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okay so a year ago i met this guy... and after talking for about 6 months we started going out... and i found out 2 months later he smoked AND sold drugs... (he lives an hour away by the way) so i ended everything right then and there... so about two nights ago i found out he had a girlfriend already after only breaking up a month ago... i just started crying... and i dont know why... im not really sure why all these feelings are coming back... i really want them to go away... i dont know why i care sooo much... can you help me get over him?
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youre probly only feeeling these things because you havent found your next boyfriend yet, you are probably just kinda jealous that he found someone after hurting you, but you havent found someone after getting hurt.
only time will help you heel.
just try to do other things, like crafts or a sport or a hobby to fill in some of your extra time to think about him.
-hope it helpd-
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Sure honey, its cause you were so shocked and scared that you just let him go why you still really liked him and you still do. Start talking to more guys, go out with your friends and family and distract yourself. Dont stay at home because you'll be bored and thats when you'll start thinking of him. Im sorry to here that hon just hang in there. Take Care
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No nobody can. The only person who can is you. Sorry but that's just the way it is. Hope i helped :)
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sometimes in life, people have feelings for something that they think they care nothing about. the feelings that they had sometimes just come back because of jealousy, or just depression. in your case, i think its a little bit of both. just like on laguna beach, jessica and jason broke up and she cant move on...but he has no problem going on to alex. sometimes people care more than others, and sometimes people can be total jerks about things. its a good thing that you broke up with the guy because what he was doing was totally wrong. caring that much about someone without knowing that kinda information can be really weird sometimes, and it can hurt your feelings when you find out stuff like that. im sorry to hear about your situation, but i think its best to try to find something to help you move on...no matter how hard it will be. like a different guy, or just hanging with your friends. you seem like a girl that doesnt deserve that kinda stuff, and im glad that you got out of it as soon as you found out. hes just a jerk anyways.
hope i helped <3
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