Gender: Female
Location: PA
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: heav3nlyw0nder03
Member Since: September 4, 2005
Answers: 2
Last Update: September 4, 2005
Visitors: 505
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okay so a year ago i met this guy... and after talking for about 6 months we started going out... and i found out 2 months later he smoked AND sold drugs... (he lives an hour away by the way) so i ended everything right then and there... so about two nights ago i found out he had a girlfriend already after only breaking up a month ago... i just started crying... and i dont know why... im not really sure why all these feelings are coming back... i really want them to go away... i dont know why i care sooo much... can you help me get over him? (link)
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sometimes in life, people have feelings for something that they think they care nothing about. the feelings that they had sometimes just come back because of jealousy, or just depression. in your case, i think its a little bit of both. just like on laguna beach, jessica and jason broke up and she cant move on...but he has no problem going on to alex. sometimes people care more than others, and sometimes people can be total jerks about things. its a good thing that you broke up with the guy because what he was doing was totally wrong. caring that much about someone without knowing that kinda information can be really weird sometimes, and it can hurt your feelings when you find out stuff like that. im sorry to hear about your situation, but i think its best to try to find something to help you move on...no matter how hard it will be. like a different guy, or just hanging with your friends. you seem like a girl that doesnt deserve that kinda stuff, and im glad that you got out of it as soon as you found out. hes just a jerk anyways.
hope i helped
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ok sorry this is long but i will rate high
i know this guy i went on this like holiday were loadsa people went to and he was there and there were partys on the beach and stuff and we were flirting..but he has a girlfriend but some nights she wasnt there so we flirted loads.
but then they kinda split up coz she saw he got my number somehow and everyone told her he fancies me...and i fancy him like hell..and hes so cute and i get depressed about it..but now hes still with his girlfriend but his friend txt me asking me all this stuff like do i fancy him and stuff and that hes sure that hes getting bored with her and stuff..and hes really sweet and not the kinda guy to use u...so sorry its soooo long but wat shall i do go for it..o yea aswell hes 2 yrs older and the girl 1yr so other girls might hate me for this...so wat shall i do go for it??
im so sorry its so long but i really need help!!!
thanx
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hey im heav3nlyw0nder03...i didnt mean to answer your question on that one...but i wanted to on this one...so here...
just keep playing along with it. tell his friends what you adore about him and if you really want him...go for it. i liked this guy when he had a girlfriend and he told me he liked me too. within the next week we talked soo much and he ended up breaking up with her (not because of me tho). just set your mind to what you want to accomplish and maybe you'll hear sweet victory. but as the other one said...you never know if hes just using you as a rebound chick. just see what games hes playing if he is doing so...and play along. you'll probably end up getting what you want in the end.
hoped i helped.
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