hours of school a day and im constantly surrounded by HOT girls showing skin everywhere.... i dont know if other guys have this problem.
when i get home i can stop thinking about it..like i get so caught up and horny that i dont know what to do, and lately it started to get kinda serious.
i dont have girlfriends very often, i have a few a year, when i have a gf, i feel great. i never think about horniness or anything, but thats RARE. I feel like i dont want this to stop, but what do i do????? please help me. (link)
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alright yes girls do that and they will because they can i do it why not you got it so flaunt it.! im sorry dude. all guys get horny! so do girls! cant help it. but all i can say is that you can release the tention.
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so this may be a little long but i am practically begging for help here. okay so living here with my parents is making me really stressed out and making me do things that I would of never thought of doing to myself. example: i overdosed a couple months ago because of all the stress i was going through because i thought it would help and it did. it made me feel careless and i really liked that feeling. but then someone told my councilor at school and she called my mom and i had to go the hospital. at that point my parents were very generous towards me for about a week. then everything went back to the way it was. they wont let me hang out with the friends i want to hang out with. they wont let me spend the night at any of my friends. they make me go to church which i dont mind but then they make me be involved in every little thing which irritates the crap out of me. and so on and so on with all the things they wont let me do. well now i am taking ibprofen a pretty high amount everyday. and i know its wrong to please dont tell me that. i just like the way it makes me feel. so anyways to get to the point, ive been looking at things on the computer on how to be emancipated, but its really confusing. so i was wondering if anyone could help me with some information on being emancipated without my parents consent which i know i can do. and please dont tell me to try and talk to my parents, because i have tried talking to them over and over and over again, but they just don't listen and they don't understand at all. and they don't know how bad their mentally hurting me with their words and not letting me live my life. so if anyone could help that would be the greatest thing ever!
please and thanks
-cuttechick24
(if you need to know anything else just ask and i will add it on here.) (link)
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listen im almost 17 and i know what your saying and im still going through with not being able to hand with who i want when i want how i want. to everything. but you need to know that you can not do everything you want or have what you want or get your way. just today i didnt get what i want! and you cant get emancipated unless it seems you need to be theres no sighns of abuse that your parents are doing to you. the only person thats abusing you is you. taking pills is showing people that you need attention. not to be mean. your friends maybe not the people that are to great like do bad things like drugs and what not. your not always going to get along with your parents you just need to stick it out with the rest of us. u only have 3 more years.
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yea sorry i geuss i said it wrong i meant like only kissing theem not doing anything eles with them srry lol (link)
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well for sure kissing is okay why not just dont go all out make out in front of the world. haha but with the other stuff. just knowing before you do something is a plus!
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f/teen
So my hole family cousins sisters brother aunts uncles etc, all belevie in waiting till marraige and so do i Its hard cause you get tempted but i stick through it.
I know that is what god wants everyone to do and its the right way to do it.
So i was wondering on how you feel about waiting to have sex and doing other things with them?
(besides kissing and makeingout)No fingering bj all that stuff how do you feel about it? (link)
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you know i believe that waiting for marriage is a good thing to do but when people said to wait well that was a long time ago like when you lived to be like 20 and that was old. so they would get married at 14 or 15 so they didnt wait much. i think that giving blow jobs or hand jobs and fingering and what not is a loop hole of "staying a virgin" but sill having pleasure. so whats the point of doing all that and no sex it just makes know sence. everyone thinks different what sex classifies as so its up to you. i just beleive waiting for marriage means for everything not just actual intercourse with the penis in the vagina. if your going to give a blow job and stuff then your bassically having sex. thats my opinion but its really all up to you and how you feel about things.
