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my friends tell me i give good advice,
i hope i can help somebody.
i've been more than you think for a 14 year old.

"never judge a book by its cover,inside on those pages could be the best love story in the world"- lea ellen

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Okay I really don't like my new hair cut. I think it's too short personally. does any one know any products to speed the procces of growing it?? please help!

signed,
too short hair!

i cant think of anything..
just try to tolerate it till it grows out some.
-hope i helpd-

ok so me and this guy are always "cuddling" so-to-speak, we always lay on the couch together and he always has his arm around me and in other words we're always like having our arms around eachother..but that's all we do and its only for a short period of a time. i don't know how to explain it but how do i like "lead him on" to going further like i want to kiss him or make out with him or something, but without just giving it away. i don't want to just say it or anything, how do i "lead him on" to doing something like that? i'll rate 5's for good answers! =) thank you!

when your on the couch, just like, look up at his eyes and kiss him on the nose, and giggle and lay your head on his chest. then a little bit later, (like 5 minutes) look up and kiss him on the neck and then in a little bit, kiss him on the chin and then.. like towards the end of the movie just start kissing him, the more you kiss him, the closer you get to his lips. then kiss him on the lips.. and hope he catches on.
-hope it helpd-

I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14, and he was 17. I'm 17 now, and he's 20. We always talk about getting married when I'm like 19-20, and I know it's what we both want, but I feel like my family would say I'm too young and that they'd be disappointed in me. But it's really what both of us want, we really love eachother. We know his family is cool with it, but why do I feel like mine wont be?

because you are still a minor. as soon as you turn eightteen start sending applications to college and such showing your family that you plan on going and you want to have an idependant life as well as one with the guy, if youve been with him this long, it sounds like you really do love him.
19 and 20 is a little bit young.
i'd get to know each other a little bit more, and within two years itd be fine to get married.
make sure you dont try to over due yourself with things, make yourself first and him second.
the yall together, third.
-hope it helpd-

Is there anyway i can find out if my ex still likes me? because I still like him a ton. & hes been IMing me a lot lately & saying like some of our old insiders. Is there anything i should do? & i Dont know if he has a girlfriend because in his profile it said i LOVE U SO & SO. & Now he took it out. So im not sure if they broke up or whatever.

ask him if he does,
it sounds like he does.
and only one of two things can happen.

he likes you, you like him
you get back together.

or

he doesnt you do
you get over him

-hope it helpd-

How can you tell if its true love? I am having feelings for this one guy, they are more than my usual feelings for guys. I just want to know how it feels and what the "symptoms" are.

Thank you.

5's I guess

ooh i love explaining stuff like this.. makes me feel all happy inside that someone mightve fallen in love.

falling in love, its like over the moon happy only when your talking to him always thinking about him, having dreams about him, wanting everyone to know how happy he makes you.
symptoms of being in love.
doodling his name
writing his last name on yours.
you need to have an open relationship with the guy before you can fall in love, be able to talk about anything with him and know that he understands and cares.

ooh i hope youre in love, it makes me happy to know that i'm not the only one head over heels in love with someone.
-hope it helps-
-best of luck-

i really want another cat but my mom says were not aloud but i dont know why? I also want a dog but my mom hates dogs WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!

show her how responsible you are
show her you can take care of it
show her you can afford it.(meaning, have a steady cash flow for just in case at the vet)

NEED HELP AND fast!!!!

how long after having sex should you take the morning after pill? is there anything i can take so i dont get pregnant because i had sex last night and he accidentally "went" in me and the condom broke.. please try and help as soon as possible!

as soon as possible.

is it safe to try inserting a tampon if you dont hae your period? (just for practice)

whats the difference between inserting a tampon when you have your period or when you dont, your putting it in the same place.
it's perfectly fine.

okay so a year ago i met this guy... and after talking for about 6 months we started going out... and i found out 2 months later he smoked AND sold drugs... (he lives an hour away by the way) so i ended everything right then and there... so about two nights ago i found out he had a girlfriend already after only breaking up a month ago... i just started crying... and i dont know why... im not really sure why all these feelings are coming back... i really want them to go away... i dont know why i care sooo much... can you help me get over him?

youre probly only feeeling these things because you havent found your next boyfriend yet, you are probably just kinda jealous that he found someone after hurting you, but you havent found someone after getting hurt.
only time will help you heel.
just try to do other things, like crafts or a sport or a hobby to fill in some of your extra time to think about him.
-hope it helpd-