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ok so, i have the password to my brothers facebook. i log on to it a few times to check out recent pics and vids of my friends in the band, i dont have one, nor do i want one, thats why i use his. i logged onto it the other day and he had a conversation up with one of his buddies, admitting that he was high. that got me thinking, when your high, do you know you are? i thought it kinda made you crazy and your not thinking of reality. idk what to do anymore. he just had his buddy over and my brother went to the bathroom then him and his friend went into my brothers bedroom and i heard my brother's friend say "you made that? impressive." that only got me thinking did my brother concoct a drug in the bathroom? i dont want to go and tell my mom about this in fear of losing the relationship i have with my brother. i just dont want him getting high and doing drugs all the time, he's such a smart kid and he has such a life ahead of him. what do i do?! (link)
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i guess you just know that you are.
i think that you should talk to your brother about it but he might get mad at you. maybe. weed isnt so bad but i think you should just forget about it unless you KNOW with prooof that hes shooting up or someting worse.
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Well, i had a bf, for almost 2 yrs, he broke my heart, i hate him. and everyhting, but i still have to see him everyday, and he makes life hell...
So then i have an ex bf lets call him... Guy #1. So guy #1 wants to date me again. The only reason we broke up is because im having family issues and he never had a gf, before so he has no idea what to do. we dated for a month this summer... and i kinda like him, but i dont think it will work out.
then theres Guy #2. my Best friend ever! i cant live without him! we know almost everthing about each other. and yeah, well i know i like him. i hate admiting it but i know i do! I know looks shouldnt matter, but theyy kinda do affect it. he is a zit faced, extremely pale with blonde hair band geek.... and he is kinda mental sometimes. i know he likes me. he has for as long as we've known each other. but i hate it, cuz everyone makes fun of us saying we are going out, but we arent. and if we did, we'd be made fun of more.
Then theres guy #3. he was in my spanish last year, for the first semester. i kinda liked him. but then my friend (who i never talk to.. haha) went out with him. they just broke up a couple weeks ago, like right before school started. so he's single now. i dont think he likes me though. people say i should date him, but they also say i should date guy #2...
And i kind of just want to find someone new, but that is kind of hard to do, when i dont know many people, and i already like 3 guys!!! =0
so what should i do? any advice would help!
Thank yOu!!! (link)
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im just going to tell you in my opinion what you should do or what i would do. i know from my life that dating a guy that your bestfriends with first is the best relationship to have me and my boyfriend of over a year started to be good firends then really good friends. and we liked eachother so we dated and now we are the bestestfriends ever and i love him to death. i think you have more fun that way too. the guy from spanish prob isnt looking to have a relationship but more of a hookup. thats what i want when i get out of a relationship. and the guy you dated before if he seems to know more then thats good. i guess but in my opinion you answerd your own question with the guy thats your bestfriend. and your right looks dont really matter but they help. the acne can go away with a product. otherwise look past it. you like him for him and if you have fun who cares what people think. i dont and i make a fool out of myself all the time. haha
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hi, 17/m
my friend had a party yesterday at a hotel room. At this party, my two friends (who are cousins) were invited. They are amazingly good looking blondes. At this party, alcohol got to everyone- the blonde cosuing started making out, and i was getting rather excited, and amused. My girlfriend saw this and felt uncomfortable and left the hotel room for fresh air.
I talked to her, and she told me that she wasnt comfortable watching them make out, and then we were fine. Also, i kissed both of the blondes. Some of the people saw it, but my girlfriend was not in the room. What do i do? My girlfriend doesnt know. Should i tell her? Or keep it a secret? Obviousely it was a stupid decision on my part, but i was very drunk!
thanks a bunch folks! (link)
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tell her its the best way from you to feel better. and if it was you the one who got cheated on you would want to know. and remember drunken actions sober thoughts.
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so my boyfriend fingered me and ate me out (first) then after we both cleaned up a bit i gave him a bj, he went to the bathroom to clean up, then about like 10 mins later i had to pee lol so i went...im nervous that like some of his cum might have gotton on the toilet seat or toilet paper...i looked at it first to make sure there was no cum on it but cant sperm by invisible too? im freaking outtt :( could i be pregnant? (link)
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well im guessing your too young to do any of this if you dont know get your facts together about sex of doing sexual things before you do it. you have nothing to worry about your fine besides if it did get on the seat or whatever the sperm (cum) died already.
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Why do guys always seem to cheat? I just don't understand it. You give them everything they could possibly want and then you find them flirting with other women and junk. What am I doing wrong? It's like nobody can be faithful anymore (link)
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well sometimes maybe the guy wants you to be more loving or he doesnt get enough action from you or you guys are distant but, some guys are guys and cant stand being around just one gril and thts how it is. i think that whatever relationship your in he is going to cheat on you at one point in time. its sad but happends. trust me. i always give someone a second chance and put it past myself but thats me. and if your not ready to do sexual anything then dont. he can jack off or something.
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hi, i am a girl and i was with my friend / gf today. we are lesbians i guess. her parents know but mine didnt. and then my idiot asshole friend, who is a boy, sent me a txt msg talkin about me and my gf. my dad decided to read my txts. he saw it. now im flippin out and so r my parents!!!! my gf and i fear we will never be able to see each other again. MY FUCKING FRIENDS SUCK!!!! what do i do? my gf and i are hysterical and idk wat to do. plz help me :(!!!! (link)
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i think keeping you two a secret is always a comon thing not everyone accepts things like that you need to let your parents cool downa bit first. and then talk to them about it. and next time keep your phone with you or earase the texts.
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17/f
i have always just bought coach purses, but my mom said she is sick of buying me new 400 dollar coach purses all the time, and that i need to realize not everyone has money like my family does, and to appreciate what we have, & so on....
so she is being really annoying and saying if i want a new purse, i have to find one like 75ishh or something. :( maybe even cheaper? i mean i have a lot of purses, but i love them! & since i've never really gotten a purse besides coach.. i don't even know who makes cute affordable purses. anybody know of any? :) i like the betseyville or however its spelled ones, but the one i want is like 130. & i like bigger bags. :)
any ideas? (link)
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okay if you have a T.J max or an A.J. right some store like that always has great purses they are sometimes under 40 but can come up to 100 so you have to look or you dont always need the real thing like many people including me almost never hear of getting purses like you do just because i would probally get couch if i graduated highschool. or something big. if my mom was your mom she would force you to get a job and pay it for yourslef and see what its like earning money to get the things you do. im not saying its a braty thing or you know something like that but your mom is right. and your so privliged to be able to have great things!
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I didnt know where to put this question so I just put it here. I have a really bad breathe problem. I brush my teeth CONSTANTLY and am always chewing gum but it really doesnt help. Whats wrong with me? (link)
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you know the main cause to bad breath is from your tounge so brush your tounge and floss your teeth thats where bad breath builds up it really does help but if in anycase it doesnt then you need to talk to a dentist or a doctor.
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im 16 my gf is 16 also were getting close to having sex im a bit nervous ive got a small penis im a bit worried i like her a lot but when we get close to having sex i get nervous last week we were in my room and things were getting heavy we started taking our clothes and she was gonna take off my underpants i got nervous i stopped i get nervous when we get close to sex whats happenin what can i do? (link)
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your either being really selfcouncious or your not quite ready yet or shes really special to your and dont want to mess up on anyting. im sure your penis isnt so small that you can not pleasure her. if she loves you shell take the amazing qualities that you have and not complain.i mean you dont want a massive cock and you dont want a small one. so i mean idk whats considered small. but if its like 5inches or so thats not to small im sure but i wouldnt really know. when it comes time to having sex it could mean more to you than her or whatever just beacuse your a guy doesnt mean that your not going to have feelings for this momen as anyone else. if you need to take your time take your time. or it could just be nerves then you just need to take a deep breath and go with it. remember first times always suck. always. and you can only get better.
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I am going to a funeral on Friday for my boyfriends cousin who murdered his girlfriend and then committed suicide. My boyfriend was very close to his cousin but both of us are at a loss wondering what exactly do we say to his immediate family at the memorial service? (link)
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well if your at the wake then you first pray at the coffin and then go to the parents and uncles and what not and say im sorry for your loss and leave it at that. wellthats what i do anyway depending on what you beleive in i guess you dont have to pray.
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