I talked to this kid that goes to my school and like a year ago he IMed me and we talked and then i started to IM him back and stuff and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me and stopped talkin to me but all the time at school ever since he has always looked at me and stuff but has never came to me and talked to me at school or anything. Do you think he likes me?? or am i getting the wrong idea. hes 1 year older then me but i kinda think i like him now and i kinda think he likes me. like when i was in a school play i was sitting on the stairs getting ready to go onstage and in the corner of my eye i seen him looking at me. He doesnt make it seem obvious when im around him.

i think he likes you.
he has to, why else would he be checking you out like that.

what is a good women deatarent (sp) that leaves you dry for atleast a couple of hours and keeps odor away? thank you

i use suave, that works for me.

i have an xanga and i found some cute icons to add to it, but how do i add them? thanks a lot, i rate

yeah pretty much just copy and past them.
i have a xanga too.. hope i helpd.

im a dancer and i'm doing a lyrical solo for like the 4th time and i'm running out of songs. i need some songs that are really sad and tell a story. thanks.

that helena one by my chemical romance..very depressing

or like toy soldiers by eminem...always makes me cry.

wake me up when septmember ends by green day... way sad cause that same thing happend to me..

youth of the nation by p.o.d. i just plain like that one..

My dog's throwing up blood, and I need to know, is there anything we can do??? & We can't go to the vet.

you odviously dont care about your dog
how cruel
you are cruel
you are a bad owner
you suck

GO TO THE VET YOU SICKO!!!

16/m

i need a way to get back at my friend. The dam SOB is stealing everygirl that i manege to hook up with, this is drivin me mad!!!. its like he doing it on purpose. I meet a girl, i go out with her, then outa nowhere she meets him and she wont talk to me and the next day i see em 2 hangin out or what ever. I WONA FRIKIN KILL THE DUDE!!!! and i would if only i didnt know him for like 5 years.

any help/advince?

tell him your mad
but
i personally,
would prefer to get even too.
figure out which girl he likes the best.
then go up to her
and just like, make out with her right infront of him.
show him he's dirt.
but other than that...
punch the shit outta him and stop talking to him at all... i like that idear too.
hehe

well
-hope it helpd-

SORRY IT'S LONG well how do I start off ok I was going out with this guy named quincey but then he broke up with me so now I'm going out with his friend named victor but I had gone out with victor before I went out with quincey.now quincey is trippin saying that victor should have told him that we were going to go out cause him and victor were really cool with each other they were like best friends and now they want to fight.I don't know why he is budding into my relationships this is like his 2nd time ,but I still think quincey has feelings for me cause y would he care if he didn't have feeling for me oh and it's been 4 months since me and quincey broke up what should I Do I will rate a 5!!!please help

mmk
so odviously
quincey still digs you
and
victor.. didnt tell quincey yall were going out?

gotcha
mmk so here's my advice
keep in touch with quincey, if you turn out to still like him and he still likes you, yall can get back together.
and then give victor a chance he's odviously nice enough for you not to want to hurt him.

Ok you see my best friend in the whole world has really REALLY bad breath! Wich I really don't care but when sge smells it (her breath) She always says OMG Brittany you breath smells so so bad! I mean I always brush my teeth and always chew gum and eat ice brackers (I have 0 cavities) So what should I say to her? Uesally I just say "Oh I do?" So what should I start saying?

offer her some of yur gum
and anything else that freshens breath
what me and my friend did once when her breath was bad
i spent the night and we had a gargalling contest to see who good gargul the longest
i won, but her breath spelled good for once.

does anybody know how to make destroyed jeans?! how?? plz help me...thank you so much!

this is what i do to all of my jeans and it always works:

make a small cut in the jeans
pull out the threads that go up and down if you want the white threads(which look better)to show
pull out the threads that go across if you want
the blue threads to show
then for the ankles
go to the bottom and cut off the little thread(called the hem) and just start making little cuts all over and pulling threads and take your scissors and kind of saw the bottom of the jeans.
the more you do it, the better it looks
-hope it helpd-

how do you get over a guy when you liked him for say like 2 years?! uhh..

haha
i've been in that situation like... six times..
dont you hate it?! lol
find some one new to like,
or find something else to like
spend you time on that thing instead of spending your time on him.
well
-i hope it helpd-

i want a flat stomich...i know to exercize and stuff. But about how many caleries do i stick to eat day?

under 3000
its unhealthy for anyone to eat more than that
-hope it helpd-

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